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PoisedRubyLion · 25/04/2025 22:59

BiologicalRobot · 25/04/2025 22:36

Yes, he needs to use the blokes as they are a biological male. No, he didn't "pass" for the majority of women who saw him in the Women's they were just #bekind or scared to make a fuss. You can support your friend by encouraging him to acknowledge his biological maleness and that it matters in many different settings, not just medical ones.

I’m sorry, but I just don’t believe that. She has never experienced any issues in public and none of my friends have asked me when I introduce her.

DrSpartacularsMagnificentOctopus · 25/04/2025 23:00

OakleyAnnie · 25/04/2025 22:58

“Except where each toilet is in a separate room lockable from the inside “
isn’t that an exact description of every single toilet cubicle?

No, there's a difference between a room full of individual cubicles, typically without full walls, and with shared sinks, and separate fully enclosed and walled rooms with sinks in each one.

murasaki · 25/04/2025 23:00

PoisedRubyLion · 25/04/2025 22:59

I’m sorry, but I just don’t believe that. She has never experienced any issues in public and none of my friends have asked me when I introduce her.

Because they're polite. They will know.

DrSpartacularsMagnificentOctopus · 25/04/2025 23:01

PoisedRubyLion · 25/04/2025 22:59

I’m sorry, but I just don’t believe that. She has never experienced any issues in public and none of my friends have asked me when I introduce her.

Well, he's going to have to stop using the women's toilets forthwith.

Conxis · 25/04/2025 23:02

senua · 25/04/2025 22:12

I love the new terminology "trans women (biological men)".
We need to start adopting it.

I think that’s the terminology that should be used when workplaces, schools, hospitals etc are writing their policies. It would make it so much clearer to people exactly who they’re referring to

WandaSiri · 25/04/2025 23:02

GrumpyMenopausalWombWielder · 25/04/2025 22:52

For those who can’t find it or the writing is too small, this is the relevant section (it’s actually page 49)

”When the GRA 2004 was being developed, Press for Change suggested the wording used in section 9 where sex and gender are used interchangeably. [redacted] advised that this was intentional in order to prevent trans people from being discriminated against in terms of their sex. Their view was that there was a risk that service providers, etc. would say something along the lines of “the act means we recognise your acquired gender identity, however, your sex hasn’t changed” and trans people would still be denied services.“

For all the outrage we’ve seen, trans orgs have known that the act meant biological sex all along - they just wanted to confuse those who would have to enforce what it actually meant (frontline staff & middle management without sufficient legal advice) so that would prevent anyone excluding someone with the PC of gender reassignment on the basis of their actual biological sex.

Wow. Sneaky bastards!

CrocsNotDocs · 25/04/2025 23:02

This is great. HR people and head teachers are going to have their inboxes full of this document on Monday with parents and employees demanding the men get of their facilities/their daughters’ facilities.

There is no way for the HR people or head teachers to wiggle or twist this and in fact, I think many will be quite relieved.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/04/2025 23:02

GrumpyMenopausalWombWielder · 25/04/2025 22:52

For those who can’t find it or the writing is too small, this is the relevant section (it’s actually page 49)

”When the GRA 2004 was being developed, Press for Change suggested the wording used in section 9 where sex and gender are used interchangeably. [redacted] advised that this was intentional in order to prevent trans people from being discriminated against in terms of their sex. Their view was that there was a risk that service providers, etc. would say something along the lines of “the act means we recognise your acquired gender identity, however, your sex hasn’t changed” and trans people would still be denied services.“

For all the outrage we’ve seen, trans orgs have known that the act meant biological sex all along - they just wanted to confuse those who would have to enforce what it actually meant (frontline staff & middle management without sufficient legal advice) so that would prevent anyone excluding someone with the PC of gender reassignment on the basis of their actual biological sex.

I think they have always known too.

If you look at this guidance from the EHRC three years ago, it talks about how you can exclude trans people from single sex spaces and services for the opposite sex, whether or not they have a gender recognition certificate.

https://www.equalityhumanrights.com/equality/equality-act-2010/separate-and-single-sex-service-providers-guide-equality-act-sex-and

To me, that alone confirms that we have always known that sex means biological sex and trumps legal sex where necessary.

The Supreme Court judgment now appears to go further than that, saying that you must exclude trans people from single sex spaces for the opposite sex.

Defending this litigation has been a disaster for the TQ+ lobby. I bet they are furious with the Scottish government as well.

BiologicalRobot · 25/04/2025 23:03

PoisedRubyLion · 25/04/2025 22:59

I’m sorry, but I just don’t believe that. She has never experienced any issues in public and none of my friends have asked me when I introduce her.

Ohhhhh maaate. You'll learn.

Lovelyview · 25/04/2025 23:04

SameyMcNameChange · 25/04/2025 21:02

Excellent. I will send a copy to my employer on Monday. Together with the copy of the email I sent them 4 years ago pointing out they were breaking the law, and please could they change their policy, which they refused to do…..

I only became aware of what has been going on a couple of years ago because I live in the middle of nowhere, work for myself and relied on The Guardian for my news. I can't imagine how frustrating it has been to be trying to restore sanity in a captured organisation. Four years of having to put up with this nonsense. Enjoy your vindication!

KilkennyCats · 25/04/2025 23:05

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/04/2025 23:02

I think they have always known too.

If you look at this guidance from the EHRC three years ago, it talks about how you can exclude trans people from single sex spaces and services for the opposite sex, whether or not they have a gender recognition certificate.

https://www.equalityhumanrights.com/equality/equality-act-2010/separate-and-single-sex-service-providers-guide-equality-act-sex-and

To me, that alone confirms that we have always known that sex means biological sex and trumps legal sex where necessary.

