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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Today it's Amnesty Internation on Woman's Hour to discuss the Supreme Court judgment

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nauticant · 16/05/2025 10:21

With Anita Rani. I am not expecting much in the way of challenges.

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jenfw · 16/05/2025 14:04

ThatCyanCat · 16/05/2025 14:01

I've got better things to do.

Well yes, that's abundantly obvious, but you aren't going to do any of them. That would involve doing some honest learning and accepting that women have rights.

Of course they do. I'm a feminist, but I have also seen the damage, sadness and fear caused to the gay and trans community. Nobody in their right mind would willingly choose to be trans. This division helps no one.

TheOtherRaven · 16/05/2025 14:06
Snow White Do Not Want GIF

Toxic - people disagree and explain why, threatening the happy security of misinformation and downloaded rightthink.

Yup that's this whole mindset/political group in a nutshell really.

spannasaurus · 16/05/2025 14:06

jenfw · 16/05/2025 14:04

Of course they do. I'm a feminist, but I have also seen the damage, sadness and fear caused to the gay and trans community. Nobody in their right mind would willingly choose to be trans. This division helps no one.

Have you see the damage, sadness and fear caused to lesbians by the trans community

Kucinghitam · 16/05/2025 14:07

That's my bingo card filled up within a few posts Grin

soupycustard · 16/05/2025 14:08

Oh no we're not going back to the 'if men are going to attack women they'll do it anyway' thing are we.
Whilst we're on that route, if people are going to burgled my house they will. So I won't bother locking my door.
In fact laws generally are a bit of a pain, and quite difficult and expensive to enforce.
And most people I've met don't break the law. So I think we should do away with laws because I had a really nice friend at primary school who got caught shoplifting and was told off and that made her cry, so you know, won't someone just think of that.
Or something.

jenfw · 16/05/2025 14:08

Datun · 16/05/2025 14:03

Jen has anyone ever said to you that you cannot make laws, or bring in far reaching policies, affecting the entire population, based on your mates?

You do realise that women have different experiences from one another?

The woman at the centre of the Darlington nurses case for instance, was raped for six years by her own father. When she went to get changed in her changing room at work, there was a man getting changed down to his underpants, and she thought she was going to pass out from the fear. Especially as he kept asking her why she wasn't getting undressed.

This woman, in an effort to help justify the position of herself and other nurses has gone onto national media to talk about her terrible childhood sex abuse. Something even her own adult children knew nothing of.

The percentage of women who will suffer sex abuse at the hands of men is huge.

They should not have to have their trauma plastered all over the papers in order for people to understand this.

In order for people to understand that sometimes, when they're vulnerable, or disrobing, or throwing up with morning sickness, or washing out menstruation accidents from their clothes, they bloody well need a space which excludes men.

Irrespective of all the reasons why men think they shouldn't have it.

Drag your eyes off the men for one fucking second.

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Datun, no need to patronize. Of course I know this. I have a First Class Degree and am studying for a Masters currently (then again, I'm a lone parent who are apparently all thick af and benefit scroungers). I haven't read all of your reply. You are talking to be heard and not to listen, which isn't constructive, so have a good day.

MagpiePi · 16/05/2025 14:08

jenfw · 16/05/2025 14:04

Of course they do. I'm a feminist, but I have also seen the damage, sadness and fear caused to the gay and trans community. Nobody in their right mind would willingly choose to be trans. This division helps no one.

I thought you’d gone….

SternJoyousBee · 16/05/2025 14:08

jenfw · 16/05/2025 13:50

I was born in 1983 love. Not possible.

Whenever you were there then love. The point still stands even if the decade was wrong.

JazzyJelly · 16/05/2025 14:09

We can all go home, jenfw has consented to men in women's single sex spaces on behalf of the other 4 billion women on earth. Issue sorted!

jenfw · 16/05/2025 14:10

MagpiePi · 16/05/2025 14:08

I thought you’d gone….

Off to join you looking for some shiny things girl

TheOtherRaven · 16/05/2025 14:10

jenfw · 16/05/2025 14:04

Of course they do. I'm a feminist, but I have also seen the damage, sadness and fear caused to the gay and trans community. Nobody in their right mind would willingly choose to be trans. This division helps no one.

So how do you propose to end this 'division' while still, as a feminist, keeping women's, lesbians, gay men's and women with trans identities protections in law? Because obviously you wouldn't want those rights and protections removed, would you?

Datun · 16/05/2025 14:10

jenfw · 16/05/2025 14:04

Of course they do. I'm a feminist, but I have also seen the damage, sadness and fear caused to the gay and trans community. Nobody in their right mind would willingly choose to be trans. This division helps no one.

You may think of yourself as a feminist, but you don't know anything about this issue.

You don't know anything about DSDs, you don't know anything about the sex offending rates of men, or men who identify as trans, you seem to have absolutely no clue why women might want a private space when they're taking their clothes off.

I mean it's bloody basic. Why do you think women might want to be in a women only space when they've got their knickers around their ankles, are rinsing out their underwear, or taking off their clothes?

As I said, really try your very hardest, with your eyes tightly shut, to drag your focus off the men for one fucking nanosecond.

ThatCyanCat · 16/05/2025 14:10

jenfw · 16/05/2025 14:04

Of course they do. I'm a feminist, but I have also seen the damage, sadness and fear caused to the gay and trans community. Nobody in their right mind would willingly choose to be trans. This division helps no one.

Nobody in their right mind would willingly choose to be trans.

