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Good Law Project's latest claim - fact check?

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teawamutu · 17/06/2025 18:14

I'm sure there must be some arrant bollocks in here somewhere, because Jolyon.

But is there anything worrying in this?

goodlawproject.org/ehrc-backs-down-on-single-sex-toilets/

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Cornishpotato · 20/06/2025 14:23

Coatsoff42 · 20/06/2025 14:21

Sounds like astrology which is a system of knowledge which gives meaning to the stars in the sky.

We are back to the woman is a constellation of blah blah blah line of bollocks.

borntobequiet · 20/06/2025 14:24

Tandora · 20/06/2025 13:51

It makes no sense to try to count “gender” in this way. Gender is not terminology that is helpfully understood as referring to finite number of specific “identities”. Gender is simply the system knowledge that gives meaning to (sexual) differences in bodies.

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This is angels on the head of a pin stuff, though at least that had some bearing on the (then) understanding of nature and reality.

Tandora · 20/06/2025 14:24

SternJoyousBee · 20/06/2025 14:14

Of course it makes sense if you want to arrange public services using gender. It feels like you might not actually believe that we should actually arrange society around gender but just want men to have what men want.

I think I’ve been clear on my opinions of how to organise services- people just don’t like them.

Im in favour of services for women, men, and also some gender neutral options. I see no need to attempt to enforce this which would be arbitrary and discriminatory and will not improve safety for anyone. It’s sufficient to allow people to determine which service is appropriate for them. I think there are some circumstances where it would be reasonable to restrict specialist services (eg rape crisis support) to be available exclusively for women registered female at birth , in the same way that it is reasonable to have services specifically for black women, or disabled women, or lesbians etc. however mandating that all women’s services must be restricted this way is irrational and profoundly oppressive.

Datun · 20/06/2025 14:25

Helleofabore · 20/06/2025 14:23

Everyone remember this explanation from a regular poster?

"I'm an adult human, and I recognise within myself a constellation of data points that I identify as female”.

That's the one.

Coatsoff42 · 20/06/2025 14:25

Cornishpotato · 20/06/2025 14:23

We are back to the woman is a constellation of blah blah blah line of bollocks.

No way, astrology is real. My lucky biscuit is a chocolate digestive today, it’s written in the stars.

Datun · 20/06/2025 14:28

Tandora · 20/06/2025 14:24

I think I’ve been clear on my opinions of how to organise services- people just don’t like them.

Im in favour of services for women, men, and also some gender neutral options. I see no need to attempt to enforce this which would be arbitrary and discriminatory and will not improve safety for anyone. It’s sufficient to allow people to determine which service is appropriate for them. I think there are some circumstances where it would be reasonable to restrict specialist services (eg rape crisis support) to be available exclusively for women registered female at birth , in the same way that it is reasonable to have services specifically for black women, or disabled women, or lesbians etc. however mandating that all women’s services must be restricted this way is irrational and profoundly oppressive.

So women who have been raped are allowed to recover amongst other women without men listening.

But fuck toilets and changing rooms.

It's hardly revolutionary. Most tw don't give a fuck about rape crisis centres, on a day-to-day basis, but they do massively care about loos.

Loos are the flashpoint. Because it's instant validation from unconsenting women everywhere, any time day or night.

It's just same old, same old

SionnachRuadh · 20/06/2025 14:29

If it comes down to a system of knowledge that's too complex for us to understand, then I detect the influence of Judith Butler, who has long since advanced beyond mumbo-jumbo into the exalted realms of mumbo-pocus.

SternJoyousBee · 20/06/2025 14:30

Tandora · 20/06/2025 14:24

I think I’ve been clear on my opinions of how to organise services- people just don’t like them.

Im in favour of services for women, men, and also some gender neutral options. I see no need to attempt to enforce this which would be arbitrary and discriminatory and will not improve safety for anyone. It’s sufficient to allow people to determine which service is appropriate for them. I think there are some circumstances where it would be reasonable to restrict specialist services (eg rape crisis support) to be available exclusively for women registered female at birth , in the same way that it is reasonable to have services specifically for black women, or disabled women, or lesbians etc. however mandating that all women’s services must be restricted this way is irrational and profoundly oppressive.

But when you say the word “women” you are including men with special gender identities and not the sex category of woman. That is a mixed sex category. If you don’t want to categorise by sex what do you want to categorise by?

Datun · 20/06/2025 14:31

Cornishpotato · 20/06/2025 14:23

We are back to the woman is a constellation of blah blah blah line of bollocks.

You won't get the essay about what it all means because it's not theoretical, or a set of rules, or policies. It would be personal. Lived experience. And that's why it's outing.

Descriptions and policies aren't outing!

Cornishpotato · 20/06/2025 14:33

Tandora · 20/06/2025 14:18

I already said what it is. It’s the system of knowledge that gives meaning to sexual differences in bodies.

The system that gives meaning? Trans is?

So the meaning of our bodies is determined by these men?

We know this is what the cis garbage is all about but seriously? Everything about sexual difference is defined by these men who all disagree with each other anyway on why they are doing it.

How utterly self centered (and bonkers).

Honestly, it does make you stupid.

Datun · 20/06/2025 14:33

SternJoyousBee · 20/06/2025 14:30

But when you say the word “women” you are including men with special gender identities and not the sex category of woman. That is a mixed sex category. If you don’t want to categorise by sex what do you want to categorise by?

