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NHS Fife tries to silence nurse - Sandie Peggie vs NHS Fife Health Board and Dr Beth Upton - thread #47

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nauticant · 29/07/2025 11:43

Sandie Peggie, a nurse at Victoria Hospital in Kirkcaldy (VH), has brought claims in the employment tribunal against her employer; Fife Health Board (the Board) and another employee, Dr B Upton. Ms Peggie’s claims are of sexual harassment, harassment related to a protected belief, indirect discrimination and victimisation. Dr Upton claims to be a transwoman, that is observed as male at birth but asserting a female gender identity.

The Employment Tribunal hearing started on Monday 3 February 2025 and was expected to last 2 weeks. However, after 2 weeks it was not complete and it adjourned part-heard. It resumed on 16 July and the last day of evidence had been intended to be 28 July with 2 days of submissions from counsel meaning that the hearing was to have ended on 30 July. However, it became apparent as the hearing progressed that this schedule wouldn't be followed. (Considerable understatement.)

The hearing commenced with Sandie Peggie giving evidence. Dr Beth Upton gave evidence from Thursday 6 February to Wednesday 12 February.

Access to view the hearing remotely was obtainable by sending an email request to [email protected] by 5pm on Wednesday 9 July. Detailed instructions were provided here:

drive.google.com/file/d/16-9POEZ7yHWUr6EmbfquJZO18Gv78bSm/view

The hearing is being live tweeted by x.com/tribunaltweets and there's additional information here: tribunaltweets.substack.com/p/peggie-vs-fife-health-board-and-dr-005 and tribunaltweets.substack.com/p/peggie-vs-fife-health-board-and-dr-bd6. This also has threadreaderapp archives of live-tweeting of the sessions of the hearing for those who can't follow on Twitter, for example: archive.ph/WSSjg.

An alternative to Twitter is to use Nitter: nitter.net/tribunaltweets or nitter.poast.org/tribunaltweets

Links to previous threads #1 to #40 can be found in this thread: mumsnet.com/talk/womensrights/5379717-sandie-peggie-list-of-threads-covering-employment-tribunal-and-afterwards

Thread 41: mumsnet.com/talk/womensrights/5379334-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-and-dr-beth-upton-thread-41 24 July 2025 to 25 July 2025
Thread 42: mumsnet.com/talk/womensrights/5379820-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-and-dr-beth-upton-thread-42 25 July 2025 to 25 July 2025
Thread 43: mumsnet.com/talk/womensrights/5379979-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-and-dr-beth-upton-thread-43 25 July 2025 to 27 July 2025
Thread 44: mumsnet.com/talk/womensrights/5380196-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-and-dr-beth-upton-thread-44 25 July 2025 to 28 July 2025
Thread 45: mumsnet.com/talk/womensrights/5381518-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-and-dr-beth-upton-thread-45 28 July 2025 to 28 July 2025
Thread 46: mumsnet.com/talk/womensrights/5381640-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-and-dr-beth-upton-thread-46 28 July 2025 to 29 July 2025

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Gabcsika · 29/07/2025 14:41

Is JRs line of questioning actually landing anything?

WomenShouldStillWinWomensSportsIsBack · 29/07/2025 14:41

crumpet · 29/07/2025 14:39

I don’t think anyone has suggested the use of the word is a good thing in the slightest. People are sharing their experiences as to when and how they have heard it used. I haven’t seen anyone suggest that it is appropriate.

Exactly. 🤷‍♀️

OverlyFragrant · 29/07/2025 14:41

DCorMe · 29/07/2025 14:39

My British Pakistani friends use it about each other as a reclaiming. They are in their 50s

My Pakistani heritage BIL has a family group chat called the 'P's at 113. I believe it's tongue in cheek. Who am I to judge and tell them it's offensive.

nomas · 29/07/2025 14:41

WomenShouldStillWinWomensSportsIsBack · 29/07/2025 14:39

You said "white people or anyone else". You didn't exclusively say white people. I didn't defend that it was ok for anyone to do it. I pointed out (as others have and you've dismissed them) that there is evidence that contradicted what you said. Getting upset and crying racism at people trying to explain something by providing actual evidence is just daft.