We agree on one thing. The number of mentally ill fetishists, predators and perverts claiming a trans identity does indeed suggest they're not in their right mind and they shouldn't be given access to naked women and girls as an affirmation therapy.

If you don't like the division, then start working towards third spaces. You won't, of course, and we all know why. But your time emotionally blackmailing women for being "divisive" for not consenting to what you want and swallowing lies and offensive misinformation about sex is over. The solution is third spaces. If you're a feminist looking for harmony, push for those. How many men do you harp at to be welcoming of TW in their spaces? Or do you reserve that for women while claiming not to know what a woman is?

BundleBoogie · 16/05/2025 14:10

Well said @Datun 👏

SternJoyousBee · 16/05/2025 14:10

jenfw · 16/05/2025 13:51

In addition, what is your stance on intersex people who have both sexual organs?

No one has both functioning organs. No one is the producer of both large and small gametes.

DSDs are sex specific.

Datun · 16/05/2025 14:11

jenfw · 16/05/2025 14:08

Datun, no need to patronize. Of course I know this. I have a First Class Degree and am studying for a Masters currently (then again, I'm a lone parent who are apparently all thick af and benefit scroungers). I haven't read all of your reply. You are talking to be heard and not to listen, which isn't constructive, so have a good day.

Haha!!

jenfw · 16/05/2025 14:12

JazzyJelly · 16/05/2025 14:09

We can all go home, jenfw has consented to men in women's single sex spaces on behalf of the other 4 billion women on earth. Issue sorted!

Why would you embarrass yourself like this? You are a grown woman, hitting those keys and coming out like a child in a high school playground. You don't agree with me - that's fine, but there is no need to spit venom, sarcasm and childishness out in response.

MagpiePi · 16/05/2025 14:12

jenfw · 16/05/2025 14:10

Off to join you looking for some shiny things girl

Eh?
Oh! a magpie reference.

I'm not going anywhere just yet, I’ve only just got my popcorn ready, but if you want me to take that spade off you, just hand it over here, girl

Shortshriftandlethal · 16/05/2025 14:12

TeaCalm74 · 16/05/2025 13:31

Your missing the point @jenfw it's not genuine trans people who want to go about their business that's the problem here
It's the men who identify as trans to gain access to women only spaces
Changing rooms. Rape crisis centres, sports teams. And use this to inflict SA and harassment against women and girls

What's a shame is that the trans community who were happily cracking on have now been infiltrated with men with lady dicks and men who are lesbians and the lesbians are terrible people if they don't suck a man's "lady dick" so therefore it's not the trans identifying people in the gay bar. It's the men in the brownie bunk we want out our spaces

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Since the term 'Queer' has become the lingua franca the trans umbrella has grown to include every Tom, Dick and Harry.

" Genuine" trans people still remain either male or female. Single sex spaces for women are meant for members of the female sex only.....it doesn't matter how cool, queer or lovely your trans friend in the gay club is.

PrincessSoles · 16/05/2025 14:12

Couldn't bear to listen to Amnesty - lost any respect and my donations (had been a monthly contributor for years) when they phoned me to ask for an increase in my monthly donation 18 years ago when I was about two weeks postpartum. I explained that I was unable to increase donation and they proceeded to lecture me on how many women were being murdered by their partners/husbands and how they needed my money. I explained that I didn't need to hear this as was struggling with breastfeeding and en route to PND. They carried on lecturing me regardless until I was in tears.

When I wrote to them to cancel my donations and tell them exactly what I thought of their tactics, I received a letter telling me that I needed to consider all those women who were vulnerable. Oh the irony!

Datun · 16/05/2025 14:13

Here Jen, just try this, I know reading is hard.

I mean it's bloody basic. Why do you think women might want to be in a women only space when they've got their knickers around their ankles, are rinsing out their underwear, or taking off their clothes?

CassOle · 16/05/2025 14:13

Datun · 16/05/2025 14:10

You may think of yourself as a feminist, but you don't know anything about this issue.

You don't know anything about DSDs, you don't know anything about the sex offending rates of men, or men who identify as trans, you seem to have absolutely no clue why women might want a private space when they're taking their clothes off.

I mean it's bloody basic. Why do you think women might want to be in a women only space when they've got their knickers around their ankles, are rinsing out their underwear, or taking off their clothes?

As I said, really try your very hardest, with your eyes tightly shut, to drag your focus off the men for one fucking nanosecond.

Agreed.

Also, why would disabled women and girls who need intimate care need to have the option to request true single-sex intimate care?

I do also support men being able to request single-sex intimate care.

Kucinghitam · 16/05/2025 14:14

This is shaping up to be history's most protracted flounce...

SternJoyousBee · 16/05/2025 14:14

jenfw · 16/05/2025 13:56

You have asked a woman. Me. I'm a straight woman. I have a friend who is a trans man who believes their should be spaces for both. I used to be against this but my children's half sibling, who was born a girl, now identifies as a trans man. She had contemplated killing herself. Living life as a trans person, from what I've seen, is hell, as there are very few people who accept you, and most want to actively harm you. I don't think these conversations really help anyone, just create more hate, misery and division.

Saying “no” to a trans identifying person is not actively harming them. You have swallowed the hyberbolic nonsense.

ThatCyanCat · 16/05/2025 14:15

Jen's Masters dissertation in full:

I consent to men in women's spaces so all other women must consent too

You're toxic, I'm leaving

Wot about intersex

Gay men have never bothered me

You're toxic, I'm leaving

Let men get their knobs out in the ladies in the name of harmony

You're toxic, I'm leaving

Err...

That's it.

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