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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Reflections on Trans Arguments

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LimeFinch · 18/06/2025 16:17

I've noticed a lot of general discourse about trans people that is based on misinformation, some of it dangerous, most of it born out of ignorance, so here's a handy reference to counter some of the claims I've seen.

Trans People are extremist! That's wot I done heard!
Transgender extremism doesn't exist - it's just a right-wing talking point used to discredit legitimate healthcare and equality efforts.
https://www.amnesty.org.uk/press-releases/uk-un-view-trans-rights-much-needed-common-sense
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2024/apr/11/hilary-cass-trans-children-review
https://www.theguardian.com/world/2024/feb/02/gender-critical-beliefs-under-the-microscope

Puberty Blockers are Dangerous! My total lack of medical knowledge says so!
Puberty blockers are often lifesaving interventions. They're prescribed only after long assessments involving NHS gender clinics, parents, and specialists. They are fully reversible and shown to reduce the risk of suicide in young people with persistent gender dysphoria.
https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/gender-dysphoria/treatment
https://www.england.nhs.uk/wp-content/uploads/2024/03/tonic-psh-consultation-analysis-report.pdf
https://www.bmj.com/content/386/bmj.q1638.short
https://www.rcpch.ac.uk/resources/interim-service-specification-specialist-gender-dysphoria-services-consultation-response
https://www.rcpch.ac.uk/news-events/news/rcpch-responds-publication-final-report-cass-review

I Heard They're Changing Kids' Genitalia!
No people under 18 are getting genital surgery in the UK. NHS policy and private clinics alike restrict this to adults.
Indeed, more cisgender teens receive breast reduction surgery on the NHS than trans teens receive chest masculinisation surgery. The procedures follow similar approval processes, yet only one group is routinely scrutinised.
https://pure.johnshopkins.edu/en/publications/breast-surgery-in-adolescents-cisgender-breast-reduction-versus-t
https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2025/02/10/revealed-thousands-of-trans-surgeries-carried-out-by-nhs/

They're in Women's Sports! I read it on teh internets!
There are only a small number of openly trans athletes competing at a professional level in the world, and none are dominating their fields.
https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/61346517
https://feeds.bbci.co.uk/sport/athletics/65051900

But, but, but, Women's Sports! No men!
Sex-segregated sports were historically introduced to exclude women, not because men were being beaten. The idea that it was about fairness is a myth.
https://www.theguardian.com/football/2022/jun/13/how-the-fa-banned-womens-football-in-1921-and-tried-to-justify-it
https://research.birmingham.ac.uk/en/publications/health-gender-and-inequality-in-sport-a-historical-perspective

Ok, but Trans-women are Stronger. That ain't Fair!
There is no consistent biological advantage for trans women in elite sport. Oestrogen therapy significantly reduces muscle mass, strength and performance over time. Regulations often require minimum hormone levels and transition periods before competing.
https://bjsm.bmj.com/content/55/15/865
https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/olympics/59312313

Trans-Women are Men!!!!!! Any fule knowe that!
Identity is personal. “Man”, “woman”, “boy”, and “girl” are social roles - that’s gender. Not to be confused with biological sex - male and female. No trans woman claims to be biologically female, and no trans man claims to be biologically male. That’s another right-wing straw man argument.
https://www.equalityhumanrights.com/media-centre/interim-update-practical-implications-uk-supreme-court-judgment
https://www.stonewall.org.uk/resources/lgbtq-hubs/trans-hub/the-truth-about-trans

Trans History is Different to Women's History
The idea that trans women have a “separate history” to cis women echoes the same tactics once used to exclude Black women and disabled women from womanhood.
https://blog.bham.ac.uk/socialsciencesbirmingham/2024/03/08/international-womens-day-trans-women-cannot-be-left-behind/
https://www.disabilityrightsuk.org/news/trans-and-disability-justice-how-are-our-struggles-linked
Tall women, Black women, trans women - these are all adjectives describing different types of women. Every woman’s experience of womanhood is unique. If you exclude trans women from being women, what condition are you using to define womanhood? There isn’t one necessary condition. So trans women cannot be excluded from womanhood on this basis.

