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More Canadian madness

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TwistedWonder · 20/11/2024 20:47

https://reduxx.info/exclusive-canadian-mother-was-told-to-be-more-inclusive-after-complaining-about-a-male-wearing-a-childs-bikini-while-showering-with-young-girls-at-her-local-pool

The really have lost the plot - how can anyone justify prioritising men with a fetish over the safeguarding of children?

EXCLUSIVE: Canadian Mother Was Told To Be More "Inclusive" After Complaining About A Male Wearing A "Child's Bikini" While Showering With Young Girls At Her Local Pool - Reduxx

The mother of a young girl in British Columbia, Canada, is speaking out after a man in a pink, sparkly bikini — adorned with sparkles, frills and princess tiaras — was found showering in the female changing room of her local public pool. After reportin...

https://reduxx.info/exclusive-canadian-mother-was-told-to-be-more-inclusive-after-complaining-about-a-male-wearing-a-childs-bikini-while-showering-with-young-girls-at-her-local-pool

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NecessaryScene · 22/11/2024 07:13

It is about ThePublic, run by the exact same person. They're sister sites. You can presume a lack of integrity from one infects the other, it's all from the same house.

Is there any evidence for this? It really doesn't ring true to me at all - ThePublica is not remotely Slatz's style at all - it doesn't seem remotely credible.

The only place I can find that stated is on that "RationalWiki" site which is far less reliable than Reduxx itself. Not even Wikipedia can bring themselves to say that.

It would be dreadfully ironic if people were just making stuff up to discredit for Reduxx "making up" something that actually happened.

borntobequiet · 22/11/2024 07:15

Sleepydoor · 21/11/2024 23:24

Whatever @PurpleSparkledPixie This is the salacious DM I sent you:

Hi there! I have given some thought to the comments on this thread. I swore to myself I would not continue to interact on this thread and reported some posts to MN for the personal attacks. That is why MN deleted some posts. This is what I think. I do agree that there are some troubling issues with trans people using changerooms. I don't agree that anyone born male should be able to compete against females, just because they identify as female. However, I will note that the case in Barrie was an open competition -- it is open to all ages as an opportunity for anyone to just get an official time for their speciality. That open meet is not going to jeopardize any young girl from getting a place on a team or whatever. My issue that I raised on that thread in particular was that the source of the story is very troubling. I went to one of the best journalism schools in Canada in the 90s and I am a lawyer. I care very much about journalistic integrity and truth. I believe we can have conversations about trans issues without resorting to hyperbole and exaggeration. I don't think it helps to call someone a flying monkey and suggest they have bad intentions because they point out that the person reporting a story is not a journalist and seems to hate trans people or that the editor of a publication formerly worked for an organization that I personally know planted "instigators" or activists into situations in order to perpetuate their narratives.

Stop @ ing me and I will leave you all alone. Like, forever.

Salacious?

Journalism school? Lawyer?

Really?

Waitwhat23 · 22/11/2024 07:18

I'm so tempted to produce a 'TRA's on Mumsnet' bingo card, and I swear, the centre tile will be 'I have LOADS of evidence but I'm not going to tell you, because you're mean'

Toddlers have better reasoning abilities.

Shortshriftandlethal · 22/11/2024 08:09

Sleepydoor · 21/11/2024 23:24

Whatever @PurpleSparkledPixie This is the salacious DM I sent you:

Hi there! I have given some thought to the comments on this thread. I swore to myself I would not continue to interact on this thread and reported some posts to MN for the personal attacks. That is why MN deleted some posts. This is what I think. I do agree that there are some troubling issues with trans people using changerooms. I don't agree that anyone born male should be able to compete against females, just because they identify as female. However, I will note that the case in Barrie was an open competition -- it is open to all ages as an opportunity for anyone to just get an official time for their speciality. That open meet is not going to jeopardize any young girl from getting a place on a team or whatever. My issue that I raised on that thread in particular was that the source of the story is very troubling. I went to one of the best journalism schools in Canada in the 90s and I am a lawyer. I care very much about journalistic integrity and truth. I believe we can have conversations about trans issues without resorting to hyperbole and exaggeration. I don't think it helps to call someone a flying monkey and suggest they have bad intentions because they point out that the person reporting a story is not a journalist and seems to hate trans people or that the editor of a publication formerly worked for an organization that I personally know planted "instigators" or activists into situations in order to perpetuate their narratives.

Stop @ ing me and I will leave you all alone. Like, forever.

Lots of these organisations and publications ( Sex Matters/Transgender Trend/Reduxx/Fair Play for Women )etc were creating by interested/concerned women from many and various backgrounds...so whilst they may not be professional journalists, they are very dedicated ,and motivated, to uncovering the facts. Reduxx is doing a fantastic job at uncovering the sordid truth of the abuses that abound.

