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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Kathleen Stock - "These people are just a bit thick"

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Another2Cats · 29/04/2025 14:04

So, Kathleen Stock has just made her views on people like Joylon Maugham et al known.

She started off with a tweet that said:

"Never mind the serious reputations, the accents, the swagger, the BBC connections, the Guardian column, the KC status, the rave book reviews, or whatever it is - like no other issue, trans ideology shows up people who are really quite stupid."

Which, not unsurprisingly, got a lot of replies. Some in support and some defending these people.

In reply to those defending these people she then had this to say. It's a different take on how to approach the argument. Don't know if I entirely agree:
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I never do a long post but first time for everything. Lots of lively comment on my "they are just quite thick" explanation of Establishment transactivism capture (proposed hashtags #itsthestupidstupid #makeidiocymortifyingagain).

Also, some alternative explanations being proposed. I suppose my conclusion is: it doesn't matter if they really ARE thick, or just pretending/left-brained/lost in a cult/cosseted from the consequences/ smart in a way that makes them susceptible to motivated reasoning.

Having spent best part of six years (FML) arguing patiently with these people, a) I am not convinced of the more charitable explanations for notable characters, and b) either way, I don't care any more. If it walks like a moron, talks like a moron, it is – for all relevant purposes– a moron, and we should say so.

So for instance (just a small selection from timeline today):

  • if you think transwomen (men) are to women what step-parents are to their children YOU ARE A MORON (think it through to the end: when was the metaphorical marriage? wtf is "womaning" as a verb? Wearing kneesocks?)
  • If you think you can't know your own sex because you haven't seen your chromosomes YOU ARE A MORON (if that is the burden of proof, how do you personally know you have a brain?)
  • If you think that the Supreme Court should have "consulted trans people" about their "lived experience" while interpreting existing law YOU ARE A MORON, this is not what courts do; and for good reason - how would it be workably scaled up?
  • If you base your glowing view of trans ideology on what your daughter at private school and all her mates tell you (it doesn't affect us, Dad, why can't they just be kind?), then YOU ARE A MORON. What kind of general epistemology is that, exactly? You seem to be confusing having 360 degree insight into the intersection of law and social reality with them being able to use the remote better than you can.

I see so many people on here trying to shame the likes of Maugham, Campbell, Stewart, Harman (insert your most annoying establishment shill for transactivism here) on the grounds of their ethical failures and inability to empathise with vulnerable or respect basic fairness norms. It is hopeless. These people are utterly convinced of their moral rectitude, they automatically take disagreement as a sign of the limited mindset of their opposition.

We should forget all that, and hit them where it hurts: in the ego. THESE PEOPLE ARE JUST A BIT THICK. They are promoted way above their station, have blustered through on their accents, educations, and connections, and now the tide is going out, we can truly see who is naked. Let's learn from this, and never trust their so-called expertise on any other matter again.

https://x.com/Docstockk/status/1917165815339589823

https://x.com/hashtag/makeidiocymortifyingagain?src=hashtag_click

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MelOfTheRoses · 29/04/2025 15:49

Yes, it has been wall to wall wilfully shallow arguments in the media since the SC. So many disingenuous people out there desperate to miss the point.

We have decades and centuries of research available so there are no excuses.

Iamnotalemming · 29/04/2025 15:50

How brilliant. She's not wrong, is she?

orangegato · 29/04/2025 15:54

She is bang on. Dangerous, arrogant fuckwits.

KnottyAuty · 29/04/2025 16:00

DragonRunor · 29/04/2025 14:26

Oh I really do like it!

It does remind me of the number of times posters here have carefully explained to other (let’s say, anti-women) posters the logical fallacy of their argument, only to have them pop up making the same batshit statements on another thread. They aren’t able to provide any rational argument, yet they keep spouting the same views.

We keep on going, for the sake of the lurkers!

Thank you for that! Invaluable service xx

LonginesPrime · 29/04/2025 16:01

MelOfTheRoses · 29/04/2025 15:49

Yes, it has been wall to wall wilfully shallow arguments in the media since the SC. So many disingenuous people out there desperate to miss the point.

We have decades and centuries of research available so there are no excuses.

And before the SC ruling too.

I guess the difference is that before the ruling, the police, employers, etc thought Stonewall law was law, so none of us could express what we really thought without potentially dire consequences.

So we had to tie ourselves in knots to argue against patently obvious stupid and bad faith arguments without being able to call them out as such, which is why it took professional philosophers such as KS to speak out on our behalf. She had to choose her words incredibly carefully despite our all being able to see the truth - that gender woo is nonsensical.

Whereas now, people are free to say the quiet part out loud, as the police can’t exactly arrest us for saying what the SC has ruled as bloody obvious.

OuterSpaceCadet · 29/04/2025 16:09

Oh I fucking love Kathleen Stock sometimes! Thanks for sharing. What a cathartic read.

Given what she's gone through, I think she's earned the right to stop being polite to people when they're being twattish.

