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The Bluestocking Women’s Pub - Where Everybody Knows Your Username

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MarieDeGournay · 02/06/2025 17:01

Welcome to the Bluestocking Arms, the home of good company, excellent drinks and delicious cakes which magically have no irksome contents like gluten or sugar or calories or the kind of alcohol that causes problems - but you wouldn't knowSmile

Food and drink are served by a keen staff of gerbils, and other animals such as capybaras, quokkas, etc., also fulfil vital roles, while looking cute AF.

New Bluestockingers always welcome.

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FuzzyPuffling · 13/06/2025 10:54

MarieDeGournay · 13/06/2025 10:38

I've just spotted a howler in my post, it should be
Gin [if] e'er ye love another man,
Ne'er love him as YE did me' !

I accidentally gayed Clerk Saunders, which he wasn't, unlike the Gay Goss-Hawk😃

Needs the laugh emoji for sure! 🤣

FuzzyPuffling · 13/06/2025 11:36

How can we be on page 39 already?

inkymoose · 13/06/2025 11:50

DeanElderberry · 12/06/2025 20:52

My feeling is that 'dogs, just why?' is a core part of the project. The mutual domestication project being carried out by the wolves and apes caught the aliens attention, and 3 or four millennia ago they established the cats as their researchers.

They watch what we're up to and communicate telepathically with the core any time they learn something noteworthy.

I'm sorry to say I am not fond of cats. I'm allergic to them, they make me itch and wheeze. However, my next-door-neighbour has several cats who seem to own my very small back garden. They watch me through the windows from their perch atop my shed or when they slink past the patio doors. They use my raised beds as cat loos and are affronted when I catch them at it and chase them off.

I feel ambivalent towards them, I don't hate them, I find them strangely fascinating.

Maybe the feeling is mutual?

SionnachRuadh · 13/06/2025 12:07

inkymoose · 13/06/2025 11:50

I'm sorry to say I am not fond of cats. I'm allergic to them, they make me itch and wheeze. However, my next-door-neighbour has several cats who seem to own my very small back garden. They watch me through the windows from their perch atop my shed or when they slink past the patio doors. They use my raised beds as cat loos and are affronted when I catch them at it and chase them off.

I feel ambivalent towards them, I don't hate them, I find them strangely fascinating.

Maybe the feeling is mutual?

I once lived across the street from a man who was deathly afraid of cats. The cats in the area seemed to all know this, and when he was gardening, they would turn up to watch him.

I've also known people who were very fond of cats, and cats would run like blazes from them to avoid being picked up and petted.

They have their own standards.

FuzzyPuffling · 13/06/2025 12:21

I love cats. More than I love many people.

MyrtleLion · 13/06/2025 12:33

I have a video interview next Friday! With the recruiter not the client, but if I get through it, I will have an all day in person panel interview and "Staff Engagement Exercise".

MarieDeGournay · 13/06/2025 12:57

Good luck Myrtle! Get practising, Cheerbils!

I also can't believe it's p39 already, it seems like only yesterday...
Sometimes this thread moves so fast that really funny or clever posts never get the 👏they deserve, somebody said something about a dozen pages ago which I meant to say 'brava' to but suddenly it was a dozen pages backConfused

But we covered so many great topics, didn't we? Smile

I hope to have the permanent Bluestocking ready not too long into the new thread.
I'm going to set it all up inside, but leave one of the gable walls and the roof off for now, that will make it easier to take photos of the interior. Then I promise I'll work on the slightly tricky structure of the building, and post the final result asap.

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MyrtleLion · 13/06/2025 13:12

Thank you!

The support here is amazing and keeps me going ❤️

I am at the resigned to not getting the job stage. I'm hoping it might mean I get the job because I'm not so invested.

Jack Dee was going to quit comedy but had one more gig to do. So he phoned it in, with his now famous deadpan flat affect.

Brought the house down.

Anyway, the Walrus is getting in the prosecco to celebrate getting the interview and some for next Friday to celebrate doing the interview.

inkymoose · 13/06/2025 13:39

Boiledbeetle · 12/06/2025 20:54

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inkymoose · 13/06/2025 13:42

SionnachRuadh · 12/06/2025 23:48

Speaking of cats, one of our old ones was a shocking tea leaf and would sometimes bring gifts it had nicked from the kitchens of anyone in the area silly enough to leave their back door open.

