I’ve been reflecting after the shit show end of the last thread.
I think it’s really important to allow people to hold a different opinion with you- whatever it may be.
If you shut down conversations because you believe the other person isn’t entitled to a particular opinion, you aren’t ever going to know what the alternative perspective is.
The ‘no debate’ thing didn’t start with Trans, it’s just a recent and extreme variation.
If you want to understand the 80%, you have to allow them to have thoughts you consider to be wrong and distasteful.
Shutting down a conversation because there’s insufficient condemnation of racism, or homophobia, for example doesn’t move anyone forward.
I’ve seen concern about surrogacy dismissed as homophobia.
Concern about the veil dismissed as racism.
And of concern about single sex spaces dismissed as homophobia. With a side order of racism.
I’m surrounded by lovely right thinking people who aren’t open to a conversation about politics or current issues because everything is racist/bigoted/whatever. We did manage to agree that every source of information is biased though.
I think it’s been salutary to see people we love and respect write us off as appalling bigots.
We need to consider who we are also writing off!