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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Anne health Susie Greens new clinic

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Hoardasurass · 24/08/2025 07:43

So not happy with the puberty blockers ban in the UK and frustrated by Wes Streeting closing her planned loophole she found a new one and has been arranging for parents to take their kids abroad to get prescriptions of puberty blockers injections and testosterone for under 16s. The government has said its going to stop the practice but hasn't said how.

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Shortshriftandlethal · 26/08/2025 14:34

And we also see lots of people travelling to Turkey, for example, for cosmetic procedures......and the number of times these goes wrong, or people have died, is terrible.

PlanetJanette · 26/08/2025 15:35

BundleBoogie · 26/08/2025 14:01

You might have missed my question:

Are you genuinely suggesting that it’s ‘transphobic’ not to allow an 18 year old ‘bodily autonomy’ to sterilise themselves and have healthy body parts amputated for no medical reason and entirely shaky mental health grounds? And to allow other 18 year olds full bodily autonomy for other entirely spurious medical procedures?

Do I think denying an adult gender affirming medical treatment on the basis that an 18 year old lacks capacity is transphobic? Yes, absolutely it is. And your distinction between 'medical' reasons and 'mental health' grounds is quite telling.

I'm not sure what are referring to in your last sentence. What 'other entirely spurious medical procedures' are you referring to? Sterilisation for purposes other than relating to gender dysphoria - such as permanent contraception? No, denying that is not transphobic. But it is misogynistic.

PlanetJanette · 26/08/2025 15:38

Shortshriftandlethal · 26/08/2025 14:03

Medical ethics are shaped by consensual and shared societal codes about what is right or wrong. By that which can be seen as crossing a line and making oneself a god. That is why such issues are so fraught. Because at heart we know that human beings are flawed and make decisions for all sorts of reasons, not all of which have been properly thought through, and yet which have profound human implications not just for the individual, but also for society.

Medical ethics does not prize 'bodily autonomy'. I'd say that is a very individuated, self focused take on it. Medical ethics starts with the assumption that not everything is about us and our individual foibles or desires. That we also have a shared responsibility to the health and maintenance of the group in the long term.

As I suggest, the U.S is very Wild West in this respect, in certain ways, in that people are treated as pharmalogical customers who can make demands on health professionals about their preferences and desires. This is rooted, I feel, in a combination of late stage american capitalism and the cult of the individual.

Which is where I also see the whole trans movement being located. It really is an aptheosis of all things American. Be whoever you want to be; your best self; your true self; all that self referential stuff. and of course, in this sort of culture trans surgeries are re-framed as being 'health care'. When really it is not about bodily health or integrity....it is about knowingly damaging a functional and healthy body - in pursuit of the impossible. And doing this to children, too.

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Sorry, your take on medical ethics is a bit bizarre and not grounded in reality.

The ethics by which UK practitioners are bound, and the basis by which they should go about resolving ethical dilemma, is set out by guidance from professional organisations like the BMA and in the legal framework within which they operate.

And bodily autonomy is absolutely a core element of both.

PlanetJanette · 26/08/2025 15:42

Shortshriftandlethal · 26/08/2025 14:10

Theer are no clinical indications for trans surgeries. We don't remove people's body parts because they feel traumatised by them. We offer them counselling and therapy. It would be highly unethical to remove a functional body part.

This is on the NHS, of course. The NHS should not be performing such surgeries.There wil always be people who will perform surgeries for money, though,regardless of the ethics..which is why some prominent trans clinicians are not covered by insurance...the risk is entirely on the customer.

You were responding to a post specifically about your argument for denying bodily autonomy for women under 30 who seek sterilisation.

And there is, of course, a clinical indication for sterilisation. The most basic of which is that a patience may want a permanent contraceptive that does not rely on abstaining from sex, taking the pill or using an IUD or implant, or cannot be subject to manipulation by a sexual partner.

Your insistence that adult women lack the capacity to make such a decision about their own bodies is, as I say, very telling.

PlanetJanette · 26/08/2025 15:47

BundleBoogie · 26/08/2025 14:10

Access to abortion is highly regulated and scrutinised to ensure the balance between enduring access to those who need it while protecting life. There is generally a verifiable medical reason to allow it.

