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The Bluestocking does a late night flit again

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Magpiecomplex · 07/08/2025 21:50

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Boiledbeetle · 13/08/2025 00:25

JanesLittleGirl · 12/08/2025 22:50

2lb lump hammer and a 4" bolster have to be the right tools for this job.

ETA I didn't realise earlier that you were trying to get the job done with actual chisels and hammers. It's a miracle that you have got as far as you have.

Apart from that, I am really happy that you want to do a good job for Bear.

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Neither did I! It is impressive she removed as much as she did!

Boiledbeetle · 13/08/2025 00:27

MyrtleLion · 12/08/2025 22:58

Boily! Will you replenish the grapes? No, of course not.
Android! That’s my bed and my leg should be elevated!
Alexandra! Lovely to see you, and thanks for bringing Bessie… but it’s a little too comfy with you both next to me.

You’re all so entertaining, thank you!

Anyway, I am home!

Operation was at 1pm and took 3 hours. In a walking boot with crutches but the nerve block is still in place, and I had a bit of fentanyl at 5pm so I’m not (yet) in pain.

They wanted to send me home with just paracetamol, but it doesn’t work for me, so I have morphine for when the pain hits. Apparently paracetamol is a terrible painkiller, and only works for 1 in 4 people post-operatively, and barely 10% of people for chronic pain, even for headaches. Goodness knows why they bother prescribing it.

The walrus has been amazing and DSD has brought me salted dark chocolate, which is beyond adorable.

Bessie brought some once you were awake. Or did she eat them?

Glad you are home and hope the pain isn't too bad in the morning x

Boiledbeetle · 13/08/2025 00:28

ifIwerenotanandroid · 12/08/2025 23:05

Have to say I don't understand the bolsters & stuff, but good luck with the second galleon, Swashy.

Boily, is that cat going to be 3D? Cos I can't really see a cat there atm.

Yep 3D

Boiledbeetle · 13/08/2025 00:30

Bannedontherun · 12/08/2025 23:45

I just spotted @Boiledbeetle out in the wild at a wedding, in a bridal outfit no less what a harlot

I have NO idea what you are on about. As if I'd attend a wedding in white!

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Boiledbeetle · 13/08/2025 00:34

ErrolTheDragon · 12/08/2025 23:39

I don’t remember anyone saying they wanted to be RapunzelConfusedGrin

You fibber.

I distinctly heard a dragon earlier saying they wished they were Rapunzel. Is this not you?

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MyrtleLion · 13/08/2025 01:24

Well, first of all, I have called 111 and they are concerned enough to have contacted my out of hours GP service who will call me before 6am. So it’s in hand.

Secondly, I am not in any pain at all so I’m fine, but I am very quite a bit worried

I have had no pain relief since 5pm when I had fentanyl. I can’t feel anything at all now, maybe because I have had a nerve block in my leg, but my heel hurt when I walked on it at 7pm but hasn’t hurt since. I would have thought the nerve block would have blocked the pain before, not later.

I can’t feel my toes though if I touch them I feel pins and needles. I can feel a needle putting a little bit of pressure on them but I don’t feel sharpness or a scratch. I can waggle them a millimetre then I can’t waggle them at all. This recurs. My leg and foot are warm and swollen, but that might be normal. I could waggle my toes at 7pm which pleased the physiotherapist, so not sure why I now can’t.

I did think the toes being numb and not waggling was because the boot was too tight, but I have had it off for an hour now and it hasn’t improved. I will put it back on to go to the loo in a sec.

Two of the wounds are seeping blood very slowly but one has soaked through the gauze dressing completely. The junior surgeon removed the larger bandage when he fitted the boot and the notes said not to remove it until tomorrow evening. I gave myself a blood thinning injection as instructed at 10pm.

This makes me think I’m not overreacting, and 111 have instructed my GP service, but maybe it’s just a couple of stitches opening and the nerve block which lasts up to 24 hours.

And DH has drunk a bottle of wine while we’ve been home. To be fair, when I told the surgeon he wanted to go to the restaurant/pub, if I stayed in, he did say DH could still go if I went home. We thought it was going to be fine because everyone was urging me to go home. But now it means he can’t drive me till 6am when he’ll be legal, and 8.30 when he’ll be sober if I need to go back to hospital. Do not come for the walrus, he is mortified and we never thought he might need to drive me anywhere till Friday. And he is a brilliant husband who might have made a mistake.

I think I just need a handhold if anyone’s up.

You know how you all said to have sedation for my gastroscopy? You were right. Two of my family members have had one without and said it was the worst experience of their life, so thank you all 💙

Earlier I was asked if the anaesthetist could talk to me in the waiting area and I said a firm no. Mainly because I could hear him talking to that young lad from earlier, so I wanted privacy.

I was offered a local or a local and sedation rather than a general but it was a change of plan and left to me to decide so I felt overwhelmed and I had a general.

At 7pm the physiotherapist said I could go home if I wanted and I thought I would be better off and more comfortable at home, so I left around 8.25. But I now think I should have stayed overnight. I will follow my instincts next time.

AsWithGlad · 13/08/2025 01:25

I love your floating tiara, Boily. It’s a combination of crown and halo

AsWithGlad · 13/08/2025 01:34

Lovely @MyrtleLion , this sounds logical to me:
maybe it’s just a couple of stitches opening and the nerve block which lasts up to 24 hours.
especially the long-lasting nerve block.

You have done the right thing in ringing 111. Fingers crossed that the OOH GP contacts you soon.

