Event after seeing pinknewsstaff sharing info about Pink News CEO Ben Cohen, I was still afraid to speak up — but after seeing support from LindaRiley, DivaMag and darrenstyles I want to share my experience with Ben Cohen that I’ve carried with me many years.
I co-founded mygenderation to make films about trans lives (after my negative experience on a doc series). We hit the ground running, making docs which caught the attention of Ben Cohen. He DM’d, asking to share them. I was thrilled & said of course, thinking he’d share the link
Suddenly I saw he’d ripped our film, added ‘Pink News’ branded subtitles & posted it everywhere without adding a tag or credit back to myself or mygenderation - Films we made on in our own time, as trans people, on a budget of nothing, with the hope to change hearts and minds.
I was scared to message Ben and was considerate with what I wrote. His response was AWFUL. He removed the doc & I felt like I’d been blacklisted. Suddenly there were less articles on me and when something was written, my name wasn’t mentioned, just ‘a non-binary trans activist’
I’d see Ben at various events, at 10 Downing Street, award events etc, and he’d blank me - Either because of an annoyance with me, or perhaps thinking I’m not important enough to be acknowledged. Writing this now, I can’t believe I sat on this so long.
I didn’t share this for fear of being seen like a troublemaker, for fear of not being included in contemporaries who attend parties, ceremonies and events. I’m a people pleaser, I want people to like me. But I’m learning there’s more important things than that.