Elective sterilisation is viewed differently to medical sterilisation afaik but the decisions are made with the ‘first to no harm’ angle. Elective amputation and x sex hormones is the polar opposite - ‘cause harm first and see if it helps’.

You still haven’t explained why you think it is ok to allow 18 yr olds to elect to have amputation surgery or take drugs likely to sterilise them with no observable clinical reason, no proven improvement in long term outcome, the only change guaranteed is a decline in health and there’s a reasonable risk of total regret?

Sorry, are you claiming that there is, or ought to be, a 'verifiable medical reason' to allow abortion?

That is the case de jure in England, Scotland and Wales (not NI), but it is certainly not the case de facto, where abortion is essentially available without the need for a 'verifiable medical reason' up to the prescribed timeframe. The issue with allowing abortion beyond that timeframe is not related to capacity issues and is, in any event, highly contested.

Are you suggesting that if there is a high risk of a woman regretting her choice to have an abortion, she should be assumed to lack the capacity to make that decision?

As to your question re trans affirming healthcare, the premise of your question is wrong.

PlanetJanette · 26/08/2025 15:48

Shortshriftandlethal · 26/08/2025 14:34

And we also see lots of people travelling to Turkey, for example, for cosmetic procedures......and the number of times these goes wrong, or people have died, is terrible.

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It is. And yet we haven't proscribed travel to Turkey.

Because adults can consent to risky or unwise decisions.

Shortshriftandlethal · 26/08/2025 16:51

PlanetJanette · 26/08/2025 15:42

You were responding to a post specifically about your argument for denying bodily autonomy for women under 30 who seek sterilisation.

And there is, of course, a clinical indication for sterilisation. The most basic of which is that a patience may want a permanent contraceptive that does not rely on abstaining from sex, taking the pill or using an IUD or implant, or cannot be subject to manipulation by a sexual partner.

Your insistence that adult women lack the capacity to make such a decision about their own bodies is, as I say, very telling.

You are twisting my words. I said 'bodily autonomy' is not what medical ethics are about. Medical ethics are formed out our social or moral consensus about what is right and wrong. Ethics go beyond individual desire and speak to wider concerns and issues about the nature of life on earth and our responsibilities and relationship to it.

Shedmistress · 26/08/2025 16:54

PlanetJanette · 26/08/2025 13:53

That doesn't address the question.

Yes, of course you have to have capacity to consent to any medical decision. In the case of sterilisation, those risks include the risk that the patient may change their mind about not wanting children (or not wanting more children if they already have children).

Provided that someone has the capacity to understand that that is a risk, they should not be denied treatment that is otherwise clinically indicated.

Yes, of course you have to have capacity to consent to any medical decision.

Unless you are a child who says 'I'm trans'. Then - anything goes.

Shortshriftandlethal · 26/08/2025 16:58

Shortshriftandlethal · 26/08/2025 16:51

You are twisting my words. I said 'bodily autonomy' is not what medical ethics are about. Medical ethics are formed out our social or moral consensus about what is right and wrong. Ethics go beyond individual desire and speak to wider concerns and issues about the nature of life on earth and our responsibilities and relationship to it.

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Medical ethics, of course, include consent; but they also adhere by the principle of 'no harm'...and this is where wider ethical issues come into play. How do we decide what constitutes harm. Must harm only be measured by aligning it with the nature of individual desire, or do other factors come into play?

So, for example, when it comes to children, or people below the age of consent; or people of unsound mind etc

Shortshriftandlethal · 26/08/2025 17:04

PlanetJanette · 26/08/2025 15:38

Sorry, your take on medical ethics is a bit bizarre and not grounded in reality.

The ethics by which UK practitioners are bound, and the basis by which they should go about resolving ethical dilemma, is set out by guidance from professional organisations like the BMA and in the legal framework within which they operate.

And bodily autonomy is absolutely a core element of both.

Bodily autonomy in this instance relates to consent to treatment. Although, of course, the treatment must have a clinical foundation in the first place, or else it is unethical. 'Consent' doesn't mean that a medical practitioner can do anything to my body that I ask of them. Autonomy also means the right to refuse a treatment that has been recommended for clinical reasons.