If professional journalists had been doing their job, some of the burden of investigation would be lifted.

Shortshriftandlethal · 22/11/2024 08:12

TempestTost · 22/11/2024 01:25

Your integrity isn't even relevant to the discussion, I'm not suggesting anything about it.

Did you have any specific criticisms of Reduxx's reporting?

To have a valid criticism you'd have to have done some investigation yourself.

Shortshriftandlethal · 22/11/2024 08:16

PinkChesnut · 22/11/2024 01:54

https://rationalwiki.org/wiki/Reduxx

Anyone peddling conspiracy theories about immigrants and gay people in general are not pro-women.

I am a woman immigrant, and the number of policies I run up against that are exclusively designed to target and hurt women in immigration law alone are insane.

Being gay, an immigrant or a woman doesn't absolve a person from responsibility for their actions, behaviours or abuses; nor does it preclude investigation into any of the above.

Shortshriftandlethal · 22/11/2024 08:17

PinkChesnut · 22/11/2024 01:58

The link I had contained one example in particular of a story that had zero proof.

What sort of proof would you require?

PinkChesnut · 22/11/2024 08:17

Shortshriftandlethal · 22/11/2024 08:16

Being gay, an immigrant or a woman doesn't absolve a person from responsibility for their actions, behaviours or abuses; nor does it preclude investigation into any of the above.

Strawman.

Shortshriftandlethal · 22/11/2024 08:21

PinkChesnut · 22/11/2024 04:24

If i link directly to the archive, it's missing the context.

It's the last section of the site I linked.

I do not appreciate it when someone addresses me in an antagonistic or condescending manner. Please be respectful.

I can see several people have tried to engage with you in a civilised and respectful manner.......but even when people address you in such a way, ask you to further elaborate your claims and assertions....you get stroppy.
How can there be a meaningful discussion when one party refuses to engage fully?

PinkChesnut · 22/11/2024 08:25

Shortshriftandlethal · 22/11/2024 08:21

I can see several people have tried to engage with you in a civilised and respectful manner.......but even when people address you in such a way, ask you to further elaborate your claims and assertions....you get stroppy.
How can there be a meaningful discussion when one party refuses to engage fully?

I stated a boundary. It was direct and clear regarding the manner I would not accept being spoken to.

Why is that a problem for you?

Shortshriftandlethal · 22/11/2024 08:26

PinkChesnut · 22/11/2024 04:50

Self id isnt a free pass to behave like a creep. Peeking under stalls or making inappropriate comments/staring/touching w/out consent would be reason to call the law. I would not hesitate to call the police on anyone behaving in an inappropriate manner in a bathroom or changeroom, trans or not.

So, you do understand that permitting male people into female changing areas or other spaces that are predicated on the nature of female body or function is a safeguarding risk?

This is why we have single sex spaces in the first place...so to eliminate that particular element of risk. A man doesn't even have to be overtly violent or pervy for a woman to feel uncomfortable or to have her privacy violated. Just the presence of a man in a space which exists for the dignity and privacy of women and girls is enough.

Shortshriftandlethal · 22/11/2024 08:29

PinkChesnut · 22/11/2024 08:25

I stated a boundary. It was direct and clear regarding the manner I would not accept being spoken to.

Why is that a problem for you?

I've just logged on and have been reading back over the exchanges that have occured since yesterday. I'm offering you my observation.

You are doing the same thing now.....rather than seeking genuine, honest and open dialogue you are being confrontational and refusing to engage in thoughtful, meaningful or constructive dialogue. So it has just become overly personalised.

If youn engage with the content of the discussion, rather than focussing on persons it would be better all around.

Shortshriftandlethal · 22/11/2024 08:31

PinkChesnut · 22/11/2024 08:17

Strawman.

Explain what you mean.....How am i supposed to understand the point you are making. This is not twitter......it is a discussion board.

PinkChesnut · 22/11/2024 08:31

Shortshriftandlethal · 22/11/2024 08:29

I've just logged on and have been reading back over the exchanges that have occured since yesterday. I'm offering you my observation.

You are doing the same thing now.....rather than seeking genuine, honest and open dialogue you are being confrontational and refusing to engage in thoughtful, meaningful or constructive dialogue. So it has just become overly personalised.

If youn engage with the content of the discussion, rather than focussing on persons it would be better all around.

Your observations, coloured by your own bias, are unasked for and I shall be disregarding them.

Shortshriftandlethal · 22/11/2024 08:34

PinkChesnut · 22/11/2024 05:04

Why would anyone call the police if someone isn't breaking the law?

