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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

House of Commons apologises after RMW permitted to use ladies' loos

277 replies

SidewaysOtter · 14/06/2025 15:20

https://www.thetimes.com/article/e3c3967f-8712-4591-9897-fe04588000ca?shareToken=5ffa7fb5239ea83f779908352e494c14

RMW claims he had never been challenged on his use of women's loos before - well, now he has, and the HoC has acknowledged it was wrong to allow him into those facilities.

House of Commons says sorry after trans barrister uses ladies’ loo

Robin Moira White was attending a parliamentary committee meeting about the Supreme Court ruling that defined a woman according to biological sex

https://www.thetimes.com/article/e3c3967f-8712-4591-9897-fe04588000ca?shareToken=5ffa7fb5239ea83f779908352e494c14

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illinivich · 15/06/2025 08:06

He knew that he'd be allowed in the women's toilets and knew that someone also attending the committee meeting would challenge him and escalate it.

He's doing it to demonstrate that the worst that will happen is he's told not to do it again.

Seriestwo · 15/06/2025 08:11

are there any consequences for breaching women’s rights to privacy, safety and dignity?

Pubs could bar you, employer could discipline you, but there’s not a penalty in any of the legislation?

HermioneWeasley · 15/06/2025 08:29

SabrinaThwaite · 14/06/2025 23:13

It’s not up to women to make male people ‘feel safe’ in the men’s loo.

Maybe go and scold the men for not being inclusive enough to gender non confirming people of their own sex?

Or use the “gender neutral” (mixed sex) ones they have in HOC?

Inertia · 15/06/2025 08:54

Facilities wouldn’t need to be policed if males obeyed the law. The level of entitlement is so strong that even barristers believe they can just ignore laws that they don’t like.

Datun · 15/06/2025 08:56

White was reduced to saying the women were rude, embarrassing and shouty, that he has a medical condition which makes proximity to a toilet paramount, even though the unisex is the same distance and anyway it's not his fault, because he was told, twice, to use the ladies.

In the House of Commons, whilst specifically discussing the illegality of what he was doing

It's such a bloody show up for these men. You have to wonder why they don't just go to the gender neutral and have done with it

Datun · 15/06/2025 08:59

I know it was deliberate behaviour in order to use the ladies. But I'm wondering if the extra motive is that now he doesn't have to encounter that sort of reaction again, he can just use the gents, or unisex, albeit in a frame of mass disgruntlement, and under protest.

proximalhumerous · 15/06/2025 09:02

Bunniesnotbullies · 14/06/2025 16:24

“I have some health challenges and the [parliamentary] staff had kindly sat me at the back of the committee room, right by the door, so that I could pop along the corridor [to the ladies’ loo], which I had to do once earlier,” White said. “We got to the end of the select committee and they directed me [again] to the facilities I used.”

So it wasn't his fault because he was sent there, twice.

It never is, is it.

And why would he need to be directed there the second time. Does he have amnesia that also causes him to forget the Supreme Court ruling?

Llamasarellovely · 15/06/2025 09:03

Leafstamp · 14/06/2025 21:35

Telegraph reporting on it too.

I couldn’t be more delighted that it is RMW that’s hit the headlines for this.

archive.ph/xA002

Again the absence of female pronouns. 👍

Leafstamp · 15/06/2025 09:11

Datun · 14/06/2025 23:06

Personally, I think it's a spot of buck passing. Which in fact is exactly what happened.

I was told to go there!

Erm, this is reminding me of a 6 year old:

Mummy: “why did you throw Janet’s ball into the stinging nettles”

6 year old : “John told me to”

C0rdelia4104 · 15/06/2025 09:26

And wearing a "progress" lanyard

Datun · 15/06/2025 09:35

Leafstamp · 15/06/2025 09:11

Erm, this is reminding me of a 6 year old:

Mummy: “why did you throw Janet’s ball into the stinging nettles”

6 year old : “John told me to”

Yes, as a tactic, it's transparent and silly

Theeyeballsinthesky · 15/06/2025 10:21

im baffled that RMW needed to ask where thd toilets were at all seeing as he’s been hanging around parliament for years pushing the trans agenda over cosy chats in tea rooms and bars as well as attending committees & meetings

SerendipityJane · 15/06/2025 10:23

It also shows that all the employees in parliament are pretty lacking in diversity

I suspect they consider themselves the paradigm of DEI World leaders in fact.

