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CPS change the proposed 'sex by deception re gender' legal guidance

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Chariothorses · 14/12/2024 13:29

Following public objections, the CPS announced yesterday they have changed the proposed legal guidance on Rape and Serious Sexual Offences (RASSO), specifically the guidance on “Deception as to gender”, which can be found in Chapter 6 Consent, to 'Deception as to sex'. Rape and Sexual Offences - Chapter 6: Consent | The Crown Prosecution Service.

The outcome of the consultation is available here: Consultation on the Deception as to Gender section in the Rape and Serious Sexual Offences (RASSO) legal guidance | The Crown Prosecution Service.

summary of consultation responses here: Consultation on CPS guidance on Deception as to Gender - Summary of Responses | The Crown Prosecution Service.

There are ongoing problems re ideological capture by trans lobbyists and misogyny within the CPS so thanks to all who contributed to the changes they have reluctantly introduced.

Consultation on CPS guidance on Deception as to Gender - Summary of Responses | The Crown Prosecution Service

https://www.cps.gov.uk/publication/consultation-cps-guidance-deception-gender-summary-responses

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Signalbox · 17/12/2024 22:46

Does anyone know if TW with a GRC would be counted as women for the purpose of this legislation? Or will it depend on the Supreme Court ruling?

Hoardasurass · 17/12/2024 23:05

Signalbox · 17/12/2024 22:46

Does anyone know if TW with a GRC would be counted as women for the purpose of this legislation? Or will it depend on the Supreme Court ruling?

It says sex registered at birth so a transwomen with or without a grc is a man under this criminal law.
The supreme crt is about civil law so not relevant to this guidance

JanesLittleGirl · 17/12/2024 23:08

Signalbox · 17/12/2024 22:46

Does anyone know if TW with a GRC would be counted as women for the purpose of this legislation? Or will it depend on the Supreme Court ruling?

The short answer is no. Uninformed consent is not consent. A tw with a GRC could offer it as part of their defence or in mitigation but it ain't a get out of jail free card.

Apollo441 · 17/12/2024 23:21

Sex by deception and Spousal veto were two pieces of legislation TRAs were trying to stealthily remove. How nice that the days of sneaking things in are gone. We will eventually remove or neuter the GRA. It was never intended to be used in the manner they are trying, it was simply a mechanism to allow transsexuals to have same sex marriage before civil partnerships.

theilltemperedqueenofspacetime · 17/12/2024 23:22

Signalbox · 17/12/2024 22:46

Does anyone know if TW with a GRC would be counted as women for the purpose of this legislation? Or will it depend on the Supreme Court ruling?

The guidance refers to sex registered at birth, not legal sex.

Also, it is guidance, not a regulation, so is intended to illustrate and illuminate, not provide every possible example of an offence. In the end, it's the court which decides whether sex has been obtained by deception or not, which could depend on how well the case is presented.

There's some wild case law around this, such as the Arab Israeli jailed for having (casual, consensual) sex with a Jewish Israeli woman without mentioning that he was not Jewish.

And in England, this case:

https://www.herts.police.uk/news/hertfordshire/news/2024/may-2024/bishops-stortford-man-jailed-for-sexual-offences/

(The offender was dressed as a woman and the victim was very drunk.)

Also, what @Hoardasurass and @JanesLittleGirl said.

ButterflyHatched · 18/12/2024 00:13

ThreeWordHarpy · 17/12/2024 21:18

You could leave off the last four words from that post and it would be applicable to everyone, especially women.

After all, women are always vulnerable when having sex with men, given they are physically stronger. Even when you have enthusiastically consented to a sexual encounter, there’s always the risk with a new partner that they will push your boundaries try and coerce/force into a particular act that you don’t want to do. You also have to trust they will stop if you ask.

What’s the saying again? Men are afraid women will laugh at them, women are afraid men will kill them.

“Dangerous situation” @ButterflyHatched ? You have no fucking idea.

I don't know how to communicate to you quite how aptly that quote has applied to my experience of men throughout my life. You think men just slap us on the shoulder and say 'ok bro, no homo' if they find out we're trans? Trans Panic Defence is a well-known term for a reason.

