First, this “trans people fly under the radar and no-one can tell” stuff is pure nonsense. Everyone can tell. They are just going along with it/being polite/feigning. The pp who said they are polite people who don’t want any trouble is completely correct.
IMO, the high co-incidence of trans identification with being autistic or on the spectrum means that some transactivists misread others’ politeness and social pretence of “not noticing” as actual not knowing. I’ve been in many situations where I could absolutely tell and not said anything out of politeness. That doesn’t mean the person wasn’t “clocked” by everyone the instant they walked in. Plus, everyone’s scared of doing something to cause a complaint against them by the trans person, so they walk on eggshells not to offend. This doesn’t, however, mean that the trans person “passes”. It’s laughable that no-one in someone’s workplace knows they’re trans; and to avoid trouble they’ll find everyone does a big pretence of “not knowing” because no-body wants to be reported to HR or whatever by an aggrieved TW.
Just one result of living a pretend life is that when you do achieve the aim of making everyone pretend along with you, it’s extremely foolish to take the pretence as real. But the more you do it, the more nobody wants to be the one puncturing the bubble and upsetting the one-person Truman Show. I’m not sure I’d want to live a life where I could never be sure if people were pretending to me or being truthful, and it’s quite puzzling to me that some people apparently do?
Second, this “eliminationist” rhetoric is not just arrant nonsense, but hyperbole and poor taste in the extreme. In fact, it goes well beyond poor taste into extreme bad judgment and clear bad faith. Is it not obvious to you, @BeeSouriante, that equating women objecting to men in the loos to the gas chambers is not just an appalling thing to say, but likely instantly to lose you the support of most normal people?
The OTT rhetoric of the usual run of the mill “transperbole” is bad enough anyway, without making it genuinely offensive. Do you not see how making equivalences to the Holocaust badly damages your case and alienates right-thinking people? Here’s a bit of free advice: trans activists should stop doing this ASAP because it’s about the most offensive and counterproductive thing they could manage. They won’t listen, though, because they are their own worst enemies (operation let them speak, anyone?)
It’s so grossly offensive to compare women saying “no, you aren’t actually a woman” to mass murder that it’s genuinely amazing anyone has to say this. However, as it instantly undermines your argument and makes you all look genuinely detached from reality in an unhinged and dangerous way, who am I to try to stop you?
This is a “movement” built on pretence, gross hyperbole and lies from start to finish.