Transwomen are male, though, every single one of them - by definition.
I'm not generally scared of men, either.....but I don't want to get changed around strange men, nor do I want to find them in female only facilities, and i don't want for my daughter or grandaughter to have to be compromised in that way, either.
Good, decent men stay out of women's private spaces; it is the ones who keep pushing and insisting in spite of being told " No"...that are the problem.