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NHS Fife tries to silence nurse - Sandie Peggie vs NHS Fife Health Board and Dr Beth Upton - thread #47

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nauticant · 29/07/2025 11:43

Sandie Peggie, a nurse at Victoria Hospital in Kirkcaldy (VH), has brought claims in the employment tribunal against her employer; Fife Health Board (the Board) and another employee, Dr B Upton. Ms Peggie’s claims are of sexual harassment, harassment related to a protected belief, indirect discrimination and victimisation. Dr Upton claims to be a transwoman, that is observed as male at birth but asserting a female gender identity.

The Employment Tribunal hearing started on Monday 3 February 2025 and was expected to last 2 weeks. However, after 2 weeks it was not complete and it adjourned part-heard. It resumed on 16 July and the last day of evidence had been intended to be 28 July with 2 days of submissions from counsel meaning that the hearing was to have ended on 30 July. However, it became apparent as the hearing progressed that this schedule wouldn't be followed. (Considerable understatement.)

The hearing commenced with Sandie Peggie giving evidence. Dr Beth Upton gave evidence from Thursday 6 February to Wednesday 12 February.

Access to view the hearing remotely was obtainable by sending an email request to [email protected] by 5pm on Wednesday 9 July. Detailed instructions were provided here:

drive.google.com/file/d/16-9POEZ7yHWUr6EmbfquJZO18Gv78bSm/view

The hearing is being live tweeted by x.com/tribunaltweets and there's additional information here: tribunaltweets.substack.com/p/peggie-vs-fife-health-board-and-dr-005 and tribunaltweets.substack.com/p/peggie-vs-fife-health-board-and-dr-bd6. This also has threadreaderapp archives of live-tweeting of the sessions of the hearing for those who can't follow on Twitter, for example: archive.ph/WSSjg.

An alternative to Twitter is to use Nitter: nitter.net/tribunaltweets or nitter.poast.org/tribunaltweets

Links to previous threads #1 to #40 can be found in this thread: mumsnet.com/talk/womensrights/5379717-sandie-peggie-list-of-threads-covering-employment-tribunal-and-afterwards

Thread 41: mumsnet.com/talk/womensrights/5379334-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-and-dr-beth-upton-thread-41 24 July 2025 to 25 July 2025
Thread 42: mumsnet.com/talk/womensrights/5379820-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-and-dr-beth-upton-thread-42 25 July 2025 to 25 July 2025
Thread 43: mumsnet.com/talk/womensrights/5379979-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-and-dr-beth-upton-thread-43 25 July 2025 to 27 July 2025
Thread 44: mumsnet.com/talk/womensrights/5380196-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-and-dr-beth-upton-thread-44 25 July 2025 to 28 July 2025
Thread 45: mumsnet.com/talk/womensrights/5381518-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-and-dr-beth-upton-thread-45 28 July 2025 to 28 July 2025
Thread 46: mumsnet.com/talk/womensrights/5381640-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-and-dr-beth-upton-thread-46 28 July 2025 to 29 July 2025

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Jimmyneutronsforehead · 29/07/2025 16:37

Greyskybluesky · 29/07/2025 16:34

The world changed for me when I was informed couscous is a pasta, not a grain
😱

My favourite tiny pasta is pastini stars. Pastini in chicken broth with a squeeze of lemon and an extremely generous twisting of cracked black pepper.

Couscous is just wrong though because although it is a pasta, it would feel awful in the mouth with a pasta sauce on it. It would be akin to committing a serious crime.

SadTimesInFife · 29/07/2025 16:38

RabbitFurCoat · 29/07/2025 16:34

Gina G&T. Worst earworm from this thread yet, thanks nebulous username wielders.

Omg...I thought that was Dr Upton in the change room!!

Theme song for Netflix series sorted

myplace · 29/07/2025 16:38

tribunalObserver · 29/07/2025 16:35

Yes, very strange. Maybe I'm just too surrounded with self-identifying weirdos (weirdoes?) but I have a hard time seeing that word as an insult at all, let alone a serious one.

It’s the target.
Some words are just words. When they are used against specific people they take on whole additional layers of offensiveness!

DU cannot be called a weirdo, no matter how weird his behaviour.
SP can be called weird for leaving a room, or waiting outside, because she’s fussy about who she strips off with.

Sad times, Pandora.

Harassedevictee · 29/07/2025 16:38

@nauticant
Thank you so much for managing all the threads, it must be a record for Mumsnet. I am hoping for your sake there will be an initial flurry then it calms down until September. Flowers

murasaki · 29/07/2025 16:38

tribunalObserver · 29/07/2025 16:35

Yes, very strange. Maybe I'm just too surrounded with self-identifying weirdos (weirdoes?) but I have a hard time seeing that word as an insult at all, let alone a serious one.

