This is lies, conjecture and falsehoods. I can’t spend too much time going through each bit so I will pick out the lowlights.
I will use your own words, ‘I'm not sure whether this is deliberate? Let me explain again.’
You claim ‘I replied that that it is entirely unnecessary to enforce this since such men do not customarily chose to use facilities designated for women. It's a non issue.’
This is false. It is such an issue it has led to massive changes in toilet design.
‘If you think that's going to end well I can't help you.’
Help? As in you think there will be threats? Violence? Lawsuits? We should be afraid into submission? I don’t think so. As you say you are a new mum with 3 children in tow how would you have the capability to be the physical bouncer, if that’s what you are implying?
‘In sum, trans women don't pretend to be trans to access women and girls toilets.’
Also false but confusingly worded. Men pretend to be trans to access women and girls toilets. Whether they are trans women in that moment because they say they are trans women is irrelevant for safety.
‘Men don't pretend to be women to access women and girls toilets.’
See above.
‘If they want to go into the toilet to rape someone (which is extremely rare, since most VAWG is committed in private settings by people known to the victim) they are free to do so as they please as there is no barred entry to toilets.’
Please give me your figures. I would love to see them. I have spent a couple on years collating reports. I want to know your definition of extremely rare. It is rare someone is convicted. It is rare someone reports the crime in the first place. At what point does the number become justifiable to let men in legally? Goggle. Do FOIs.
‘Provision of unisex facilities increases harassment of women, so it is unfortunate that this is a likely consequence of this guidance.’
You are advocating for all toilets to be unisex. By letting men in the womens they have to be the universal private design which I believe goes beyond harassment and is dangerous. We don’t need more private, sound resistant rooms in public spaces.
‘There is zero evidence that provision of men's and women's designated services, without enforcing the barring of trans people from using the facilities of their choice (I won't say gender because I know it triggers you all), has any relationship whatsoever to increased levels of VAWG.’
After the research I have done, which has been very depressing btw, this is false too. My work on schools for example.
‘A few anecdotal cases on the internet of women being assaulted by trans women in facilities is not evidence.’
Where’s your evidence? You said there’s zero evidence. I would love you to share your evidence as you are so adamant about toilet facilities. It’s men that assault women and children. That includes all men.
Did you know no one centrally is collecting figures as to the locations of assaults? There’s no central database which links design to attack. What constitutes a public toilet to you?
For example did you know the last time school figures were collated through BBC painstaking research, it was found there was an average of more than 1 rape per school day inside a school. And it has just been found that more than 6500 rapes and sexual assaults - some against children under 13 - have been committed in hospitals in England and Wales over nearly four years (which included lockdown). This latter research was done by the WRN. Yet again no one could tell them exactly where these had taken place. And only 4.1% were charged which is when you see your ‘anecdotal evidence’ appear in the paper. How many go unreported?
I have never met a new mum so sure of herself and so prepared to overlook safety.