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Reflections on Trans Arguments

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LimeFinch · 18/06/2025 16:17

I've noticed a lot of general discourse about trans people that is based on misinformation, some of it dangerous, most of it born out of ignorance, so here's a handy reference to counter some of the claims I've seen.

Trans People are extremist! That's wot I done heard!
Transgender extremism doesn't exist - it's just a right-wing talking point used to discredit legitimate healthcare and equality efforts.
https://www.amnesty.org.uk/press-releases/uk-un-view-trans-rights-much-needed-common-sense
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2024/apr/11/hilary-cass-trans-children-review
https://www.theguardian.com/world/2024/feb/02/gender-critical-beliefs-under-the-microscope

Puberty Blockers are Dangerous! My total lack of medical knowledge says so!
Puberty blockers are often lifesaving interventions. They're prescribed only after long assessments involving NHS gender clinics, parents, and specialists. They are fully reversible and shown to reduce the risk of suicide in young people with persistent gender dysphoria.
https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/gender-dysphoria/treatment
https://www.england.nhs.uk/wp-content/uploads/2024/03/tonic-psh-consultation-analysis-report.pdf
https://www.bmj.com/content/386/bmj.q1638.short
https://www.rcpch.ac.uk/resources/interim-service-specification-specialist-gender-dysphoria-services-consultation-response
https://www.rcpch.ac.uk/news-events/news/rcpch-responds-publication-final-report-cass-review

I Heard They're Changing Kids' Genitalia!
No people under 18 are getting genital surgery in the UK. NHS policy and private clinics alike restrict this to adults.
Indeed, more cisgender teens receive breast reduction surgery on the NHS than trans teens receive chest masculinisation surgery. The procedures follow similar approval processes, yet only one group is routinely scrutinised.
https://pure.johnshopkins.edu/en/publications/breast-surgery-in-adolescents-cisgender-breast-reduction-versus-t
https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2025/02/10/revealed-thousands-of-trans-surgeries-carried-out-by-nhs/

They're in Women's Sports! I read it on teh internets!
There are only a small number of openly trans athletes competing at a professional level in the world, and none are dominating their fields.
https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/61346517
https://feeds.bbci.co.uk/sport/athletics/65051900

But, but, but, Women's Sports! No men!
Sex-segregated sports were historically introduced to exclude women, not because men were being beaten. The idea that it was about fairness is a myth.
https://www.theguardian.com/football/2022/jun/13/how-the-fa-banned-womens-football-in-1921-and-tried-to-justify-it
https://research.birmingham.ac.uk/en/publications/health-gender-and-inequality-in-sport-a-historical-perspective

Ok, but Trans-women are Stronger. That ain't Fair!
There is no consistent biological advantage for trans women in elite sport. Oestrogen therapy significantly reduces muscle mass, strength and performance over time. Regulations often require minimum hormone levels and transition periods before competing.
https://bjsm.bmj.com/content/55/15/865
https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/olympics/59312313

Trans-Women are Men!!!!!! Any fule knowe that!
Identity is personal. “Man”, “woman”, “boy”, and “girl” are social roles - that’s gender. Not to be confused with biological sex - male and female. No trans woman claims to be biologically female, and no trans man claims to be biologically male. That’s another right-wing straw man argument.
https://www.equalityhumanrights.com/media-centre/interim-update-practical-implications-uk-supreme-court-judgment
https://www.stonewall.org.uk/resources/lgbtq-hubs/trans-hub/the-truth-about-trans

Trans History is Different to Women's History
The idea that trans women have a “separate history” to cis women echoes the same tactics once used to exclude Black women and disabled women from womanhood.
https://blog.bham.ac.uk/socialsciencesbirmingham/2024/03/08/international-womens-day-trans-women-cannot-be-left-behind/
https://www.disabilityrightsuk.org/news/trans-and-disability-justice-how-are-our-struggles-linked
Tall women, Black women, trans women - these are all adjectives describing different types of women. Every woman’s experience of womanhood is unique. If you exclude trans women from being women, what condition are you using to define womanhood? There isn’t one necessary condition. So trans women cannot be excluded from womanhood on this basis.

