I can hypothetically accept Tandora’s theory.
We have people whose body has developed in a stereotypical male/female way, yet epigenetics and hormones means their nervous system responds differently from most.
We also have people with DSDs- people whose physical development didn’t complete consistently.
And of course the majority category- everything happens typically, male or female.
We know a tiny proportion of the second category could go through life unaware of their DSD until they attempt to have children. At that point, it will become apparent.
However, society organises around binary sex - the third category- regardless of that first category. There are manifold reasons for that, and the feelings of the people in that first category are irrelevant. To support their feelings we could redevelop language as they’ve asked, and refer to people who are cis and everyone else.
AT THAT POINT the world would still be organised exactly as it is, around sexed bodies. Single sex spaces would match for cissex and category 2 people would still not be allowed in the space of their choice. They would still need to go to the sexed single space of their body.
So Tandora, it just isn’t relevant. The men with trans identities offend according to their sex body, not their innate specialness. So they still get to go in with all the other men, not with the women.
Big it’s an interesting field of study and I wish you well with it. Let us know when you find something relevant.