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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

How many MNers will join me in applying for a GRC??

377 replies

QueenDoria · 29/12/2024 23:40

having read on another thread that it only costs £5 to apply for a GRC, how many MNers will join me in applying to ‘become’ a man?
one’s legal status as a mother will not change, and I’m sure we’ll all see a 20% uplift in our wages…
We might get turned down if the panel gets an inkling we might be insincere, but, for the sake of a fiver, we could swamp the application process…
#legalfallacy

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MrsOvertonsWindow · 01/01/2025 11:13

AngelAva · 01/01/2025 11:02

No.

OPs comment on the cost was nothing to do with privilege. It was a statement that the more something costs the more important it is.

This thread is not pointing out hazards to society, it's is mocking the process of gaining a GRC and the trans people that apply for them.

No.
Pointing out that the process costs a risible £5, that letters etc can be copied from the internet and that the whole idea of "living as a woman" or man is a nonsensical idea that promotes regressive stereotypes is factual. Using humour to expose the flaws is a legitimate approach.

The range of hazards has become increasingly evident and it's relevant to remind people of the consequences for children, for women and society as a whole of promoting the belief that sex change is possible.

Roysieboy · 01/01/2025 11:14

Sasskitty · 30/12/2024 00:01

https://www.gov.uk/apply-gender-recognition-certificate

Having a certificate means you can:

  • update your birth or adoption certificate, if it was registered in the UK
  • get married or form a civil partnership in your affirmed gender
  • update your marriage or civil partnership certificate, if it was registered in the UK
  • have your affirmed gender on your death certificate when you die
It will not change your legal status as the father or mother of a child.

You do not need a certificate to:

Fabulous..it’s not a joke ffs and very demeaning to others to joke about this so thank you for putting this up

Maaate · 01/01/2025 11:14

Wow, yet another TRA turns out to be a raging transphobe 😲

OldCrone · 01/01/2025 11:14

AngelAva · 01/01/2025 11:12

Well yes. I would have that was obvious.

You do realise that makes you a TERF, don't you?

Ractify · 01/01/2025 11:15

AngelAva · 01/01/2025 11:12

Well yes. I would have that was obvious.

So if you aren’t allowed to ask who has a GRC, how do you know which TW are men and which TW are legally no longer their natal sex?

Please share how we can tell?

AngelAva · 01/01/2025 11:15

Ereshkigalangcleg · 01/01/2025 11:07

The whole basis of mansplaining is being a man when explaining something to a woman. You haven't got your GRC yet so unfortunately you're still a very misguided woman

So you similarly think all "trans women" are men until they get a GRC, then? Not sure many TRAs would agree!

Good thing I'm not a TRA then isn't it!

I'm just a normal person that believes everyone has the right live without being hated for what they are. That gets my labelled as a TRA by the GC crowd because I don't agree with them, doesn't make them right though! Wait... That's a general theme here isn't it....

larklane17 · 01/01/2025 11:16

How's everyone doing? I'm well on with it.
Apparently, I can't submit more than eight pieces of evidence from over the last two years. Decisions decisions.

"Evidence of living in your gender for the last 2 years
You’ll need copies of evidence to show that you’ve been living in your affirmed gender for the last 2 years.
Each piece of evidence should contain at least one of the following that matches up with your affirmed gender:

  • a name
  • a title, like ‘Mr’ or ‘Miss’
  • a gender marker, like ‘male’ or ‘female’
There are no other specific requirements for this evidence, but try to find:
  • evidence from different points over the 2 years, with roughly 1 piece of evidence for every 3 months
  • at least one piece of evidence from the last 2 or 3 months
  • evidence from a variety of different sources
The evidence can come from before you were diagnosed with gender dysphoria. Examples of what you can send in include good quality photocopies or photographs of:
  • your driving licence
  • your passport
  • identity cards, like workplace IDs, student IDs, railcards, health insurance cards, library cards or supermarket loyalty cards
  • letters from solicitors, accountants, doctors, dentists or employers
  • bank statements
  • payslips, P60s and P45s
  • benefit letters
  • tax letters and documents, including council tax
  • credit reports
  • confirmation letters that you’re on the electoral register
  • student loan statements
  • utility bills, such as internet bills
  • rental agreements
  • academic certificates and documents
You might be asked to send in more evidence after you submit your application."
Ereshkigalangcleg · 01/01/2025 11:17

Good thing I'm not a TRA then isn't it!

Glad to hear it Smile

AstonScrapingsNameChange · 01/01/2025 11:17

AngelAva · 01/01/2025 11:12

Well yes. I would have that was obvious.

Mate, none of this is "obvious"

AngelAva · 01/01/2025 11:17

OldCrone · 01/01/2025 11:14

You do realise that makes you a TERF, don't you?

Don't be ridiculous. I don't believe that trans women are any of the horrible things TERFs claim them to be.

Ractify · 01/01/2025 11:17

AngelAva · 01/01/2025 11:11

Luckily, no one is forced into a same sex marriage against their will.

The GRC can not be issued until their spouse consents. If the spouse does not consent the person transitioning must get the marriage annulled before their GRC is issued.

If for some strange reason the spouse consents then decides they're unhappy in a same sex marriage, they can just get divorced can't they. No one can be forced to be married to someone in the UK.

