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Reflections on Trans Arguments

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LimeFinch · 18/06/2025 16:17

I've noticed a lot of general discourse about trans people that is based on misinformation, some of it dangerous, most of it born out of ignorance, so here's a handy reference to counter some of the claims I've seen.

Trans People are extremist! That's wot I done heard!
Transgender extremism doesn't exist - it's just a right-wing talking point used to discredit legitimate healthcare and equality efforts.
https://www.amnesty.org.uk/press-releases/uk-un-view-trans-rights-much-needed-common-sense
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2024/apr/11/hilary-cass-trans-children-review
https://www.theguardian.com/world/2024/feb/02/gender-critical-beliefs-under-the-microscope

Puberty Blockers are Dangerous! My total lack of medical knowledge says so!
Puberty blockers are often lifesaving interventions. They're prescribed only after long assessments involving NHS gender clinics, parents, and specialists. They are fully reversible and shown to reduce the risk of suicide in young people with persistent gender dysphoria.
https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/gender-dysphoria/treatment
https://www.england.nhs.uk/wp-content/uploads/2024/03/tonic-psh-consultation-analysis-report.pdf
https://www.bmj.com/content/386/bmj.q1638.short
https://www.rcpch.ac.uk/resources/interim-service-specification-specialist-gender-dysphoria-services-consultation-response
https://www.rcpch.ac.uk/news-events/news/rcpch-responds-publication-final-report-cass-review

I Heard They're Changing Kids' Genitalia!
No people under 18 are getting genital surgery in the UK. NHS policy and private clinics alike restrict this to adults.
Indeed, more cisgender teens receive breast reduction surgery on the NHS than trans teens receive chest masculinisation surgery. The procedures follow similar approval processes, yet only one group is routinely scrutinised.
https://pure.johnshopkins.edu/en/publications/breast-surgery-in-adolescents-cisgender-breast-reduction-versus-t
https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2025/02/10/revealed-thousands-of-trans-surgeries-carried-out-by-nhs/

They're in Women's Sports! I read it on teh internets!
There are only a small number of openly trans athletes competing at a professional level in the world, and none are dominating their fields.
https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/61346517
https://feeds.bbci.co.uk/sport/athletics/65051900

But, but, but, Women's Sports! No men!
Sex-segregated sports were historically introduced to exclude women, not because men were being beaten. The idea that it was about fairness is a myth.
https://www.theguardian.com/football/2022/jun/13/how-the-fa-banned-womens-football-in-1921-and-tried-to-justify-it
https://research.birmingham.ac.uk/en/publications/health-gender-and-inequality-in-sport-a-historical-perspective

Ok, but Trans-women are Stronger. That ain't Fair!
There is no consistent biological advantage for trans women in elite sport. Oestrogen therapy significantly reduces muscle mass, strength and performance over time. Regulations often require minimum hormone levels and transition periods before competing.
https://bjsm.bmj.com/content/55/15/865
https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/olympics/59312313

Trans-Women are Men!!!!!! Any fule knowe that!
Identity is personal. “Man”, “woman”, “boy”, and “girl” are social roles - that’s gender. Not to be confused with biological sex - male and female. No trans woman claims to be biologically female, and no trans man claims to be biologically male. That’s another right-wing straw man argument.
https://www.equalityhumanrights.com/media-centre/interim-update-practical-implications-uk-supreme-court-judgment
https://www.stonewall.org.uk/resources/lgbtq-hubs/trans-hub/the-truth-about-trans

Trans History is Different to Women's History
The idea that trans women have a “separate history” to cis women echoes the same tactics once used to exclude Black women and disabled women from womanhood.
https://blog.bham.ac.uk/socialsciencesbirmingham/2024/03/08/international-womens-day-trans-women-cannot-be-left-behind/
https://www.disabilityrightsuk.org/news/trans-and-disability-justice-how-are-our-struggles-linked
Tall women, Black women, trans women - these are all adjectives describing different types of women. Every woman’s experience of womanhood is unique. If you exclude trans women from being women, what condition are you using to define womanhood? There isn’t one necessary condition. So trans women cannot be excluded from womanhood on this basis.