Trans-Women are Men in Dresses! I read it in the Daily Mail!
Crossdressing is not the same as being trans. Many cis men crossdress and are not trans.
https://fiorry.co/glossary/crossdresser/

But Anybody can be Trans in an Instant! I'm scared!
The risk of coming out as trans due to internalised homophobia and sexism is a real thing but is not as common as many would have you believe. That’s why the NHS has a structured care pathway with long waiting times and assessments. No one can simply walk in and access hormones or surgery. Many people are left in limbo for years unless they are in crisis or suicidal.
https://www.england.nhs.uk/long-read/referral-pathway-for-children-and-young-peoples-gender-services-community-and-hospital-paediatric-services/
https://transactual.org.uk/trans-lives-21/

Organisations are Convincing Kids They're Trans! Think of the Children!
No one is trying to “convince” people they’re trans. If you feel deep discomfort with the sex you were assigned at birth, you might be trans - but that’s for you to explore, not for anyone else to decide. The queer community is generally very good at spotting people who are dealing with internalised issues - no one wants anyone to transition unless it’s truly needed. This whole “kids being convinced” thing is another empty scare story.
https://transactual.org.uk/healthcare-professionals/inclusive-healthcare/
https://www.england.nhs.uk/long-read/referral-pathway-for-children-and-young-peoples-gender-services-community-and-hospital-paediatric-services/

Now, I'm very aware of the MN reputation for shutting down the threads - and removing the accounts - of anyone who doesn't go along with the anti-trans-hate-cult, but for the short time this thread remains up it's worth taking some time to actually look at the links, to think about the status of trans-women in the current society, and consider how this judgement - and the subsequent interpretation of the same by those who are a little hard of thinking - might reflect on us as self-assumed rational, reasonable human beings.

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Datun · 20/06/2025 12:54

LostInCatsFur · 20/06/2025 12:48

I have a trans daughter - that doesn't equal being anti-women. Most of the threads on here are about trans people. It just really surprises me that a feminist board can't find anything else to talk about.

It's not feminist chat. Crikey. It's the sex and gender board. That's what it's for. If you want feminist chat, go on it.

LostInCatsFur · 20/06/2025 12:57

Datun · 20/06/2025 12:54

It's not feminist chat. Crikey. It's the sex and gender board. That's what it's for. If you want feminist chat, go on it.

What, a whole board just to talk about trans people 🤣 how odd

SternJoyousBee · 20/06/2025 12:59

No, a whole board to talk about sex and gender. Can’t you read?

JuneJustRains · 20/06/2025 13:00

LostInCatsFur · 20/06/2025 12:57

What, a whole board just to talk about trans people 🤣 how odd

It's a board to discuss sex and gender as they affect women's rights, and therefore it discusses sex and gender as they affect women's rights.

It's no odder than the 56 million threads discussing the Archers.

lechiffre55 · 20/06/2025 13:00

SternJoyousBee · 20/06/2025 12:59

No, a whole board to talk about sex and gender. Can’t you read?

All the evidence on display so far suggests not.

GetDressedYouMerryGentlemen · 20/06/2025 13:01

LostInCatsFur · 20/06/2025 12:48

I have a trans daughter - that doesn't equal being anti-women. Most of the threads on here are about trans people. It just really surprises me that a feminist board can't find anything else to talk about.

Well what happened was the was lots of general feminist debate and talk of women's rights and as one of the biggest pressures on women's rights was the trans movement so of the talk was about the impact of the trans movement it. As MN was about the only place it was being discussed the activists and the easily triggered complained and complained and complained. Rather than shutting ilus down MN hived all the debate into a separate little naughty corner so the complainers could be told if they didn't like it they could avoid it. Or in short this board was created to round us all up together and keep our talk safely contained so no-one with lady feelz got the vapours.
We only talk about this aspect of feminism on this board because this board is specifically for such conversations. There is a general feminist board for all other topics.

LostInCatsFur · 20/06/2025 13:01

It says:

'A feminism forum for sex and gender discussions, feminist chat, theory and intersectional feminism.'

So I would have thought there was a bit more to it

JuneJustRains · 20/06/2025 13:02

I do have sympathy; if you have a child identifying as the opposite sex, the family dynamics must be tricky

One of mine did, briefly. One of my nieces (approximate relationship) still does.

Both remain the sex they were born.

SternJoyousBee · 20/06/2025 13:03

If you don’t like it here you can fuck of someplace more suited to you. No one is keeping you hostage.

D- for poor attempt at scolding

JuneJustRains · 20/06/2025 13:04

LostInCatsFur · 20/06/2025 13:01

It says:

'A feminism forum for sex and gender discussions, feminist chat, theory and intersectional feminism.'

So I would have thought there was a bit more to it

There are two subdivisions to it. "Feminist Chat" is the other one. I'm not sure anyone bothered to edit the headings!

Theeyeballsinthesky · 20/06/2025 13:09

JuneJustRains · 20/06/2025 13:04

There are two subdivisions to it. "Feminist Chat" is the other one. I'm not sure anyone bothered to edit the headings!

They didn’t though I do believe we did ask. I’m sure Cats is completely aware there is a feminism chat board, they just don’t get to scold ppl on there

Greyskybluesky · 20/06/2025 13:11

Better watch out if you nip over to the Feminist Chat board though @LostInCatsFur

There are some discussions on trans issues over there too!

