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Peony1897 · 16/04/2025 13:40

PaleBlueMoonlight · 16/04/2025 13:38

There seems to be an emerging tactic of "what about transmen" and that "the law is still unclear".

Well yes, there will also be some who try to claim this as some kind of twisted victory, such is their allergic reaction to admitting defeat in any possible way.

Arran2024 · 16/04/2025 13:41

Daisypod · 16/04/2025 12:49

Did anyone listen to Jeremy Vine on radio 2? He’s just done a section on this and the tra they had on was ridiculous, apparently 2% of people born are intersex and cannot be sexed at birth and actually it doesn’t matter because how do we actually know what sex people are at birth anyway. JV didn’t really know how to react to that, I’ve always found him on the be kind side but I think that even shocked him as of course we know at birth what sex people are!
all the usual arguments were trotted out, focusing on trans rights and how they are the most at risk in society and ignoring the dangers women live with everyday.
There was one women who called in who was fabulously clear and made so great arguments.

The whole thing was awful. The woman he had on to support the ruling just waffled on about nothing - at one point she seemed to be supporting the other side - and the trans man made some silly, irrelevant points which weren't challenged. It could have been so much better. They should have lined up much more informed contributors - it felt to me like they scrambled about to find anyone at the last minute.

justasking111 · 16/04/2025 13:41

OvaHere · 16/04/2025 13:32

This.

There's some men who hate women so thoroughly, even if they don a frock.

PowerTulle · 16/04/2025 13:41

Is Jane Fae the individual who put together advice for men who wanted to hide online searching and viewing of extreme violent porn involving performed rape, mutilation and murder?

WinterTrees · 16/04/2025 13:41

PaleBlueMoonlight · 16/04/2025 13:38

There seems to be an emerging tactic of "what about transmen" and that "the law is still unclear".

Yes, from being forgotten, overlooked and ignored, transmen have suddenly become of paramount importance today. It reminds me of that scene at the end of Titanic when the evil fiancé seizes an unknown child as a ticket onto a lifeboat.

Rightsraptor · 16/04/2025 13:42

'Jane Fae' - "we will survive".

'Heather' Herbert - "it won't make much difference".

AshesofTime · 16/04/2025 13:42

Peony1897 · 16/04/2025 13:40

Well yes, there will also be some who try to claim this as some kind of twisted victory, such is their allergic reaction to admitting defeat in any possible way.

Surely, the law is crystal clear? You can't discriminate against someone because they have a trans identity, but that doesn't mean you can give them free access to single-sex spaces when they don't belong to said sex. Just what are they "confused" about?

EasternStandard · 16/04/2025 13:42

Peony1897 · 16/04/2025 13:38

Does anyone else just love the photos of women celebrating the ruling? I’m so thankful to them. It’s wonderful seeing, for once, a celebration of women and their determination when they’re not ‘media approved’ women (aka 20 year old celebrities or members of the Royal Family).

Yes love it.

CriticalCondition · 16/04/2025 13:42

PowerTulle · 16/04/2025 13:41

Is Jane Fae the individual who put together advice for men who wanted to hide online searching and viewing of extreme violent porn involving performed rape, mutilation and murder?

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Yes. Yes it is.

PowerTulle · 16/04/2025 13:43

PowerTulle · 16/04/2025 13:41

Is Jane Fae the individual who put together advice for men who wanted to hide online searching and viewing of extreme violent porn involving performed rape, mutilation and murder?

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Edited to include the word performed

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 16/04/2025 13:46

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Women's rights have historically been gained by arguing for justice, not by racist actions. Are you arguing to stop women from Afghanistan or Iran, for example, seeking asylum here?

PowerTulle · 16/04/2025 13:47

Thanks for confirming @CriticalCondition I thought I recognized the name.

The BBC really do have some sketchy contacts on speed dial for this topic don’t they.

justasking111 · 16/04/2025 13:48

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 16/04/2025 13:38

I think the impact of this ruling is potentially that if they allow males over the age of 8 in the women's changing rooms they can no longer describe them as single sex.

That said, the age limit of 8 muddies the waters somewhat, because the Equality Act does not make this distinction. But little boys have always been allowed in women's spaces with their mothers by common consent.