Trans-Women are Men in Dresses! I read it in the Daily Mail!
Crossdressing is not the same as being trans. Many cis men crossdress and are not trans.
https://fiorry.co/glossary/crossdresser/

But Anybody can be Trans in an Instant! I'm scared!
The risk of coming out as trans due to internalised homophobia and sexism is a real thing but is not as common as many would have you believe. That’s why the NHS has a structured care pathway with long waiting times and assessments. No one can simply walk in and access hormones or surgery. Many people are left in limbo for years unless they are in crisis or suicidal.
https://www.england.nhs.uk/long-read/referral-pathway-for-children-and-young-peoples-gender-services-community-and-hospital-paediatric-services/
https://transactual.org.uk/trans-lives-21/

Organisations are Convincing Kids They're Trans! Think of the Children!
No one is trying to “convince” people they’re trans. If you feel deep discomfort with the sex you were assigned at birth, you might be trans - but that’s for you to explore, not for anyone else to decide. The queer community is generally very good at spotting people who are dealing with internalised issues - no one wants anyone to transition unless it’s truly needed. This whole “kids being convinced” thing is another empty scare story.
https://transactual.org.uk/healthcare-professionals/inclusive-healthcare/
https://www.england.nhs.uk/long-read/referral-pathway-for-children-and-young-peoples-gender-services-community-and-hospital-paediatric-services/

Now, I'm very aware of the MN reputation for shutting down the threads - and removing the accounts - of anyone who doesn't go along with the anti-trans-hate-cult, but for the short time this thread remains up it's worth taking some time to actually look at the links, to think about the status of trans-women in the current society, and consider how this judgement - and the subsequent interpretation of the same by those who are a little hard of thinking - might reflect on us as self-assumed rational, reasonable human beings.

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yoursweetpotatoesarebland · 19/06/2025 12:37

Wow op… Did you take some lessons in how to persuade people to your view point before you wrote that?

Helleofabore · 19/06/2025 12:55

Boiledbeetle · 19/06/2025 10:47

The OP has commented about this thread on a different thread.

Yes I think it is safe to be wary of this username.

teawamutu · 19/06/2025 12:56

yoursweetpotatoesarebland · 19/06/2025 12:37

Wow op… Did you take some lessons in how to persuade people to your view point before you wrote that?

I think he plugged 'School the wimmin' into ChatGPT and called it good, tbh.

Shortshriftandlethal · 19/06/2025 13:00

LimeFinch · 18/06/2025 16:17

I've noticed a lot of general discourse about trans people that is based on misinformation, some of it dangerous, most of it born out of ignorance, so here's a handy reference to counter some of the claims I've seen.

Trans People are extremist! That's wot I done heard!
Transgender extremism doesn't exist - it's just a right-wing talking point used to discredit legitimate healthcare and equality efforts.
https://www.amnesty.org.uk/press-releases/uk-un-view-trans-rights-much-needed-common-sense
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2024/apr/11/hilary-cass-trans-children-review
https://www.theguardian.com/world/2024/feb/02/gender-critical-beliefs-under-the-microscope

Puberty Blockers are Dangerous! My total lack of medical knowledge says so!
Puberty blockers are often lifesaving interventions. They're prescribed only after long assessments involving NHS gender clinics, parents, and specialists. They are fully reversible and shown to reduce the risk of suicide in young people with persistent gender dysphoria.
https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/gender-dysphoria/treatment
https://www.england.nhs.uk/wp-content/uploads/2024/03/tonic-psh-consultation-analysis-report.pdf
https://www.bmj.com/content/386/bmj.q1638.short
https://www.rcpch.ac.uk/resources/interim-service-specification-specialist-gender-dysphoria-services-consultation-response
https://www.rcpch.ac.uk/news-events/news/rcpch-responds-publication-final-report-cass-review

I Heard They're Changing Kids' Genitalia!
No people under 18 are getting genital surgery in the UK. NHS policy and private clinics alike restrict this to adults.
Indeed, more cisgender teens receive breast reduction surgery on the NHS than trans teens receive chest masculinisation surgery. The procedures follow similar approval processes, yet only one group is routinely scrutinised.
https://pure.johnshopkins.edu/en/publications/breast-surgery-in-adolescents-cisgender-breast-reduction-versus-t
https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2025/02/10/revealed-thousands-of-trans-surgeries-carried-out-by-nhs/