By other people I clearly meant other non-Pakistanis, as you very well know.

I'm not upset, I'm disgusted.

ickky · 29/07/2025 14:41

I must say I haven't had a slip of the tongue like that.

ThatCyanCat · 29/07/2025 14:41

Jerabilis · 29/07/2025 14:39

I think we often don't realise how quickly our society has moved in certain areas.

I was rewatching London's Burning recently - this ran from 1988 to 2002 and I was absolutely shocked by the levels of sexism and racism that were shown. Yet at the time I don't recall anything other than it being a pretty normal TV show.

I'm only in my early forties but definitely heard our village newsagents being referred to as the P* shop growing up.

There are episodes of Friends that are now considered unacceptable. It does move fast.

Keenovay · 29/07/2025 14:42

The "Would you put bacon into a mosque" line of questioning is giving me Chris Morris in The Day Today vibes.

WomenShouldStillWinWomensSportsIsBack · 29/07/2025 14:42

Gabcsika · 29/07/2025 14:41

Is JRs line of questioning actually landing anything?

I think it's trying to show SP as a bigot. TBF she's doing a fairly good job of that.

ItsCoolForCats · 29/07/2025 14:42

Is Sandie the last witness? Have they confirmed that Gina is a no show?

MarieDeGournay · 29/07/2025 14:42

country illegally
JR So you stand by no 4 . Send them back
SP Illegal immigrants.
JR Someone growing up in Britain, told they're a P, might be very upset.
SP Wouldn't be my intention to offend people or to let anyone see it outside my group of very close friends.

chilling19 · 29/07/2025 14:42

GreenFriedTomato · 29/07/2025 14:39

One thing for sure is that she won't be despised by everyone.
I reckon she'll have the support of those who are anti illegal immigration. Of which there are many.

👆

Rightsraptor · 29/07/2025 14:42

@nomas: some of us are just trying to draw a picture of the history of such terms. In my case, my father happily used P*ki, my sister and I wouldn't never have used it and still less our children. That's not justification of our father or anyone else using terms like that. I hope we have moved on.

nomas · 29/07/2025 14:43

Appalonia · 29/07/2025 14:16

The Scotsman
Ms Peggie’s lawyer Naomi Cunningham is asking her about a message she sent in the Benidorm group chat - this message contains a series of jokes about the Pakistani floods. The nurse is asked where the jokes came from and she says “presumably they came from Facebook”.
Ms Peggie said: “Looking at them they’re distasteful.
“At the time they were sent in dark humour, expecting a shocked reaction from the girls.”
She is also asked about using the word Pki regularly whilst growing up. Ms Peggie said: “Yes, it was a normal word we used, like going to the shop, to the Pkis, it was a normal word we used.
“I had my first job in a shop called Pki Ali’s and I worked there for a year and had a good relationship with Ali. I socialised in a pub, The Country Inn in Kirkcaldy, and it was owned at the time by a Pki called Jav, that was just how we described [them].
“Pakistani is the politically correct word, but I grew up using P*ki and they were quite happy at the time.”

Joking about the victims of the Pakistani floods is absolutely awful.

A pp said racists need safe spaces too and I agree, but the evidence shows she is also a nasty piece of work.

MarieDeGournay · 29/07/2025 14:43

JR Reads another joke. Holding up to ridicule
SP Y J
R LN says you often say things like this. eg P**i (edited by MNHQ)
SP It's how I was brought up and sometimes say Paki
JR And Chinese people as Chinkies SP Chinatown. We have a lot of people, chinese restaurants, we got on very well

Charabanc · 29/07/2025 14:43

ItsCoolForCats · 29/07/2025 14:42

Is Sandie the last witness? Have they confirmed that Gina is a no show?

