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NotNowFGS · 02/08/2024 22:55

I rose to it today. Couldn't help myself. Challenged a couple of folk on Twitter who were responding positively to my batshit TRA MPs statement on Twitter about the Olympic boxing business. I'm always polite. I ask questions and challenge gently here and there, but good god they always get abusive. I never learn.

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Snowypeaks · 03/08/2024 11:22

Zita60 · 03/08/2024 11:19

I think 5-ARD people are classified as male because they have male gonads and produce male gametes, i.e. sperm. They produce male levels of testosterone and their body reacts to it as any other male does. That’s what gives them advantages over females.

Castor Semenya is 5-ARD and has fathered children.

I think illtemperedclavicinist was joking?

mirax · 03/08/2024 11:27

Immemorialelms · 02/08/2024 23:52

I wish everyone would stop. The boxer is not trans. The boxer is not trans. The boxer is not trans. What this case shows is :-

  1. Some people who purport to be gender critical just have an ick factor for women who are at the edges of the spectrum and essentially "look more like men". This is not a good gender critical view and hurts the reputation of those arguing clearly for the definition and protection of women.
  1. Sex is a complicated thing involving chromosomes hormones epigenetics and physical organs - it is genuinely sometimes possible to question the binary, who knew?
  1. The case that people who are within the definition of male should not be playing sport with people within the definition of female is STILL a vital case and STILL needs to be made!!! This example is NOT the poster child for that campaign, in fact it's simply making us look like we are intolerant to women who "look a bit like men"; and like people who ignore the facts due to prejudice - both of which are exactly the opposite of the gender critical perspective.

Why?? Why has it taken off like this? I am shocked that maybe these TERFS I heard about, these prejudiced folk, might exist after all - I've seen no evidence of them before today.

No one who is GC including JKR said the boxer is trans. The boxer who is most likely suffering a DSD located within the male sex - hence the xy chromosomes and the evidence before our eyes of quite a masculine appearance (it is a fiction that people cannot tell the sexes apart, we have been doing it for 200 000 years!) was most probably identified and treated as a female in their country and I understand it is a pity that that person has become the focus rather than the IOC and the idiots who believe in sex transubstantiation.

Sex identification is not complicated for the vast majority - 99.98% and the even the 0.02% who who suffer from developmental disorders fall within male and female categories.

FrippEnos · 03/08/2024 11:30

@@Immemorialelms

Why?? Why has it taken off like this? I am shocked that maybe these TERFS I heard about, these prejudiced folk, might exist after all - I've seen no evidence of them before today

It has taken off because the IOC drunk the koolAid and has been refusing to do anything about trans and intersex people in sport for years.

No it has come back to bite them on the arse and has also dragged in the athletes themselves.

And surely if their is a question over someone's sex, the first thing to do would be to test them to find out.

theilltemperedclavecinist · 03/08/2024 11:37

Snowypeaks · 03/08/2024 11:22

I think illtemperedclavicinist was joking?

I was joking, yes, but I am also someone who thinks that people with complex DSDs (but only them) should be free to choose their 'social' sex. So I see no inconsistency in she/her-ing Semenya, but also expecting her male gross body type to exclude her from female competition.

I have to take issue with the sperm thing though @Zita60 . 5-ARD individuals don't produce spermatazoa. They do have non-mobile precursor germ cells, which can be surgically extracted and used in intracytoplasmic injection (a form of ivf). It's a faff, and I don't think Semenya has revealed whether they did that, or used a sperm donor.

Snowypeaks · 03/08/2024 12:47

theilltemperedclavecinist · 03/08/2024 11:37

I was joking, yes, but I am also someone who thinks that people with complex DSDs (but only them) should be free to choose their 'social' sex. So I see no inconsistency in she/her-ing Semenya, but also expecting her male gross body type to exclude her from female competition.

I have to take issue with the sperm thing though @Zita60 . 5-ARD individuals don't produce spermatazoa. They do have non-mobile precursor germ cells, which can be surgically extracted and used in intracytoplasmic injection (a form of ivf). It's a faff, and I don't think Semenya has revealed whether they did that, or used a sperm donor.

I see, thanks.
I disagree unless it's Swyers or CAIS.

