It gets thornier when they like the idea of themselves being progressive but are still dealing with internalised homophobia/transphobia and channel that into trans-hostile ideology.
In just 6 pages, you've insisted they must be homophobic, transphobic/anti-trans, bigots, disgusted by minorities, abusive, not normal, anti-trans culture warriors, raging, discriminatory, dangerous, ideologists, hostile, deeply insecure, unstable, suffering from internalised homo/transphobia, feel that their masculinity is threatened...
...rather than just simply heterosexual men who don't want to have sex with other males.
It's quite odd that you're complaining of others 'pretending to be progressive' when you're here posting that you think people should 'reflect' on their 'ideological' sexual orientation, and seem very upset that the law protects people if they're the victim of a sexual offence.