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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Drag Queen on Strictly

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HelenaWaiting · 13/08/2025 17:38

I didn't see a thread on this, and it seems to have been slipped out quietly. I'm assuming this man in woman-face will be taking the place of a female?

https://www.bbc.co.uk/mediacentre/2025/strictly-come-dancing-la-voix#:~:text=A%20powerhouse%20of%20charisma%2C%20comedy,no%20stranger%20to%20national%20television.

La Voix is the seventh celebrity contestant announced for Strictly Come Dancing 2025

The legendary singer, entertainer and Drag Race UK finalist will enter the famous ballroom when Strictly returns to BBC One and BBC iPlayer this September

https://www.bbc.co.uk/mediacentre/2025/strictly-come-dancing-la-voix#:~:text=A%20powerhouse%20of%20charisma%2C%20comedy,no%20stranger%20to%20national%20television.

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Unrulyscrumptious · 14/08/2025 15:36

ThatBlackCat · 14/08/2025 15:34

I didn't say you were, I said if a person is. You're the one making the personal attacks. You're the one that accused me of being right wing. You keep personally attacking me and others for pointing out your lack of knowledge. Instead of doubling down, you could admit that you lack knowledge and experience in this. Instead of accusing people of being 'far right wing'. Thanks for reminding me to report that post though.

You're attacking too many people you can't even keep us straight 😂 Never called you far right.

ThatBlackCat · 14/08/2025 15:38

Unrulyscrumptious · 14/08/2025 15:34

@ThatBlackCat I'm not even going to respond to you, complaining about misogyny while making multiple sexist comments to any woman who disagrees with you being on her knees and making offensive racist comments too. You must be near the limit of being deleted from this thread alone with all your personal attacks. Here's hoping.

More gaslighting and DARVO. You are the one making sexist comments and offensive racist comments to a black woman. You've already had a few posts deleted. One would think you would have learned and showed some respect.

ThatBlackCat · 14/08/2025 15:39

Unrulyscrumptious · 14/08/2025 15:36

You're attacking too many people you can't even keep us straight 😂 Never called you far right.

The one making attacks is you. You've made racist and misogynist attacks.

ThatBlackCat · 14/08/2025 15:42

You don't dismantle oppression by erasing it's history and minimising it.

Oh the irony! You don't say...

LittleBitofBread · 14/08/2025 17:20

StrictlySequinsandStiIettos · 14/08/2025 15:28

That showdance was choreoed by Jason Gilkison, so I'd expect nothing less.
I still think it was important for young gay (and for some, possibly closeted) male viewers to get the chance with their mum to see a gay man unapologetically dancing with another gay man, on mainstream telly on a Saturday night.
And I don't see the issue with celebrating their sexual preference through the freedom and expression of dance. Because so many young men do not feel pride, they suffer from homophobia at school and that can become internalised homophobia.
I felt the same when Layton danced with Nikita. So many young, black men have not had that representation, not in the mainstream, not on a Saturday night.
I liked your post because I agree that sexual orientation should be unremarkable in this day and age but, in reality, in the classroom and on the playground that simply isn't true. It's getting better but we ain't there yet, where teens don't pass judgement.

I absolutely agree there is a lot of ground still to be made up on teens/young people and homophobia (well, not just young people), and on representation of all stripes.
And I am all for a gay man unapologetically dancing with another gay man, on mainstream telly, on a Saturday night.
I just meant that that routine seriously piled on the gay.

I think we'll have real acceptance and equality when two men do a nice quiet waltz or a fun jive together without streamers or rainbows or a soundtrack of 'I'm Coming Out'.
Again, though, I do agree with you we are not there yet.

Digidestined · 14/08/2025 18:20

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Congratulations on being patronising 🙄

StrictlySequinsandStiIettos · 14/08/2025 18:38

bread
Raimondo and Giovanni did an elegant waltz to Skyfoal-crumbbowl on Balando - sadly, no longer on YouTube but first segment below.