They're in Women's Sports! I read it on teh internets!
There are only a small number of openly trans athletes competing at a professional level in the world, and none are dominating their fields.
https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/61346517
https://feeds.bbci.co.uk/sport/athletics/65051900

But, but, but, Women's Sports! No men!
Sex-segregated sports were historically introduced to exclude women, not because men were being beaten. The idea that it was about fairness is a myth.
https://www.theguardian.com/football/2022/jun/13/how-the-fa-banned-womens-football-in-1921-and-tried-to-justify-it
https://research.birmingham.ac.uk/en/publications/health-gender-and-inequality-in-sport-a-historical-perspective

Ok, but Trans-women are Stronger. That ain't Fair!
There is no consistent biological advantage for trans women in elite sport. Oestrogen therapy significantly reduces muscle mass, strength and performance over time. Regulations often require minimum hormone levels and transition periods before competing.
https://bjsm.bmj.com/content/55/15/865
https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/olympics/59312313

Trans-Women are Men!!!!!! Any fule knowe that!
Identity is personal. “Man”, “woman”, “boy”, and “girl” are social roles - that’s gender. Not to be confused with biological sex - male and female. No trans woman claims to be biologically female, and no trans man claims to be biologically male. That’s another right-wing straw man argument.
https://www.equalityhumanrights.com/media-centre/interim-update-practical-implications-uk-supreme-court-judgment
https://www.stonewall.org.uk/resources/lgbtq-hubs/trans-hub/the-truth-about-trans

Trans History is Different to Women's History
The idea that trans women have a “separate history” to cis women echoes the same tactics once used to exclude Black women and disabled women from womanhood.
https://blog.bham.ac.uk/socialsciencesbirmingham/2024/03/08/international-womens-day-trans-women-cannot-be-left-behind/
https://www.disabilityrightsuk.org/news/trans-and-disability-justice-how-are-our-struggles-linked
Tall women, Black women, trans women - these are all adjectives describing different types of women. Every woman’s experience of womanhood is unique. If you exclude trans women from being women, what condition are you using to define womanhood? There isn’t one necessary condition. So trans women cannot be excluded from womanhood on this basis.

Trans-Women are Men in Dresses! I read it in the Daily Mail!
Crossdressing is not the same as being trans. Many cis men crossdress and are not trans.
https://fiorry.co/glossary/crossdresser/

But Anybody can be Trans in an Instant! I'm scared!
The risk of coming out as trans due to internalised homophobia and sexism is a real thing but is not as common as many would have you believe. That’s why the NHS has a structured care pathway with long waiting times and assessments. No one can simply walk in and access hormones or surgery. Many people are left in limbo for years unless they are in crisis or suicidal.
https://www.england.nhs.uk/long-read/referral-pathway-for-children-and-young-peoples-gender-services-community-and-hospital-paediatric-services/
https://transactual.org.uk/trans-lives-21/

Organisations are Convincing Kids They're Trans! Think of the Children!
No one is trying to “convince” people they’re trans. If you feel deep discomfort with the sex you were assigned at birth, you might be trans - but that’s for you to explore, not for anyone else to decide. The queer community is generally very good at spotting people who are dealing with internalised issues - no one wants anyone to transition unless it’s truly needed. This whole “kids being convinced” thing is another empty scare story.
https://transactual.org.uk/healthcare-professionals/inclusive-healthcare/
https://www.england.nhs.uk/long-read/referral-pathway-for-children-and-young-peoples-gender-services-community-and-hospital-paediatric-services/

Now, I'm very aware of the MN reputation for shutting down the threads - and removing the accounts - of anyone who doesn't go along with the anti-trans-hate-cult, but for the short time this thread remains up it's worth taking some time to actually look at the links, to think about the status of trans-women in the current society, and consider how this judgement - and the subsequent interpretation of the same by those who are a little hard of thinking - might reflect on us as self-assumed rational, reasonable human beings.

What a load of uniformed drivel predicated entirely on ignorance and prejudice.

LimeFinch · 19/06/2025 13:31

Shortshriftandlethal · 19/06/2025 13:00

What a load of uniformed drivel predicated entirely on ignorance and prejudice.

Or, put another way, "I found all them long words and complicated statements tricky. Plus, there was am awful lot of links to read."

