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The latest fallouts in GC world

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Pluvia · 11/12/2024 11:06

My terfing energy has been focussed elsewhere in recent months and I haven't been here or on TwiX or social media much. Now I've taken responsibility for tweeting/ comms on behalf of a small but potentially significant LGB group and I discover that there seems to be something going on — another schism — in GC world. Jane Clare Jones's name seems to be coming up a lot. Something seems to have gone on but I can't work out what.

If it was my own account I'd just ignore, but the followers of this account are bringing it up and seem to expect an opinion to be expressed or a side to be taken. Also I'm seeing a lot about 'ultras' and 'lites', which is new to me. Can anyone enlighten me? I need to tread carefully.

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CandyMaker · 13/12/2024 13:09

Twotribesgonna · 13/12/2024 05:07

This version of events by @AlisonDonut is completely wrong. I’ll try another:
Lots of people working in this issue in 2018 had started to realise that kjk was a megalomaniac who would only countenance her way. She is in it for the glory and slags off everyone who even slightly disagrees with her. WPUK disagreed with her and so did loads of other Gc feminists- Kathleen Stock called her a liability. These Gc feminists believed that feminism and left wing politics were just as important as fighting trans ideology.
Others agreed with kjk on principal because they weren’t particularly left wing or feminist.
the key point is that most people agreed with kjk back then but her rancid behaviour since then has meant that only the extremists have stuck by her.
From then on kjk amassed an army of online hooligans who tried to destroy anyone who didn’t show 100% support for everything kjk did. They police everyone else’s words in a manner that is identical to TRAs. They ruin people’s lives. They have been obnoxious to people like jcj because they think she’s too clever and too wordy.

Janice turner is an example. Turner thought the main point about Debbie Hayton was the book, that a transwoman was not happy with self id, that medical transition can destroy lives. Turner got piled on by KJK’s army . As usual kjk incited all the fights . As happens with everyone who objects to speech policing, Turner was told many times that her work in this field was pointless because she used she/her pronouns. Turner objected to this. She was told the only way to operate was to focus on Repealing the GRA and using he/him pronouns. All other work is pointless because it doesn’t follow the kjk model.

the “ultras “ found each other and started to form a cohesive group. The ultras believe that they are making a difference by policing everyone’s speech on twitter. They don’t do any work and they are the ultimate keyboard warriors.

kjk then ran a terrible political campaign which was mostly focused on slagging every Gc person and group off. She received a minuscule number of votes and embarrassed herself. Since then she is seething, as she clearly blamed everyone else for her bad results. She sacked all her stewards.
The ultras have become kjk zealots.
meanwhile jcj appears to have been destroyed by the online attacks and cannot let it go. She is focused on the principals while kjk is focused on beating other GCs. It’s all horrible and divisive and kjk should stop slagging everyone else off. JCJ should probably leave Twitter

I agree with this. Also worth noting that people are not alleging KJK invited the extreme right wing to her events. They were asking what made them feel welcome to attend in the first place, and why when they attended did KJK not say they should not come to future events? Instead she said they were welcome.

KJK attacks anyone who mildly disagrees with her using very personal insults.
I also agree the election party KJK set up was a total waste of all her supporters time. She over estimated her importance and looked foolish.

spannasaurus · 13/12/2024 13:17

CandyMaker · 13/12/2024 13:09

I agree with this. Also worth noting that people are not alleging KJK invited the extreme right wing to her events. They were asking what made them feel welcome to attend in the first place, and why when they attended did KJK not say they should not come to future events? Instead she said they were welcome.

KJK attacks anyone who mildly disagrees with her using very personal insults.
I also agree the election party KJK set up was a total waste of all her supporters time. She over estimated her importance and looked foolish.

Have you listened to anything KJK said about the GE. She didn't expect anyone from POW to win, the point was publicity and the mailshot for each candidate. She has said many times it's local elections that are more important. She also encourages people to join committees, become school governors etc so they can effect change at a local level. Basically use the same routes as TRAs have used to gain power.