PlanetJanette · 26/08/2025 18:13

Shedmistress · 26/08/2025 16:54

Yes, of course you have to have capacity to consent to any medical decision.

Unless you are a child who says 'I'm trans'. Then - anything goes.

No. I support the very long established Gillick principle for trans and non-trans people alike.

It is folk like you who demand differential assessments of capacity when trans healthcare is involved.

PlanetJanette · 26/08/2025 18:19

Shortshriftandlethal · 26/08/2025 17:04

Bodily autonomy in this instance relates to consent to treatment. Although, of course, the treatment must have a clinical foundation in the first place, or else it is unethical. 'Consent' doesn't mean that a medical practitioner can do anything to my body that I ask of them. Autonomy also means the right to refuse a treatment that has been recommended for clinical reasons.

But there is a clinical foundation to someone who cannot tolerate an IUD due to pain, doesn’t want the side effects of pharmacological contraception and doesn’t want to be reliant on her sexual partners compliance required of condoms to seek the only available form of contraception that meets her needs.

Claiming that a woman cannot consent to that form of contraception is massively paternalistic. Which is to say nothing of your grounding of medical ethics in a societal interests space, which is of course the standard approach to every attempt to force women to do with their bodies that which they do not wish to do.

PrettyDamnCosmic · 26/08/2025 18:23

PlanetJanette · 26/08/2025 13:51

Do you think Stephen Whittle also invented knowing he was trans as a kid because of a 'kink'?

I don't know. She did have mental issues & several suicide attempts before being given testosterone as a teenager. It's the males who transition as adults who are the cross dressers & AGPs all getting a sexual kick out of playing at being a woman.

BundleBoogie · 26/08/2025 18:36

PlanetJanette · 26/08/2025 15:35

Do I think denying an adult gender affirming medical treatment on the basis that an 18 year old lacks capacity is transphobic? Yes, absolutely it is. And your distinction between 'medical' reasons and 'mental health' grounds is quite telling.

I'm not sure what are referring to in your last sentence. What 'other entirely spurious medical procedures' are you referring to? Sterilisation for purposes other than relating to gender dysphoria - such as permanent contraception? No, denying that is not transphobic. But it is misogynistic.

If I decided at 35 that I did want children, that does not render my 25 year old self incapable of consenting to a sterilisation in full recognition that I may later regret that decision.

So you recognise that people can change their minds yet you still think that 18 year olds, some with very poor mental health for a variety of reasons should be allowed to make life changing decisions and elect to amputate their breasts or remove their penis and have to live with the consequences of getting it wrong?

Are you aware that the brain doesn’t fully develop, particularly around more complex decision making/risk taking until around age 25?

That seems like an utterly brutal view that would permanently harm vulnerable people and then say “tough, it was your decision”. I’d that this you intend it to come across?

Ritchie Herron was vulnerable when he was encouraged and rushed into extreme surgery. He is now incontinent and without a penis. Are you trying to say that it’s ok that Ritchie and Keira were medically harmed so that others take their own risks? Are you suggesting that it’s tough luck for them?

Do you think that there should be any protections for people to prevent self inflicted medical harm or should anyone be enabled to commission whatever procedures they want on the NHS?

BundleBoogie · 26/08/2025 18:45

PlanetJanette · 26/08/2025 18:19

But there is a clinical foundation to someone who cannot tolerate an IUD due to pain, doesn’t want the side effects of pharmacological contraception and doesn’t want to be reliant on her sexual partners compliance required of condoms to seek the only available form of contraception that meets her needs.

Claiming that a woman cannot consent to that form of contraception is massively paternalistic. Which is to say nothing of your grounding of medical ethics in a societal interests space, which is of course the standard approach to every attempt to force women to do with their bodies that which they do not wish to do.

But there is a clinical foundation to someone who cannot tolerate an IUD due to pain,

Yes, and presumably through bitter experience, doctors are still very mindful that despite the protestations of some women, they will end up wanting children and determine that the mental fallout of sterilisation does not tip the balance of justification. In some individual cases, it may feel unjust but the doctors are doing their best to reduce harm based on prior knowledge.

Whereas there is ZERO clinical need for so called ‘affirming’ surgeries and treatments and plenty of evidence that they make mental health WORSE. Yet you advocate for 18 year olds to be allowed to do this and live with the consequences of their decisions.

