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Christmasmorale · 19/06/2025 09:46

TooSquaretobehip · 19/06/2025 09:44

The paradox is you are the one claiming Caster received flak because in your eyes it's about his racial looks. This says more about you than anything. It was his height, lack of hips, philtrum width, male jaw etc that gave it away. Not whether he looked 'masculine' or 'feminine'.

You give away your own racism there.

Scratch a TRA and you'll always find a virulent racist.

I know many black women, including family who look like her. But go on and tell me what I as a black women think black women should look like...

Ereshkigalangcleg · 19/06/2025 09:47

Christmasmorale · 19/06/2025 09:46

I know many black women, including family who look like her. But go on and tell me what I as a black women think black women should look like...

He’s a man. It’s been proven in court.

Helleofabore · 19/06/2025 09:47

BettyBooper · 19/06/2025 09:29

He was on Triggernometry podcast not long ago saying the trans thing had gone too far. He changes his mind according to his audience.

I thought this was what I remembered too. I think he plays to whatever audience he wishes to appease.

2021x · 19/06/2025 09:48

Christmasmorale · 19/06/2025 09:45

And this is why I hate discussing these issues on mumsnet. White feminists and their failure to have any sort of nuanced discussion on race or feminism shouldn't still shock me but here we are...

Why are you being racist?

Trans people have not been oppressed in the way that Black Americans were. They are not linked. Stop trying to link them as a way of not answering a simple question .

Ereshkigalangcleg · 19/06/2025 09:48

Helleofabore · 19/06/2025 09:47

I thought this was what I remembered too. I think he plays to whatever audience he wishes to appease.

Exactly, as I said, just attention seeking. On JKR’s coattails.

TooSquaretobehip · 19/06/2025 09:48

Christmasmorale · 19/06/2025 09:46

I know many black women, including family who look like her. But go on and tell me what I as a black women think black women should look like...

It's not her. He is a he. Who admitted he is male with 5-ARD, and who fathered children with his own sperm from his testicles.

And suddenly saying I am a black woman when your racism is called out isn't convincing.

Helleofabore · 19/06/2025 09:48

Christmasmorale · 19/06/2025 09:46

I know many black women, including family who look like her. But go on and tell me what I as a black women think black women should look like...

Caster Semenya is a male person with the DSD 5ARD. This has been proven in court.

zanahoria · 19/06/2025 09:49

I note he does not give one example of what she has said to state why he disagrees with her.

It is just moralizing about what a bad person she is

TheOtherRaven · 19/06/2025 09:49

2021x · 19/06/2025 09:48

Why are you being racist?

Trans people have not been oppressed in the way that Black Americans were. They are not linked. Stop trying to link them as a way of not answering a simple question .

Oh but if you don't hurl dead cats, straw men and red herrings in all directions, there's no way to maintain the nonsense and try and shame everyone into submission, be fair.

2021x · 19/06/2025 09:49

Christmasmorale · 19/06/2025 09:46

I know many black women, including family who look like her. But go on and tell me what I as a black women think black women should look like...

I don’t k who any black women that look like her.

I know a few black men that do though.

TooSquaretobehip · 19/06/2025 09:50

.

Stephen Fry - What a repulsive, condescending misogynistic turd
tobee · 19/06/2025 09:50

When these people speak out like this it's just more to add to the file The Trans Rights Movement is a men's rights movement. There's no difference. Just using another line in PR

2021x · 19/06/2025 09:51

TheOtherRaven · 19/06/2025 09:49

Oh but if you don't hurl dead cats, straw men and red herrings in all directions, there's no way to maintain the nonsense and try and shame everyone into submission, be fair.

WTF are you saying?

Name me one white athlete who competed in the women’s world championships that was male?

BettyBooper · 19/06/2025 09:52

Christmasmorale · 19/06/2025 09:46

I know many black women, including family who look like her. But go on and tell me what I as a black women think black women should look like...

No one is talking about what black women should look like. CS is a man!

Christmasmorale · 19/06/2025 09:52

Ereshkigalangcleg · 19/06/2025 09:45

Caster Semenya is a man with a DSD only found in male people. This has been established beyond all doubt by a court. Imane Khelif is highly likely to have the same DSD. Hope this helps @Christmasmorale

We know this now. After humiliating her publicly. She ws determined a girl at birth with the medical knowledge available to her community at the time because her testes were internal.

We don't know the same of white female athletes who are also DSD, because the tests are only done after the female athletes are accused. And the athletes are accused in a structure that sees white ideals of beauty as female beauty - so other races will more likely be deemed as not meeting those standards and then subjected to the testing.

I'm not sure if you're purposely missing the point. The hysteria on this topic exists within racist structures and then affects other races in a way it does not affect white people. The hysteria vilifies and affects individuals, some of whom find out they are not biologically women at the same time as the world. How is this right or humane?

FriedGold32 · 19/06/2025 09:53

I'd like Stephen to explain to me what the comedy is in the episodes of Blackadder that feature Gabrielle Glaister as Bob.