Don't worry, we get it. But take heart, the nice thing about education when you're an adult is you don't have to engage with it or admit you find it challenging. You can just ignore it. Or, better still, why not make yourself feel cleverer than you are by chirruping along with what you perceive as the crowd?

Meanwhile, back over in the rational world, the number of private, positive reactions to the OP perfectly satisfy us that this thread, and the statements provided - and backed up - at the outset, have merit. 😘

OP posts:
SigourneyHoward · 19/06/2025 13:36

Bless - you do get a sticker for trying so hard. Am sure you're right about all those private, positive affirmations!

lechiffre55 · 19/06/2025 13:36

@LimeFinch
"perfectly satisfy us that this thread"
Who is "us"? Is this a group effort your side?

Shortshriftandlethal · 19/06/2025 13:37

LimeFinch · 19/06/2025 13:31

Or, put another way, "I found all them long words and complicated statements tricky. Plus, there was am awful lot of links to read."

Don't worry, we get it. But take heart, the nice thing about education when you're an adult is you don't have to engage with it or admit you find it challenging. You can just ignore it. Or, better still, why not make yourself feel cleverer than you are by chirruping along with what you perceive as the crowd?

Meanwhile, back over in the rational world, the number of private, positive reactions to the OP perfectly satisfy us that this thread, and the statements provided - and backed up - at the outset, have merit. 😘

I'm not sure why you would expect any of us silly, inferior women to understand your big, long words. You have appeared here, presumably due to this forum's renown, like a bull in a china shop; totally misunderstanding your audience and severely under-estimating them. In doing so you have made yourself appear a complete and utter tool.

There are women here from all walks of life and most are far better educated and informed than yourself. Informed enough and organised enough to have been really quite effective... so much so that their effectiveness and commitment seems to have prompted this little outburst of rather tragic hubris from you.

By the way I am a teacher - and I award your essay a c+ for effort, but a 'Fail' for composition and understanding.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 19/06/2025 13:39

LimeFinch · 19/06/2025 13:31

Or, put another way, "I found all them long words and complicated statements tricky. Plus, there was am awful lot of links to read."

Don't worry, we get it. But take heart, the nice thing about education when you're an adult is you don't have to engage with it or admit you find it challenging. You can just ignore it. Or, better still, why not make yourself feel cleverer than you are by chirruping along with what you perceive as the crowd?

Meanwhile, back over in the rational world, the number of private, positive reactions to the OP perfectly satisfy us that this thread, and the statements provided - and backed up - at the outset, have merit. 😘

But we have educated ourselves, darlin'.

That's why we're not taken in by your nonsensical gaslighting or intimidated by the barrage of links (the contents of which you clearly have not read).

How about you explain what you believe a woman is, in your own words, without linking to anyone else's?

Greyskybluesky · 19/06/2025 13:40

This fule clearly don't kno wot a woman is

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 19/06/2025 13:41

lechiffre55 · 19/06/2025 13:36

@LimeFinch
"perfectly satisfy us that this thread"
Who is "us"? Is this a group effort your side?

A bunch of nutters on Reddit, no doubt.

Hello, fans!

<waves>

It's 19th June 2025, it's a lovely sunny day in the civilised world Europe, and trans women are still men.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 19/06/2025 13:41

Greyskybluesky · 19/06/2025 13:40

This fule clearly don't kno wot a woman is

Any fule kno wot a woman is.

Every last fule came out of one.

Greyskybluesky · 19/06/2025 13:42

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 19/06/2025 13:41

Any fule kno wot a woman is.

Every last fule came out of one.

😂

RedToothBrush · 19/06/2025 13:46

HermioneWeasley · 18/06/2025 16:19

Pretty much every woman on here ended up in their gender critical stance because she “educated herself”. Bore off

Is this 2018?

I'm getting flashbacks.

Hoardasurass · 19/06/2025 13:49

LimeFinch · 19/06/2025 13:31

Or, put another way, "I found all them long words and complicated statements tricky. Plus, there was am awful lot of links to read."

Don't worry, we get it. But take heart, the nice thing about education when you're an adult is you don't have to engage with it or admit you find it challenging. You can just ignore it. Or, better still, why not make yourself feel cleverer than you are by chirruping along with what you perceive as the crowd?

