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Helleofabore · 25/04/2024 11:41

Datun · 25/04/2024 10:58

I don't think I've ever come across a TRA, who seems honest, sincere, levelheaded and unselfish.

And you're right Helle, butters doesn't speak of these children with them as the centre of the conversation at all. It's all about how they can justify butter's own life, behaviour, wants.

There is zero curiosity about why it's mostly girls, why would girls want to be identifying as boys, what's happening to them

Just 'Cass grudgingly admits' in order to find something that serves butterfly's own ends.

Butterfly isn't alone, of course, the entire ideology is characterised by the self-serving needs of adult males.

But ffs, the bleating is over. TRAs need to understand that the rest of the country is finally getting this in perspective. And that the scandal of sterilising children will absolutely turn the spotlight on the men who have encouraged it.

Spot on as usual Datun.

For anyone reading along, I recommend that if you feel moved by the posts of this male poster above, that you use advanced search and read their own words over the years they have posted here.

There is continued dismissal of the current female cohort, it is kind of datun to describe it as a lack of curiosity. The cohort change was such an inconvenience to the male adults who are so heavily invested in this ideologically driven concept of gender while at the same time being all too convenient for the support and spread of that concept throughout society.

This ultimately will be the downfall, I feel. The foundation was never solid and based on provable material reality. It was always built on philosophical belief that is changeable, and malleable over time.

When that philosophical belief is so enmeshed with the ego of humans, it was never appropriate to form the policies for medical treatment that resulted. Extreme body modifications to fit a person’s view of themselves at that moment in time based on dysphoria? FFS! Who ever thought that should be supported on national health systems around the world?

Helleofabore · 25/04/2024 11:43

RethinkingLife · 25/04/2024 11:34

And you're right Helle, butters doesn't speak of these children with them as the centre of the conversation at all. It's all about how they can justify butter's own life, behaviour, wants.

There is zero curiosity about why it's mostly girls, why would girls want to be identifying as boys, what's happening to them

MN search is beyond abysmal. But, does anyone else recall the US gender clinic with the psychologist who placed self at the centre of conversations with the children? Claiming that they would get to the end of the initial intake appointment with the child and parents and ask, "Have you ever met a transwoman?" and on hearing, "No" would tinkle, "Well, now you have!" And everybody applauded the parents and child looked on amazed, with tears of gratitude, as they'd had no idea that the person before them, who'd transitioned late in life after fathering a family, was a transwoman. Hmm

Was that Dr Erica Anderson?? The clinician in San Francisco?

Snowypeaks · 25/04/2024 11:57

RethinkingLife
MN search is beyond abysmal.

I'm so glad it's not just me.

Snowypeaks · 25/04/2024 12:12

If you are conceived male, you are born male - a baby boy. If you survive to adulthood, you are a man. Having a male body and being a human is being a man. No pretence is required. Be as feminine as you like. Being a man doesn't rule out anything except the reproductive functions of a female human being.

But there is no way to turn a male body into a female body. I'm sorry for anyone who finds that fact impossible to live with but it remains a fact. Being a man and calling yourself a woman is the pretence.

RedToothBrush · 25/04/2024 12:15

The other issue is that Butters really can't eliminate the placebo effect and the sunk costs issue precisely because Butters is so emotionally invested in transition.

If Butters did start to question the medical experimentation they've been part of then what happens?

But this demonstrates precisely why those experimented on are often not great at assessing whether something truly is beneficial and why we need proper impartial research based on evidence.

ButterflyHatched · 25/04/2024 12:41

Impossiblenurse · 25/04/2024 08:24

Butterfly hatched you "received carefully supervised appropriate treatment, in full knowledge of its experimental nature"

'Experimental' in the sense of, hypothesis, research, proposal, experiment, evidence, conclusion?

If so, I am disappointed for you that you took the risks that you did, and Cass was unable to locate the evidence.

If this experiment were to have high rate of success it would have been career defining for any clincian involved. They would record success and over 30 yrs should be easily placed to publish both quantitative and qualitative data.

You suggested your treatment was carefully supervised and was appropriate. How was it supervised, by whom, how do you now know it was appropriate?

You have a good life now, that's great, but can you be sure that this would not have been the case without this treatment? You are a resilient person who has overcome challenges, but you can never know what your life would be like without this treatment. Perhaps someone in your cohort, with similar degree of distress you had, presented with the same options you were and chose not to take the risk you took. They had an outcome too. They were supported and cared for by the same services. I'd want to know, what was their outcome? Why did the clinicians have no curiosity at all about the range of interventions taken and not taken.

However, if you mean 'experimental' in the sense that clinician/s had an 'I reckon', and conducted the experiment without measurable purpose or evidentiary product. And inexplicably enabled to do so without any oversight or expectation that they maintain records and data.

If that was the case, then I am still glad it worked out for you. That was a risk that you took. However, I can clinicians advocate that anyone else should consider taking the same risk you did in the absence of evidence. Particularly if there was knowledge of other factors which may account for a persons distress.

I fear that the absence of evidence suggests that you were in the minority.