Because they feel unsafe and instinctively recognise that a boundary has been breached......yet they find themselves in a dystopian world where the authorities will suggest to them they are being hateful for feeling unsafe and compromised, maybe?

What other recourse does a woman or girl have if someone is violating their space?

Shortshriftandlethal · 22/11/2024 08:35

PinkChesnut · 22/11/2024 08:31

Your observations, coloured by your own bias, are unasked for and I shall be disregarding them.

Ditto!

You are wasting everyone's valuable time and energy. You have landed yourself in a situation in which you cannot function or engage in a meaningful or constructive way.

Shortshriftandlethal · 22/11/2024 08:37

PinkChesnut · 22/11/2024 08:31

Your observations, coloured by your own bias, are unasked for and I shall be disregarding them.

On this board we are biased. We are biased in favour of women and girls. Hope that helps or explains the situation you find yourself in.

AlisonDonut · 22/11/2024 08:40

I was waiting for the link to the article that was in question but it seems that we are now saying [happy to be corrected] that Reddux is not valid because one of their journalists is somehow linked to 'The Publica' which when you put into google as a website address goes to 'The Quartering'.

But we have no evidence of this link in any way? Is the link that she once wrote one article or is running it behind the scenes? What is this link?

Is this going to be another 'peer review style' link where one poster states it, another quotes it, this then gets quoted elsewhere and then this is 'evidence' of the link?

Is this 'known' because the poster making this 'link' is a paid up member of 'The Quartering', an Anti-woke website by the looks of it, and is trying to Doxx the journalist on here? That's pretty 'boundary stepping' if so.

If you are going to make these accusations, at least show your workings.

AlisonDonut · 22/11/2024 08:42

If she is researching and writing half of Reduxx's articles, running the The Publica and The Quartering on the side, then hats off love. That's dedication. Flowers

PinkChesnut · 22/11/2024 08:43

Shortshriftandlethal · 22/11/2024 08:35

Ditto!

You are wasting everyone's valuable time and energy. You have landed yourself in a situation in which you cannot function or engage in a meaningful or constructive way.

Edited

I would hate to think I diverted anyone's time and attention away from directly harassing trans women.

How awful.

NotBadConsidering · 22/11/2024 08:44

Is this going to be another 'peer review style' link where one poster states it, another quotes it, this then gets quoted elsewhere and then this is 'evidence' of the link?

Give it a day or two, and someone will update that RationalWiki page to have a statement that Reduxx isn’t reliable with a link to PinkChesnut’s post as proof, which links to RationalWiki as proof, and so on, thus completing the circular referencing TRAs are so fond of.

PinkChesnut · 22/11/2024 08:49

NotBadConsidering · 22/11/2024 08:44

Is this going to be another 'peer review style' link where one poster states it, another quotes it, this then gets quoted elsewhere and then this is 'evidence' of the link?

Give it a day or two, and someone will update that RationalWiki page to have a statement that Reduxx isn’t reliable with a link to PinkChesnut’s post as proof, which links to RationalWiki as proof, and so on, thus completing the circular referencing TRAs are so fond of.

I would laugh if that happened, but it would be incorrect.

Publica, a site she also runs, is the one in this specific instance.

Do i doubt she lies on reduxx? No. Do i have energy or time to fact check her rn? Also no.

NotBadConsidering · 22/11/2024 08:53

PinkChesnut · 22/11/2024 08:49

I would laugh if that happened, but it would be incorrect.

Publica, a site she also runs, is the one in this specific instance.

Do i doubt she lies on reduxx? No. Do i have energy or time to fact check her rn? Also no.

Again, who is “she”?

Where is the proof “she” has lied on Reduxx?

You’ve had a long time to fact check your claim. You’re talking on another thread about libel, and here you are saying a named individual lies on a website. Hypocrite much?

MelodyMalone · 22/11/2024 08:53

PinkChesnut · 22/11/2024 08:43

I would hate to think I diverted anyone's time and attention away from directly harassing trans women.

How awful.

I haven't engaged with this conversation since it seems to be on a hiding to nowhere, but this is very unfair.

You have no evidence at all that anyone here would directly harass trans women. I certainly wouldn't and I doubt anyone else would. Discussing a story on a relevant forum is not harassment.

PinkChesnut · 22/11/2024 08:54

NotBadConsidering · 22/11/2024 08:53

Again, who is “she”?

Where is the proof “she” has lied on Reduxx?

You’ve had a long time to fact check your claim. You’re talking on another thread about libel, and here you are saying a named individual lies on a website. Hypocrite much?

I would be delighted were she to sue me for libel. :)

Discovery on those suits turns up the BEST stuff.