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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions
tobee · 14/02/2025 18:47

Jeez. Embarrassing.

Grammarnut · 14/02/2025 18:51

ConstructionTime · 14/02/2025 18:30

"I think what is different now is that so many young women accept that message that it is more "progressive" to be against women's sex based rights."
@IwantToRetire

Could there be some overlap with not feeling like a "typical woman" and the protections only being for the previous generations who weren't cool enough to exist without them?

Handily forgetting that these protections haven't even existed for that long time and women fought for them to be established.
I see in many areas how the idea of education as teaching people how to look for information and rejecting a set of basic knowledge for everyone in topics like politics, history and economy makes a shared past much more difficult.

Of course education is not only learning of set facts, but these form a basis on which you can start to explore. A lot of knowledge is no longer a common uniting factor and that means at every generation you have to start explaining from the start. It makes you think that there was some intention behind the disintegration of education and introducing tablets in kindergarden.

Much easier to influence people when they don't have any anchor points of knowledge.

Mussolini liked progressive education i.e. discovery learning etc. He was a fascist.

Chersfrozenface · 14/02/2025 19:07

Also, in my experience, a lot of female students seem to be looking for a 'cause' and 'trans rights' fits the bill nowadays. Yes, on message and willing to be disrupters.

"Trans rights" are part of the Omnicause, in which all Good Little Progressives believe.

IwantToRetire · 16/02/2025 22:12

Gone in 90 seconds
Were my trans protestors the last gasp of campus censorship?
Helen Joyce
16 February, 2025
https://thecritic.co.uk/gone-in-90-seconds/

Christinapple · 16/02/2025 22:50

There's a photo of Helen Joyce and a friend defacing a pride flag and stomping on it. No wonder the students walked out.

Igneococcus · 17/02/2025 09:35

There's a photo of Helen Joyce and a friend defacing a pride flag and stomping on it. No wonder the students walked out.
Any chance of a credible source for that claim?

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Greyskybluesky · 17/02/2025 09:37

Christinapple · 16/02/2025 22:50

There's a photo of Helen Joyce and a friend defacing a pride flag and stomping on it. No wonder the students walked out.

Quite a serious allegation there, Chris.

FlowchartRequired · 17/02/2025 09:41

IIRC the 'progress' bit of the progress flag was cut off, to leave the original rainbow section.

LGB without the TQ+ kind of thing.
Like this > LGB✂T

ETA. I can't remember exactly who was in the photo though.

Shortshriftandlethal · 17/02/2025 09:52

Greyskybluesky · 14/02/2025 18:24

I think what is different now is that so many young women accept that message that it is more "progressive" to be against women's sex based rights.

I genuinely don't get this though. How can it be progressive to be against women's sex-based rights? I'd like to understand their thinking.

Also, in my experience, a lot of female students seem to be looking for a 'cause' and 'trans rights' fits the bill nowadays. Yes, on message and willing to be disrupters.

To be 'progressive' now you have to believe that there are no differences between the sexes, and that everything is socially constructed by 'the patriarchy'. Everything is about 'empowerment'.

Male and female are inter-changeable except for different body parts; and, of course, anything to do with female biology/pregnancy/motherhood is oppressive. Young women see 'women's rights' is about escaping from all of that.

A combination of narratives rooted in 'equality' and 'systemic oppression' perspectives.

Greyskybluesky · 17/02/2025 09:53

It's okay Chris, sit yourself back down. I'll do your work for you.

The incident I believe you're referring to was Helen Joyce's friend who had chopped the chevrons out of the progress pride flag at a protest before Helen had even got to the protest.

It's detailed in Helen Joyce's blog here. So not exactly hidden. https://www.thehelenjoyce.com/joyce-activated-issue-21/

The relevant part:
Soon after arriving I met my friend Jo Campbell, a lesbian activist, who showed me a Progress Pride flag she had chopped up to remove the chevrons added to the original rainbow. [...]
This photo is being interpreted as two white supremacists defacing a flag (for crying out loud, white supremacists?? And Jo would argue that it is the intrusion of these ideological elements into a flag that already represents every same-sex-attracted person that is the defacement). Jo waving at a friend is supposedly a Nazi salute. I’ve even seen claims that we stole the flag from a protester (it’s Jo’s, she brought it with her, already in two pieces, and is planning to add Velcro to the two sides so she can in future make her point more theatrically).
The issue isn’t merely that these specific allegations are invented; it’s that the specifics aren’t the point. The people who hate me and want others to shun me are looking for any mud they can throw at someone they have already declared a target.