MoveToParis · 03/08/2024 12:49

Immemorialelms · 02/08/2024 23:52

I wish everyone would stop. The boxer is not trans. The boxer is not trans. The boxer is not trans. What this case shows is :-

  1. Some people who purport to be gender critical just have an ick factor for women who are at the edges of the spectrum and essentially "look more like men". This is not a good gender critical view and hurts the reputation of those arguing clearly for the definition and protection of women.
  1. Sex is a complicated thing involving chromosomes hormones epigenetics and physical organs - it is genuinely sometimes possible to question the binary, who knew?
  1. The case that people who are within the definition of male should not be playing sport with people within the definition of female is STILL a vital case and STILL needs to be made!!! This example is NOT the poster child for that campaign, in fact it's simply making us look like we are intolerant to women who "look a bit like men"; and like people who ignore the facts due to prejudice - both of which are exactly the opposite of the gender critical perspective.

Why?? Why has it taken off like this? I am shocked that maybe these TERFS I heard about, these prejudiced folk, might exist after all - I've seen no evidence of them before today.

Just on point 1.

This is a variation of Be Kind. It is valid of you to take the stand that these two boxers are “eligible” but there is no moral superiority cookies for you. It is at least equally valid to say “these two boxers are not eligible” without it being a commentary as to their “womanhood”.
I think the IBA ruling of “they are not eligible” is fair and valid. I think the IOC ruling that they are is problematic on several fronts, only one of which is that they won’t own the decision.

theilltemperedclavecinist · 03/08/2024 12:52

Snowypeaks · 03/08/2024 12:47

I see, thanks.
I disagree unless it's Swyers or CAIS.

Yeah, it's not a hill I want to die on, but it makes me wince when people insist CAIS individuals should be treated as men (someone here suggested they should be excluded from women's facilities for instance) so I've adopted something more or less internally consistent that works for me.

ETA I think that 5-ARD individuals in certain countries could find it politically impossible to live as a man, for instance.

Snowypeaks · 03/08/2024 12:56

theilltemperedclavecinist · 03/08/2024 12:52

Yeah, it's not a hill I want to die on, but it makes me wince when people insist CAIS individuals should be treated as men (someone here suggested they should be excluded from women's facilities for instance) so I've adopted something more or less internally consistent that works for me.

ETA I think that 5-ARD individuals in certain countries could find it politically impossible to live as a man, for instance.

Edited

Nobody is saying CAIS males should be treated as men in all circumstances, I'm pretty sure. But speaking for myself, my view is that since they are male, they should not be in women's sport.

StickItInTheFamilyAlbum · 03/08/2024 13:03

it makes me wince when people insist CAIS individuals should be treated as men someone here suggested they should be excluded from women's facilities for instance) so I've adopted something more or less internally consistent that works for me.

Have they? On MN? I remember the issue surfacing when (then) YouTuber Exulansic is reported to have said something as extreme as that. I remember the thread after thread in which nobody supported that stance but I may well have missed the thread/poster that you recall.

theilltemperedclavecinist · 03/08/2024 13:07

StickItInTheFamilyAlbum · 03/08/2024 13:03

it makes me wince when people insist CAIS individuals should be treated as men someone here suggested they should be excluded from women's facilities for instance) so I've adopted something more or less internally consistent that works for me.

Have they? On MN? I remember the issue surfacing when (then) YouTuber Exulansic is reported to have said something as extreme as that. I remember the thread after thread in which nobody supported that stance but I may well have missed the thread/poster that you recall.

It was someone on this board in the last two days, but I don't know how I'd find it. And maybe they didn't know much about it.

WeAreOnTheRoadToNowhere · 03/08/2024 13:09

I think the point is the IOC, and others including TRAs, what the category of female to include anyone with F on their birth certificate or passport
Given the ease in many countries to change documentation it means the female category will include males with or without DSDs
Neither should be there of course

Snowypeaks · 03/08/2024 13:15

theilltemperedclavecinist · 03/08/2024 13:07

It was someone on this board in the last two days, but I don't know how I'd find it. And maybe they didn't know much about it.

I'd be interested if you do find it and post it, so please tag me in.

socialdilemmawhattodo · 03/08/2024 13:31

Zita60 · 02/08/2024 23:43

Sometimes it’s worth posting anyway. If they’re posting misinformation, by correcting it you won’t change their mind, but a neutral bystander might read what you say and stop to think about it.