Trans-Women are Men in Dresses! I read it in the Daily Mail!
Crossdressing is not the same as being trans. Many cis men crossdress and are not trans.
https://fiorry.co/glossary/crossdresser/

But Anybody can be Trans in an Instant! I'm scared!
The risk of coming out as trans due to internalised homophobia and sexism is a real thing but is not as common as many would have you believe. That’s why the NHS has a structured care pathway with long waiting times and assessments. No one can simply walk in and access hormones or surgery. Many people are left in limbo for years unless they are in crisis or suicidal.
https://www.england.nhs.uk/long-read/referral-pathway-for-children-and-young-peoples-gender-services-community-and-hospital-paediatric-services/
https://transactual.org.uk/trans-lives-21/

Organisations are Convincing Kids They're Trans! Think of the Children!
No one is trying to “convince” people they’re trans. If you feel deep discomfort with the sex you were assigned at birth, you might be trans - but that’s for you to explore, not for anyone else to decide. The queer community is generally very good at spotting people who are dealing with internalised issues - no one wants anyone to transition unless it’s truly needed. This whole “kids being convinced” thing is another empty scare story.
https://transactual.org.uk/healthcare-professionals/inclusive-healthcare/
https://www.england.nhs.uk/long-read/referral-pathway-for-children-and-young-peoples-gender-services-community-and-hospital-paediatric-services/

Now, I'm very aware of the MN reputation for shutting down the threads - and removing the accounts - of anyone who doesn't go along with the anti-trans-hate-cult, but for the short time this thread remains up it's worth taking some time to actually look at the links, to think about the status of trans-women in the current society, and consider how this judgement - and the subsequent interpretation of the same by those who are a little hard of thinking - might reflect on us as self-assumed rational, reasonable human beings.

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BackToLurk · 19/06/2025 14:39

RedToothBrush · 19/06/2025 14:37

Most GCSE and A Levels finish this week don't they? And most uni students have also finished.

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Clearly my herding student days are behind me 😂

RalphWiggumsCrayon · 19/06/2025 14:40

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They already have the same rights and freedoms as the rest of us. They want extras. They want to take away women's rights.

RedToothBrush · 19/06/2025 14:40

Sealion invasion!

Reflections on Trans Arguments
Ereshkigalangcleg · 19/06/2025 14:41

I see the saddo bot jockeys are here.

RedToothBrush · 19/06/2025 14:41

BackToLurk · 19/06/2025 14:39

Clearly my herding student days are behind me 😂

I've got friends who have their children's post GCSE prom photos up on FB... Its a clue.

Helleofabore · 19/06/2025 14:41

RedToothBrush · 19/06/2025 14:35

I declare that 'The Matterhorn' has officially reached legendary status as a reference point.

I agree!! It was certainly ‘hitting the spot’ in descriptiveness.

Aliflowers · 19/06/2025 14:42

Puberty blockers are often lifesaving interventions. They're prescribed only after long assessments involving NHS gender clinics, parents, and specialists

Like in this case. Doesn’t look like much long term assessment went on here.

https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/ce397vzkyvdo.amp

The utter cheek to come here and try to convince informed women of your arguments with “facts” that are so easily refuted it’s laughable. You tried so hard to lecture us with a pinch of condescension but bless, you just don’t seem intelligent enough for that

The outside of WellBN in Brighton. It is a grey-painted building with half-frosted windows and a rainbow wiggly line - its logo - on the sign.

Gender treatment at Brighton GP practice under investigation - BBC News

NHS probes Brighton GP practice over gender care for under-18s and a support line has been launched.

https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/ce397vzkyvdo.amp

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 19/06/2025 14:43

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It's not possible to be feminist and prioritise the wants of penis people over the needs of vagina people, which is what trans activists demand we do.

The truly remarkable thing about trans ideology - and once you see it, you can't unsee it - is that every single permutation and consequence of it benefits male born people and disadvantages or is at best neutral for female born people.

This applies irrespective of what anyone is identifying as or calling themselves.

The most obvious example is in sport.

Trans women have taken hormones and been allowed to compete in women's sporting categories despite still having a massive advantage over female athletes, allowing mediocre male athletes to perform well in women's categories. Meanwhile trans men have to make a choice between hormones and sport, because if they take testosterone they will be banned from all competitive sports including in men's categories, even though taking testosterone does not give them a physical advantage over men's.

Heads, the penis people win, tails, the vagina people lose.

Anyone who peddles this ideological bullshit can piss off, and if they peddle it whilst calling themselves a feminist, they can piss off some more.

RedToothBrush · 19/06/2025 14:44

I think we need to replace sealions. Its getting dated.

'Rent a Quote' Matterhorning?

A form of pseudo-intellectual virtue signaling with tissues.