ButterflyHatched · 18/12/2024 00:16

Hoardasurass · 17/12/2024 22:12

The law is clear when it comes to sexual relationships you must be honest about your biological sex no ifs, buts or maybes.
The equality act protecting trans people from discrimination doesn't give them the right to gain consent for sex by deception.
Btw, it's irrelevant how many passing trans people there are. Each and every one of them must be honest about their biological sex before having sexual relationships with anyone failure to do so makes them a sex offender.
This is no different from a man "stealthing" (funny that you use this same term for deceiving a sexual partner about your sex) and removing a condom which was a condition of consent

No it's really, really not. Lying about wearing a condom is a clear violation of bodily autonomy.

ButterflyHatched · 18/12/2024 00:22

SensibleSigma · 17/12/2024 22:37

@ButterflyHatched do you not have sexual preferences? Is there no type you fancy a lot, and type you don’t fancy much at all?

I’m fussy about who I have sex with. I’m allowed to be. Intimacy only happens when and if I’m ready and trust someone. Any sign that they aren’t who they say they are, and it’s off.

It’s a perfectly reasonable expectation. It protects both parties.

Oh absolutely. I find transphobia a real turn-off, alongside homophobia, misogyny, racism and ableism, for example.

I don't tend to find my attraction has much to do with a person's gender presentation or sex assigned at birth. I acknowledge that this isn't universal, though and people are allowed to fancy whoever they fancy.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 18/12/2024 00:26

A man deceiving a straight man or a lesbian that he is female in order that they will have sone form of sexual relations with him is a clear violation too.

GailBlancheViola · 18/12/2024 00:33

No it's really, really not. Lying about wearing a condom is a clear violation of bodily autonomy.

Deceiving someone about your sex so you can have access to their body is a clear violation of bodily autonomy.

ButterflyHatched · 18/12/2024 01:37

GailBlancheViola · 18/12/2024 00:33

No it's really, really not. Lying about wearing a condom is a clear violation of bodily autonomy.

Deceiving someone about your sex so you can have access to their body is a clear violation of bodily autonomy.

"So you can have access to their body" errr what? I don't know how you prefer to do your intimacy but I certainly prefer to do mine as part of a mutual, cooperative and responsive process of affectionate contact that involves the careful and sober discussion of boundaries.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 18/12/2024 02:00

That's good, I guess you won't withhold what sex you are then.

Helleofabore · 18/12/2024 04:39

As part of that careful and sober discussion of boundaries, a person would disclose the sex they are to the other person. Mutual, co-operative and responsive process and all.

So if intimacy is built up with careful and sober discussion of boundaries, why have we had so many posts about fear from disclosing. There is a lack of consistency across this discussion.

Hoardasurass · 18/12/2024 06:04

ButterflyHatched · 18/12/2024 00:13

I don't know how to communicate to you quite how aptly that quote has applied to my experience of men throughout my life. You think men just slap us on the shoulder and say 'ok bro, no homo' if they find out we're trans? Trans Panic Defence is a well-known term for a reason.

Please name 1 UK case where a man or woman has successfully used "trans panic" as a defence against assault or attempted murder/murder.
We both know that you won't answer my question @ButterflyHatched because it's not a recognised legal defence in the UK nor is gay panic, but I'm sure that you'll keep trying to claim it is just as you keep claiming that the equality act and or a grc allows you (general you) to sexually assault people by gaining sex by deception.
I do have 1 question that you might answer though, why do you believe that your want to have sex with someone is more important than their right to give informed consent?

Hoardasurass · 18/12/2024 06:13

ButterflyHatched · 18/12/2024 00:16

No it's really, really not. Lying about wearing a condom is a clear violation of bodily autonomy.

So is lying about your sex it's exactly the same thing they are both gaining sex by deception. It's the same law, crime and result.
The guidance and law is clear both are predatory sex offenders.
I would say that if you don't like the law campaign to change it but the trans rights movement tried that and the resounding public response was no rape by deception is rape and claiming a special identity doesn't change that fact.

SinnerBoy · 18/12/2024 06:24

Trans Panic Defence is a well-known term for a reason.