I think what you have on Glitterball more frequently these days is the higher production/style over substance/showmanship/creating a moment/pressure now, which means that sophisticated/understated/traditional - irrespective of the sexual preference of the couples, is less evident. Except for Aljaz, who can always be relied upon to do a decent waltz, many avoid it as not being showy enough. John and Johannes did one routine out of a whole series that celebrated him being gay. The rest didn't focus on that aspect of him at all, aside from his contemporary (he did suffer from internalised homophobia growing up). But we can agree to disagree. As you know, I like and watch all of them globally, irrespective of who they are/what they do for a living. Keep dancing! <3 <3 <3

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ipredictariot5 · 14/08/2025 18:40

I am requesting that @ThatBlackCat and others stop attacking other women here. This is the most toxic ‘feminism’ I have ever come across and the personal abuse in shameful.I hope Mumsnet take note and act to protect the integrity of this site which I always thought was women supporting other women.

TheWatersofMarch · 14/08/2025 18:47

I can’t get upset about this. Strictly contestants come from the whole range of backgrounds and Drag performers are as showbiz as the other celebs. It’s not a children’s show. It’s a bit fringe to worry about this person taking a spot from a woman, I don’t think this show insists on equal numbers of male and female participants.

Grammarnut · 14/08/2025 18:49

Lesbians are not women impersonators. That's a daft comparison to a man in womanface.

taxi4ballet · 14/08/2025 18:53

foxyariel · 14/08/2025 09:00

I reject the notion that drag is inherently misogynistic. I find the analogy to blackface too deeply superficial(!) and an attempt to cut down the debate by taking the moral high ground. I refer you to Susan Sontag's Notes on Camp. A quick Google yielded this [years since I read this- no time for a more considered reference]:

You thought it meant a swishy little boy with peroxided hair, dressed in a picture hat and a feather boa, pretending to be Marlene Dietrich? Yes, in queer circles they call that camping. … You can call [it] Low Camp…High Camp is the whole emotional basis for ballet, for example, and of course of baroque art … High Camp always has an underlying seriousness. You can't camp about something you don't take seriously. You're not making fun of it, you're making fun out of it. You're expressing what’s basically serious to you in terms of fun and artifice and elegance. Baroque art is basically camp about religion. The ballet is camp about love …[10]

"You're not making fun of it, you're making fun out of it"
So yes, my position is that, more often than not, I can appreciate the joy and artistry that goes into a good drag performance, low camp though it may be.

"High Camp is the whole emotional basis for ballet, for example"

Oh no it isn't.

StrictlySequinsandStiIettos · 14/08/2025 18:54

Oh yes it is.

Sorry, thought we were doing panto now.

LittleBitofBread · 14/08/2025 19:06

taxi4ballet · 14/08/2025 18:53

"High Camp is the whole emotional basis for ballet, for example"

Oh no it isn't.

Agree. I guess she'd never seen a really good ballet production.

'You're not making fun of it, you're making fun out of it' – well, I'd say that about (to invoke her again) Lily Savage, but not so much Cheryl Hole, for example. Drag can be and has been one thing, but it is undeniable that it's changed and evolved, and not in a good way IMO.

HelenaWaiting · 14/08/2025 19:28

Unrulyscrumptious · 14/08/2025 15:25

@HelenaWaiting also your whole "oh because some women kind of took part in oppressing black people doesn't mean they were equal to the men" is very revealing of your point of view. Clue - feminism isn't getting an equal 50% of oppressive power off of the men, it's about dismantling oppression.

I'd answer this, were it not wholly incoherent.

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taxi4ballet · 14/08/2025 20:29

LittleBitofBread · 14/08/2025 19:06

Agree. I guess she'd never seen a really good ballet production.

'You're not making fun of it, you're making fun out of it' – well, I'd say that about (to invoke her again) Lily Savage, but not so much Cheryl Hole, for example. Drag can be and has been one thing, but it is undeniable that it's changed and evolved, and not in a good way IMO.

As far as I am aware in my long experience of dance, there are only two classical ballets in which female characters are played by male artists, one is Cinderella, and the other is La Fille Mal Gardee. The roles are what one would describe as pantomime dames and ugly sisters.