TWETMIRF · 15/06/2025 10:24

Well he only has a little lady brain so can't be expected to remember anything other than how to do housework and have pillow fights.

thirdfiddle · 15/06/2025 10:42

Is it actually illegal? I thought the understanding was it's illegal for the HoC to not provide single sex spaces. In the first place it's their duty to ensure people use the correct facilities. For a guest like White, that might consist of a written warning prior to any future visits, followed by barring him if he doesn't comply.

I don't think using the wrong space is in itself a crime on the part of the perpetrator, but could potentially be some kind of harassment offence if he continues to do it after being asked not to? Or would that require it to be repeatedly against the same woman?

Of course he is deliberately taking advantage of the fact staff haven't been properly briefed. Which is disgraceful behaviour in a lawyer.

Helleofabore · 15/06/2025 10:43

This really is just grist for the mill that they believe will produce legal cases or pressure to change the law. Very deliberate to for the strategy.

Chrysanthemum5 · 15/06/2025 10:44

I said this on another thread but I work in a university and trans colleagues are openly saying they will not use gender neutral facilities as it would 'out' them as trans. Leaving aside the fact that everyone knows instantly their actual sex, it does mean that it's up to women to complain and that is bad for our safety (and our careers in the madness of Higher Education)

Shortshriftandlethal · 15/06/2025 10:45

RMW reminds me of Jan/James Morris. a man who has typically masculine interests and/or occupation - in RMW's case he like fast sports cars, military memorabilia, and flying ( if I remember rightly?) and actually has disdian for female sensibilities and the roles that women are often occupying in real life.

'Being a woman' is not actually what is being sought.......what is being sought is entirely self referential and geared towards self gratification. Actual women with their "shrieky" voices are a huge turn off.

Shortshriftandlethal · 15/06/2025 10:47

Chrysanthemum5 · 15/06/2025 10:44

I said this on another thread but I work in a university and trans colleagues are openly saying they will not use gender neutral facilities as it would 'out' them as trans. Leaving aside the fact that everyone knows instantly their actual sex, it does mean that it's up to women to complain and that is bad for our safety (and our careers in the madness of Higher Education)

Are these colleagues male, and how many of them are there, out of interest?

Chrysanthemum5 · 15/06/2025 10:49

@Shortshriftandlethal both male and like RMW not tiny. Both also furious about the SC ruling and any suggestion that the university should make anything single sex. We've had lots of emails etc about the ruling all saying how hard it is for trans students and staff not one mention of women

Shortshriftandlethal · 15/06/2025 10:52

Chrysanthemum5 · 15/06/2025 10:49

@Shortshriftandlethal both male and like RMW not tiny. Both also furious about the SC ruling and any suggestion that the university should make anything single sex. We've had lots of emails etc about the ruling all saying how hard it is for trans students and staff not one mention of women

Of course not. Females - their dignity and rights - are totally erased by trans ideology.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 15/06/2025 10:56

Shortshriftandlethal · 15/06/2025 10:45

RMW reminds me of Jan/James Morris. a man who has typically masculine interests and/or occupation - in RMW's case he like fast sports cars, military memorabilia, and flying ( if I remember rightly?) and actually has disdian for female sensibilities and the roles that women are often occupying in real life.

'Being a woman' is not actually what is being sought.......what is being sought is entirely self referential and geared towards self gratification. Actual women with their "shrieky" voices are a huge turn off.

Yes, remember the “cauldron” quip. Frequently “trans women” are not just men, they are the most sexist men.

Shortshriftandlethal · 15/06/2025 11:03

Ereshkigalangcleg · 15/06/2025 10:56

Yes, remember the “cauldron” quip. Frequently “trans women” are not just men, they are the most sexist men.

Can you remind us of that? I don't recall.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 15/06/2025 11:08

See link, from Jan 23 on this site.