Another2Cats · 29/04/2025 16:14

LonginesPrime · 29/04/2025 15:08

It's a different take on how to approach the argument. Don't know if I entirely agree

Thanks for sharing, OP.

The thing is, you don’t have to agree.

The point of having the protected characteristic of “woman” in the EA is that we women are in the same class when it comes to our biological sex, because that’s the relevant characteristic for the purpose of sex discrimination.

But outside of that, women are obviously all different and have all sorts of opinions and communication styles, etc that we won’t all agree on.

The whole point about women’s rights is that as long as you agree as to what a woman is and that every woman should have sex-based rights and protections, it doesn’t matter whether an individual woman says or does something that makes them appear less deserving of those rights (as I’m sure TRAs will try to argue) - they’re entitled to those rights by virtue of their sex regardless of how they speak, and TRAs can advocate for merit-based or femininity-based rights all they like, but they’re based on biological sex, so tough titties.

I don’t agree with everything I’ve heard from every GC advocate in the media, IRL or on MN, sometimes because of the way they’ve phrased something or because of what they say, but I still agree with them on the central issue of women’s rights. Despite what TRAs try to make out, women’s rights activism isn’t a cult headed by JKR and KS, so it’s absolutely fine to disagree with them!

"The thing is, you don’t have to agree."

Oh, don't get me wrong, I would love the opportunity to tell, say, Owen Jones to his face "You're really quite thick, aren't you?"

But whether that would actually achieve anything I really don't know (except for giving me a bit of satisfaction).

But maybe that really is the only thing that will goad some of these people into having a reasoned argument?

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User37482 · 29/04/2025 16:14

She has a point.

OminousFlute · 29/04/2025 16:15

I heard her on PM talking to Evan Davies saying something like "I can remember thinking, if I can just explain to people, then they will realise what's going on." That was years ago and like the rest of us she ran out of fucks to give a long, long time ago.

KnottyAuty · 29/04/2025 16:16

Thanks so much for posting this. I’ve been worrying about all this stupidity and how women’s rights will be ignored… for sure debate needs to happen but now if someone talks utter tripe theres no need to get embroiled - just roll out the hashtags:
#makeidiocymortifyingagain
#itsthestupidstupid

brilliant!

moto748e · 29/04/2025 16:20

but I would tend to take the Michelle Obama tack: 'We go high'.

And how's Obama's team doing at the moment? No, fuck 'em. They don't play fair, or honest. Doc Stock is bang on, as usual.

Westfacing · 29/04/2025 16:32

LittleBitofBread · 29/04/2025 14:57

I know KS has had a bellyful of nonsense and I can see why she's at the end of her tether, but unfortunately I can't get past the word 'moron', which is considered pretty offensive now.

I know I'm being naive/Pollyann-ish saying this, but I would tend to take the Michelle Obama tack: 'We go high'.

I disagree.

'We go high' didn't work out well for the Democrats in the US - it allowed Trump to get away with all sorts of outrageous behaviour with his lies and attempts at insurrection.

You have to fight dirt with dirt in my opinion!

LittleBitofBread · 29/04/2025 16:35

I get the anger, of course. I just don't want to be seen hurling insults.

JasmineAllen · 29/04/2025 16:51

LittleBitofBread · 29/04/2025 16:35

I get the anger, of course. I just don't want to be seen hurling insults.

I'm happy to hurl insults at people who hurl insists at me and even worse think I should be raped/hung/murdered because I don't agree with their nonsense.

I think KS is correct, some people are just wilfully stupid and should be called out on their idiocy, especially when it affects others so much.

MarieDeGournay · 29/04/2025 16:53

I know it's a minority opinion on here but I don't agree with using the words 'thick' and 'stupid' about people you don't agree with. I certainly don't agree with using the word 'moron' which is just plain offensive.

We have ample evidence in the trans debate about people who are clearly intelligent, educated, knowledgeable, highly respected in their field expressing opinions that we think are nonsense. There's even a thread about how can intelligent people believe this genderwoo mullarkey.

Because I have spent a lot of time researching and reflecting, I think I'm right in all my firmly-held believes. But I know everybody doesn't agree with me, and it irks me when people argue with me from a position of relative ignorance.
But that doesn't make them thick, or stupid, or a moron, and I don't agree with using those words about them. About anybody, for that matter.

It does however make them wrong wrong wrong, and I'll take that😄

Stepfordian · 29/04/2025 17:09

MarieDeGournay · 29/04/2025 16:53

I know it's a minority opinion on here but I don't agree with using the words 'thick' and 'stupid' about people you don't agree with. I certainly don't agree with using the word 'moron' which is just plain offensive.

We have ample evidence in the trans debate about people who are clearly intelligent, educated, knowledgeable, highly respected in their field expressing opinions that we think are nonsense. There's even a thread about how can intelligent people believe this genderwoo mullarkey.