MyAmpleSheep · 20/06/2025 13:13

GetDressedYouMerryGentlemen · 20/06/2025 13:01

Well what happened was the was lots of general feminist debate and talk of women's rights and as one of the biggest pressures on women's rights was the trans movement so of the talk was about the impact of the trans movement it. As MN was about the only place it was being discussed the activists and the easily triggered complained and complained and complained. Rather than shutting ilus down MN hived all the debate into a separate little naughty corner so the complainers could be told if they didn't like it they could avoid it. Or in short this board was created to round us all up together and keep our talk safely contained so no-one with lady feelz got the vapours.
We only talk about this aspect of feminism on this board because this board is specifically for such conversations. There is a general feminist board for all other topics.

i.e. Corral everyone interested in discussing a topic without censorship into one corner of one site on the net, then scold contributors there “because that’s all they ever talk about”?

LostInCatsFur · 20/06/2025 13:14

GetDressedYouMerryGentlemen · 20/06/2025 13:01

Well what happened was the was lots of general feminist debate and talk of women's rights and as one of the biggest pressures on women's rights was the trans movement so of the talk was about the impact of the trans movement it. As MN was about the only place it was being discussed the activists and the easily triggered complained and complained and complained. Rather than shutting ilus down MN hived all the debate into a separate little naughty corner so the complainers could be told if they didn't like it they could avoid it. Or in short this board was created to round us all up together and keep our talk safely contained so no-one with lady feelz got the vapours.
We only talk about this aspect of feminism on this board because this board is specifically for such conversations. There is a general feminist board for all other topics.

Ok, thanks. Makes sense. If you look at the heading for this board it does say what I posted which was why I was surprised that nothing else seemed to be talked about. I get it now you've explained

LostInCatsFur · 20/06/2025 13:16

SternJoyousBee · 20/06/2025 13:03

If you don’t like it here you can fuck of someplace more suited to you. No one is keeping you hostage.

D- for poor attempt at scolding

OK

LostInCatsFur · 20/06/2025 13:18

Greyskybluesky · 20/06/2025 13:11

Better watch out if you nip over to the Feminist Chat board though @LostInCatsFur

There are some discussions on trans issues over there too!

I'm obviously interested in some trans issues but not exclusively that

LostInCatsFur · 20/06/2025 13:19

JuneJustRains · 20/06/2025 13:02

I do have sympathy; if you have a child identifying as the opposite sex, the family dynamics must be tricky

One of mine did, briefly. One of my nieces (approximate relationship) still does.

Both remain the sex they were born.

It's not always easy

LostInCatsFur · 20/06/2025 13:22

Anyway I will fuck off as requested

cranberryshortcake · 20/06/2025 13:22

This is moronic.

Transwomen are men so they have an advantage in sport.

Marriage was historically about ownership, do you think that means women now don’t want to get married?

So stupid.

BeLemonNow · 20/06/2025 13:23

Why does it matter if a lot - though not all -- the threads are tran related. I was just on a thread about discrimination against lesbians.

But I ended up on this forum because I was googling the Sandie Peggie case and found a thread here that linked live transcripts of what was actually been said. Having read that shocker I came on board to discuss it.

As a result I've changed and clarified my view on some issues (or you would probably say "been radicalised" ha ha ha). Broadly speaking same sex provision is very important to me.

It's not just discussion women on here do a great job I.e. their audit on effectively mixed sex wards.

Greyskybluesky · 20/06/2025 13:24

LostInCatsFur · 20/06/2025 13:18

I'm obviously interested in some trans issues but not exclusively that

So read and/or comment on the ones you're interested in and ignore the others. Don't call posters names e.g. "hypocritical", for discussing what they want to discuss.

It's not hard.

5128gap · 20/06/2025 13:28

LostInCatsFur · 20/06/2025 12:57

What, a whole board just to talk about trans people 🤣 how odd

A great deal of change has been demanded of society and women in particular by those advocating for trans peoples rights. From the words we use to describe ourselves, to sharing private spaces with the opposite sex. I don't think its disproportionate that there is one board on the whole of this site where its discussed. I mean, there's a board to discuss cats on here.

Weefreetiffany · 20/06/2025 13:29

Such contempt for women coming off this diatribe

JuneJustRains · 20/06/2025 13:35

LostInCatsFur · 20/06/2025 13:19

It's not always easy

I get the urge to jump in whenever anyone has a rant about autism.

I have to remind myself that nobody here has met my autistic child or loves him like I do, and that their comments aren't aimed at him. Your child isn't responsible for the bad behaviour of every, or any, other transgender person.

Datun · 20/06/2025 13:35

LostInCatsFur · 20/06/2025 12:57

What, a whole board just to talk about trans people 🤣 how odd

Bloody hell seriously, it's really not all about you

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