TRAs want the categories to officially be divided by sex, but unofficially allow men to use them.

it's the validation of using the women's toilets, but only them.

Tandoras way of achieving this is pretend you can't keep men out anyway.

borntobequiet · 20/06/2025 14:34

I think in the conflict between esoteric sex/gender knowledge and the law of the land, the law has the advantage, thankfully.

Tandora · 20/06/2025 14:35

Datun · 20/06/2025 14:28

So women who have been raped are allowed to recover amongst other women without men listening.

But fuck toilets and changing rooms.

It's hardly revolutionary. Most tw don't give a fuck about rape crisis centres, on a day-to-day basis, but they do massively care about loos.

Loos are the flashpoint. Because it's instant validation from unconsenting women everywhere, any time day or night.

It's just same old, same old

Yes It’s not revolutionary at all. It’s the status quo and it is sensible

teawamutu · 20/06/2025 14:38

Tandora · 20/06/2025 14:35

Yes It’s not revolutionary at all. It’s the status quo and it is sensible

So my Muslim neighbour who actually cannot use mixed sex provision (even if the users identify as the same gender), who loses 100% of her provision in order that some 'registered male at births' get their preference - what happens to her in your system?

What's fair to her?

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Datun · 20/06/2025 14:38

Cornishpotato · 20/06/2025 14:33

The system that gives meaning? Trans is?

So the meaning of our bodies is determined by these men?

We know this is what the cis garbage is all about but seriously? Everything about sexual difference is defined by these men who all disagree with each other anyway on why they are doing it.

How utterly self centered (and bonkers).

Honestly, it does make you stupid.

It does.

Because it's asking for a premise that you cannot have. Purely to satisfy the wants and needs of a tiny minority of men.

What these men want is to have women's and men's facilities, and for them to use the women's, through domination and threats. And for everyone to be cowed into submission

Unfortunately, that's all been blown sky high by the Supreme Court ruling.

Many are still making the attempt, but bit by bit, it will stop.

Despite Tandoras fervent wish that the more people understand about moobs and pissing, the higher the likelihood of acceptability.

Datun · 20/06/2025 14:39

Tandora · 20/06/2025 14:35

Yes It’s not revolutionary at all. It’s the status quo and it is sensible

Haha.

I bet

PrettyDamnCosmic · 20/06/2025 14:39

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Datun · 20/06/2025 14:40

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Well now, I'm guessing that Tandoras policy document will claim that that is simply just not 'sensible' enough 😁

WithSilverBells · 20/06/2025 14:41

I think there are some circumstances where it would be reasonable to restrict specialist services (eg rape crisis support) to be available exclusively for women registered female at birth

Why? If toilets and changing rooms should be separated by gender, why not rape crisis centres?

Tandora · 20/06/2025 14:41

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Trans people are not men dressing up as women and they are not perverts. Nor are they “invading” female spaces. Trans people are a-ok. They are who they say they are and they are using the services appropriate for their needs like everyone else.

DrudgeJedd · 20/06/2025 14:41

Is he suffering from heatstroke? I know his legal area is tax avoidance not crime but does he honestly think that police officers conduct intimate examinations of rape victims?

Good Law Project's latest claim - fact check?
Cornishpotato · 20/06/2025 14:42

Helleofabore · 20/06/2025 14:23

Everyone remember this explanation from a regular poster?

"I'm an adult human, and I recognise within myself a constellation of data points that I identify as female”.

That poster slipped up badly on the data points.

A poster talking about the physical difference between men and women referred to herself as 5 foot 2 and size 8.

He said "we have the same shoe size".

And then got a strop on when everyone laughed at his utter lack of any knowledge and understanding of one of the most normal intrinsic parts of every woman's life.

His constellation was a bit dimmer after that.

Greyskybluesky · 20/06/2025 14:42

Tandora · 20/06/2025 14:41

Trans people are not men dressing up as women and they are not perverts. Nor are they “invading” female spaces. Trans people are a-ok. They are who they say they are and they are using the services appropriate for their needs like everyone else.

But the service appropriate for my needs doesn't have male-bodied people in it, so.....?

SternJoyousBee · 20/06/2025 14:42

Datun · 20/06/2025 14:33

TRAs want the categories to officially be divided by sex, but unofficially allow men to use them.

it's the validation of using the women's toilets, but only them.

Tandoras way of achieving this is pretend you can't keep men out anyway.

And is the exact reason that the SC ruling was so clear. Tandora’s position creates incoherence and the judges recognised that.

Tandora would rather women as a sex class lost our rights rather than upset a few men.

Just because some men will ignore the judgement and continue to use spaces that are designated for women only doesn’t mean we should just re-write the rules of society to legitimise their actions.

Because it’s not just about toilets. The toilets won’t be enough. They demand access to all female spaces already. Why do you think they would be content if they were allowed to legitimately use female toilets? Do you think they would stop trying to defund women only refuges? Or stop lesbians from associating without having to permit transwomen to join also?

Datun · 20/06/2025 14:43

WithSilverBells · 20/06/2025 14:41

I think there are some circumstances where it would be reasonable to restrict specialist services (eg rape crisis support) to be available exclusively for women registered female at birth

Why? If toilets and changing rooms should be separated by gender, why not rape crisis centres?

I'm guessing Tandora doesn't think they need one.

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