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Reflections on Trans Arguments

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LimeFinch · 18/06/2025 16:17

I've noticed a lot of general discourse about trans people that is based on misinformation, some of it dangerous, most of it born out of ignorance, so here's a handy reference to counter some of the claims I've seen.

Trans People are extremist! That's wot I done heard!
Transgender extremism doesn't exist - it's just a right-wing talking point used to discredit legitimate healthcare and equality efforts.
https://www.amnesty.org.uk/press-releases/uk-un-view-trans-rights-much-needed-common-sense
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2024/apr/11/hilary-cass-trans-children-review
https://www.theguardian.com/world/2024/feb/02/gender-critical-beliefs-under-the-microscope

Puberty Blockers are Dangerous! My total lack of medical knowledge says so!
Puberty blockers are often lifesaving interventions. They're prescribed only after long assessments involving NHS gender clinics, parents, and specialists. They are fully reversible and shown to reduce the risk of suicide in young people with persistent gender dysphoria.
https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/gender-dysphoria/treatment
https://www.england.nhs.uk/wp-content/uploads/2024/03/tonic-psh-consultation-analysis-report.pdf
https://www.bmj.com/content/386/bmj.q1638.short
https://www.rcpch.ac.uk/resources/interim-service-specification-specialist-gender-dysphoria-services-consultation-response
https://www.rcpch.ac.uk/news-events/news/rcpch-responds-publication-final-report-cass-review

I Heard They're Changing Kids' Genitalia!
No people under 18 are getting genital surgery in the UK. NHS policy and private clinics alike restrict this to adults.
Indeed, more cisgender teens receive breast reduction surgery on the NHS than trans teens receive chest masculinisation surgery. The procedures follow similar approval processes, yet only one group is routinely scrutinised.
https://pure.johnshopkins.edu/en/publications/breast-surgery-in-adolescents-cisgender-breast-reduction-versus-t
https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2025/02/10/revealed-thousands-of-trans-surgeries-carried-out-by-nhs/

They're in Women's Sports! I read it on teh internets!
There are only a small number of openly trans athletes competing at a professional level in the world, and none are dominating their fields.
https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/61346517
https://feeds.bbci.co.uk/sport/athletics/65051900

But, but, but, Women's Sports! No men!
Sex-segregated sports were historically introduced to exclude women, not because men were being beaten. The idea that it was about fairness is a myth.
https://www.theguardian.com/football/2022/jun/13/how-the-fa-banned-womens-football-in-1921-and-tried-to-justify-it
https://research.birmingham.ac.uk/en/publications/health-gender-and-inequality-in-sport-a-historical-perspective

Ok, but Trans-women are Stronger. That ain't Fair!
There is no consistent biological advantage for trans women in elite sport. Oestrogen therapy significantly reduces muscle mass, strength and performance over time. Regulations often require minimum hormone levels and transition periods before competing.
https://bjsm.bmj.com/content/55/15/865
https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/olympics/59312313

Trans-Women are Men!!!!!! Any fule knowe that!
Identity is personal. “Man”, “woman”, “boy”, and “girl” are social roles - that’s gender. Not to be confused with biological sex - male and female. No trans woman claims to be biologically female, and no trans man claims to be biologically male. That’s another right-wing straw man argument.
https://www.equalityhumanrights.com/media-centre/interim-update-practical-implications-uk-supreme-court-judgment
https://www.stonewall.org.uk/resources/lgbtq-hubs/trans-hub/the-truth-about-trans

Trans History is Different to Women's History
The idea that trans women have a “separate history” to cis women echoes the same tactics once used to exclude Black women and disabled women from womanhood.
https://blog.bham.ac.uk/socialsciencesbirmingham/2024/03/08/international-womens-day-trans-women-cannot-be-left-behind/
https://www.disabilityrightsuk.org/news/trans-and-disability-justice-how-are-our-struggles-linked
Tall women, Black women, trans women - these are all adjectives describing different types of women. Every woman’s experience of womanhood is unique. If you exclude trans women from being women, what condition are you using to define womanhood? There isn’t one necessary condition. So trans women cannot be excluded from womanhood on this basis.