AlisonDonut · 13/12/2024 13:19

CandyMaker · 13/12/2024 13:09

I agree with this. Also worth noting that people are not alleging KJK invited the extreme right wing to her events. They were asking what made them feel welcome to attend in the first place, and why when they attended did KJK not say they should not come to future events? Instead she said they were welcome.

KJK attacks anyone who mildly disagrees with her using very personal insults.
I also agree the election party KJK set up was a total waste of all her supporters time. She over estimated her importance and looked foolish.

They are welcome because she can't police the open spaces and as citizens, anyone is welcome. Keep up.

TempestTost · 13/12/2024 13:20

Lovelyview · 13/12/2024 10:21

I honestly think it stems from how sensitive left wing people are about being branded 'far right'. No-one ever seems to define what 'Far Right' means and while there's a lot to be concerned about with Donald Trump I'm pretty sure we're not looking at an American Reich being put in place. Come back to me in four year's time and we'll see on that one. So left wing people can't bear to be associated with Trump style right-wingers whereas right-wingers will associate with pretty much anyone to get something they want to happen done. As being gender critical is a facet of left wing feminism then you get these terrible schisms. I think they're unavoidable. I'd describe myself as a centre left pragmatist and don't give two hoots if my husband thinks I'm a secret Tory.

Yes, I think this is really an interesting phenomena.

It's like, it doesn't actually matter what the policy question is, if it is "right wing" people on he left will be deeply embarrassed to even entertain it.

One of the things that has really interested me the last few years is the way traditionally left wing ideas have become associated with the right. Euro-skepticism is probably the one I noticed first.

I keep seeing more and more of these flips where things previously part of the old left are coded right. Tariffs and protection of industry, immigration. From the other direction the left now seems to embrace free trade deals that give corporate interests huge institutionalized political power, filling jobs with temporary foreign workers, big Pharma, and most recently I've seen dedicated AMerican Democrats treat anyone who doesn't want to send their kids to state education as dodgy.

I feel like every time there is a new one my eyebrows go further up. It's like there has been a total flip - and yet people who have been on the left for 40 years don't seem to be questioning it!

I read an article in Unherd yesterday about how Sanders has been approving of certain directions that Trump is going in. Well, yes, of course he bloody well is, because some of them are things that have been integral to left wing thought and action and the left today has totally abandoned them! There is a reason many Sanders voters switched to Trump, and I think he's being pretty pragmatic in agreeing with elements he sees as moving in the right direction. He cares about policy, not which side happens to lay claim to it.

I honestly think that if some authoritative (to left wingers) person now calls any policy left wing, there is a huge group of people who will support it because they are simply terrified of being called right wing. Globalism, forced vaccination, suppression of free speech, whatever.

Datun · 13/12/2024 13:21

Ereshkigalangcleg · 13/12/2024 13:03

For me, anyone who doesn't see AGP males as part of the problem has a fundamental lack of understanding of what the issues are for women's rights and safeguarding children. Even some people I in other ways like and respect have this blind spot. KJK does not, and she calls it out and she gives a platform for other women to do so, even when that means taking risks. That's why people like her.

Yes this is my impression.

I'm not on Twitter, so I do get secondhand, watered down versions of what's going on.

But it's certainly been my impression that there is an actual pushback against repeal of the GRA. And not just because it feels like an uphill struggle. But because there is still a belief in what we used to call true trans.

Whether you think that most transwomen are AGP, with a few who aren't, or they all are, or none, to me, it is a little irrelevant. Because even if they're not, the entire concept of the GRA is sexist.

Maybe other people see it more as a remedy for rare cases of authentic gender dysphoria, first and foremost.

Whereas I see it as underpinning women's disadvantage, first and foremost. We should not be providing remedy to anybody, male or female, which leverages women's oppression to be effective.

It might well be that this idea of true trans or not, is how the two factions get divided, and the GRA is just the tinder box.