You can always ring 111 again if anything changes or you feel overwhelmed.

ifIwerenotanandroid · 13/08/2025 01:43

I'm just off to bed & found your post, Myrtle. I don't have any medical knowledge to help you, but when DH was crook a few months ago, there was no way I could take 6'4" of him in my little car & I can't drive his car, so I called a taxi & they were brilliant. So if you need to get somewhere & can't get an ambulance, maybe try that? I checked google reviews for local taxi firms & I think people must've mentioned going to A&E with this company.

The walrus obviously needed to steady his nerves after worrying about you all day. Aw.

Hope you get it all sorted out with as little fuss as poss. See you in the morning.❤

MyrtleLion · 13/08/2025 01:53

Thank you! That feels better 💙

I'm posting images of the bleeding in this post, but I've marked them sensitive in case anyone hates the sight of blood, or it might not be your thing.

I put the boot back on and saw there was blood inside the boot from before. I then went to the loo, and returned and removed the boot and there was more blood on the stocking (on my leg, so it had previously bled through the dressing and then the stocking and then into the boot liner), and it has bled into the liner some more.

DH is asleep and the gauze is in the first aid kit in the kitchen downstairs, so I think I'll just try and wrap some tissue around the wound. I'm resting on a towel as you can see in the images. They are closely cropped so you can't see my living room.

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AlexandraLeaving · 13/08/2025 04:32

Oh @MyrtleLion what a worry for you. I have only just come across your posts. Have you had any joy yet from the out of hours people? Bessie is out on her rounds at the moment but sends her best badgery wishes.

MyrtleLion · 13/08/2025 04:49

AlexandraLeaving · 13/08/2025 04:32

Oh @MyrtleLion what a worry for you. I have only just come across your posts. Have you had any joy yet from the out of hours people? Bessie is out on her rounds at the moment but sends her best badgery wishes.

Thank you! And thank Bessie, too. Though she may be on her rounds with my GP.

When they said six hours, I think I must assume it will be 6am as I’ve heard nothing yet. The wound is still seeping and I think it bleeds when I walk on it, and then it carries on seeping. Maybe a case for a non weight-bearing cast 🤔🧐🤨

I haven’t slept, mainly because I don’t want to miss the call from the GP service, but also I had my soothing cardamom tea around 11ish, so maybe it’s caffeine. I can sleep tomorrow - erm, later today.

I’m still pain free but now have some sensation in the leg, so maybe it’s the leg block that’s causing the numbness.

AlexandraLeaving · 13/08/2025 05:47

It sounds like you were wise to contact 111. I hope they have called you back by now.

MyrtleLion · 13/08/2025 05:58

AlexandraLeaving · 13/08/2025 05:47

It sounds like you were wise to contact 111. I hope they have called you back by now.

Not yet.

I think I'm reopening the stitches when I walk on the leg, even though I'm in a boot. I've decided to not put weight on it until the wound has been seen. As for the numbness I hope it's the leg block because it could be more serious otherwise.

And I wish I had been told to stay overnight so I would have care and also information at this point, and I wish I'd been put in a non weight bearing cast - all things that I had planned for.

AlexandraLeaving · 13/08/2025 06:54

Any joy yet? Sounds wise not to put weight on it for the time being. Hopefully Walrus can help you hop around.

FarriersGirl · 13/08/2025 07:06

Just caught up. I hope that you are OK @MyrtleLion .

MyrtleLion · 13/08/2025 07:10

I just rang 111 again and out of hours was busy and has now closed.

They have referred me to my GP who will ring before 12.30. But they may just re-dress the wounds or refer me to minor injuries to be restitched.

I am concerned because I had asked for deep mattress stitching due to a connective tissue disorder of unknown origin and he didn’t do that. The wounds might not be bleeding if he had. And the removal of the bandage might not have helped.

The toes are moving and still no pain.

DeanElderberry · 13/08/2025 08:05

Oh Myrtle, that sounds horrible. Guardian angel prayer deployed on your behalf.

MyrtleLion · 13/08/2025 08:12

Out of hours called and said it needs to be looked at by the orthopaedic department today, so I will call them at 9 when a helpline opens. They will advise when I can go in and have it looked at.

Boiledbeetle · 13/08/2025 08:12

Oh @MyrtleLion that's not how you envisaged things going once you got home is it.

I am unable to offer any practical assistance so I shall pace up and down the internet whilst you try and sort out what the hell is going on.

Hopefully all is well and you've just had a stitch come unstitched.

💕

ErrolTheDragon · 13/08/2025 08:30

No wise words just Flowers Myrtle.

MyrtleLion · 13/08/2025 08:36

Aww, you lovely ladies, thank you 💐 I have added gauze from the downstairs first aid kit so my foot doesn’t look quite so bloody.

No need for quite so much pacing, @Boiledbeetle , you’re wearing out the information superhighway! 💙

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Chersfrozenface · 13/08/2025 09:18

Hope you're through to the orthopaedic department, @MyrtleLion and that they can sort you out.

Boiledbeetle · 13/08/2025 09:18

MyrtleLion · 13/08/2025 08:36

Aww, you lovely ladies, thank you 💐 I have added gauze from the downstairs first aid kit so my foot doesn’t look quite so bloody.

No need for quite so much pacing, @Boiledbeetle , you’re wearing out the information superhighway! 💙

I broke it.

<Goes off to shake Internet>

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Chersfrozenface · 13/08/2025 09:27

Boiledbeetle · 13/08/2025 09:18

I broke it.

<Goes off to shake Internet>

Have you tried switching it off and on again?

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