Because I have spent a lot of time researching and reflecting, I think I'm right in all my firmly-held believes. But I know everybody doesn't agree with me, and it irks me when people argue with me from a position of relative ignorance.
But that doesn't make them thick, or stupid, or a moron, and I don't agree with using those words about them. About anybody, for that matter.

It does however make them wrong wrong wrong, and I'll take that😄

Yes, but there’s a difference between differing political opinions and outright stupidity, these people are literally claiming humans can change sex, it’s on par with flat earthers and people who don’t believe in evolution, they’re entitled to their opinions and the rest of us are entitled to think they’re thick.

LadyBracknellsHandbagg · 29/04/2025 17:12

moto748e · 29/04/2025 16:20

but I would tend to take the Michelle Obama tack: 'We go high'.

And how's Obama's team doing at the moment? No, fuck 'em. They don't play fair, or honest. Doc Stock is bang on, as usual.

Obama is also part of the reason we’re here, he blithely signed a lot of this nonsense into law during his two terms. I think you’ll also find that Michelle Obama is pretty much on the TWAW bus.

LadyBracknellsHandbagg · 29/04/2025 17:21

I have to admit that when I meet anyone that is even a little bit captured by this nonsense I do tend to think they can’t be very bright. Especially those from a medical/scientific background.

I also question anyone’s motives who expect me to collude with them about something that is fundamentally false, I wouldn’t agree with a flat earther about their ideology, so I’m certainly not going to agree with GI.

As Sal Grover says, ‘if you believe women have penises I won’t believe a single thing you say, because if you will lie about something so obvious, I will assume you will lie about everything’. (Or you’re a bit thick!).

Soontobe60 · 29/04/2025 17:21

Brilliant!
You seem to be confusing having 360 degree insight into the intersection of law and social reality with them being able to use the remote better than you can

She’s absolute class.

thenoisiesttermagant · 29/04/2025 17:22

PriOn1 · 29/04/2025 14:58

One by one, even the most reasonable, most patient, most intelligent women eventually reach this point.

I can’t say it should surprise me. The whole argument is so ludicrous once you stop using all the language and start to think clearly. In addition, there’s only so much abuse you can take before starting to retaliate.

I lost the ability to remain polite a while back. It’s a bit of a pain as it opened me up to tone policing and has had some horribly negative side effects, but it’s just so utterly frustrating that I think it’s amazing the likes of Kathleen Stock lasted as long as she did.

We are all abused women in this situation, told off for not being polite enough to our abusers.

Too right we're all abused women. Gender ideology is a form of coercive control - applied at a societal level by those with most prestige and wealth on those with less social power than them, but particularly the most vulnerable women (such as women in prison) but also working class women and children.

Soontobe60 · 29/04/2025 17:24

MarieDeGournay · 29/04/2025 16:53

I know it's a minority opinion on here but I don't agree with using the words 'thick' and 'stupid' about people you don't agree with. I certainly don't agree with using the word 'moron' which is just plain offensive.

We have ample evidence in the trans debate about people who are clearly intelligent, educated, knowledgeable, highly respected in their field expressing opinions that we think are nonsense. There's even a thread about how can intelligent people believe this genderwoo mullarkey.

Because I have spent a lot of time researching and reflecting, I think I'm right in all my firmly-held believes. But I know everybody doesn't agree with me, and it irks me when people argue with me from a position of relative ignorance.
But that doesn't make them thick, or stupid, or a moron, and I don't agree with using those words about them. About anybody, for that matter.

It does however make them wrong wrong wrong, and I'll take that😄

She’s not using those words about people she doesn’t agree with per se, she’s using them about people whose beliefs are so far removed from science and reality that it beggars belief.

tortieCatLover · 29/04/2025 17:24

THESE PEOPLE ARE JUST A BIT THICK. They are promoted way above their station, have blustered through on their accents, educations, and connections, and now the tide is going out, we can truly see who is naked. Let's learn from this, and never trust their so-called expertise on any other matter again.

She has a point.

I think her patience is just gone though and after many years of arguging with this never ending nonsenes I can see why she just wants to say - this is utter nonsense and only an idiot would say it rather than being kind and finding excuses.

moto748e · 29/04/2025 17:25

LadyBracknellsHandbagg · 29/04/2025 17:12

Obama is also part of the reason we’re here, he blithely signed a lot of this nonsense into law during his two terms. I think you’ll also find that Michelle Obama is pretty much on the TWAW bus.

Agreed, actually. Although he's still regarded as a latter-day saint by much of the liberal Left in Europe as well as the US, plenty of this nonsense started on his watch, with his full approval.

thenoisiesttermagant · 29/04/2025 17:27

I think the people that sign up to gender ideology are either thick, scared or bullies (i.e. abusers) who enjoy the coercive control.

On the NHS Audit thread there's a trust who have a policy that states if a patient questions why a transwoman (aka biological male) is on their ward they will be met with 'zero tolerance'. So a threat, basically for having eyes that see and daring to speak up.

lcakethereforeIam · 29/04/2025 17:32

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