DialSquare · 19/06/2025 14:44

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Parklife

DiamondThrone · 19/06/2025 14:44

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Are you not going to answer any of replies to your tedious list of links?

Or, to put it in pretentious words you might prefer, Are you declining to opine on previous salient points?

WinterTrees · 19/06/2025 14:44

I recognise the pompous, pseudo-intellectual-yet-chatty, self-satisfied tone of LimeFinch's posts, and the quite niche use of 'any fule kno'...

Could it be our favourite performative knitter and extreme porn advocate?

RedToothBrush · 19/06/2025 14:46

WinterTrees · 19/06/2025 14:44

I recognise the pompous, pseudo-intellectual-yet-chatty, self-satisfied tone of LimeFinch's posts, and the quite niche use of 'any fule kno'...

Could it be our favourite performative knitter and extreme porn advocate?

Who cares?

catastrophickitchen · 19/06/2025 14:46

I'm off to make some cookies. A much more productive use of a person's time.

RedToothBrush · 19/06/2025 14:48

catastrophickitchen · 19/06/2025 14:46

I'm off to make some cookies. A much more productive use of a person's time.

So is taking a shit, tbf.

BackToLurk · 19/06/2025 14:50

I have questions @LimeFinch

Why did you support a claim about NHS surgical provision with a piece about US figures?

Why do you not appear to understand that many of the links you provided, as detailed through this thread, didn't say what you appeared to think they said?

Why did you completely ignore any reply that provided direct evidence of the inaccuracy of your 'points' e.g. "No trans woman claims to be biologically female"

Who are the 'we' and 'us' in your previous post?

RedToothBrush · 19/06/2025 14:57

Why did you support a claim about NHS surgical provision with a piece about US figures?

Please don't ask sensible intelligent questions. The OP will only have to ignore them.

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 19/06/2025 14:58

I’m pretty sure now that this is performance art. This is my mental image of the OP:

Beowulfa · 19/06/2025 14:59

The OP hasn't included the main "anti trans" argument- and that's the sad fact that we are all embittered dried-up hags with unshaven legs and sensible shoes; desperately fearful that transwomen will steal our men with their vastly superior pouty and tilty version of womanhood. It's what the Supreme Court judges were really discussing.

DiamondThrone · 19/06/2025 15:01

Beowulfa · 19/06/2025 14:59

The OP hasn't included the main "anti trans" argument- and that's the sad fact that we are all embittered dried-up hags with unshaven legs and sensible shoes; desperately fearful that transwomen will steal our men with their vastly superior pouty and tilty version of womanhood. It's what the Supreme Court judges were really discussing.

Yes, we're all terrified that all those "cute" (it's always "cute" they call themselves in their selfies) transwomen will take our menfolk away.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 19/06/2025 15:08

Beowulfa · 19/06/2025 14:59

The OP hasn't included the main "anti trans" argument- and that's the sad fact that we are all embittered dried-up hags with unshaven legs and sensible shoes; desperately fearful that transwomen will steal our men with their vastly superior pouty and tilty version of womanhood. It's what the Supreme Court judges were really discussing.

"Dried up" is a bit rich coming from people whose neo vaginas don't self lubricate.

Oldfashioneddinosaur · 19/06/2025 15:10

ninjahamster · 18/06/2025 16:28

You are brave posting this! FWIW I agree with the points you make.

Not sure brave would be the adjective I would use

lechiffre55 · 19/06/2025 15:12

Beowulfa · 19/06/2025 14:59

The OP hasn't included the main "anti trans" argument- and that's the sad fact that we are all embittered dried-up hags with unshaven legs and sensible shoes; desperately fearful that transwomen will steal our men with their vastly superior pouty and tilty version of womanhood. It's what the Supreme Court judges were really discussing.

You forgot the girly pillowfight sleepovers and really swishy dresses. Not just swishy dresses but really, held up by giggling magic pixies flying around holding the hem, swishy dresses.
My preferred word for pouty tilty heads in this context is cockettish please.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 19/06/2025 15:15

Datun · 19/06/2025 14:26

I know, right. I think it's the one in the Wonder Woman outfit 🤣

Haha 🤣

Myalternate · 19/06/2025 15:21

Who are the 'we' and 'us' in your previous post?

🖐️ Please can I answer?

They’re the Reddit crew …

Their homework was to pick a topic - we know the only topic is themselves.
Think of a question. - same as always. No original thought.
Attach random articles without oversight as evidenced by the articles presented.

and submit it to the Master…

0/10 Really must do better.
Research, research, research!