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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Swivel eyed transphobes

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TonTonMacoute · 19/07/2025 14:42

Apparently it's people who don't believe you can magically change sex who are the loonies! Who knew?

www.telegraph.co.uk/politics/2025/07/19/transphobes-swivel-eyed-says-labour-mp-leaked-audio/

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JimmyNailsCrocodileShoes · 21/07/2025 11:21

illinivich · 21/07/2025 11:16

The quiet ones are quietly changing their id, quietly using wonens spaces, quiety influencing government policies. Quiety reporting women for misgendering.

I think they are more likely taking stock and making sure they don't overstep any boundaries to be honest.

illinivich · 21/07/2025 11:24

The whole point of 'transitioning' is is to live as the opposite sex. How is that possible without harming women and children?

illinivich · 21/07/2025 11:30

Activists want to promote the idea that there is a way for a man to become a women.

A few years ago it was via a 'meaningful' transition- they cut their penises off.

Now its the idea that they are doing it respectfully- that they have thought long and hard before they do it, but do it anyway.

JimmyNailsCrocodileShoes · 21/07/2025 11:33

illinivich · 21/07/2025 10:56

Gay men who transition are just as dangerous to women and children as the straight men who transition.

And its just as sexually motivated for gay men as straight men.

The difference is between female and male transitioners.

Every that ive read about agp vs other trans identified men seems to be about how well they pass to men, if straight men find them attractive or reasonable.

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In what way are gay men who transition more harmful to women and children than gay men who don't transition?

thatsthewayitis · 21/07/2025 11:35

I've had experience with trans people; namely men pushing their way into my lesbian social groups. I've seen both types, young gay men pretending to be women and the middle aged male who cut off his testicles to pretend to be a woman.
They all act like entitled narcissistic obnoxious men. The young gay ones complained about me making a harmless joke "who'd want to be a man" getting me thrown out of the group and forced to apologize. The older one regaled us with charming stories of how he had his penis cut off and how his daughter didn't want him to come to her wedding in women's clothes.
Our comfort, desire for privacy meant nothing to them. There are no 'nice' trans people. The sad female ones have mental health problems, whether lesbian or straight. Stop being kind and deluding yourselves.

illinivich · 21/07/2025 11:38

JimmyNailsCrocodileShoes · 21/07/2025 11:33

In what way are gay men who transition more harmful to women and children than gay men who don't transition?

Gay men aren't claiming its possible to change sex, they don't come into female spaces, they arent trying to remove sex as a class?

JimmyNailsCrocodileShoes · 21/07/2025 11:57

thatsthewayitis · 21/07/2025 11:35

I've had experience with trans people; namely men pushing their way into my lesbian social groups. I've seen both types, young gay men pretending to be women and the middle aged male who cut off his testicles to pretend to be a woman.
They all act like entitled narcissistic obnoxious men. The young gay ones complained about me making a harmless joke "who'd want to be a man" getting me thrown out of the group and forced to apologize. The older one regaled us with charming stories of how he had his penis cut off and how his daughter didn't want him to come to her wedding in women's clothes.
Our comfort, desire for privacy meant nothing to them. There are no 'nice' trans people. The sad female ones have mental health problems, whether lesbian or straight. Stop being kind and deluding yourselves.

Well you don't like men of any variety whether gay, straight or trans. You commented about your dislike of gay men, can't remember if it was this thread or another one so you're definitely not going to like any trans identified men.

illinivich · 21/07/2025 12:28

Its such an odd rebuttal, jimmy.

Its as if we liked men enough we'd be happy to let them hide their sex?

Annoyedone · 21/07/2025 12:31

JimmyNailsCrocodileShoes · 21/07/2025 11:33

In what way are gay men who transition more harmful to women and children than gay men who don't transition?

gay men who don’t transition are not demanding access to women’s spaces are they? Gay men who don’t transition aren’t demanding women change their language to accommodate them. It doesn’t matter what sexuality a man is, he doesn’t belong in women’s spaces.