In the world's largest reach ever, maybe it's that 'o' is traditionally a masculine ending to nouns of Latin extraction. Maybe weirda would have been fine.

WearyAuldWumman · 29/07/2025 16:39

@YourWiseBee My dad landed in Fife as a Displaced Person. Most of the DPs of my acquaintance either anglicised their surname or took the name of their spouse. My dad resisted that, and I did encounter some racism as a result.

Dad once got into an altercation with a bloke at work which did not end well for the other bloke. The other chap kept calling dad a "Polish bastard".

Dad: "I keep telling you...I'm not Polish."

So far as the sectarian divide is concerned, it's still here but not as bad as when I was a child.

ANameChangePresents · 29/07/2025 16:39

GrumpyUngulate · 29/07/2025 16:33

Do you live in some kind of hermitic bubble on the sea floor? Dark jokes follow every tragedy, and have done so for a very long time (certainly preceding the internet).

Just open your browser search bar and type in 'sick jokes' followed by Tsunami, Madeleine McCann, Space Shuttle, Jimmy Savile, Pope, Columbine, 9/11, Jay Slater, Christopher Reeves, Fred West, etc. Or treat yourself to a compendium for reference: https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/Seriously-Sick-Jokes/Rob-Manuel/9781569757093

I repeat that I do not particularly enjoy such humour myself, I think it's often tasteless and cringey, if not downright offensive. But it's ridiculous to act as if this inevitably signifies deeply prejudicial beliefs. It's just black humour - very common in emergency service personnel who have to face terrible things, and some studies indicate a correlation with higher intelligence.

I'm sure I saw some price comedic routines on the billionaires in the submarine, just as an example of recent 'inappropriate humour'.

myplace · 29/07/2025 16:39

Jimmyneutronsforehead · 29/07/2025 16:37

My favourite tiny pasta is pastini stars. Pastini in chicken broth with a squeeze of lemon and an extremely generous twisting of cracked black pepper.

Couscous is just wrong though because although it is a pasta, it would feel awful in the mouth with a pasta sauce on it. It would be akin to committing a serious crime.

DS is supposed to be the NT member of the family, yet has an issue with risotto and couscous. All the little bits, apparently.

Noblokesinwomenstoilets · 29/07/2025 16:40

Notquitethetruth · 29/07/2025 16:24

The minimising of racism from some has been embarrassing to read. I couldn't care less what Great Uncle Albert or Great Aunt Mabel says or used to say. Racism in any form is not acceptable. End of.
While I agree that Dr Upton in the CR should be the focus SP and her behaviour has allowed JR to divert. SP should have been open and transparent given the massive support and funding she received. She has by her dishonesty moved the focus away from the core issue. From my observations racism is not just confined to just Sandie in her family.
I feel gutted for so many who invested so much in this. Whatever the verdict it will always come back to the unacceptable racism.

Whatever the verdict it will always come back to the unacceptable racism

No, it won't. It'll come back to the issue the case is actually there for: A female being forced to share a changing room with a man and then unlawfully suspended and victimised.

Boiledbeetle · 29/07/2025 16:41

murasaki · 29/07/2025 16:32

Couscous is another one that seems both wet and dry. We both hate it.

Oddly giant couscous is ok.

I tried giant couscous the other day. I was surprised how unlike normal, blgggghh, couscous it was.

DrPrunesqualer · 29/07/2025 16:41

SternJoyousBeev2 · 29/07/2025 16:35

I think at the end she was showing her own biases. She knows Fife are fucked but she goes hell for leather to defend Upton.

Good point.

murasaki · 29/07/2025 16:42

Boiledbeetle · 29/07/2025 16:41

I tried giant couscous the other day. I was surprised how unlike normal, blgggghh, couscous it was.

Yes, it's actually food, and perfectly nice. Unlike the other stuff.

chilling19 · 29/07/2025 16:42

Veryweirdsadtimes · 29/07/2025 16:27

Happy to show you his death certificate - issued at the Vic

So sorry for this - best ignore the disrupter. We always get them.

LoudlyProudlyHorrid · 29/07/2025 16:42

Shortshriftandlethal · 29/07/2025 14:52

It is fairly common to hear people refer to the mentally disabled as 'retards' or 'retarded' in the U.S.A. In Britain that has not been used for many years and is now seen as offensive, although I can imagine a few people may still use it.

Conversely In Britain it is still fairly standard to refer to people from the far east as 'Oriental' whereas in the U.S this is seen as racist.

Some older people still refer to black people as being 'coloured' because they think it is polite. Saying 'black' at one point was felt to be racist and was considered offensive.

