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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Are toilets still allowed to be cleaned by members of the opposite sex?

510 replies

PoisedRubyLion · 27/05/2025 15:50

I see signs saying toilets may be cleaned by members of the opposite sex in a lot of places. Is this allowed after the supreme court ruling? If a male cleaner was in there it would be a mixed sex space.

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spannasaurus · 27/05/2025 17:20

The EHRC guidance (currently under consultation) gives an example confirming that a small child of one sex can accompany a parent of the opposite sex in the single sex spaces that the parent is entitled to use and this would not be a breach of the SSE of the EA.

Raspberryripple11 · 27/05/2025 17:21

What if someone pretended to be a cleaner in order to assault the women in the toilet?

minnienono · 27/05/2025 17:23

Of course. People are completely misinterpreting the extent and scope of the Supreme Court!

yet again i reiterate, the ruling says that IF you choose to have services that are segregated then it can be legally segregated by natal sex, that a grc, self determination or legal gender change doesn’t mean you automatically gain access to single sex services IF the org decides to segregate by sex. This is not compulsory, toilets and changing rooms can still be gender neutral if they choose, and if your job is to clean the loos you can be of either sex.

mardirousse · 27/05/2025 17:24

Raspberryripple11 · 27/05/2025 17:21

What if someone pretended to be a cleaner in order to assault the women in the toilet?

You mean, a bit like men pretending to be women and assaulting women?
That would be breaking the law.

NextRinny · 27/05/2025 17:25

PoisedRubyLion · 27/05/2025 17:16

It’s depressing now one here can explain the legal position. You claim it’s very clear, yet can’t provide any clarity

MyAmpleSheep · Today 17:15

It’s not the space that’s single sex, it’s the service. The law says service providers can discriminate by sex in appropriate circumstances, such as by providing separate toilets for use by men and women.

The person cleaning the toilets isn’t a service user, they’re part of the provision of that service, so allowing a man to clean a women’s toilet doesn’t make a mixed-sex toilet. If he stopped cleaning to unzip and pee in it, then he would become a service user. He shouldn’t do that.

It might be proportionate to allow only a women to clean a women’s toilet, but it wouldn’t be required in law, and it doesn’t change the nature of the service provision either way.

Raspberryripple11 · 27/05/2025 17:25

mardirousse · 27/05/2025 17:24

You mean, a bit like men pretending to be women and assaulting women?
That would be breaking the law.

Edited

Yeah exactly. I would think if I was a sexual predator I would rather dress up as a cleaner than a woman.

WhatNextCatsAsDoctors · 27/05/2025 17:25

I don’t understand why people on here wouldn’t be as concerned with male cleaners in toilets as they are trans women in toilets? The mantra for so long has been ‘no men in women’s spaces’. If you agree with the premise that men lurk in women’s bathrooms for cruel-intentioned reasons, surely it’s easier for a man to grab a ‘male cleaner present’ sign and a cleaner’s uniform than it is to go through the process of transitioning to be a woman.

Why are you so outraged at one, and not the other?

Stickortwigs · 27/05/2025 17:26

I don’t think the OP is being so outrageously daft as people are suggesting. A lot of the arguments against transwomen using female toilets would also apply - women who have suffered abuse don’t feel safe with males in there, Muslim women should have the space free of males etc.

I’m not saying I think it is a problem, but I don’t understand the outrage at asking the question.

spannasaurus · 27/05/2025 17:26

minnienono · 27/05/2025 17:23

Of course. People are completely misinterpreting the extent and scope of the Supreme Court!

yet again i reiterate, the ruling says that IF you choose to have services that are segregated then it can be legally segregated by natal sex, that a grc, self determination or legal gender change doesn’t mean you automatically gain access to single sex services IF the org decides to segregate by sex. This is not compulsory, toilets and changing rooms can still be gender neutral if they choose, and if your job is to clean the loos you can be of either sex.

There is other legislation that does require single sex services to be provided. Schools are required by law to provide single sex toilets for pupils 8 or over. Single sex changing rooms must be provided in workplaces where employees are required to change eg hospitals

Coatsoff42 · 27/05/2025 17:26

Raspberryripple11 · 27/05/2025 17:21

What if someone pretended to be a cleaner in order to assault the women in the toilet?

What if someone worked as a sports coach to assault children?

What if, what if?

AngelinaFibres · 27/05/2025 17:27

Blackdow · 27/05/2025 16:05

This is not the same and you know it. They do not become mixed sex because of a cleaner doing their job. It’s literally always been that way.

And, if the cleaner is male, but cleaning a female toilet , he would go into the men's toilets to pee. He is not getting his penis out in the ladies loo, he is cleaning because that's his job.

mardirousse · 27/05/2025 17:28

Raspberryripple11 · 27/05/2025 17:25

Yeah exactly. I would think if I was a sexual predator I would rather dress up as a cleaner than a woman.

Yet men who pretend to be women do assault women.
Not too many stories of cleaner identifying males harassing and assaulting women, but maybe you'll direct me to some reports.

Chariothorses · 27/05/2025 17:28

Just reposting this post from @HermioneWeasley (my repost above got deleted due to my added comment, so I am not commenting this time!):

'This is such an abusive male tactic - if you don’t let adult male cross dressers in your paces we’re going to make it hard for you to take your toddler son to the loo
how dare you, how dare middle aged men snivel behind baby boys'.

titchy · 27/05/2025 17:29

Ooh I know, what if a man identified as a cleaner? Or a 6 year old?

Greyskybluesky · 27/05/2025 17:29

Stickortwigs · 27/05/2025 17:26

I don’t think the OP is being so outrageously daft as people are suggesting. A lot of the arguments against transwomen using female toilets would also apply - women who have suffered abuse don’t feel safe with males in there, Muslim women should have the space free of males etc.