As I said, I don’t think you have any understanding of 18 year olds and their decision making abilities.

BundleBoogie · 26/08/2025 18:47

PlanetJanette · 26/08/2025 18:13

No. I support the very long established Gillick principle for trans and non-trans people alike.

It is folk like you who demand differential assessments of capacity when trans healthcare is involved.

Gillick principles were established for a very specific and limited reasons. ‘Trans’ does not fall into any of that.

BundleBoogie · 26/08/2025 18:52

PlanetJanette · 26/08/2025 18:13

No. I support the very long established Gillick principle for trans and non-trans people alike.

It is folk like you who demand differential assessments of capacity when trans healthcare is involved.

No we’re not. I’d be happier if the same standards of caution were applied to young people with ’gender dysphoria’ as to women wishing to be sterilised (and men wanting a vasectomy).

So called ‘affirming surgeries and procedures’ are not in the same ball park (or the same planet) as hormone contraception and the reasoning for allowing young girls to access contraception is completely different.

Merrymouse · 26/08/2025 19:02

PlanetJanette · 26/08/2025 18:13

No. I support the very long established Gillick principle for trans and non-trans people alike.

It is folk like you who demand differential assessments of capacity when trans healthcare is involved.

Gillick principles:

"Children under the age of 16 can consent to their own treatment if they're believed to have enough intelligence, competence and understanding to fully appreciate what's involved in their treatment."

The reason that 'gender affirming care' would not meet this criteria is not the patient's trans identity, but that the child is too young to understand the long term impact of the treatment.

Separately, there is no evidence that the treatment is beneficial, while there is evidence that it does harm.

Shortshriftandlethal · 26/08/2025 19:03

PlanetJanette · 26/08/2025 18:19

But there is a clinical foundation to someone who cannot tolerate an IUD due to pain, doesn’t want the side effects of pharmacological contraception and doesn’t want to be reliant on her sexual partners compliance required of condoms to seek the only available form of contraception that meets her needs.

Claiming that a woman cannot consent to that form of contraception is massively paternalistic. Which is to say nothing of your grounding of medical ethics in a societal interests space, which is of course the standard approach to every attempt to force women to do with their bodies that which they do not wish to do.

I'm not sure of your point about contraception?

You seem to be assuming that a woman must always push for total autonomy and independence to have integrity ? Whereas on certain levels and to a certain extent the very nature of the female body and its biological function negates the idea of total bodily autonomy. The interior nature of the female sex organ plus the very fact of pregnancy, childbirth and childcare very definitely ties women into a sense of themselves as integral beings that is not entirely rooted in autonomy, exteriority or separateness. Which is why some of the more strident demands for abortion can come across as being very distasteful:

" Parasites have no rights" for example, or " My body, my choice"

There are ethical questions around abortion, and which is why the termination of a pregnancy can be such a painful and/or difficult choice. Autonomy is not the be all and end all. We do have responsibilities towards others, towards the collective and so on. We are all inter-dependent on the co-operation of, and input from, others.

PlanetJanette · 26/08/2025 19:37

Shortshriftandlethal · 26/08/2025 16:58

Medical ethics, of course, include consent; but they also adhere by the principle of 'no harm'...and this is where wider ethical issues come into play. How do we decide what constitutes harm. Must harm only be measured by aligning it with the nature of individual desire, or do other factors come into play?

So, for example, when it comes to children, or people below the age of consent; or people of unsound mind etc

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Why would you bring children or people below the age of consent (I’m not clear why you’d separate the two since by definition all of the latter are also the former) or people of an unsound mind into your argument about denying health care to women in their twenties on the basis of capacity?

Is that really where you place adult women in the spectrum of capacity? Similar to children and people of ‘unsound mind’? That line of argument sounds familiar…

PlanetJanette · 26/08/2025 20:03

Merrymouse · 26/08/2025 19:02

Gillick principles:

"Children under the age of 16 can consent to their own treatment if they're believed to have enough intelligence, competence and understanding to fully appreciate what's involved in their treatment."

The reason that 'gender affirming care' would not meet this criteria is not the patient's trans identity, but that the child is too young to understand the long term impact of the treatment.

