Prominent trans identified activists are totally consumed by their identity and trying to protect or defend it. This is why the frequently reported claims that their "existence is being denied" must make everything seem like a life and death struggle for them.When your identity is totally dependent for its existence on its reception and acceptance by everyone, that is not a mentally healthy place to be.
A stable and strong identity forms the core from which a personality radiates outward. A stable, healthy identity does not need to continually re-affirm itself in such obsessive ways and is not that dependent on continual affirmation.
Pandering to such obsessions simply nurtures and encourages fragility.