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3 questions for GC women

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ChirpyFinch · 28/08/2024 00:27

As the title says, three questions for the women in this chat.

  1. Do you think the majority of people are gender critical, and why/why not?

  2. Globally, the right wing is more vocally gender critical than the left. They are also far more likely to be regressive on a range of women’s issues like abortion and anti-gay. Why do you think they agree with GCs on this one issue but disagree on so much else (if you think they do?)

  3. How many trans people do you estimate there are globally?

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Snowypeaks · 28/08/2024 18:11

TheKeatingFive · 28/08/2024 18:09

Yeah that's what I was trying to get at with the utopian point.

Ah, yes, of course.

GailBlancheViola · 28/08/2024 18:13

views can differ

Indeed they can but when certain views are being used to completely upend and fundamentally alter Laws and functions within a democratic society those views have to have a substance behind them and be able to withstand debate, discussion, scrutiny and questioning.

CocoapuffPuff · 28/08/2024 18:14

ApocalipstickNow · 28/08/2024 18:09

David Sylvian and Nick Rhodes are the same person.

Sacrilege!!! Off with your head!

Ereshkigalangcleg · 28/08/2024 18:14

When people refuse to back up their ideological viewpoint but still insist that I should give it primacy over my reality-based one, I'm always going to be drawing conclusions about them and their views. It's not personal.

It's not possible to make a convincing claim that your (general your) view is the superior one when you haven't explained it.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 28/08/2024 18:15

SilenceInside · 28/08/2024 18:10

@ElleWoods15 if you aren't interested in explaining your position then it can and will be dismissed out of hand. It's not of interest to anyone else, if it's not up for scrutiny or questioning.

But you can see how it's a little, odd, to tell other people their views are regressive and so on, without explaining why or being prepared to explain why your alternative opinion is more valid and well reasoned.

This.

TheKeatingFive · 28/08/2024 18:16

Another thing. Right leaning people are often more religious.

Trans ideology seems to deliver to some of the same basic human needs that religion does. For those on the left without religious faith, it fulfils some of these human instincts that aren't currently being met by a religious world view.

MerryMarys · 28/08/2024 18:18

Sex (back to evolution again!) is a reproductive strategy common to all mammals. What does it mean to identify as egg-haver when you are sperm-jizzer?

I also struggle to understand this!

@ElleWoods15 I would really appreciate your thoughts on this.

CocoapuffPuff · 28/08/2024 18:19

TheKeatingFive · 28/08/2024 18:16

Another thing. Right leaning people are often more religious.

Trans ideology seems to deliver to some of the same basic human needs that religion does. For those on the left without religious faith, it fulfils some of these human instincts that aren't currently being met by a religious world view.

This is a great point.

However, instead of worshipping a deity of whatever flavour, the individual BECOMES THE DEITY.

Its a narcissists dream, really.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 28/08/2024 18:19

Trans ideology seems to deliver to some of the same basic human needs that religion does. For those on the left without religious faith, it fulfils some of these human instincts that aren't currently being met by a religious world view.

Yes, I think this is a good point. I think that's why the "Humanists" love it so much.

TheKeatingFive · 28/08/2024 18:19

CocoapuffPuff · 28/08/2024 18:19

This is a great point.

However, instead of worshipping a deity of whatever flavour, the individual BECOMES THE DEITY.

Its a narcissists dream, really.

Absolutely

MerryMarys · 28/08/2024 18:21

But you can see how it's a little, odd, to tell other people their views are regressive and so on, without explaining why or being prepared to explain why your alternative opinion is more valid and well reasoned

Yes, you're questioning my intelligence in response to my views but you're not prepared to share your views.

CocoapuffPuff · 28/08/2024 18:21

Makes you wonder just how many new wee Gods and Goddesses it'll take for the Big Man to start the smiting.

ElleWoods15 · 28/08/2024 18:25

Ereshkigalangcleg · 28/08/2024 18:14

When people refuse to back up their ideological viewpoint but still insist that I should give it primacy over my reality-based one, I'm always going to be drawing conclusions about them and their views. It's not personal.

It's not possible to make a convincing claim that your (general your) view is the superior one when you haven't explained it.

As I’ve said repeatedly, I believe our opinions can differ. I’m not asking you to change your view. I’m asking you to be respectful of those who hold differing views.

