Being a man was too much hard work, so I became a woman

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Yep, it's a good old DM article I'm afraid.

Being a man was too much hard work, so I became a woman: Inside the transmaxxing trend where men swap gender to get 'female' benefits like cheaper car insurance, free meals and sex | Daily Mail Online

I've not started a post in this section before, so apologies but I saw the headline and thought it would be one to share. "Transmaxxing" is a thing in incel culture and I know has been discussed here before. So yeah, being a woman is also now meaning you have failed at being a man 😡

I can't find the accusation of homophobia, but he refers to the incident in this column:

You don’t have to be trans to be an ally against transphobia | Owen Jones | The Guardian

When I wrote about trans rights earlier this year, I encountered one of the angriest and most determined backlashes against anything I have written. It did not come from knuckle-dragging bigots but from self-described radical feminists who are not, to say the least, inclusive of trans people. I was a misogynist; I was obsessively asked if I would perform cunnilingus on a trans man

And I found this tweet which is a reply to a Sarah Ditum tweet which seems to have been deleted:

Owen Jones on X: "@sarahditum But I've never said this to anyone. So what justification for asking a gay man to go and perform cunnilingus?" / X

"Do you, as a gay man, consider that TMAM for sexual purposes?" is an entirely legitimate question when lesbians are facing Cotton Ceiling tactics.

That article reads to me that pretending to be a straight man was really hard and fustrating. Now he’s essentially an effeminate gay man he feels happier. However due to internalised homophobia feels the need to trans away the gay.

If LOJ believes - and he does - that lesbians should be open to lady dick, then it's only reasonable to ask him his attitude towards man pussy.

If LOJ considers that a homophobic question, it's reasonable to assume that he believes gay men are entitled to sexual boundaries but lesbians aren't.

indeed, they dont like it up 'em do they!

I have no evidence and this is purely a personal opinion but I suspect that a certain vocal social commentator would rather eat a lump of dog shit than perform cunilinguis. (What is the correct spelling of eating a woman out!)

Cunnilingus. Literally means to lick the vulva.

Thanks. My autocarrot couldn't or wouldn't cope.