This is the approach I have taken. I correct misinformation, possibly add a single point on an issue, and remain polite and respectful. On one occasion I corrected an American poster, male, who stated that trans people were being executed in the UK. I gave the years when we last executed a man and a woman. I was called names and a whole bunch of strangers defended me. So it's getting to the neutral bystanders.

Grammarnut · 03/08/2024 13:33

Immemorialelms · 02/08/2024 23:52

I wish everyone would stop. The boxer is not trans. The boxer is not trans. The boxer is not trans. What this case shows is :-

  1. Some people who purport to be gender critical just have an ick factor for women who are at the edges of the spectrum and essentially "look more like men". This is not a good gender critical view and hurts the reputation of those arguing clearly for the definition and protection of women.
  1. Sex is a complicated thing involving chromosomes hormones epigenetics and physical organs - it is genuinely sometimes possible to question the binary, who knew?
  1. The case that people who are within the definition of male should not be playing sport with people within the definition of female is STILL a vital case and STILL needs to be made!!! This example is NOT the poster child for that campaign, in fact it's simply making us look like we are intolerant to women who "look a bit like men"; and like people who ignore the facts due to prejudice - both of which are exactly the opposite of the gender critical perspective.

Why?? Why has it taken off like this? I am shocked that maybe these TERFS I heard about, these prejudiced folk, might exist after all - I've seen no evidence of them before today.

My understanding is that this person has a DSD. Some men with DSDs are born with a 'vagina', but have XY chromosomes and are male. They ought not to be in competition with women.

Zita60 · 03/08/2024 13:35

socialdilemmawhattodo · 03/08/2024 13:31

This is the approach I have taken. I correct misinformation, possibly add a single point on an issue, and remain polite and respectful. On one occasion I corrected an American poster, male, who stated that trans people were being executed in the UK. I gave the years when we last executed a man and a woman. I was called names and a whole bunch of strangers defended me. So it's getting to the neutral bystanders.

Blimey, that's a weird one, actually believing that we are executing trans people!

I'm glad you pointed out the truth.

StickItInTheFamilyAlbum · 03/08/2024 13:41

Zita60 · 03/08/2024 13:35

Blimey, that's a weird one, actually believing that we are executing trans people!

I'm glad you pointed out the truth.

Completely tangential but Woolf contrived a substantial misunderstanding about execution for sodomy.

It was only published this week, but already the writer Naomi Wolf has admitted an error at the heart of her latest book. Instead of being “actually executed for sodomy” in 1859, as the writer claims in Outrages, Thomas Silver was apparently “paroled two years after being convicted”.
Silver, who was 14 when he was convicted, is just one of several cases cited in the book but, according to the writer and broadcaster Matthew Sweet, the error stems from a simple misreading of a historical record and raises wider questions about the argument Wolf puts forward.

In Outrages, which was published by Virago, Wolf examines the effect of 19th-century legal changes on the lives of Victorian poets such as John Addington Symonds and argues that the Obscene Publications Act of 1857 marked a turning point in the treatment of gay people.

“People widely believe that the last executions for sodomy were in 1830,” Wolf told the Observer. “But I read every Old Bailey record throughout the 19th century, so I know that not only did they continue; they got worse.”
According to Sweet, who first challenged Wolf on Radio 3’s Arts and Ideas, her error concerning Silver stems from a misunderstanding of “the very precise historical legal term, ‘death recorded’, as evidence of execution, when in fact it indicates the opposite”.

www.theguardian.com/books/2019/may/24/naomi-wolf-admits-blunder-over-victorians-and-sodomy-executions

Naomi Wolf: ‘We’re in a fight for our lives and for democracy’

The author discusses her fears for free speech, older women, and her latest book, Outrages, a study of the persecution of gay men by the legal system in Victorian Britain

https://www.theguardian.com/books/2019/may/19/naomi-wolf-fight-for-democracy-free-speech-outrages-interview

Snowypeaks · 03/08/2024 13:44

According to Sweet, [....], her error concerning Silver stems from a misunderstanding of “the very precise historical legal term, ‘death recorded’, as evidence of execution, when in fact it indicates the opposite”.

How weird! Sounds bonkers, so I shall read the article, see if it explains...

Grammarnut · 03/08/2024 13:53

StickItInTheFamilyAlbum · 03/08/2024 13:41

Completely tangential but Woolf contrived a substantial misunderstanding about execution for sodomy.