It may explain how some men managed to infiltrate into the very groups which have been set up to address them.

edited to add the reason why I quoted Eresh - if you do believe in true trans, then there is going to be a safeguarding hole.

Datun · 13/12/2024 13:28

CandyMaker · 13/12/2024 13:09

I agree with this. Also worth noting that people are not alleging KJK invited the extreme right wing to her events. They were asking what made them feel welcome to attend in the first place, and why when they attended did KJK not say they should not come to future events? Instead she said they were welcome.

KJK attacks anyone who mildly disagrees with her using very personal insults.
I also agree the election party KJK set up was a total waste of all her supporters time. She over estimated her importance and looked foolish.

Do you agree with the let women speak events that KJK puts on? Where she gives a microphone to any woman who wishes to say something in public?

CandyMaker · 13/12/2024 13:36

@Datun open mic events have their place and happen elsewhere. But there are ways to run so you do not have the issues KJK has had.

CandyMaker · 13/12/2024 13:43

TempestTost · 13/12/2024 13:20

Yes, I think this is really an interesting phenomena.

It's like, it doesn't actually matter what the policy question is, if it is "right wing" people on he left will be deeply embarrassed to even entertain it.

One of the things that has really interested me the last few years is the way traditionally left wing ideas have become associated with the right. Euro-skepticism is probably the one I noticed first.

I keep seeing more and more of these flips where things previously part of the old left are coded right. Tariffs and protection of industry, immigration. From the other direction the left now seems to embrace free trade deals that give corporate interests huge institutionalized political power, filling jobs with temporary foreign workers, big Pharma, and most recently I've seen dedicated AMerican Democrats treat anyone who doesn't want to send their kids to state education as dodgy.

I feel like every time there is a new one my eyebrows go further up. It's like there has been a total flip - and yet people who have been on the left for 40 years don't seem to be questioning it!

I read an article in Unherd yesterday about how Sanders has been approving of certain directions that Trump is going in. Well, yes, of course he bloody well is, because some of them are things that have been integral to left wing thought and action and the left today has totally abandoned them! There is a reason many Sanders voters switched to Trump, and I think he's being pretty pragmatic in agreeing with elements he sees as moving in the right direction. He cares about policy, not which side happens to lay claim to it.

I honestly think that if some authoritative (to left wingers) person now calls any policy left wing, there is a huge group of people who will support it because they are simply terrified of being called right wing. Globalism, forced vaccination, suppression of free speech, whatever.

This simply is not true.
Euroscepticism has always been a cross party issue with both people in the left and right wing supporting EU or being sceptical, although often for very different reasons. It nearly tore the Conservative party apart.

Tariffs and protection of industry has also always been a cross party issue. Usually the left wing calling for tariffs and protection of industry to support jobs, and the right wing calling for them to support business owners. Both left and right have had those against tariffs as well.

Immigration has always been a cross party issue as well. The extreme right wing tend to lie about immigration and make up narratives that simply are not true. But the mainstream right and left wing both support some immigration, but both want limits. They disagree on the details.

Datun · 13/12/2024 13:46

CandyMaker · 13/12/2024 13:36

@Datun open mic events have their place and happen elsewhere. But there are ways to run so you do not have the issues KJK has had.

So you think she shouldn't run them, because you don't agree with her and her issues?

ResisterOfTwaddleRex · 13/12/2024 13:57

TempestTost · 13/12/2024 13:06

I think shittienes sis very much going both ways on this and the whole pronoun question. Frankly I have little innate sympathy for JCJ's position or a lot of others in that camp, I think they are extremely paternalistic to other women and essentially want to steal their political voice for themselves.

However, the idea that anyone who does not think the best approach is to start advocating for repeal that they are somehow compromised or stupid, or to tell everyone they need to stop using prefered pronouns the same, is bullshit.

It's entirely possible to want to see the end of gender ideology, or even those particular practices, and not think that is the best way forward.