CandidLurker · 21/07/2025 12:31

Thanks for linking to this. I might do a follow up email to say this is what your more sensible colleagues are saying. I can also use some of this wording in my complaint about Tim to the Labour Party.

TonTonMacoute · 21/07/2025 12:38

JimmyNailsCrocodileShoes · 21/07/2025 11:10

No not women. That's why the quiet ones have now got to speak up for themselves and drown out the loud ones. I do think things are changing already since the SC ruling.

The trouble is that most of the quiet ones Mumsnetters come across are trying to join women's walking groups, yoga groups, want to join women only swimming sessions - but always in a very quiet way.

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thatsthewayitis · 21/07/2025 12:39

illinivich · 21/07/2025 12:28

Its such an odd rebuttal, jimmy.

Its as if we liked men enough we'd be happy to let them hide their sex?

Exactly.
I happened to have had a wonderful supportive father who was a devoted husband to my loving mother. And my family's male friends were all respectful of women.
There is no nice man, gay or straight, who forces their way into women-only groups, sports, changing rooms...

OldCrone · 21/07/2025 12:53

JimmyNailsCrocodileShoes · 21/07/2025 11:33

In what way are gay men who transition more harmful to women and children than gay men who don't transition?

Is this a genuine question?

Just the reinforcement of regressive gender stereotyping would be enough - that being a woman is all about how they look and behave, rather than the reality that being a woman is just being a human being with a female body. But it's all about sex for them. This is an example of what Paris Lees thinks being a woman is all about.

I Love Wolf-Whistles and Catcalls – Am I a Bad Feminist?

If you don't understand how pushing the idea that being a woman is all about being fucked is harmful to women, I can't help you.

OldCrone · 21/07/2025 12:58

JimmyNailsCrocodileShoes · 21/07/2025 11:10

No not women. That's why the quiet ones have now got to speak up for themselves and drown out the loud ones. I do think things are changing already since the SC ruling.

The quiet ones were the ones who got the GRA2004 passed. Christine Burns has boasted about how quietly they got the law passed which eventually led to where we are now.

Jan Morris quietly abused his wife and daughter while we were all thinking he was a harmless, quiet transwoman just getting on with his life.

Jan Morris was a trans pioneer — and a cruel parent

Jan Morris was a trans pioneer — and a cruel parent

The reporter and travel writer’s gender reassignment caused a sensation in the 1970s, but at home she refused to answer her children’s questions. The Jan they knew was neglectful, bullying and sexist, writes her daughter Suki Morys

https://www.thetimes.com/uk/article/jan-morris-was-a-trans-pioneer-and-a-cruel-parent-9x82s5cg9

OldCrone · 21/07/2025 13:00

JimmyNailsCrocodileShoes · 21/07/2025 11:19

You don't know that.

Since it's what they've always done, I think we can be fairly sure that that's what they're doing now.

OldCrone · 21/07/2025 13:09

JimmyNailsCrocodileShoes · 21/07/2025 10:33

I really think it's an over generalisation to say it's always a sexual thing. It's sex as in people with dysphoria feeling like they should be the other sex, but not always sexual as in getting sexual gratification from it. Yes the AGP's do but they are a separate group. I appreciate a lot of people have fixed views that all trans people are the same.

You won't find many people here saying all trans people are the same.

I should have been clearer in my post that I was talking about male transsexuals. Women do have very different reasons for transitioning. Children who identify as trans have been brainwashed (how can you be a transsexual when you don't have any experience of sex or even really understand what sex is?)

Children are a very convenient cover for male transitioners, particularly the older heterosexual ones (AGPs), so they have pushed the idea of 'trans kids', helped by hordes of useful idiots who think they're 'being kind'.

illinivich · 21/07/2025 13:15

The idea the different men are motivated by different reasons to transition, and want to do different things is of interest to therapists, not women.

