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viques · 03/07/2024 14:06

More bad news for D, courtesy of TooMuchTimeOnMyHandsToday.Com, we do the googling so you don’t have to, a free MN service.

Apparently it is a legal requirement to change your driving licence when you change your name by deed poll, so yes D, looks like they ARE out to victimise you just because you are special, because technically you are breaking the law using your old licence.

The bigoted bastards, have you got room for a tattoo to let them know how you feel?

CantDealwithChristmas · 03/07/2024 14:07

CriticalCondition · 03/07/2024 13:58

As a non-binary trans person Dee is also scared of leggings. She's made a video about it. But then she put them on and it was okay. Perhaps she could use this experience in other areas of her life.

As a non-binary trans person Dee is also scared of leggings. But then she put them on and it was okay.

Gosh. Move over Malala Yousafzai. You have been pipped to the post in the courage and bravery stakes.

katebushh · 03/07/2024 14:17

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Robin198 · 03/07/2024 14:32

The issue here is nothing to do with being non-binary/trans/whatever and everything to do with not changing their passport/driving licence into the correct name.

I do get the feeling Dee’s favourite hobby is being offended.

CocoapuffPuff · 03/07/2024 14:42

Wah wah wahhhhhh

I made life more difficult for myself and now it's more difficult and I don't like it and it's not faaaaaiiiiiiiir.

What a prat.

OchonAgusOchonOh · 03/07/2024 15:53

CocoapuffPuff · 03/07/2024 14:42

Wah wah wahhhhhh

I made life more difficult for myself and now it's more difficult and I don't like it and it's not faaaaaiiiiiiiir.

What a prat.

I think you've misunderstood.

I did something that makes me truly brave and stunning, particularly as I am one of the most vulnerable on earth. The system is perfectly capable of dealing with my action with minimal effort on my part. But it's NOT FAIR. How can I celebrate my victim status (probably with another cake) if the system doesn't victimise me?

CocoapuffPuff · 03/07/2024 16:07

Oh you're right.

Here ya go.

Mochudubh · 03/07/2024 17:21

Fast forward to my early twenties and, one day in the middle of lockdown, I had my second lightbulb moment when I discovered the term non-binary randomly on Instagram.

Lockdown, the gift that keeps on giving.

Catsmere · 03/07/2024 21:53

FKAT · 03/07/2024 13:29

Why does that whole shite article not know the difference between a polling card and a deed poll?

Because she wrote it and she's demonstrably a fuckwit.

RebelIdeas · 04/07/2024 06:20

I couldn't read past the first para. Such self-indulgent twaddle.

LittleGreenDuck · 04/07/2024 07:13

Thinking of Dee on this difficult day. Hugs and prayers.

Runsyd · 04/07/2024 08:49

Silly woman with an unaddressed eating disorder.

CantDealwithChristmas · 04/07/2024 08:52

Runsyd · 04/07/2024 08:49

Silly woman with an unaddressed eating disorder.

Show me one 'non binary' or ROGD teen girl who DOESN'T have an unaddressed ED, trauma from abuse, depression, anxiety or cluster B personality disorder.

As Twitter neckbeards love to say, I'll wait 😉

StrictlyAFemaleFemale · 04/07/2024 09:03

Take some responsibility you silly crybaby.

pregnantpanic · 04/07/2024 09:10

Passport and evidence of name change by deed poll, job done. Just like if your ID is still in your maiden name. It's a complete non issue Hmm

Myalternate · 04/07/2024 09:16

Totally off topic, but I’m curious, which public toilets would non binary people use? 🫤

Chersfrozenface · 04/07/2024 09:20

Myalternate · 04/07/2024 09:16

Totally off topic, but I’m curious, which public toilets would non binary people use? 🫤

From what I've read they want all toilets to be unisex.

Where they are not, they use the women's toilets. Even, or perhaps especially, the male NBs.

CocoapuffPuff · 04/07/2024 09:20

Whichever they want. They're speshul.

MollyJustMight · 04/07/2024 09:24

Attention seeking girl.

VelvetBow · 04/07/2024 09:28

Imagine being this self absorbed. I've changed my name by deed poll and all, it's not hard.

ApresSailingQueen1 · 04/07/2024 09:29

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 02/07/2024 19:25

This is absolutely correct. I know because I appear in my married name on the electoral roll , but my photo ID is still in my maiden name.

I went to the polling station for the Police Comissioner election, added complication that the Post office had not delivered my polling card. I gave my address, showed my driving licence, explained my name change. I had my marriage certificate but they didn’t require it.

So no need to worry, Dee ( except that is probably the worst news you could have hear).

All my photo id is in my maiden name. Today I just took along my marriage cert as well (which to be fair I also have to do every time I open a bank account in my married name) and it was fine. No fuss.

Now I am feeling a bit disappointed there was no fuss now I know that a fuss could have been made. Should I go back to the polling station and kick up a stink? Would I get into the papers? I'll consider while I have my cup of tea and shortbread biscuit.

mrshoho · 04/07/2024 09:29

Dee should have listened to they's Mother's wise words. "Why don't you just go by the name Dee if that's what you want?" Why go through the bother of changing your name by deed poll but then not changing your other documents? I can feel the Mother's exasperation lol. Dee seems quite needy and helpless. I'm surprised Dee had the skills to sort out that deed poll all on their own.

FrancescaContini · 04/07/2024 09:34

Made me laugh 🤭 Poor little petal, how tough it must be to have her life.

OchonAgusOchonOh · 04/07/2024 09:35

VelvetBow · 04/07/2024 09:28

Imagine being this self absorbed. I've changed my name by deed poll and all, it's not hard.

Yes but you didn't do it in a stunning and brave way. Yours was just an ordinary, non- special deed poll.

FrancescaContini · 04/07/2024 09:37

“There is so much legal pushback to being non-binary” 🤭 Now why could that be? 🤨