By insisting that your own view on how that should be approached is the only way you are doing precisely the most shitty thing that people like JCJ are doing to other women. Which is telling them they need to accept not only your ideological priorities about practical assessments of strategy or be "impure".

It's all high school clique bs.

If you’ve not been shouted down in person, lucky you. Some of us have been trying to say “can we please discuss Repeal?” and been immediately dismissed. And when you find others who’ve had the same experience, it turns out it’s very similar indeed. Spookily so. We aren’t even being given the opportunity of discussing it - it’s all rather #nodebate.

And safeguarding of children and vulnerable adults is not “high school clique bs”.

Datun · 13/12/2024 14:05

AlisonDonut · 13/12/2024 11:54

Unfortunately 'Ultras' aren't allowed to talk about safeguarding. Apparently. As we do it for bad reasons. Not good ones.

Crikey, I hadn't grasped that that wasn't TRAs talking.

If they genuinely think that people talking about safeguarding are trying to shut down discussion, why don't they ask to have a discussion?

I can't imagine women like Lang or safe schools alliance baulking at explaining how safeguarding can be compromised.

I would've thought that women concerned with safeguarding want the opposite of shutting down a discussion

illinivich · 13/12/2024 14:08

I dont think we should ignore the impact of the growing number of GC males.

In a way, the right wing ones are more straight forward - nobody can change sex. End of discussion.

The left and libertarian ones are more complex. They agree that people cant change sex, but understand that gender plays a big part in a gay culture, and have seen the treatment of gender non conforming children and lgb people. They sympathise with their transsexuals friends and see the right as wanting gender conformity.

But what benefits adult male transitioners, damages women, children and girls and women caught up in gender ideology. How can it possibly benefit girls to be given the same diagnosis and treatment outcomes as AGP men?

So the left/libertarian feminist is pulled in lots of different directions.

CandyMaker · 13/12/2024 14:35

Datun · 13/12/2024 13:46

So you think she shouldn't run them, because you don't agree with her and her issues?

She can do what she wants. But the way she runs them gives a platform and helps to legitimise the far right. I do not think that is a an accident though.
But in many ways it does not matter. Since the election debacle, KJK has pretty much faded from view. I never see her opinions now unless I seek them out. Before the election there was a point where she was beginning to get wider traction, she has now sunk back into obscurity. So what it does not really matter what she does.
I see the extreme right wing seeking out another alternative to promote their views.

AlisonDonut · 13/12/2024 14:40

The way she runs them...is to set up a mike and speakers and let anyone talk.

What a fucking bitch.

ResisterOfTwaddleRex · 13/12/2024 14:43

AlisonDonut · 13/12/2024 14:40

The way she runs them...is to set up a mike and speakers and let anyone talk.

What a fucking bitch.

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She’s the worst

CandyMaker · 13/12/2024 14:48

AlisonDonut · 13/12/2024 14:40

The way she runs them...is to set up a mike and speakers and let anyone talk.

What a fucking bitch.

She runs them like religious testimonial tents. Which makes sense as she has a theology degree so will be familiar with this method. She does not run them like second wave feminist open mic events.
There are ways to stop the extreme right wing speaking at open mic events. But she is not interested in doing this.

WarriorN · 13/12/2024 14:59

But the way she runs them gives a platform and helps to legitimise the far right

The point is free speech.

Free speech is the bedrock of democracy. The opposite is authoritarianism. Which can be both Left and right leaning and never ends well. History also teaches us that left leaning authoritarianism can stoke the fires of real far right ideologies, extremism and violence. It's how

Anti free speech strategies (#nodebate) are how TRAs managed silence anyone critical of GRA and twaw etc, and manipulate safeguarding laws.

themostspecialelfintheworkshop · 13/12/2024 15:03

But why on earth would you exclude right wing women from speaking if your focus is women's rights and child safeguarding?