I don't want men to follow girls into changing rooms because it'll embarrass girls, i dont want them in womens sport because it disadvantages women. I dont care if theyve had operations, or changed id, or are attracted to men, or they have decided that they pass.

Its not about how the men feel, its about how women feel.

JimmyNailsCrocodileShoes · 21/07/2025 16:36

Annoyedone · 21/07/2025 12:31

gay men who don’t transition are not demanding access to women’s spaces are they? Gay men who don’t transition aren’t demanding women change their language to accommodate them. It doesn’t matter what sexuality a man is, he doesn’t belong in women’s spaces.

I haven't said anywhere that I think men of any description should be in women's spaces, sports etc etc because I don't think they should. What I've been trying to say is now that we've had the SC ruling it's time for the 'quiet' trans people to make themselves heard over the loud mouthed and abusive TRA's and shut them down so that everyone can just get on with their lives without bothering anyone else, especially women. You could accuse me of trying to be too positive but I do believe things are very slowly shifting. But those ordinary trans people need to take a stand now and show themselves to be decent people because I believe many of them are judging by my own experience. I'm sorry if I haven't made myself clear that I think men of any description have any place in women's spaces

JimmyNailsCrocodileShoes · 21/07/2025 16:39

thatsthewayitis · 21/07/2025 12:39

Exactly.
I happened to have had a wonderful supportive father who was a devoted husband to my loving mother. And my family's male friends were all respectful of women.
There is no nice man, gay or straight, who forces their way into women-only groups, sports, changing rooms...

I don't disagree with you at all. I'm not sure why anyone thinks I'm advocating for men in women's spaces?

JimmyNailsCrocodileShoes · 21/07/2025 16:39

Annoyedone · 21/07/2025 12:31

gay men who don’t transition are not demanding access to women’s spaces are they? Gay men who don’t transition aren’t demanding women change their language to accommodate them. It doesn’t matter what sexuality a man is, he doesn’t belong in women’s spaces.

I agree

JimmyNailsCrocodileShoes · 21/07/2025 16:42

illinivich · 21/07/2025 12:28

Its such an odd rebuttal, jimmy.

Its as if we liked men enough we'd be happy to let them hide their sex?

I just don't have a dislike of all trans identified men unless they are the type that encroach on women. I believe there are some decent ones. No one has to agree with me! I like to try and see that positive change could come but that's just me

Annoyedone · 21/07/2025 16:43

JimmyNailsCrocodileShoes · 21/07/2025 16:39

I don't disagree with you at all. I'm not sure why anyone thinks I'm advocating for men in women's spaces?

So you are of the opinion that all males with a trans identity should stay out of women’s spaces? I totally agree.

JimmyNailsCrocodileShoes · 21/07/2025 16:45

Annoyedone · 21/07/2025 16:43

So you are of the opinion that all males with a trans identity should stay out of women’s spaces? I totally agree.

Yes I'm of that opinion, absolutely. That also includes any man whether they are straight, trans or what the hell else!

JimmyNailsCrocodileShoes · 21/07/2025 16:49

illinivich · 21/07/2025 13:15

The idea the different men are motivated by different reasons to transition, and want to do different things is of interest to therapists, not women.

I don't want men to follow girls into changing rooms because it'll embarrass girls, i dont want them in womens sport because it disadvantages women. I dont care if theyve had operations, or changed id, or are attracted to men, or they have decided that they pass.

Its not about how the men feel, its about how women feel.

Again I agree with this. I think I've probably not explained myself very well so I'll leave it at that but to be clear finally no men in women's spaces the end full stop!

JimmyNailsCrocodileShoes · 21/07/2025 17:17

OldCrone · 21/07/2025 12:58

The quiet ones were the ones who got the GRA2004 passed. Christine Burns has boasted about how quietly they got the law passed which eventually led to where we are now.

Jan Morris quietly abused his wife and daughter while we were all thinking he was a harmless, quiet transwoman just getting on with his life.

Jan Morris was a trans pioneer — and a cruel parent

Do you have an archive link at all please?

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