It wasn't going to be Gina Who Likes A Drink. It was Sandra someone.

Have they mentioned if she's cancelled? Can they compel her, or prob decided not enough time?

TimeForATerf · 29/07/2025 14:43

devildeepbluesea · 29/07/2025 14:22

Same here. I must be of an age with SP and those terms were commonplace. I lived in Cardiff’s commuter belt, one of the most multicultural cities, and still it was rife.

Agree, I am in my 50's, grew up in West Yorkshire and it was normal day to day speak even when I started my second job in Bradford. I only really recall it becoming unacceptable when DS was small, he's 31.

Internaut · 29/07/2025 14:44

WomenShouldStillWinWomensSportsIsBack · 29/07/2025 13:48

She purposely mispronounced the names of people to make it clear she didn't like them, like a petulant child. Totally unprofessional.

How do we know it was on purpose?

Boiledbeetle · 29/07/2025 14:44

NC and judge having a snippy moment

FloridaCat · 29/07/2025 14:44

Lins77 · 29/07/2025 14:40

My mum who left school at 15 told me off in no uncertain terms when she heard me (innocently) using a racist word that I'd heard from a neighbour. This was in the mid 70s, I was about 7.

Both my parents left school at 14. I remember being in primary school and telling another kid off for calling a boy the n word. My parents taught me it was wrong from an early age. This would be early 70s.

Rhaidimiddim · 29/07/2025 14:45

myplace · 29/07/2025 14:32

I think it’s really helpful to hear how widespread and normal the usage was, and without ill intent.

Obviously we understand that even without ill intent, it is still racist and has negative ramifications.

But that’s not always obvious until it’s explained.

If it was without ill intent, how could it be racist?

At some point, this particular term became associated with racist views, and at that point decent peopke stopped using it so as to distance themselves from the NF and so as not to offend people of Pakistani origin.

I would argue the term in question became racist at some point, but wasn't before.

KnottyAuty · 29/07/2025 14:45

NebulousSupportPostcard · 29/07/2025 14:17

SP seems quite young to be saying the use of P was normal growing up. I am similar age and grew up feeling ashamed that the word was used by some in my family when I knew fully from a young age that it was very wrong.

In North East Scotland referring to the P-shop and the C-takeaway was completely regular speech and Sandie will defo have been brought up with this - as will all the other locals. Common usage has reduced significantly over time as I’ve got older/more educated but maybe it’s still been around more than I was aware.

SirChenjins · 29/07/2025 14:45

@nomas Not justifying - explaining its usage back in the 70s and 80s.

Do I condone SP et al's behaviour re this? Absolutely not - it's appalling that this is still seen as humour. However, as Jimmy Carr gets laughs at his 'joke' about 14 year olds giving him blowjobs I guess humour really is subjective.

DrSpartacularsMagnificentOctopus · 29/07/2025 14:45

Concern about illegal immigration is not an outlier viewpoint.

WomenShouldStillWinWomensSportsIsBack · 29/07/2025 14:45

nomas · 29/07/2025 14:41

By other people I clearly meant other non-Pakistanis, as you very well know.

I'm not upset, I'm disgusted.

Sorry, I'm actually not inside your head, I have to take the words on the screen as what you meant. 🤷‍♀️ I'm not engaging with this derail anymore, plenty have explained what they meant to you. No one has said using that word is ok (as many have said to you).

MarieDeGournay · 29/07/2025 14:45

SP Chinkie, not derogatory, someone who goes to restaurant and eat the food. JR people might be upset
SP Never heard that from my chinese neighbours
JR [ c people going back to their own country]
SP I've only ever said that about illegal immigrants.
SP I have no problem with people coming across to work.
JR [to doc] There's an image, Please look, and another. Posted by close family member c trans people. You said you don't share these views. Not true.
SP Don't share

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