Don't they deserve a voice too? Feminism isn't a preserve of the left (though getting the strong impression some would like it to be,). In fact, you could argue feminism has been more successful from the right. We've had three women prime ministers from the right (ok, the third was very, very short lived), none from the left, and the current leader of the opposition is a black woman who - unlike many of the current political cohort - actually bothers to find out the facts on any given issue and is competent and intelligent.

The right commissioned the Cass review and have been far better in halting safeguarding failures in school than the left though honorable mention to Wes Streeting who does appear to have at least read Cass.

spannasaurus · 13/12/2024 15:03

Can anyone provide the date and place of any LWS event where an extreme right wing person has taken the mic? (A link to the video and approx time would be helpful)

themostspecialelfintheworkshop · 13/12/2024 15:05

spannasaurus · 13/12/2024 15:03

Can anyone provide the date and place of any LWS event where an extreme right wing person has taken the mic? (A link to the video and approx time would be helpful)

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AlisonDonut · 13/12/2024 15:17

spannasaurus · 13/12/2024 15:03

Can anyone provide the date and place of any LWS event where an extreme right wing person has taken the mic? (A link to the video and approx time would be helpful)

Even if an extreme right wing person had taken the mike, they are still citizens of the UK and as such, are allowed a voice.

And allowed to walk the streets. Where the mike and speakers are at.

Bookery · 13/12/2024 15:24

TempestTost · 13/12/2024 13:20

Yes, I think this is really an interesting phenomena.

It's like, it doesn't actually matter what the policy question is, if it is "right wing" people on he left will be deeply embarrassed to even entertain it.

One of the things that has really interested me the last few years is the way traditionally left wing ideas have become associated with the right. Euro-skepticism is probably the one I noticed first.

I keep seeing more and more of these flips where things previously part of the old left are coded right. Tariffs and protection of industry, immigration. From the other direction the left now seems to embrace free trade deals that give corporate interests huge institutionalized political power, filling jobs with temporary foreign workers, big Pharma, and most recently I've seen dedicated AMerican Democrats treat anyone who doesn't want to send their kids to state education as dodgy.

I feel like every time there is a new one my eyebrows go further up. It's like there has been a total flip - and yet people who have been on the left for 40 years don't seem to be questioning it!

I read an article in Unherd yesterday about how Sanders has been approving of certain directions that Trump is going in. Well, yes, of course he bloody well is, because some of them are things that have been integral to left wing thought and action and the left today has totally abandoned them! There is a reason many Sanders voters switched to Trump, and I think he's being pretty pragmatic in agreeing with elements he sees as moving in the right direction. He cares about policy, not which side happens to lay claim to it.

I honestly think that if some authoritative (to left wingers) person now calls any policy left wing, there is a huge group of people who will support it because they are simply terrified of being called right wing. Globalism, forced vaccination, suppression of free speech, whatever.

From the other direction the left now seems to embrace free trade deals that give corporate interests huge institutionalized political power, filling jobs with temporary foreign workers, big Pharma, and most recently I've seen dedicated AMerican Democrats treat anyone who doesn't want to send their kids to state education as dodgy.

Under capitalism, neoliberalism has consumed much of the political discourse among left-leaning policymakers.

Additionally, the right (as in holding economically conservative views) is largely seen as more pro-business than the left (which is commonly known as being pro-union) and some have apparently felt the left needs to represent more corporate interests to counter that.

I'm not entirely sure about the point about state (public in the US) education, but one thing to note is that in the US right-wing libertarians and Republicans have kept advocating for charter schools and more private schools and decreasing government spending on education instead of attempting to address the severe disparity between well-funded state and private schools and underfunded and understaffed state schools by allocating more funds to the latter; this has not been well-received by centrists and Democrats.

I read an article in Unherd yesterday about how Sanders has been approving of certain directions that Trump is going in. Well, yes, of course he bloody well is, because some of them are things that have been integral to left wing thought and action and the left today has totally abandoned them! There is a reason many Sanders voters switched to Trump, and I think he's being pretty pragmatic in agreeing with elements he sees as moving in the right direction.

