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Worldwide XX Day proposed, wear red - 10th October

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Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 22/09/2024 06:58

Just seen on X. #TERFDayofVisibility proposed for 10th October because it's X X in Roman numerals. Suggested that women in support all over the world should wear red. Symbolic but also not as political as suffragette colours for those who need to be careful at work. I think I'll give this a go. https://x.com/sappholives83/status/1837232379179544598?t=wUUgCHATTW_qZ2O6c4z8NQ&s=19

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ElleWoods15 · 11/10/2024 15:51

Jeez ladies no need to get your knickers in a (slightly petty) twist 😂merely commenting on the lack of red around!

Ereshkigalangcleg · 12/10/2024 01:34

That's why I have a counter thingy. Nothing beats standing around on a couple of cold grey wet autumn days counting how many people are wearing red.

Grin a counter thingy of some sort is best

Helleofabore · 12/10/2024 07:20

Boiledbeetle · 11/10/2024 12:28

That's why I have a counter thingy. Nothing beats standing around on a couple of cold grey wet autumn days counting how many people are wearing red.

I would love to have one of those!

I used one for work once and I had so much fun they had to take it off me and give it to someone who didn’t have my enthusiasm.

FlippinFumin · 12/10/2024 10:43

I wore a red cardigan and scarf. Did not post anything on social media, because I am myself and have to be careful for now. Just the quiet knowledge I was supporting women.

SinnerBoy · 12/10/2024 10:57

Boiledbeetle · Yesterday 12:28

That's why I have a counter thingy. Nothing beats standing around on a couple of cold grey wet autumn days counting how many people are wearing red.

That sounds like an excellent hobby! Is there an association and can I join?

Villagetoraiseachild · 12/10/2024 11:03

SinnerBoy · 12/10/2024 10:57

Boiledbeetle · Yesterday 12:28

That's why I have a counter thingy. Nothing beats standing around on a couple of cold grey wet autumn days counting how many people are wearing red.

That sounds like an excellent hobby! Is there an association and can I join?

Counter Thingys Anonymous.

BonfireLady · 12/10/2024 11:31

Villagetoraiseachild · 12/10/2024 11:03

Counter Thingys Anonymous.

Perhaps there could be a data contribution network, a bit like the "tell us where you've seen a butterfly/Asian wasp" ones.

People can self-ID as either a Red Counting Person or a Non-Red Counting Person and then send their data in for the count that day. Thus building up a picture across the whole year of the baseline Red vs Non-Red ratio.... ready for the grand reveal at the end of 10th October next year.

Obviously we could have a situation where TRAs skew the figures by wearing red on every day except the 10th October, so it's not entirely foolproof. Given the effort involved in that, not to mention the impact on their wardrobe/laundry (you've either got to buy lots more red things or constantly wash the ones you've got to sustain it), they're more likely to try other forms of protest instead. It's far easier to demonstrate contempt for a group of people by releasing a swarm of crickets in to an event that they're running, for example (see reason demonstration at an LGB conference to illustrate how quick and easy this is to do).

SinnerBoy · 12/10/2024 11:32

BonfireLady · Today 11:31

Ooh, great idea - who's going to handle the statistics?

Boiledbeetle · 12/10/2024 11:32

Villagetoraiseachild · 12/10/2024 11:03

Counter Thingys Anonymous.

Then at each meeting people can try and guess what someone was counting that week.

"I was standing on the corner between South Street and Bishops Gate, with my back to the railings of the cemetery . I could see three pubs, one phonebox, a newsagents, a post box, a takeaway. and a pelican crossing. I stood for 3 hours between 9am and 12pm. My clicker is at 61. What was I counting?"

BonfireLady · 12/10/2024 11:34

SinnerBoy · 12/10/2024 11:32

BonfireLady · Today 11:31

Ooh, great idea - who's going to handle the statistics?

The ONS? I see no risk there.

Ahem.

SinnerBoy · 12/10/2024 11:35

Well, of course...

BonfireLady · 12/10/2024 11:40

Boiledbeetle · 12/10/2024 11:32

Then at each meeting people can try and guess what someone was counting that week.

"I was standing on the corner between South Street and Bishops Gate, with my back to the railings of the cemetery . I could see three pubs, one phonebox, a newsagents, a post box, a takeaway. and a pelican crossing. I stood for 3 hours between 9am and 12pm. My clicker is at 61. What was I counting?"

Like the first round in Mock the Week:

"If this is the answer, what was the question?"

Genius. I don't have my own clicker but please can I join anyway and be the Hugh Dennis character? In answer to the above I'd go for "How many people were flipping the bird at car drivers when they walked past me?" Obviously those on the pelican crossing were just the latest example of how society has gone to pot.

MarieDeGournay · 12/10/2024 11:51

Oh how I love FWR for the way the merest thing - in this case a slightly dismissive comment about the lack of red on XX day - can launch a whole thread of fun, as delightful as it is carefully worked out - I mean, worrying about who'll be handling the statistics was the perfect set-up for 'The ONS', now wasn't it?😆
I didn't even get out on Red XX day, and I doubt if I would have bumped into anyone wearing red around here anyway.
But no matter, we knew the gesture was being made, it lifted our hearts a bit, and then we had great fun on here.
That's a win in my opinion😊

BonfireLady · 12/10/2024 12:22

Totally agree @MarieDeGournay about the value of laughter. And yes, that was indeed a gift for the taking from @SinnerBoy about the statistics (which was the intention I assume).

I've been going through a tricky patch recently WRT gender identity related stuff** and being able to laugh (when appropriate of course) is what keeps me sane. That, long walks, my amazing best friend (who knew about all this stuff for ages and introduced me to this board on MN - she's a lurker) and chatting to friends and family about other stuff.

** Thankfully my daughter is unaware and she is continuing to navigate life as a teenager in all its ups and down, with autism on top.

BonfireLady · 12/10/2024 13:05

To add: I appreciate wit from the "other side" as well.
For example, although ElleWoods15 and I clearly come from different viewpoints, there was a time recently (can't remember which thread) were Elle quoted someone's exact words back at them and it made me chuckle. I didn't give a like to Elle's comment because on balance I agreed with the other poster on the overall point being made (giving sources for facts) but that doesn't mean I didn't appreciate the quick-wittedness of the comment in question. Anyway, here's your appreciation now @ElleWoods15 for the comedy aspect 😁

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Vegemiteandhoneyontoast · 13/10/2024 13:08

Boiledbeetle · 11/10/2024 15:23

They are surprisingly useful aren't they!

I'm sure they are but I haven't actually used it yet! I work as a gardener and kneel down/stand up about eleventy thousand times a day so DH got it for me as I'd been idly wondering what the true number is.

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