Because in Stephen's current world the episodes make no comedic sense at all. This obvious woman is saying she's a man, the rest of the characters are taking her at face value and the audience is laughing. Why are they laughing? Please explain it to me Stephen. Deradicalise me.

Helleofabore · 19/06/2025 09:53

Christmasmorale · 19/06/2025 09:41

No it's all interlinked. White feminism views white women's issues at the top and its minority people that get pushed to the side.

Take Caster Semenya - there are likely many white intersex female athletes - we don't know since currently the test is not standardised cheek swabs but, does she look like a man? This is where race comes in because the white beauty standard is pervasive, so eyeballing manliness results in ethnic minority women failing the 'is she really a man' test.

These ethnic minorities are then at the receiving end of a very public backlash for matters they often will have had little control over (i.e. Dutee Chand, Khelif) since they will have been raised as a girl since birth. So when race issues and feminism collide, it's not nice to see people like JKR vilifying those who are also victims of racism, a controlling society, and medical failures in the name of protecting women. The issue can be discussed without public humiliation of individuals, and with a nuanced discourse about the other issues such as race at play.

Khelif has also been tested and has been found to be a male person.

Indeed, this below is one of the very arguments used to convince the IOC to stop sex testing in the late 1990s.

These ethnic minorities are then at the receiving end of a very public backlash for matters they often will have had little control over (i.e. Dutee Chand, Khelif) since they will have been raised as a girl since birth.

This very argument led to two male boxers punching female boxers in the face in the 2024 Paris Olympics.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 19/06/2025 09:54

I’m not missing the point at all. Caster Semenya isn’t female. That’s the point.

ThatCyanCat · 19/06/2025 09:54

Christmasmorale · 19/06/2025 09:46

I know many black women, including family who look like her. But go on and tell me what I as a black women think black women should look like...

It doesn't matter what you look like, it doesn't matter what your friends and family look like. Caster is a man and that is fact. You are ten years behind the times on this one, even the TRAs mostly accept the fact on this and instead try to argue that there's no male athletic advantage but we should still keep female sports so men can be affirmed as women by competing in them. Keep up.

TheOtherRaven · 19/06/2025 09:54

2021x · 19/06/2025 09:51

WTF are you saying?

Name me one white athlete who competed in the women’s world championships that was male?

I was agreeing with you!

SquashedMallow · 19/06/2025 09:55

I'll be honest: I used to absolutely love Stephen Fry. Really admire him.

But he seems to have changed.

What I admired was the fact he was gay was the least identifiable thing about him. He didn't ever really bring his sexuality into things.

Now, he seems to have jumped on the modern bandwagon and I think it's to his detriment.

I've read all of Stephen Fry's autobiographies and the 'smarmy' and 'obnoxious ' way he comes across is hides very deep rooted insecurity and self hatred - and I do believe him there.

But I don't like what I see as a hostile and patronising attitude towards women. He made a comment once upon a time (it was on the lines of finding vaginas pointless and disgusting in a sexual capacity)

Gay men don't fancy women or female bodies - I get that. But there's no need to mock or belittle or air repulsion at the female form. He may as well have said "women are pointless and silly"

He's not the only gay man that gives of those vibes : Elton John gives me those vibes too. I think some gay men really sneer at female sexuality.

BettyBooper · 19/06/2025 09:56

2021x · 19/06/2025 09:51

WTF are you saying?

Name me one white athlete who competed in the women’s world championships that was male?

Well there was that partially sighted bloke who ran in the women's Paras....

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 19/06/2025 09:57

PopeJoan2 · 19/06/2025 09:33

He has mixed feelings - like many of us. I support trans women. I also feel that some spaces should be cis female* only. It is possible to hold 2 conflicting ideas in the mind.

*I use the term for convenience and its use demonstrates how complicated this issue is.

It would have been perfectly clear if you had just said "women".

Boiledbeetle · 19/06/2025 09:58

Christmasmorale · 19/06/2025 09:46

I know many black women, including family who look like her. But go on and tell me what I as a black women think black women should look like...

Caster is a man.

Igneococcus · 19/06/2025 09:58

Christmasmorale · 19/06/2025 09:52

We know this now. After humiliating her publicly. She ws determined a girl at birth with the medical knowledge available to her community at the time because her testes were internal.

We don't know the same of white female athletes who are also DSD, because the tests are only done after the female athletes are accused. And the athletes are accused in a structure that sees white ideals of beauty as female beauty - so other races will more likely be deemed as not meeting those standards and then subjected to the testing.

I'm not sure if you're purposely missing the point. The hysteria on this topic exists within racist structures and then affects other races in a way it does not affect white people. The hysteria vilifies and affects individuals, some of whom find out they are not biologically women at the same time as the world. How is this right or humane?

Which could be avoided by genetically testing sports people at the start
of their careers before or when they start to compete internationally. And we absolutely have the ability and sequencing capacity to do that.

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