(my bolding at the end)

Kucinghitam · 17/02/2025 10:02

Oh dear, did The Righteous tell a porkie Pious Fraud? Grin

Grammarnut · 17/02/2025 10:52

Igneococcus · 17/02/2025 09:35

There's a photo of Helen Joyce and a friend defacing a pride flag and stomping on it. No wonder the students walked out.
Any chance of a credible source for that claim?

Even if you found a copy of such a picture it proves nothing. It's incredibly easy to change photos - I have managed to put people together in a photo who were certainly not photographed together (book illustration).

Coffeelovr · 17/02/2025 14:39

Greyskybluesky · 14/02/2025 18:24

I think what is different now is that so many young women accept that message that it is more "progressive" to be against women's sex based rights.

I genuinely don't get this though. How can it be progressive to be against women's sex-based rights? I'd like to understand their thinking.

Also, in my experience, a lot of female students seem to be looking for a 'cause' and 'trans rights' fits the bill nowadays. Yes, on message and willing to be disrupters.

I don't know either, but could it be that young women want the option to identify as male or non-binary (because they see women treated so badly), so have to accept the opposite?

Christinapple · 17/02/2025 17:53

Igneococcus · 17/02/2025 09:35

There's a photo of Helen Joyce and a friend defacing a pride flag and stomping on it. No wonder the students walked out.
Any chance of a credible source for that claim?

Here you go. It's made the rounds on social media I thought you might already have been aware of it.

Sensitive content
Protesters disrupt gender critical discussion at Oxford
DeanElderberry · 17/02/2025 18:12

They appear to be holding and celebrating the pride flag in a respectful manner, while letting the 'progress' bit pool over their feet. The exact opposite of 'stomping'.

TitusMoan · 17/02/2025 18:16

Why was it marked ‘sensitive content’? How the hell did we get to a place where a chopped up flag counts as ‘sensitive content’?

Come on MN, WTAF???

BaronessEllarawrosaurus · 17/02/2025 18:48

Nope not the description you gave @Christinapple try harder or find some semblance of reality in your claims

RufustheFactuaIReindeer · 17/02/2025 18:58

How are they stomping on it?

honestly what is the point of telling fibs and then offering proof that youve fibbed 😳

defaced i’ll give you but to be fair people could probably argue thate the rainbow flag has been defaced with the triangle bits 🤷🏻

Urguth · 17/02/2025 19:44

People get really weird about flags.. never understood it tbh.

but even allowing for the ideological stranglehold a chunk of pretty fabric up a pole can have on some groups. That is a real non—event.

But does nicely demonstrate that for very many of us the forced teaming with the T is deeply unhelpful

Greyskybluesky · 17/02/2025 21:47

Christinapple · 17/02/2025 17:53

Here you go. It's made the rounds on social media I thought you might already have been aware of it.

We ARE already aware of it @Christinapple. It's on this very thread in the link in my post at 9.53. I've also quoted HJ's clear explanation of the background to the photo!

Next you'll be telling us how HJ's friend is doing a nazi salute 😆

So predictable!

Christinapple · 17/02/2025 22:31

People don't celebrate pride by cutting up pride flags and dropping crumpled up parts of it next to their feet while proudly posing. This could also be seen as inciting hate against LGBT IMO people and like I said, it's no wonder the students walked out on her.

Hermyknee · 17/02/2025 22:39

Americans get weird about flags. Don’t they pledge allegiance to flags in school? Maybe that’s why it’s lost in translation.

RufustheFactuaIReindeer · 17/02/2025 22:43

Christinapple · 17/02/2025 22:31

People don't celebrate pride by cutting up pride flags and dropping crumpled up parts of it next to their feet while proudly posing. This could also be seen as inciting hate against LGBT IMO people and like I said, it's no wonder the students walked out on her.

so they didn’t stomp on it?

Greyskybluesky · 17/02/2025 22:46

Christinapple · 17/02/2025 22:31

People don't celebrate pride by cutting up pride flags and dropping crumpled up parts of it next to their feet while proudly posing. This could also be seen as inciting hate against LGBT IMO people and like I said, it's no wonder the students walked out on her.

The woman who chopped the chevrons out is a lesbian. She doesn't like the progress pride flag. It doesnt represent her. The end.

The students didn't walk out on her. They staged a little protest against Helen Joyce. Quite honestly, it's probably a good thing they quit the scene and let everyone else have a proper discussion without them. Some people are just too fragile to handle anything that challenges their world view.

Greyskybluesky · 17/02/2025 22:48

RufustheFactuaIReindeer · 17/02/2025 22:43

so they didn’t stomp on it?

No. It was a symbolic LGB ✂T