Trans-Women are Men in Dresses! I read it in the Daily Mail!
Crossdressing is not the same as being trans. Many cis men crossdress and are not trans.
https://fiorry.co/glossary/crossdresser/

But Anybody can be Trans in an Instant! I'm scared!
The risk of coming out as trans due to internalised homophobia and sexism is a real thing but is not as common as many would have you believe. That’s why the NHS has a structured care pathway with long waiting times and assessments. No one can simply walk in and access hormones or surgery. Many people are left in limbo for years unless they are in crisis or suicidal.
https://www.england.nhs.uk/long-read/referral-pathway-for-children-and-young-peoples-gender-services-community-and-hospital-paediatric-services/
https://transactual.org.uk/trans-lives-21/

Organisations are Convincing Kids They're Trans! Think of the Children!
No one is trying to “convince” people they’re trans. If you feel deep discomfort with the sex you were assigned at birth, you might be trans - but that’s for you to explore, not for anyone else to decide. The queer community is generally very good at spotting people who are dealing with internalised issues - no one wants anyone to transition unless it’s truly needed. This whole “kids being convinced” thing is another empty scare story.
https://transactual.org.uk/healthcare-professionals/inclusive-healthcare/
https://www.england.nhs.uk/long-read/referral-pathway-for-children-and-young-peoples-gender-services-community-and-hospital-paediatric-services/

Now, I'm very aware of the MN reputation for shutting down the threads - and removing the accounts - of anyone who doesn't go along with the anti-trans-hate-cult, but for the short time this thread remains up it's worth taking some time to actually look at the links, to think about the status of trans-women in the current society, and consider how this judgement - and the subsequent interpretation of the same by those who are a little hard of thinking - might reflect on us as self-assumed rational, reasonable human beings.

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DiamondThrone · 19/06/2025 13:59

BeLemonNow · 19/06/2025 13:56

Well at least the OP came back. I wasn't expecting that...

Drop off a load of links, invite the uneducated Karens to read them and fail to respond to any of their arguments.

Instead respond to anything they say as being slow and uneducated, therefore attacking the individual rather than the argument.

Unfortunately that's what many TRAs do, attack the individual who disagrees. Sometimes violently.

That's not education. Education requires critical thinking and the ability to engage in discussions.

He's only popped back in because he's busy "educating" people on the Stephen Fry thread, and it's not going quite as well as he might have hoped. The pesky wimmins have not seen the light, so far.

BackToLurk · 19/06/2025 13:59

@LimeFinch

"I found all them long words and complicated statements tricky. Plus, there was am awful lot of links to read."

Clearly too many links for you to read, or you’d have noticed many were irrelevant to or contradicted your ‘points’.

DiamondThrone · 19/06/2025 14:01

potpourree · 19/06/2025 13:56

The person who is not engaging with their replies is - you.

I think that's the joke - it's a bit shit - but someone pretends to be a terrible trans advocate, plops to post links that don't back up the weird 'claims', then ignores and doesn't engage then pretends that's what feminists do.

I mean it doesn't quite work, but comedy is subjective.

This is the only logical explanation. Excellent work on the GC behalf, OP! 👏

potpourree · 19/06/2025 14:01

DiamondThrone · 19/06/2025 13:59

He's only popped back in because he's busy "educating" people on the Stephen Fry thread, and it's not going quite as well as he might have hoped. The pesky wimmins have not seen the light, so far.

Nah, it's clearly a joke. There is literally no way anyone with opposable thumbs and enough brain cells to embolden text would not say any of this with a straight face.

Like I said, slightly reminiscent of the Anita Dobson thread a few years ago, started off seemingly earnest, getting increasingly ironic and silly until it was locked...

Fingernailbiter · 19/06/2025 14:05

LimeFinch · 19/06/2025 13:31

Or, put another way, "I found all them long words and complicated statements tricky. Plus, there was am awful lot of links to read."

Don't worry, we get it. But take heart, the nice thing about education when you're an adult is you don't have to engage with it or admit you find it challenging. You can just ignore it. Or, better still, why not make yourself feel cleverer than you are by chirruping along with what you perceive as the crowd?

Meanwhile, back over in the rational world, the number of private, positive reactions to the OP perfectly satisfy us that this thread, and the statements provided - and backed up - at the outset, have merit. 😘

So when people disagree with you, you just assume they aren’t clever enough to understand brilliant you.

You're sounding more like an arrogant, entitled man - men? - every minute. It would be funny if it wasn’t so pathetic.

Helleofabore · 19/06/2025 14:05

Oh that is wonderful OP!!!

So, you have archived and saved the posts that provide the very information that argued that your OP was full of misinformation! I am really pleased because anyone reading this thread will finish it with many links to information that showed the flaws in those arguments. And if it is used to 'educate' others... wonderful. Bring it on... maybe we will stop seeing such weak and flawed arguments.