ElleWoods15 · 28/08/2024 18:26

MerryMarys · 28/08/2024 18:21

But you can see how it's a little, odd, to tell other people their views are regressive and so on, without explaining why or being prepared to explain why your alternative opinion is more valid and well reasoned

Yes, you're questioning my intelligence in response to my views but you're not prepared to share your views.

I’m not questioning your intelligence.

The only questioning of intelligence has been from GC posters about those supporting trans rights.

I’m not asking you to change your views. Just don’t be offensive about those who hold alternative views.

SilenceInside · 28/08/2024 18:28

Can you see why people don't have to respect a view that isn't explained or even allowed to be questioned? I respect your right to hold that view, but I'm not going to give any credence or weight to it either.

Perhaps you could respond to those people who you feel haven't insulted you or your intelligence and ignore those that you feel have.

CocoapuffPuff · 28/08/2024 18:29

You're being asked respectfully to explain how you come by those other views, that's all. Nobody's holding your feet in a fire. You're also being respectfully told that if you can't explain these views then they'll be dismissed.

Just how much kowtowing do you want?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 28/08/2024 18:29

I’m asking you to be respectful of those who hold differing views.

Being respectful of people doesn't mean people have to respect the view itself. I also don't have to be respectful of those trans rights activists or their supporters who threaten, abuse and bully women.

BackToLurk · 28/08/2024 18:30

TheKeatingFive · 28/08/2024 18:16

Another thing. Right leaning people are often more religious.

Trans ideology seems to deliver to some of the same basic human needs that religion does. For those on the left without religious faith, it fulfils some of these human instincts that aren't currently being met by a religious world view.

Chesterton's “When men choose not to believe in God, they do not thereafter believe in nothing, they then become capable of believing in anything.” (And I say that as an athiest)

orangejuggling · 28/08/2024 18:31

I don’t really buy the argument of Gen Z and inclusiveness. Why is this inclusive? What is the value of collapsing male and female as meaningful biological categories?

I think that trans and non binary identifications right now are mostly driven by powerful social forces and social contagion. That wouldn’t matter so much if the impact of gender dysphoria was confined to superficial elements, like makeup and clothing, but it is leading young people to seek hormones and surgery that damage bodies. And it’s sincerely done, by many.

So I guess I feel that belief in trans identity is similar to belief in religion. It’s hard to argue people out of religious beliefs; you can’t argue me out of my scepticism. But I come back to the physical consequences of these beliefs- often profoundly harmful- and I don’t see what is positive or inclusive.

SilenceInside · 28/08/2024 18:31

By calling an apparently opposing view "regressive" and expressing opinions that it is an intolerant and non-inclusive view that only old people hold, and by expressing the view that you hope younger people won't hold this view... you are criticising that view and judging it to be harmful. Surely you can see that? You're not just politely respecting other people's right to hold that view. You engaged in criticism of it, but won't explain why or answer questions about your own view which you clearly judge to be superior.

ArabellaScott · 28/08/2024 18:32

TheKeatingFive · 28/08/2024 18:16

Another thing. Right leaning people are often more religious.

Trans ideology seems to deliver to some of the same basic human needs that religion does. For those on the left without religious faith, it fulfils some of these human instincts that aren't currently being met by a religious world view.

Yes. 'Gender' being an innate and mystical property only works if it has a function akin to a soul.

Of course many people believe in souls. And gender. That's fine; it's not fine to try to impose those views on the rest of the population.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 28/08/2024 18:35

Yes. 'Gender' being an innate and mystical property only works if it has a function akin to a soul.

Of course many people believe in souls. And gender. That's fine; it's not fine to try to impose those views on the rest of the population.

This. I don't believe in god. I don't believe in Allah. I don't believe in "being born in the wrong body".

ElleWoods15 · 28/08/2024 18:35

Ereshkigalangcleg · 28/08/2024 18:29

I’m asking you to be respectful of those who hold differing views.

Being respectful of people doesn't mean people have to respect the view itself. I also don't have to be respectful of those trans rights activists or their supporters who threaten, abuse and bully women.

Can’t you see that repeatedly commenting that either they can’t be intelligent or that they must be blinded by ideology is rude.

CocoapuffPuff · 28/08/2024 18:37

So is ignoring polite, respectfully asked questions but hey, we have to make exceptions for special people.....

Ereshkigalangcleg · 28/08/2024 18:37

I didn't comment that anyone wasn't intelligent, let alone "repeatedly", so not sure where you've got that from.

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