I'm sorry, were you expecting a serious answer?
Ok.
Being a nerd does not make you transgender. Some but by no means all transgender people are nerds. Social factors often draw people from different marginalised groups together toward hobbies that provide them with safe arenas to explore their interests. Nerdy social groups are thus somewhat self-selecting toward high proportions of transgender people. This was arguably even more the case in the past when 'nerdiness' was much more of a source of derision, where many trans people were able to find a semblance of refuge by displacing transphobic abuse onto other aspects of their life. "If they're going to bully and sneer at me anyway, might as well make sure it's for something that is less harmful."
This dynamic itself sometimes explodes into its own form of toxicity (see gatekeeping behaviours that manifested within nerdy hobby spaces and metastasised into the new atheist techbro->gamergate->alt-right pipeline).
This has created a bizarre present that sees what have often become extremely inclusive refuge communities used to protect their often-marginalised memberships becoming conflated with Musk-style reactionary populism riding a 'geek is now cool' cultural wave.
Nerd spaces, by and large, remain committed to inclusiveness and have in many ways been the vanguard of feminist initiatives to effect positive change on society.
So no, I don't agree with your bait and switch argument trying to present transness as a side-effect of dissociation and social awkwardness.