Oh it's the 'British Druid Order', is it?
I can't open the archived araticle in the OP but I'm getting the drift...
Being very interested in Celtic culture, in particular the Druids, I looked into the BDO in detail some years ago.
I was quickly turned off by the mishmash of things they had shoved into a box marked 'Druidry.' It seemed to have bits of New Age, wicca, Norse paganism, even Christianity thrown into a blender, and a label 'Druid' stuck on. And lots of dressing up and rituals, of course.
I thought it was an unacceptable appropriation of a Celtic culture that they clearly knew very little about, or cared very little about.
In the end, I followed my own path, finding echoes of Druidism in the only places where Celtic culture continued to flourish without being crushed by Romanization.
The BDO obviously acquire anything and everything that makes their order seem edgy and interesting, so their adherence to genderwoo doesn't surprise me.
I'm sorry for what you experienced SwordOfOmens, and hope you find a better path, or make your own
If you seek druidism, look elsewhere.