The Supreme Court judgment now appears to go further than that, saying that you must exclude trans people from single sex spaces for the opposite sex.

Defending this litigation has been a disaster for the TQ+ lobby. I bet they are furious with the Scottish government as well.

Hoist with their own petard.
It’s delicious 😁

JemimaTiggywinkles · 25/04/2025 23:05

And if you can create an association for LG plus B, why not for women plus trans women?

There needs to be something which is shared by the group you are including but not the group you are excluding. So for LGB the “something” would be a minority sexual orientation. You can lawfully exclude straight people because they don’t share this “something”.

The court judgement didn’t say you aren’t allowed to have women+transwomen. But it said that it couldn’t think of anything which those had in common which would not be also shared by men or transmen. So the court couldn’t come up with a legitimate justification for having a women-transwomen group. Doesn’t mean such justification doesn’t exist, of course.

WandaSiri · 25/04/2025 23:05

OakleyAnnie · 25/04/2025 22:58

“Except where each toilet is in a separate room lockable from the inside “
isn’t that an exact description of every single toilet cubicle?

They've left out "self-contained" .

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 25/04/2025 23:06

LonginesPrime · 25/04/2025 22:56

The guidance is clear for the people who (attempt to) organise LGB groups as they have been trying to explain this section of the EA to everyone else for years!

The reason you can’t create a group for women and transwomen but exclude everyone else is because women and transwomen don’t share a protected characteristic- they fall under different ones.

Another way to think about it is being able to exclude people with a PC. So an LGB association is excluding all the heterosexual people and only the heterosexual people.

Excluding some of the women and some of the men, when the women you exclude have a PC that the men you exclude lack, isn't comparable to excluding all the straight people and only the straight people.

titchy · 25/04/2025 23:08

LonginesPrime · 25/04/2025 22:30

There actually are three sexual orientations as far as the law goes - they’re listed in the Equality Act at s12(1)(a) - (c).

But yes, lesbians and bisexual women share the sexual orientation of attraction towards persons of the same sex in this context, so I agree with you there.

Yeah I probably explained badly - obvs several different sexualities, but one PC of sexuality. So an LGB group can be considered to share one PC - that of non-heterosexualality.

LonginesPrime · 25/04/2025 23:09

Conxis · 25/04/2025 23:02

I think that’s the terminology that should be used when workplaces, schools, hospitals etc are writing their policies. It would make it so much clearer to people exactly who they’re referring to

Yes, I think this terminology will have to be used, as there are still loads of people who get it the wrong way around and think a trans woman is biologically female and vice versa - possibly part of the reason some people haven’t realised the issue.

I’ve certainly had conversations where people can’t understand why a women wouldn’t want to share an intimate space with another biological female wearing men’s clothing, until we’ve realised we were talking at cross purposes and they find out that a transwoman is a biological male (and usually intact), and then they completely understand women’s objection to that.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 25/04/2025 23:10

OakleyAnnie · 25/04/2025 22:58

“Except where each toilet is in a separate room lockable from the inside “
isn’t that an exact description of every single toilet cubicle?

Would your bedroom count as a "separate room" if the walls were made of melamine-faced chipboard panels with gaps at the top and bottom? Or would you call those panels "partitioning" and not "walls"?

ArabellaScott · 25/04/2025 23:11

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 25/04/2025 23:10

Would your bedroom count as a "separate room" if the walls were made of melamine-faced chipboard panels with gaps at the top and bottom? Or would you call those panels "partitioning" and not "walls"?

There are regs about partitions etc,

KilkennyCats · 25/04/2025 23:12

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 25/04/2025 23:10

Would your bedroom count as a "separate room" if the walls were made of melamine-faced chipboard panels with gaps at the top and bottom? Or would you call those panels "partitioning" and not "walls"?

Surely separate room would be like those you see in Starbucks; a literal room complete with washing facilities that only one person uses at a time.
A cubicle that opens onto shared sinks is totally unisex.

ArabellaScott · 25/04/2025 23:13

Internal walls have standards.

Mostly for fire regs and insulation etc

www.planningportal.co.uk/permission/common-projects/internal-walls/what-building-regulations-apply-to-internal-walls

UtopiaPlanitia · 25/04/2025 23:16

Imnobody4 · 25/04/2025 21:34

Great stuff. I think the speed of this has a lot to do with Kishwer Falkner's contract ending in Nov. She must want to finish the job.

Sir Keir Starmer is refusing to commit to reappointing the head of the equalities watchdog who championed legal protections for ­biological women in same-sex spaces such as lavatories and NHS wards.

www.thetimes.com/article/46fa3712-2afc-42d1-a960-07aa45a77f05?shareToken=f386ca5249d48ef952b52c858e36a703

Harriet Harmon has had her eyes on that post and she’s remarkably good at getting Labour leaders to appoint her to sinecures.

Confusedsquirrel · 25/04/2025 23:17

A refreshing read in my opinion, steps in the right direction. Although a quick browse of Reddit tonight makes clear the difference of opinion from the trans community!

Interim guidance from EHRC is out
Unitarily · 25/04/2025 23:18

Wow. I am shocked. I thought they will still find a way to wiggle out of it. Hard to believe this might actually be over.

murasaki · 25/04/2025 23:19

Confusedsquirrel · 25/04/2025 23:17

A refreshing read in my opinion, steps in the right direction. Although a quick browse of Reddit tonight makes clear the difference of opinion from the trans community!

There's a bit to unpack there. So they accept that real does not include trans? Well that's a win.

And where is their evidence on the brains?

PoisedRubyLion · 25/04/2025 23:20

BiologicalRobot · 25/04/2025 23:03

Ohhhhh maaate. You'll learn.

Do you really think every person my friend has met was just being nice? I just don’t believe that. She is a normal person, extremely kind, and dresses appropriately for her age.

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