There is of course Les Ballets Trockadero de Monte Carlo, a phenomenally good comic ballet company parodying the usual conventions.

Those examples are not representative of the art of classical ballet as a whole.

Digidestined · 14/08/2025 20:55

ipredictariot5 · 14/08/2025 18:40

I am requesting that @ThatBlackCat and others stop attacking other women here. This is the most toxic ‘feminism’ I have ever come across and the personal abuse in shameful.I hope Mumsnet take note and act to protect the integrity of this site which I always thought was women supporting other women.

Couldn't agree more.

Unfortunately the feminism here is incredibly toxic and puts many posters off. I thought engaging in this thread would be ok because it's not about trans people and all the bile that gets spewed about them but no, they're all vile here too!

If this is what people call feminism these days I want nothing to do with it.

NooNakedJacuzziness · 14/08/2025 20:55

Never have a Drag King do they

Plasticwaste · 14/08/2025 22:42

Digidestined · 14/08/2025 08:24

Now here is some top notch misogyny!

Claiming women are too stupid to understand what's good for them because they are distracted by sequins!

God forbid they just have a different opinion than you without being stupid 🙄

Enjoying men pretending to be caricatures of women is pretty stupid, tbh.

Pointing that out isn't misogynistic, though.

HelenaWaiting · 14/08/2025 23:15

Digidestined · 14/08/2025 18:20

Congratulations on being patronising 🙄

It was deliberate, for those who have the intellect to see it. 🙄

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HelenaWaiting · 14/08/2025 23:19

ipredictariot5 · 14/08/2025 18:40

I am requesting that @ThatBlackCat and others stop attacking other women here. This is the most toxic ‘feminism’ I have ever come across and the personal abuse in shameful.I hope Mumsnet take note and act to protect the integrity of this site which I always thought was women supporting other women.

Do you really believe that presenting a wholly dishonest and one-sided summary of the debate will fool anyone, let alone the moderators? Shall we talk about the reasons why accusations of toxicity are only ever directed at contributors who are women of colour?

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ThatBlackCat · 14/08/2025 23:21

ipredictariot5 · 14/08/2025 18:40

I am requesting that @ThatBlackCat and others stop attacking other women here. This is the most toxic ‘feminism’ I have ever come across and the personal abuse in shameful.I hope Mumsnet take note and act to protect the integrity of this site which I always thought was women supporting other women.

I am not attacking anyone, I am responding to posts. I suggest you stop attacking me. Calling feminism 'toxic' really says so much about you and your agenda. And how about you try supporting women, for once, instead of attacking us.

Enough4me · 14/08/2025 23:22

Women, know your place, stop having opinions about men who try to be you!
Perhaps some moderators can come along to silence you... no, thought not.
Women haven't been silenced in the UK hurrah!

ThatBlackCat · 14/08/2025 23:24

Digidestined · 14/08/2025 20:55

Couldn't agree more.

Unfortunately the feminism here is incredibly toxic and puts many posters off. I thought engaging in this thread would be ok because it's not about trans people and all the bile that gets spewed about them but no, they're all vile here too!

If this is what people call feminism these days I want nothing to do with it.

If you fighting against men who mock women is 'toxic', then the misogynistic agenda here from a few posters is incredibly clear. We're against males mocking females. Males. That should be the clue to you that our problem is males. But no, you still don't get it. Anyone defending womanface needs to ask themselves some hard questions. That, is Toxic Masculinity. And it should not be defended on a feminist site. There are plenty of Mens Rights sites that attitude can be championed on.

ThatBlackCat · 14/08/2025 23:26

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ThatBlackCat · 14/08/2025 23:29

Enough4me · 14/08/2025 23:22

Women, know your place, stop having opinions about men who try to be you!
Perhaps some moderators can come along to silence you... no, thought not.
Women haven't been silenced in the UK hurrah!

Yes, the MRAs are so transparent in their attempt to get not just women but women of colour silenced. How dare we defend womens rights and not be on our knees for the patriarchy. Don't we know we women are just shit under the shoe of Anne Abortion and Miss Carriage?