This as granny I can't Go into the mens swimming area changing rooms. So we go into the women's in a private cubicle where I can make sure the boys are dry dressed shoes on without offending anyone. It's difficult when you have an 8 year old and a 6 year old. Luckily our swimming baths are practical and sane.

NeedToChangeName · 16/04/2025 13:49

AshesofTime · 16/04/2025 13:37

But I thought they didn't include boys over the age of 8 who identified as women in that? I could very well be mixing them up with another gym though.

But now, following SC ruling, they can't allow adult men into female spaces, so they'll need to change their policy

sweetsardineface · 16/04/2025 13:51

Please tell me that women will no longer be obliged to refer to their rapists as ‘she’.

earlyr1ser · 16/04/2025 13:52

Beowulfa · 16/04/2025 08:09

I'm pessimistic. Nobody in power is brave enough to sort out this ludicrous tangle.

Isaac Asimov's robot stories are logic puzzles based on his 3 unarguable laws of robotics. We have set ourselves logic puzzles, but don't have a solid foundation to work from.

One way to disentangle it - the Asimov reference is very apt - would be to think not in terms of a person's identity, but rather in terms of what kind of puberty a person has undergone. This way, it is easy to keep born men out of vulnerable spaces without wading into theological discussions about language and law.

It works like this: if trans-women are women, they are still women who have been through male puberty. As such, the rules that apply to men regarding access to vulnerable spaces should apply on grounds of anatomical power alone - not identity. Case in point: nobody objects to little boys being in women's changing rooms, DV shelters, etc. Maleness is not the issue. Muscles and man-bits are the issue. Whether or not you think you're a woman.

Timefortulips · 16/04/2025 13:53

sweetsardineface · 16/04/2025 13:51

Please tell me that women will no longer be obliged to refer to their rapists as ‘she’.

I think that's outside the scope of the Equality Act, but I do believe the Equal Treatment Bench Book (handbook for judges) has changed some time ago and now makes it clear that witnesses must be allowed to speak freely and give the evidence of their eyes and ears.

Zebedee999 · 16/04/2025 13:54

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 16/04/2025 13:46

Women's rights have historically been gained by arguing for justice, not by racist actions. Are you arguing to stop women from Afghanistan or Iran, for example, seeking asylum here?

I am arguing to stop migrants from countries with disproportionately levels of sexual violence against women coming from here. I do not see why it is racist to want to protect women from sexual violence.

The statistics are below. Personally I put the rights of British women to be safe above those of migrants from these countries, why it is racist to protect women from sexual assault in your mind is beyond me.

Supreme court ruling
2JFDIYOLO · 16/04/2025 13:55

Brilliant

Timefortulips · 16/04/2025 13:55

Zebedee999 · 16/04/2025 13:54

I am arguing to stop migrants from countries with disproportionately levels of sexual violence against women coming from here. I do not see why it is racist to want to protect women from sexual violence.

The statistics are below. Personally I put the rights of British women to be safe above those of migrants from these countries, why it is racist to protect women from sexual assault in your mind is beyond me.

You're derailing this thread.

Nazzywish · 16/04/2025 13:57

Hurrah! Finally a bit of common sense

Willandra · 16/04/2025 13:58

sweetsardineface · 16/04/2025 13:51

Please tell me that women will no longer be obliged to refer to their rapists as ‘she’.

There was legal advice last week from the Judicial Office advising judges to stop using the accused's preferred pronouns in such cases as it was prejudicial, and, oh, yeah, unfair on the victim.

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Jamclag · 16/04/2025 13:59

What do we think TRAs like Heather Herbert mean when they say the clarification of the law will make very little difference to their day to day lives?

Are they banking on most employers/institutions making services/ facilities unisex or do they mean they're just going to ignore any enforcement of single sex spaces regardless?

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 16/04/2025 13:59

Arran2024 · 16/04/2025 13:41

The whole thing was awful. The woman he had on to support the ruling just waffled on about nothing - at one point she seemed to be supporting the other side - and the trans man made some silly, irrelevant points which weren't challenged. It could have been so much better. They should have lined up much more informed contributors - it felt to me like they scrambled about to find anyone at the last minute.

All the women who could have made an informed contribution were busy, they all had a prior engagement at the Supreme Court. 😁

gingerpassthegin · 16/04/2025 14:02

Fantastic news!

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