I would not say Sander has been "approving" of some of the policy directions Trump has indicated he might take, though his comments about the messaging to working-class voters could be noteworthy, and as of now we don't know whether many Sanders voters turned to Trump instead -- unless you're referring to a particular group of disaffected left-wing/self-described socialist/accelerationist voters who thought Americans needed another dose of Trump to wake up and dismantle capitalism and the two-party system.

Globalism, forced vaccination, suppression of free speech, whatever.

Both the left and the right can benefit from increased globalism and suppression of free speech, but in different ways.

If by "forced vaccinations" you're referring to mandates during the pandemic and not polio vaccinations for children, the issue was made out to be unnecessarily political (i.e. right-wing (individual rights above all) vs left-wing (the greater good of society is more important) people, excluding conspiracy theorists who believed Bill Gates was trying to insert a chip in their brains).

I think discussing these topics further would need a separate thread, though.

CandyMaker · 13/12/2024 15:36

When it is your event, you do not need to give everyone a voice and in fact KJK does not. She would not hand the mic to a TRA.

Bookery · 13/12/2024 15:43

themostspecialelfintheworkshop · 13/12/2024 15:03

But why on earth would you exclude right wing women from speaking if your focus is women's rights and child safeguarding?

Don't they deserve a voice too? Feminism isn't a preserve of the left (though getting the strong impression some would like it to be,). In fact, you could argue feminism has been more successful from the right. We've had three women prime ministers from the right (ok, the third was very, very short lived), none from the left, and the current leader of the opposition is a black woman who - unlike many of the current political cohort - actually bothers to find out the facts on any given issue and is competent and intelligent.

The right commissioned the Cass review and have been far better in halting safeguarding failures in school than the left though honorable mention to Wes Streeting who does appear to have at least read Cass.

In fact, you could argue feminism has been more successful from the right. We've had three women prime ministers from the right

The political affiliation itself doesn't paint the full picture on whether feminism can be considered to be more successful from the right because there are female politicians from conservative parties (not just in the UK, but in other countries as well, as I've noticed ); the questions we would be better off asking are, what kind of pro-women policies conservative female politicians have proposed and/or enacted? Have their conservative stances on other issues had a positive or negative impact on women?

Sometimes even in politically conservative countries conservative female politicians are elected to be heads of state/government, but that does raise a few questions: would they have been elected if they were not conservative? If not, why are some people less accepting of the notion of liberal female Prime Ministers/Presidents? Is it because that might be a little "extreme", being both female and liberal, in their eyes?

Bookery · 13/12/2024 15:43

themostspecialelfintheworkshop · 13/12/2024 15:03

But why on earth would you exclude right wing women from speaking if your focus is women's rights and child safeguarding?

Don't they deserve a voice too? Feminism isn't a preserve of the left (though getting the strong impression some would like it to be,). In fact, you could argue feminism has been more successful from the right. We've had three women prime ministers from the right (ok, the third was very, very short lived), none from the left, and the current leader of the opposition is a black woman who - unlike many of the current political cohort - actually bothers to find out the facts on any given issue and is competent and intelligent.

The right commissioned the Cass review and have been far better in halting safeguarding failures in school than the left though honorable mention to Wes Streeting who does appear to have at least read Cass.

In fact, you could argue feminism has been more successful from the right. We've had three women prime ministers from the right

The political affiliation itself doesn't paint the full picture on whether feminism can be considered to be more successful from the right because there are female politicians from conservative parties (not just in the UK, but in other countries as well, as I've noticed ); the questions we would be better off asking are, what kind of pro-women policies conservative female politicians have proposed and/or enacted? Have their conservative stances on other issues had a positive or negative impact on women?

Sometimes even in politically conservative countries conservative female politicians are elected to be heads of state/government, but that does raise a few questions: would they have been elected if they were not conservative? If not, why are some people less accepting of the notion of liberal female Prime Ministers/Presidents? Is it because that might be a little "extreme", being both female and liberal, in their eyes?

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