I’m not saying I think it is a problem, but I don’t understand the outrage at asking the question.

Male cleaners put a sign outside the door to say 'male cleaner in toilet'. The women can make their OWN CHOICE about whether to go in there.

The TW does not put a sign outside the door when entering the women's toilet. The women have no choice in the matter.

Do you understand it now?

AngelinaFibres · 27/05/2025 17:31

Raspberryripple11 · 27/05/2025 17:21

What if someone pretended to be a cleaner in order to assault the women in the toilet?

Then they'd be just as much of a perverted , sad weirdo as the men who put on dresses in order to wank in cubicles of women's toilets.

Raspberryripple11 · 27/05/2025 17:31

mardirousse · 27/05/2025 17:28

Yet men who pretend to be women do assault women.
Not too many stories of cleaner identifying males harassing and assaulting women, but maybe you'll direct me to some reports.

Women get assaulted by men all the time it very rarely makes it to court, let alone the news.

BlibBlabBlob · 27/05/2025 17:31

Stickortwigs · 27/05/2025 17:26

I don’t think the OP is being so outrageously daft as people are suggesting. A lot of the arguments against transwomen using female toilets would also apply - women who have suffered abuse don’t feel safe with males in there, Muslim women should have the space free of males etc.

I’m not saying I think it is a problem, but I don’t understand the outrage at asking the question.

I agree. I've never had a problem with a temporary sign on the women's toilets letting everyone know that there is a male cleaner in there RIGHT NOW doing his job. That used to give anybody who couldn't enter with a male in the room (for whatever reason) the chance to potentially go and find a different toilet to use. One without any males in the room whatsoever.

But these days, all of the signs seem to be permanent. A permanent sign on the door of the female and the male toilets letting customers know that toilets may be cleaned by people of the opposite sex (or sometimes, may be cleaned by people of 'all genders').

I'd personally like to see the removal of these, and a return to temporary signage when staff of the opposite sex are in the room. Then it's clear.

(And no, I don't think any of this is remotely relevant to small children entering the opposite sex toilet with their opposite sex parent!)

GetDressedYouMerryGentlemen · 27/05/2025 17:32

The SC ruling was to determine if people could could legally change their sex in regard to which single sex service they are permitted to access. It concluded they could not. It didn't rule on whether you can legally have opposite sex staff members servicing a facility or whether prepubescent children are banned from single sex spaces (because those weren't the challenges FWS brought).

The 'of any age' reference actually re-enforces that cut off for children in the wrong sex facilities is expected to come well before their legal adulthood. Had they said men means males over 18 years old then 17 year olds would be legally able to access wrong sex facilities and everyone with 2 brain cells to rub together knows that that isn't the case.

BlibBlabBlob · 27/05/2025 17:32

Greyskybluesky · 27/05/2025 17:29

Male cleaners put a sign outside the door to say 'male cleaner in toilet'. The women can make their OWN CHOICE about whether to go in there.

The TW does not put a sign outside the door when entering the women's toilet. The women have no choice in the matter.

Do you understand it now?

We don't get a sign anymore, though. Just a permanent one on the door warning that there MIGHT be an opposite sex staff member in there. At any time.

Tiredofwhataboutery · 27/05/2025 17:32

I wouldn’t have an issue with it, it’s not practical to hire two people to clean loos. Having been a toilet cleaner myself, you tend to only be in there for five minutes per hour with a proper clean at end of day.

There’s a difference in having a mixed sex loo and having cleaners of either sex. I’ve worked in a care home where various residents requested same sex care. No one cared which sex the cleaners were.

DrBlackbird · 27/05/2025 17:33

MyAmpleSheep · 27/05/2025 17:15

It’s not the space that’s single sex, it’s the service. The law says service providers can discriminate by sex in appropriate circumstances, such as by providing separate toilets for use by men and women.

The person cleaning the toilets isn’t a service user, they’re part of the provision of that service, so allowing a man to clean a women’s toilet doesn’t make a mixed-sex toilet. If he stopped cleaning to unzip and pee in it, then he would become a service user. He shouldn’t do that.

It might be proportionate to allow only a women to clean a women’s toilet, but it wouldn’t be required in law, and it doesn’t change the nature of the service provision either way.

If you are asking a genuine question as opposed to using the male cleaner as a gotcha, why not respond to this helpful analysis?

Keeptoiletssafe · 27/05/2025 17:34

mardirousse · 27/05/2025 17:28

Yet men who pretend to be women do assault women.
Not too many stories of cleaner identifying males harassing and assaulting women, but maybe you'll direct me to some reports.

To be fair it is uncommon men pretend to be cleaners. There one case I know. More common is female cleaners being attacked by men. I think it can be a vulnerable job.

AngelinaFibres · 27/05/2025 17:34

mardirousse · 27/05/2025 17:28

Yet men who pretend to be women do assault women.
Not too many stories of cleaner identifying males harassing and assaulting women, but maybe you'll direct me to some reports.

Or maybe the men who think they're women, but can't now get into our spaces, will go online and buy themselves a uniform and a bucket and perv at women that way. I dare say they haven't done it because they didn't need to/ hadn't thought of it.

Greyskybluesky · 27/05/2025 17:35

titchy · 27/05/2025 17:29

Ooh I know, what if a man identified as a cleaner? Or a 6 year old?

😆I know you're joking, but I'm actually surprised someone on this thread hasn't already said "but what if a man disguised himself as a 6 year old to enter toilets and assault women".
I mean, that's the level of critical thinking apparent in some posters here!

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