This is exactly the kind of misinformation that gets spread by GC women to whip up hatred.

You could have saved some time if you had just read the previous posts, which basically laid all that you have just posted out before you did…

You could have been fly-by-castigating FWR women for something they haven’t already stated…

spannasaurus · 01/01/2025 11:18

AngelAva · 01/01/2025 11:17

Don't be ridiculous. I don't believe that trans women are any of the horrible things TERFs claim them to be.

Terfs believe them to be men. As do you it would seem

Ereshkigalangcleg · 01/01/2025 11:18

No.
Pointing out that the process costs a risible £5, that letters etc can be copied from the internet and that the whole idea of "living as a woman" or man is a nonsensical idea that promotes regressive stereotypes is factual. Using humour to expose the flaws is a legitimate approach.

The range of hazards has become increasingly evident and it's relevant to remind people of the consequences for children, for women and society as a whole of promoting the belief that sex change is possible.

Yes, and any and all sunlight is welcome, so it's good this thread is taking off.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 01/01/2025 11:20

Don't be ridiculous. I don't believe that trans women are any of the horrible things TERFs claim them to be.

They simply believe they are men. Like you do, until they gain this magic piece of paper.

AngelAva · 01/01/2025 11:20

Ractify · 01/01/2025 11:17

You could have saved some time if you had just read the previous posts, which basically laid all that you have just posted out before you did…

You could have been fly-by-castigating FWR women for something they haven’t already stated…

So why are you all still banging on about people being forced into same sex marriage?

It seemed it needed stating again for those who missed it.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 01/01/2025 11:20

You could have saved some time if you had just read the previous posts, which basically laid all that you have just posted out before you did…

Quite.

Chersfrozenface · 01/01/2025 11:20

OK, so a man who identifies as a woman and doesn't have a GRC is still a man. Right, then...

We have person A, a man who identifies as a woman and "lives as a woman" but who doesn't have a GRC, so is a man.

We have person B, a man who identifies as a woman and "lives as a woman" but who does have a GRC, so is not a man.

Apart from the piece of paper, what is the difference between the two - biologically, in appearance, in habits, hobbies and other lifestyle choices and so on?

Same question regarding two women who identify as men.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 01/01/2025 11:23

So why are you all still banging on about people being forced into same sex marriage?

Because without the existence of the spousal exit clause, they would be. The one TRAs and some high up members of the Labour government have said needs to be abolished.

You do realise that gay men could be forced into a "straight" marriage too? Would you care then?

QueenDoria · 01/01/2025 11:23

AngelAva · 01/01/2025 11:17

Don't be ridiculous. I don't believe that trans women are any of the horrible things TERFs claim them to be.

But what about the trans men like me? Don’t assume everyone applying for a GRC is a man claiming to be a woman. I’m a woman claiming to be a man! How very dare you!!
sexist and transphobic

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AstonScrapingsNameChange · 01/01/2025 11:23

AngelAva · 01/01/2025 11:20

So why are you all still banging on about people being forced into same sex marriage?

It seemed it needed stating again for those who missed it.

Ah "banging on" - way to minimise women's legitimate concerns.

Do you think that the spousal exit clause should be kept then?

Or do you actually think the marriage contract should be able to be unilaterally changed?

AstonScrapingsNameChange · 01/01/2025 11:26

AngelAva · 01/01/2025 11:17

Don't be ridiculous. I don't believe that trans women are any of the horrible things TERFs claim them to be.

Angel, what do you understand by the term 'TERF'?

(When its not being misused as a dehumanising slur as documented here www.terfisaslur.com ).?

TERF is a slur

Documenting the abuse, harassment and misogyny of transgender identity politics

http://www.terfisaslur.com

Ractify · 01/01/2025 11:26

AngelAva · 01/01/2025 11:20

So why are you all still banging on about people being forced into same sex marriage?

It seemed it needed stating again for those who missed it.

I didn’t mention being forced into same sex marriage.

Maybe, however, if you had actually read the previous posts, you would have realised that previous posters were saying that TRAs are trying to remove the clause in law that allows the spouse to opt out being legally classified as having been in a same sex marriage when the spouse gains a GRC.

😏

Datun · 01/01/2025 11:27

come on AngelAva, let's put it to the test.

What, in your view, would a man do to be 'living as a woman'. Let's see whether or not you can spot the sexism.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 01/01/2025 11:27

https://www.transwidowsvoices.org/spousal-exit-clause

Why is the Spousal Exit Clause important for Trans Widows, particularly when we now have no fault divorce in England and Wales?

The key issue is that there is provision for an annulment which enables those trans widows who cannot get divorced for religious or cultural reasons to exit their marriage.

The Exit Clause also enables spouses to exit the marriage before, rather than after, its status potentially changes, and their heterosexual marriage legally becomes a same sex marriage that they didn’t sign up to.

OldCrone · 01/01/2025 11:29

AngelAva · 01/01/2025 11:20

So why are you all still banging on about people being forced into same sex marriage?

It seemed it needed stating again for those who missed it.

Have you missed the campaign by TRAs to remove the spousal exit clause and force women into a same-sex marriage (in name) against their will?

Labour and the LibDems have both said they want to remove this clause.

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