In Liverpool many young men still refer to their girlfriend as their 'bird'. in fact there was, until recently, a shop called 'The Scouse Bird Shop' which sold candles and decorative objects, jewellery etc.

Edited

One of my good friends says 'alright bird' as a greeting. Coming from her it's fine. We'll often jokingly use it back. From a man and I'd be livid.

Another one that's widely used in America is handicapped- meaning going 'cap in hand'. It went out of use long ago in England. It feels very jarring to go over there and find it's in every day innocent use

Cailleach1 · 29/07/2025 16:43

This all now seems to be about something else. I will say, as an Irish person, I would never really have heard any derogatory comments about Asian shop owners and such. I don’t think that is because Irish people were more aware of it being derogatory. There was very little immigration into Ireland. Certainly from places outside Europe.

The derogatory terms in Ireland were widely and frequently used on those who were in the country. The now used term ‘Traveller’ was not used at all when I was growing up. A term originally coined for the people who went from town to town, repairing things, especially metal/tin utensils and the like, was used almost universally. It is not used any more, I think.

Or for rural people - culchies. Definitely in a ‘redneck’ kind of way. Heard someone from Dublin calling a country woman a ‘bog Sally’ once. Dublin people were in turn called Jackeens.

moto748e · 29/07/2025 16:43

Couscous is just wrong though because tabbouleh is so much tastier, and better mouth-feel too.

Jimmyneutronsforehead · 29/07/2025 16:43

Boiledbeetle · 29/07/2025 16:41

I tried giant couscous the other day. I was surprised how unlike normal, blgggghh, couscous it was.

Scared Stop Motion GIF by Fire Mountain Productions

I've never heard of giant couscous before today. I'm a little bit scared. How giant exactly is giant?

WearyAuldWumman · 29/07/2025 16:43

Theunamedcat · 29/07/2025 16:26

I have a child who used to eat wheatabix like a biscuit nursery asked me what breakfast he liked as he was not liking it or the toast they offered i said serve it in seperate pots they did and were horrified

I used to eat food separately, to the chagrin of family members. Eventually, one of my cousin's kids got a formal diagnosis - it explained a lot about our family.

On the other hand, I once had a pupil who would pour his pudding onto his main course and eat it all at the same time because it was much more 'efficient'.

We used to have the most wonderful discussions about Doctor Who when I was on dinner duty.

NotInMyyName · 29/07/2025 16:44

Harassedevictee · 29/07/2025 16:38

@nauticant
Thank you so much for managing all the threads, it must be a record for Mumsnet. I am hoping for your sake there will be an initial flurry then it calms down until September. Flowers

@nauticantThankyou for heroically keeping this thread alive. ❤️

murasaki · 29/07/2025 16:44

Jimmyneutronsforehead · 29/07/2025 16:43

I've never heard of giant couscous before today. I'm a little bit scared. How giant exactly is giant?

Not that giant, say lentil sized?

Notquitethetruth · 29/07/2025 16:44

Greyskybluesky · 29/07/2025 16:27

Whatever the verdict it will always come back to the unacceptable racism.

No, it won't. It will always come back to the fact that a man thought he could use a women's changing room.

I hope you are right. That is the issue that we all should be talking about but it's not. That's unfortunate. I certainly wouldn't want to stand beside her and celebrate her victory when it comes.

DCorMe · 29/07/2025 16:45

I’m surprised that less was made about the Adult baby fetish comments.
aren’t they part of the alphabet soup?
surely JR should have been focusing on SP’s phobia about them as well.
I don’t think there was overwhelming evidence of transphobia identified by JR

NebulousGoosey · 29/07/2025 16:45

I just wanted to say thanks wims, and Bez, for the insight, humour and articulate contributions across these threads. I was a FWR regular back in pre-2015 days then through Spartacus and moved away during the first lockdown, when anything internet was proving bad for my MH. This tribunal brought me back, albeit as a lurker.
Taking a break for the rest of the summer, back in September.

wordler · 29/07/2025 16:47

Boiledbeetle · 29/07/2025 16:41

I tried giant couscous the other day. I was surprised how unlike normal, blgggghh, couscous it was.

Nope - for me the giant stuff feel like insect eggs - same as the inside of okra.

DrPrunesqualer · 29/07/2025 16:48

Noblokesinwomenstoilets · 29/07/2025 16:40

Whatever the verdict it will always come back to the unacceptable racism

No, it won't. It'll come back to the issue the case is actually there for: A female being forced to share a changing room with a man and then unlawfully suspended and victimised.

The trans activists will definitely dwell on it and use it to argue Sandie ( and therefore all women ) have no right to SSS.

But they’ve never understood the reality that all women want is privacy and safety
They've never understood Sex Matters

They've just never understood …🥱 what it’s all about

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