And ... thanks for confirming what many of us suspected.

Livpool · 19/06/2025 14:05

It is incredibly racist and ableist to put black and disabled women into the same category as trans women

RedToothBrush · 19/06/2025 14:07

LimeFinch · 19/06/2025 13:31

Or, put another way, "I found all them long words and complicated statements tricky. Plus, there was am awful lot of links to read."

Don't worry, we get it. But take heart, the nice thing about education when you're an adult is you don't have to engage with it or admit you find it challenging. You can just ignore it. Or, better still, why not make yourself feel cleverer than you are by chirruping along with what you perceive as the crowd?

Meanwhile, back over in the rational world, the number of private, positive reactions to the OP perfectly satisfy us that this thread, and the statements provided - and backed up - at the outset, have merit. 😘

You are new around here aren't you?

Here's the thing, we understand the concept of 'good faith posters' and forms of seal lioning and scolding.

The second link is an opinion piece column. Its not journalism. So you think an opinion piece is more credible than a government sanctioned independant review of the treatment of gender questioning children.

We don't need to click those links.

Try reading a book rather than guardian opinion columns. Hannah Barnes investigative journalism book into the Tavistock is one I'd recommend. Or is that a bit too long and complicated for you?

Some of us have actually read every page of the Cass Review too, rather than some activist column in the guardian saying its rubbish.

Also, you might want to check the history on this because you say that being trans isn't cross dressing. The problem here being that Stonewall themselves. They had the trans umbrella at one point and decided to include transvestites as trans as part of their definitions. So perhaps take that one up with them and how their historic misinformation has been damaging rather than us.

This is the thing. You are stuck in 2018. We got educated and informed. Try harder sweetie x.

Grammarnut · 19/06/2025 14:10

This lot is one of the reasons I am GC. What a load of cock.

DiamondThrone · 19/06/2025 14:13

Grammarnut · 19/06/2025 14:10

This lot is one of the reasons I am GC. What a load of cock.

Literally 😆

Catiette · 19/06/2025 14:13

LimeFinch · 19/06/2025 13:31

Or, put another way, "I found all them long words and complicated statements tricky. Plus, there was am awful lot of links to read."

Don't worry, we get it. But take heart, the nice thing about education when you're an adult is you don't have to engage with it or admit you find it challenging. You can just ignore it. Or, better still, why not make yourself feel cleverer than you are by chirruping along with what you perceive as the crowd?

Meanwhile, back over in the rational world, the number of private, positive reactions to the OP perfectly satisfy us that this thread, and the statements provided - and backed up - at the outset, have merit. 😘

What about the many posters who have read your linked sources and shared quotations from them that show you've fundamentally misunderstood - or not read - them? (Including myself).

It's no good ignoring this and just generalising in the way you do above, if you're genuinely seeking to convince us of your superior arguments and understanding. This actually has the opposite effect - of making posts like yours above appear far more applicable to yourself.

akkakk · 19/06/2025 14:18

LostInCatsFur · 19/06/2025 13:51

Ha, have you only just noticed that? 99.9% of threads are anti trans. That is not feminism, if it was there would be a range of important subjects being discussed. I take comfort from the fact that it's the same tiny amount of posters with these views, repeated day in, day out. Therefore I cannot take it seriously. It's like a cult, they all just repeat the same things ad infinitum.

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Anti-trans?!

It is not possible to be anti something that can not exist. No-one can change sex, therefore no-one can transition, therefore it is not possible to be anti-trans.

This forum is full of people who are passionate about parity / fairness / equality / truth / accuracy / science / etc. It comes under feminism because the biggest set of people impacted by the trans lies told by Stonewall and others are women who have had their very existence denied and threatened. But... equally it could sit elsewhere as most of the replies are debunking inaccurate posts.

As for repeating the same thing again and again - that might be because the truth doesn't change.

Born a man - always a man
Born a woman - always a woman

It doesn't matter if you post 1,000 threads somehow expecting others to be subordinated to your theories - the facts remain the same, so continually you will get the same response... It is a little surprising considering that the same consistent response (factual, biological, legal, reality) each time doesn't make you stop and realise that it is the same because it sits there unvarnished in truth...

RalphWiggumsCrayon · 19/06/2025 14:21

potpourree · 19/06/2025 12:29

Remember - this is all they've got.
If they had better, they'd throw it at us. This is literally it. The sum total of how they've arrived at their really logical and ethical, inclusive belief that just happens to include bullying women.