One night it came home with a whole string of uncooked sausages in its mouth.

I thought it would never top that, but then another night it came home with a packet of Birds Eye cod in parsley sauce.

Wow!
oh for the 😂 emoji ....

EdithStourton · 13/06/2025 15:40

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 13/06/2025 09:56

I'm just waiting for dh to get back from Halfords, and then we will be setting off southwards. He's had to go to get the aircon regassed, because it's going to be 24 degrees in Suffolk this weekend, so we will need it working.

We were hoping to be setting off about now, but it looks like it will be closer to 11.30, so we'll get there later. Ho hum.

Good luck for the Suffolk run. I always feel when I get to Cambridge that I'm almost home even though I'm not really. The A14 is a very tedious road.

Suffolk in the sun, however, with a nice breeze off the sea and a pint of Adnam's - wonderful and worth the hassle.

JuneShellChangeHerTune · 13/06/2025 16:11

Suffolk in the sun, however, with a nice breeze off the sea and a pint of Adnam's - wonderful and worth the hassle.

Or the Norfolk coast in this weather. So tempting.

MadisonAvenue · 13/06/2025 16:12

Hope the journey is a good one! The only time I’ve been to Suffolk was to go to Ipswich for an away football match last Autumn. It felt a long way from the Midlands.

My husband is from Norwich originally so we visit there once or twice a year to tidy his parents’ grave. Again it’s a long drive but I love Norfolk.

MarieDeGournay · 13/06/2025 16:28

'Very flet, Norfolk.'😃

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FuzzyPuffling · 13/06/2025 16:37

I love Norfolk too- big skies and sea, perfect.

SionnachRuadh · 13/06/2025 16:39

I've never been to Norfolk. I keep thinking I must. PD James set a lot of her murder mysteries there, though I'm sure it's not as violent as she wrote it.

Scoffslaw · 13/06/2025 16:48

I had a few days in Norwich recently - lots to do and some nice independent shops so would recommend. On the way home, called in at Swaffham for lunch - Harry Hill was always making funny references to it. It definitely has an odd vibe, one of the shops on the market square is a Tutankhamen Emporium. Life size replica of the death mask anyone?

SionnachRuadh · 13/06/2025 17:26

A Tutankhamen Emporium sounds fun. One of the things I like about small town America is the completely random stuff you find, like the Spam Museum in Minnesota or that guy in Kentucky who built a full size Noah's Ark on his land. I bet there's some Norfolk ancestry involved.

MyrtleLion · 13/06/2025 17:43

Bamboo knitting in pink. Unravelled because the casting off instructions were rubbish.

Knitting needles arrived today!

Some experimentation with knit and purl in cream - started on bamboo skewers then finished on needles.

I might just cast on 32 stitches and do stocking stitch this evening to see if I can create something that doesn't have holes in it...

The Bluestocking Women’s Pub - Where Everybody Knows Your Username
The Bluestocking Women’s Pub - Where Everybody Knows Your Username
FuzzyPuffling · 13/06/2025 17:48

SionnachRuadh · 13/06/2025 16:39

I've never been to Norfolk. I keep thinking I must. PD James set a lot of her murder mysteries there, though I'm sure it's not as violent as she wrote it.

PD James was a good friend of my parents. Not at all a violent woman!

ErrolTheDragon · 13/06/2025 18:08

the norfolk Broads are lovely, so much wildlife.

SionnachRuadh · 13/06/2025 18:15

FuzzyPuffling · 13/06/2025 17:48

PD James was a good friend of my parents. Not at all a violent woman!

I love her work. I still think Children of Men is one of the handful of really prophetic novels written in my lifetime. The other one that comes to mind is Chuck Palahniuk's Fight Club, but that couldn't be more different.

FuzzyPuffling · 13/06/2025 18:41

Thanks Myrtle.

MarieDeGournay · 13/06/2025 18:54

Thank you for the new thread, Myrtle.
I've posted a photo of the interior of the permanent Bluestocking, lots more to follow as it approaches completion.

I'm used to Magpie popping in to visit my back garden, but seeing you there this morning was a pleasant surprise, SionnachSmile And I'm glad you enjoyed a nice long drink out of the pond - I'm sure it was delicious😝

Sorry it's not a great photo, it was taken through a window so as not to frighten the fox away.

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