Them and they isn’t the right term right?

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On Friday we were discussing the ruling at work, a man in my team (who’s teen identifies as they) said it’s just easier to refer to everyone as they/them?

i disagree massively he’s confused the hell out of us with this already

I’m not they or them because I’m a woman and not plural, he’s been doing this for months now and I’ve bit my tongue

how would you handle this?

Quite. Every time he uses 'they' ask for clarification - who does 'they' refer to?

Clarity is all-important when assigning tasks, quoting what someone has said, acknowledging contributions and many other things.

Op - please do come back and tell us how it goes?!

Will do, I’ve got a few days off now so will be later in the week