Separately, there is no evidence that the treatment is beneficial, while there is evidence that it does harm.

This is nonsense, as established by the courts. You folk are fond of relying on court judgements right?

PlanetJanette · 26/08/2025 20:06

BundleBoogie · 26/08/2025 18:45

But there is a clinical foundation to someone who cannot tolerate an IUD due to pain,

Yes, and presumably through bitter experience, doctors are still very mindful that despite the protestations of some women, they will end up wanting children and determine that the mental fallout of sterilisation does not tip the balance of justification. In some individual cases, it may feel unjust but the doctors are doing their best to reduce harm based on prior knowledge.

Whereas there is ZERO clinical need for so called ‘affirming’ surgeries and treatments and plenty of evidence that they make mental health WORSE. Yet you advocate for 18 year olds to be allowed to do this and live with the consequences of their decisions.

As I said, I don’t think you have any understanding of 18 year olds and their decision making abilities.

You still can’t seem to get your head around what capacity to consent actually means.

It does not mean that a patient must have certainty that they are making the right decision or certainty that they will never regret it.

It means that they are capable of understanding the procedure, understanding the risks and benefits, and of making an informed and free decision. Your insistence that a 29 year old woman lacks this capacity is incredibly patriarchal.

PlanetJanette · 26/08/2025 20:11

Shortshriftandlethal · 26/08/2025 19:03

I'm not sure of your point about contraception?

You seem to be assuming that a woman must always push for total autonomy and independence to have integrity ? Whereas on certain levels and to a certain extent the very nature of the female body and its biological function negates the idea of total bodily autonomy. The interior nature of the female sex organ plus the very fact of pregnancy, childbirth and childcare very definitely ties women into a sense of themselves as integral beings that is not entirely rooted in autonomy, exteriority or separateness. Which is why some of the more strident demands for abortion can come across as being very distasteful:

" Parasites have no rights" for example, or " My body, my choice"

There are ethical questions around abortion, and which is why the termination of a pregnancy can be such a painful and/or difficult choice. Autonomy is not the be all and end all. We do have responsibilities towards others, towards the collective and so on. We are all inter-dependent on the co-operation of, and input from, others.

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This post makes no sense. I never said anything about independence. The point is that it should always be a woman’s choice if she wants children or not and if she doesn’t then it should be her choice as to the best means of avoiding having children.

All this talk about obligations to society and some almost mystical nonsense about the very idea of women negating full autonomy is patriarchal nonsense. It is straight out of the playbook of every person who has ever sought to limit women’s reproductive freedom. Insisting that to be a woman necessary means you give up the right to decide what happens to your own body for some greater good has all sorts of terrifying implications.

Shortshriftandlethal · 26/08/2025 20:49

PlanetJanette · 26/08/2025 20:11

This post makes no sense. I never said anything about independence. The point is that it should always be a woman’s choice if she wants children or not and if she doesn’t then it should be her choice as to the best means of avoiding having children.

All this talk about obligations to society and some almost mystical nonsense about the very idea of women negating full autonomy is patriarchal nonsense. It is straight out of the playbook of every person who has ever sought to limit women’s reproductive freedom. Insisting that to be a woman necessary means you give up the right to decide what happens to your own body for some greater good has all sorts of terrifying implications.

Autonomy; separatness, individuation..... whatever you want to call it.......

I'm not disputing personal choice, although, of course, ideas about personal choice are in many respects very much liberal, western constructs. I have said that the very nature of female biology, in certain ways, negates ideas of separateness and bodily autonomy. And ultimately, none of us is really separate and autonomous. Male or Female. We all make decisions and choices within the context of certain sets of social conditions, cultures, family of origin and so on - over which we have no input and no control and which we didn't choose.

Maybe this is too subtle an argument or a perception for you to grasp.

Shortshriftandlethal · 26/08/2025 20:51

PlanetJanette · 26/08/2025 20:06

You still can’t seem to get your head around what capacity to consent actually means.

It does not mean that a patient must have certainty that they are making the right decision or certainty that they will never regret it.

It means that they are capable of understanding the procedure, understanding the risks and benefits, and of making an informed and free decision. Your insistence that a 29 year old woman lacks this capacity is incredibly patriarchal.

You cannot seem to get your head around alternative perspectives.

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