oh hi Bee! Thank you for engaging!
Have you considered reading the post you replied to? Notably this paragraph:
(How do I know if a poster is male or female? Because the TRA-side women at some point usually say "I'm a cis woman and I don't feel like you do", mention a lovely friend, then disappear in a cloud of sadness and damp hankies, and the men usually say "I'm a trans woman and I'm here to tell you why you are wrong".)
I'm not saying I know you are male because of how you post, I'm saying it's an interesting pattern in posters who I know are male 😂
Not sure what you mean about "Feminist" - do you think it's somehow UnFeminist to notice that men and women are socialised and treated differently and this leads to different patterns of behaviour, often to the advantage of men and the detriment of women? Because I think that's one of the crucial insights of Feminism and why I am so gender critical. Gender hurt us all, but it hurts women especially by pushing us into playing the exact roles that disadvantage us.
Also, now we are talking: what do you feel about the eliminationism of Female People by a political and social movement that seeks openly and proudly to remove our rights, invalidate our voices and delegitimise our moral right to control which sex is allowed to touch us?
Because Female people exist.
And whatever your personal definition of a "woman" might be, as a trans woman the group of female people does not include you and this remains true whatever you may change in language or in law.
So all I want to understand is why is it so important to you that a group of people who you don't even belong to, who have nothing to do your definition of "woman", who by number alone have historically been marginalised, exploited and abused more consistently than any other group of humans, whose problems are different to the problems you may or may not face, be denied legal rights, social acceptance and even our own name and language with which to speak of our own experiences?
Why is it so important to you to take away the tools we need to fight our historic and onoing marginalisation, abuse and oppression, things that are nothing to do with you or womanhood as you experience it but are centred in our female bodies and how society treats us because of them?
Because honestly, I'd really love to know.