It was only published this week, but already the writer Naomi Wolf has admitted an error at the heart of her latest book. Instead of being “actually executed for sodomy” in 1859, as the writer claims in Outrages, Thomas Silver was apparently “paroled two years after being convicted”.
Silver, who was 14 when he was convicted, is just one of several cases cited in the book but, according to the writer and broadcaster Matthew Sweet, the error stems from a simple misreading of a historical record and raises wider questions about the argument Wolf puts forward.

In Outrages, which was published by Virago, Wolf examines the effect of 19th-century legal changes on the lives of Victorian poets such as John Addington Symonds and argues that the Obscene Publications Act of 1857 marked a turning point in the treatment of gay people.

“People widely believe that the last executions for sodomy were in 1830,” Wolf told the Observer. “But I read every Old Bailey record throughout the 19th century, so I know that not only did they continue; they got worse.”
According to Sweet, who first challenged Wolf on Radio 3’s Arts and Ideas, her error concerning Silver stems from a misunderstanding of “the very precise historical legal term, ‘death recorded’, as evidence of execution, when in fact it indicates the opposite”.

www.theguardian.com/books/2019/may/24/naomi-wolf-admits-blunder-over-victorians-and-sodomy-executions

A little learning is a dangerous thing? 'death recorded' meant that the judge recorded that the death sentence was applicable but knew it would be overturned. For an execution to take place the judge had to say that the death sentence was to be carried out. 'death recorded' did the opposite, meaning no death sentence would be carried out but was only a written note that the death sentence applied.

theilltemperedclavecinist · 03/08/2024 13:54

Snowypeaks · 03/08/2024 13:15

I'd be interested if you do find it and post it, so please tag me in.

Found it!

"I just keep imagining either of my daughters in their mid teens (one of whom WAS a late menstruator) being diagnosed with such a condition and suddenly being told they are a male and must use male facilities etc."

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5128805-olympics-question?reply=137140481&utm_campaign=reply&utm_medium=share

It was just an aside.

Page 9 | olympics question | Mumsnet

Please help me here, are there any men (trans women) competing in the biological women's events in the Olympics games in Paris? Some people say there...

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5128805-olympics-question?reply=137140481

Zita60 · 03/08/2024 14:06

theilltemperedclavecinist · 03/08/2024 11:37

I was joking, yes, but I am also someone who thinks that people with complex DSDs (but only them) should be free to choose their 'social' sex. So I see no inconsistency in she/her-ing Semenya, but also expecting her male gross body type to exclude her from female competition.

I have to take issue with the sperm thing though @Zita60 . 5-ARD individuals don't produce spermatazoa. They do have non-mobile precursor germ cells, which can be surgically extracted and used in intracytoplasmic injection (a form of ivf). It's a faff, and I don't think Semenya has revealed whether they did that, or used a sperm donor.

I realised the last comment was a joke. 😄Although in this area, you can never be entirely sure...

From what I've read, it seems that some males with 5-ARD do produce sperm that can fertilise an egg normally, although it's not common.

"Besides impaired virilization, subfertility is common. Varying causes have been reported including cryptorchidism and abnormal prostate development with low semen volumes and impaired seminal liquefaction, which is mediated by PSA.1,2 Fertility treatments depend on the grade of impaired spermatogenesis and seminal transport. For men with normal sperm concentration and motility, spontaneous or intrauterine insemination is possible. In vitro fertilization (IVF) or intracytoplasmic sperm injection (ICSI) has been proven successful in men with small and viscous semen samples."

https://www.endocrine-abstracts.org/ea/0071/ea0071028

I wasn't aware of intracytoplasmic injection before, so thank you for mentioning that. I had actually assumed that in all cases of IVF a sperm was injected into the egg - I didn't realise that it normally simply involves the egg and sperm being mixed together.

It seems that at least one of Semenya's children was conceived through "insemination". It's not clear whether that was using his own sperm though.

https://www.news24.com/life/arts-and-entertainment/celebrities/news/caster-semenya-and-wife-violet-celebrate-miracle-baby-on-third-birthday-20220706-2

(As an aside, I was sitting in the front row of the stadium when the World Athletics Championships took place in London in 2017, and Semenya and the other athletes walked out for their race just a few feet away from me. Semenya looked so much like a man in comparison with the women. Clearly that's not how we should judge if someone is male or female, but Semenya's physicality was quite striking.)

The number of different ways that things can go wrong with sexual development is very interesting. It must be very difficult for people who thought they were one sex and then later find out they are a different one.