Meanwhile, back over in the rational world, the number of private, positive reactions to the OP perfectly satisfy us that this thread, and the statements provided - and backed up - at the outset, have merit. 😘

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

LostInCatsFur · 19/06/2025 13:51

Keepthecat · 18/06/2025 16:56

I'm glad to see this. I feel there's definitely a climate on this forum in which I feel it's not popular to support equal treatment for trans people.

Ha, have you only just noticed that? 99.9% of threads are anti trans. That is not feminism, if it was there would be a range of important subjects being discussed. I take comfort from the fact that it's the same tiny amount of posters with these views, repeated day in, day out. Therefore I cannot take it seriously. It's like a cult, they all just repeat the same things ad infinitum.

DiamondThrone · 19/06/2025 13:54

LimeFinch · 19/06/2025 13:31

Or, put another way, "I found all them long words and complicated statements tricky. Plus, there was am awful lot of links to read."

Don't worry, we get it. But take heart, the nice thing about education when you're an adult is you don't have to engage with it or admit you find it challenging. You can just ignore it. Or, better still, why not make yourself feel cleverer than you are by chirruping along with what you perceive as the crowd?

Meanwhile, back over in the rational world, the number of private, positive reactions to the OP perfectly satisfy us that this thread, and the statements provided - and backed up - at the outset, have merit. 😘

But posters on this thread have engaged with your tediously long and patronising list of links.

They have engaged with every single one, and refuted them.

The person who is not engaging with their replies is - you.

potpourree · 19/06/2025 13:55

But take heart, the nice thing about education when you're an adult is you don't have to engage with it or admit you find it challenging. You can just ignore it.

slow clap OP

Well-played. Are you the same person who started that Anita Dobson thread ages ago that was clearly a GC person having a laugh?

Shortshriftandlethal · 19/06/2025 13:55

LostInCatsFur · 19/06/2025 13:51

Ha, have you only just noticed that? 99.9% of threads are anti trans. That is not feminism, if it was there would be a range of important subjects being discussed. I take comfort from the fact that it's the same tiny amount of posters with these views, repeated day in, day out. Therefore I cannot take it seriously. It's like a cult, they all just repeat the same things ad infinitum.

Edited

If you want 'intersectional feminist chat' you can pop over to the relevent forum. This one is far more interesting and popular, though. This is a forum for women to discuss and organise and to push back against the gross over-reach of trans ideology - with its negative impact on the rights and protections of women and girls and children, generally. So far, we've been pretty successful. It is not just a talking shop.

potpourree · 19/06/2025 13:56

The person who is not engaging with their replies is - you.

I think that's the joke - it's a bit shit - but someone pretends to be a terrible trans advocate, plops to post links that don't back up the weird 'claims', then ignores and doesn't engage then pretends that's what feminists do.

I mean it doesn't quite work, but comedy is subjective.

DiamondThrone · 19/06/2025 13:56

RedToothBrush · 19/06/2025 13:46

Is this 2018?

I'm getting flashbacks.

Yeah, it's weird. We have moved on, but they - haven't.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 19/06/2025 13:56

LostInCatsFur · 19/06/2025 13:51

Ha, have you only just noticed that? 99.9% of threads are anti trans. That is not feminism, if it was there would be a range of important subjects being discussed. I take comfort from the fact that it's the same tiny amount of posters with these views, repeated day in, day out. Therefore I cannot take it seriously. It's like a cult, they all just repeat the same things ad infinitum.

Edited

Hahaha hahahaha

Self awareness fail right there.

BeLemonNow · 19/06/2025 13:56

Well at least the OP came back. I wasn't expecting that...

Drop off a load of links, invite the uneducated Karens to read them and fail to respond to any of their arguments.

Instead respond to anything they say as being slow and uneducated, therefore attacking the individual rather than the argument.

Unfortunately that's what many TRAs do, attack the individual who disagrees. Sometimes violently.

That's not education. Education requires critical thinking and the ability to engage in discussions.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 19/06/2025 13:58

Keepthecat · 18/06/2025 16:56

I'm glad to see this. I feel there's definitely a climate on this forum in which I feel it's not popular to support equal treatment for trans people.

But we do support equal treatment for trans people.

What we don't support is trans people having more rights than women.

potpourree · 19/06/2025 13:58

What other cultural references/memey quotes did you have up your sleeve to get slightly wrong, OP? Curious as to your brand of humour Grin

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