It does occur to me that there's more going on.
The first few meetings I went to about the GRA consultation me revealed a sub culture of this in an out group warfare going on.
There was the formal agenda of speakers and presenting but also going on was a lot of in and out group formation. It was really visible especially as I'm a smoker and used to just chatting with anyone else smoking. The conversations weren't about what we had just heard but about in and out group gossip. Little knots of women would glower at other women. The transgressions causing the glowering were usually a mystery but this all seemed to be enjoyed by many.
Ever since that I've watched the factions smear each other here and on X etc.
I find it quite comical actually. So this whole "she was in the pub talking about us, we are destroyed now" is just more of the same sub culture of in and out groups.
I withdrew from participating with any formal and informal groups after a while because this way of operating might feed a need in people for status or validation, I don't really know, but it's not adding any value at all. I did stuff alone as I was able to.
I suppose it's human nature this sharp elbow competition, and left wing people are as competitive as right wing people so you can't avoid it unless you set your own goals that aren't dependent on group validation. I think this is something Maya Forstater excels at individually.
I will continue to be amused by it when it gets dragged into this board, a place where wonderful things have been done but recently it's been weighted towards in and out group gossip whilst real work has taken on a real world unstoppable presence.
I feel a bit sorry for those who inadvertently trap themselves into that to be honest, but I'm not going to apologise for also having a laugh at it. Best way really.