Fertility in men with 5-alpha reductase deficiency | BES2020 | Belgian Endocrine Society 2020 | Endocrine Abstracts

https://www.endocrine-abstracts.org/ea/0071/ea0071028

Snowypeaks · 03/08/2024 14:08

theilltemperedclavecinist · 03/08/2024 13:54

Found it!

"I just keep imagining either of my daughters in their mid teens (one of whom WAS a late menstruator) being diagnosed with such a condition and suddenly being told they are a male and must use male facilities etc."

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5128805-olympics-question?reply=137140481&utm_campaign=reply&utm_medium=share

It was just an aside.

I may be missing something but what you previously posted was
it makes me wince when people insist CAIS individuals should be treated as men someone here suggested they should be excluded from women's facilities for instance)

I questioned that - I haven't seen any posts on MN which say that or anything like that. The post you've just quoted in evidence doesn't say that, either:
"I just keep imagining either of my daughters in their mid teens (one of whom WAS a late menstruator) being diagnosed with such a condition and suddenly being told they are a male and must use male facilities etc."

All I've seen is people (like me) saying CAIS males should be excluded from women's sport.

StickItInTheFamilyAlbum · 03/08/2024 14:12

It was just an aside.

Nobody actually advocated that they should be? It was a hypothetical concern? Thank you for finding the link and posting it as it's rather reassuring. (I'd have been concerned if it hadn't been challenged in situ had such a thing been suggested.)

theilltemperedclavecinist · 03/08/2024 14:13

Snowypeaks · 03/08/2024 14:08

I may be missing something but what you previously posted was
it makes me wince when people insist CAIS individuals should be treated as men someone here suggested they should be excluded from women's facilities for instance)

I questioned that - I haven't seen any posts on MN which say that or anything like that. The post you've just quoted in evidence doesn't say that, either:
"I just keep imagining either of my daughters in their mid teens (one of whom WAS a late menstruator) being diagnosed with such a condition and suddenly being told they are a male and must use male facilities etc."

All I've seen is people (like me) saying CAIS males should be excluded from women's sport.

Doesn't "suddenly being told they are a male and must use male facilities etc." mean that? If not, I have misunderstood: my apologies.

Zita60 · 03/08/2024 14:23

StickItInTheFamilyAlbum · 03/08/2024 13:41

Completely tangential but Woolf contrived a substantial misunderstanding about execution for sodomy.

It was only published this week, but already the writer Naomi Wolf has admitted an error at the heart of her latest book. Instead of being “actually executed for sodomy” in 1859, as the writer claims in Outrages, Thomas Silver was apparently “paroled two years after being convicted”.
Silver, who was 14 when he was convicted, is just one of several cases cited in the book but, according to the writer and broadcaster Matthew Sweet, the error stems from a simple misreading of a historical record and raises wider questions about the argument Wolf puts forward.

In Outrages, which was published by Virago, Wolf examines the effect of 19th-century legal changes on the lives of Victorian poets such as John Addington Symonds and argues that the Obscene Publications Act of 1857 marked a turning point in the treatment of gay people.

“People widely believe that the last executions for sodomy were in 1830,” Wolf told the Observer. “But I read every Old Bailey record throughout the 19th century, so I know that not only did they continue; they got worse.”
According to Sweet, who first challenged Wolf on Radio 3’s Arts and Ideas, her error concerning Silver stems from a misunderstanding of “the very precise historical legal term, ‘death recorded’, as evidence of execution, when in fact it indicates the opposite”.

www.theguardian.com/books/2019/may/24/naomi-wolf-admits-blunder-over-victorians-and-sodomy-executions

I remember reading about that - it was pretty embarrassing for her.

She's a strange one. She's gone very weird in recent years.

Snowypeaks · 03/08/2024 14:23

theilltemperedclavecinist · 03/08/2024 14:13

Doesn't "suddenly being told they are a male and must use male facilities etc." mean that? If not, I have misunderstood: my apologies.

The full quote you posted:
"I just keep imagining either of my daughters in their mid teens (one of whom WAS a late menstruator) being diagnosed with such a condition and suddenly being told they are a male and must use male facilities etc."

So we've established that nobody said they must be treated as a man in all circumstances or anything approximating that.
Anyone can misread or misunderstand, I do sometimes, it's no biggy if you admit it.