You can see why people like fox-botherer are capitalising on it!

Oh no, I have been assured on here by one TRa poster that they have evidence and research that a man can literally become a woman. They just won't show it to me because I'm a bigot whose mind is made up, so even scientific proof won't convince me! We're just not worthy of the good stuff!

BackToLurk · 19/06/2025 14:24

Fingernailbiter · 19/06/2025 14:05

So when people disagree with you, you just assume they aren’t clever enough to understand brilliant you.

You're sounding more like an arrogant, entitled man - men? - every minute. It would be funny if it wasn’t so pathetic.

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I wonder who the 'we' are in @LimeFinch's post. The 'us' receiving all those private positive responses.

RedToothBrush · 19/06/2025 14:24

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gish_gallop

The Gish gallop is a rhetorical technique in which a person in a debate attempts to overwhelm an opponent by presenting an excessive number of arguments, without regard for their accuracy or strength, with a rapidity that makes it impossible for the opponent to address them in the time available. Gish galloping prioritizes the quantity of the galloper's arguments at the expense of their quality.

Strategy
During a typical Gish gallop, the galloper confronts an opponent with a rapid series of specious arguments, half-truths, misrepresentations and outright lies, making it impossible for the opponent to refute all of them within the format of the debate. Each point raised by the Gish galloper takes considerably longer to refute than to assert. The technique wastes an opponent's time and may cast doubt on the opponent's debating ability for an audience unfamiliar with the technique, especially if no independent fact-checking is involved, or if the audience has limited knowledge of the topics.
The difference in effort between making claims and refuting them is known as Brandolini's law or informally "the bullshit asymmetry principle". Another example is firehose of falsehoods.

Countering the Gish gallop
Mehdi Hasan, a British journalist, suggests using three steps to beat the Gish gallop:

  1. Because there are too many falsehoods to address, it is wise to choose one as an example. Choose the weakest, dumbest, most ludicrous argument that the galloper has presented and tear that argument to shreds ("the weak point rebuttal").
  2. Do not budge from the issue or move on until having decisively destroyed the nonsense and clearly made the counter point.
  3. Call out the strategy by name, saying: "This is a strategy called the 'Gish Gallop'—do not be fooled by the flood of nonsense you have just heard."

Generally, it is more difficult to use the Gish gallop in a structured debate than a free-form one. If a debater is familiar with an opponent who is known to use the Gish gallop, the technique may be countered by pre-empting and refuting the opponent's commonly used arguments before the opponent has an opportunity to launch into the Gish gallop.

Thanks for the real time lesson in Gish Gallop OP.

Its very effective. We were totally sucked in. Honest Gov.

Gish gallop - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gish_gallop

Datun · 19/06/2025 14:25

Meanwhile, back over in the rational world, the number of private, positive reactions to the OP perfectly satisfy us that this thread, and the statements provided - and backed up - at the outset, have merit.

Us?

Oh good Lord.

🤣🤣🤣

Datun · 19/06/2025 14:26

BackToLurk · 19/06/2025 14:24

I wonder who the 'we' are in @LimeFinch's post. The 'us' receiving all those private positive responses.

I know, right. I think it's the one in the Wonder Woman outfit 🤣

BackToLurk · 19/06/2025 14:30

Datun · 19/06/2025 14:26

I know, right. I think it's the one in the Wonder Woman outfit 🤣

I blame the start of GCSE study leave. Too much time on their hands

Helleofabore · 19/06/2025 14:31

I am thinking the Matterhorn is growing daily!!!

catastrophickitchen · 19/06/2025 14:32

Poster has misspelled 'Deflections' in the thread title.

Helleofabore · 19/06/2025 14:35

Awwwww!!!

I see we are all just sock puppets again for 6 feminists. Or has the number increased or decreased?

It is amazing that no matter how many polls in different countries show it, people who prioritise male people’s gender identities over female people’s needs are the majority of the population.

RedToothBrush · 19/06/2025 14:35

Helleofabore · 19/06/2025 14:31

I am thinking the Matterhorn is growing daily!!!

I declare that 'The Matterhorn' has officially reached legendary status as a reference point.

LimeFinch · 19/06/2025 14:37

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RedToothBrush · 19/06/2025 14:37

BackToLurk · 19/06/2025 14:30

I blame the start of GCSE study leave. Too much time on their hands

Most GCSE and A Levels finish this week don't they? And most uni students have also finished.

RedToothBrush · 19/06/2025 14:39

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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sealioning

Sealioning - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sealioning