It's not well known, I've never heard it before. Like Hoardasaurus, I'd like to see a few British examples of it.

Of course, I realise that the request will go forever unanswered.

ArabellaScott · 18/12/2024 06:29

Yes, I'm not seeing a campaign to repeal sex by deception on the grounds of biological sex is going to win the hearts and minds of the country.

Almost everyone wants to know the biological sex of the person they're considering entering into a sexual relationship with. Most people would use it as probably the first criteria, in fact.

Hence the law on deception.

EmpressaurusKitty · 18/12/2024 06:30

I do have 1 question that you might answer though, why do you believe that your want to have sex with someone is more important than their right to give informed consent?

That’s an excellent question. If you don’t feel safe enough to be honest with someone about your sex, don’t have sex with them.

ArabellaScott · 18/12/2024 06:34

Signalbox · 17/12/2024 22:43

“The law in question makes it clear that gender reassignment is a valid reason for a person to consider themself to not be the sex they were assigned at birth and that it can be a relevant mitigating factor.”

This is the ultimate clash of rights isn’t it because it’s not just a demand to enter spaces it’s a demand to enter bodies. The law as it stands is a lie and having gender reassignment does not turn a man into a woman.

Yes, perhaps an argument that men may understand, too.

The argument that trans people have a right to deceive in order to access sex is a bold one.

ApocalipstickNow · 18/12/2024 06:45

Hoardasurass · 18/12/2024 06:13

So is lying about your sex it's exactly the same thing they are both gaining sex by deception. It's the same law, crime and result.
The guidance and law is clear both are predatory sex offenders.
I would say that if you don't like the law campaign to change it but the trans rights movement tried that and the resounding public response was no rape by deception is rape and claiming a special identity doesn't change that fact.

I doubt a campaign would be very successful if the arguments we’re seeing here were used.

I can’t imagine there’s a snappy slogan that wins over hearts and minds if you go around equating not wanting to have sex with someone of the same sex as you with violent transphobia.

Again, I fail to see the similarity with other civil rights movements.

popeydokey · 18/12/2024 07:32

Particularly when the argument is <checks post from Monday> "the law says I'm only allowed to have sex if I wear a fake moustache."

If that is a belief held as genuinely as the belief that they are a woman then I think it is clear why we shouldn't permit sex by deception in order to accommodate it.

It can't just be GC women that find deliberate dishonesty quite unpleasant?

SensibleSigma · 18/12/2024 07:47

ButterflyHatched · 18/12/2024 00:22

Oh absolutely. I find transphobia a real turn-off, alongside homophobia, misogyny, racism and ableism, for example.

I don't tend to find my attraction has much to do with a person's gender presentation or sex assigned at birth. I acknowledge that this isn't universal, though and people are allowed to fancy whoever they fancy.

So you’re bisexual. That may explain why you don’t understand other people’s horror at having sex with the wrong kind of person.

I wouldn’t be hanging out with transphobes, racist, homophobes etc long enough to get to the sex stage.

Neither do I hang around with men much, outside of a work or activity context. Except the one I’m married to and our kids, that is.

ArabellaScott · 18/12/2024 07:50

Most bisexual people still want to know what sex a potential partner is.

It's not just about attraction; there is also risk assessment involved, pregnancy, etc

SensibleSigma · 18/12/2024 08:00

Oh I get it, but I’m wondering whether there’s an extra element horror at having sex with the wrong kind of person if you’ve never had, imagined, or desired sex with that kind of person.

Lesbians don’t seem offended I don’t view them as potential partners.
It wouldn’t cross my mind to be offended that gay men don’t fancy me.

Though to be honest I really don’t see why it’s an issue for anyone to not fancy anyone else. When you are at your most vulnerable, it really really matters who you are with.

Those poor women who thought they were in relationships with men who turned out to be undercover coppers.

ApocalipstickNow · 18/12/2024 08:01

If only we lived in a world where there were LGBT friendly pubs and clubs in all towns and cities, advertising their inclusivity with rainbow flags everywhere, dating apps that accommodate all forms of identity before you even see a photo of a potential sex partner and websites and social media where LGBT people and allies can meet and find enthusiastic potential partners, eh?

🤔

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