EITHER for some inexplicable reason this experiment was conducted in a distressingly unethical way and NHS gender services omitted to capture any (high or even moderate quality) evidence in this 30 year journey. Which is incredible, is it not?

OR they did indeed capture the evidence and it did not support the hypothesis (and by failing to report findings, they have chosen to bury the evidence). In this case, at some point, the clinicians involved, knew that they were progressing a treatment pathway, in the knowledge there were poor outcomes. And they failed to raise an alarm and prevent future harms associated withthis pathway. Perhaps in time we'll learn why.

There has been a lot invested in promoting affirmation approach in healthcare. Again, perhaps in time we'll better understand why.

I am glad this was successful for you, but you can only speak for you.

Thanks for engaging in what appears to be good faith.

I agree that I can't speak for everyone, but nor can Ritchie Herron and Kiera Bell and yet their highly subjective and rare negative experiences are being treated as authoritative and representative of all of us. Keira Bell's personal anecdata was apparently good enough to launch the legal challenge that has, four years later, resulted in the publishing of a report that effectively ended the provision of a treatment that has already benefited hundreds of people despite admitting that it was clearly beneficial for some of them.

The situation as it stands is that a treatment pathway for a small subset of society has been restricted as a result of these recommendations where before it was theoretically (though less so practically) available. This is a significant and sweeping active change that is already having a direct negative effect upon the young people for whom it serves as a lifeline, yet this active change is presented as a passive, cautious measure.

The historical choice of language when it comes to study quality classifications and the way that this choice influences perceptive skew is actively unhelpful when these studies enter mainstream discourse. 'High Quality' and 'Low Quality' do not mean what they appear to when they appear in headlines and press releases. It's not clear that a 'High Quality' study can ever realistically be expected to be conducted on this particular subject and that isn't an uncommon state for many areas within paediatric care.

There are also questions - which Cass expends a fair portion of her report on - regarding what many of the studies and the reviews that have collated their findings are actually assessing. The evidence is overwhelmingly strong that GnRH analogues are an extremely effective way of temporarily suppressing puberty, yet they seem to be being assessed on their ability to deliver unrealistic mental health results to young people who know all-too-well that they are merely an initial, conciliatory first step in a much longer process toward resolving incongruence.

You fear that the absence of evidence means I am in the minority in having a positive experience of this treatment; that there is a silent and invisible cadre of detransitioners just waiting to come out of the woodwork. But there is no evidence for this.

I know it has had a positive effect in many invisible people with whom I am acquainted. It is thus critically important that we talk about our experiences otherwise the voices of Keira and Richie will continue to dominate the public narrative as they have come to do over the last few years, and that will continue to present an unrealistic picture of the reality of our lives.

RethinkingLife · 25/04/2024 12:49

You fear that the absence of evidence means I am in the minority in having a positive experience of this treatment; that there is a silent and invisible cadre of detransitioners just waiting to come out of the woodwork. But there is no evidence for this.

Setting aside your other assertions, where is your evidence for your claim?

Why did Viner (?) not publish a case study about you or at least record something with the citable value of grey literature?

Are your case notes available to you?

Have you approached a journal with the offer to write up your own case series or just a case study?

LoobiJee · 25/04/2024 12:56

Datun · 25/04/2024 11:39

I don't remember that specific occasion, no. But bloody hell, it's a theme running through the narrative a mile wide.

There was a poster on here who said they were at a party with the transwoman heading up Edinburgh rape crisis centre, who got the host to go round to everyone asking in turn if they thought he passed.

These people don't understand that their behaviour isn't just stereotypically male, it's at the extreme end.

And yes, utterly self involved.

Truly, to the point where you think how can anyone even entertain this for five seconds

I know a similar example. The former airline pilot who was a pilot during the decades when women were not permitted to be airline pilots, had a heart attack aged 60ish, returned to the workplace identifying as a member of the opposite sex, and then got paid by their airline to be their trans ambassador.

Guest speaker smugly enthroned at the front of a room full of young women, said that this airline “had always had a women pilot, they just didn’t know it”. Then explained that the new (post-heart attack) role with the airline involves encouraging girls to consider becoming pilots by telling them: “Women can be airline pilots too, you know. Just look at me.”

So an individual who found it perfectly possible to “live as a man” when only men could be airline pilots suddenly found it no longer possible to live as a man once their career as a pilot was at risk due to ill health - what a surprising timing coincidence, that was - now gets paid to go round schools gaslighting girls.

ButterflyHatched · 25/04/2024 12:57

RedToothBrush · 25/04/2024 12:15

The other issue is that Butters really can't eliminate the placebo effect and the sunk costs issue precisely because Butters is so emotionally invested in transition.

If Butters did start to question the medical experimentation they've been part of then what happens?

But this demonstrates precisely why those experimented on are often not great at assessing whether something truly is beneficial and why we need proper impartial research based on evidence.

I suppose this mindset is why anyone with lived experience of the services being assessed was excluded from involvement in the assessment process for the Cass review. The people least suited to assess a particular area of healthcare are, after all, the ones who have actually directly experienced it first-hand.

RethinkingLife · 25/04/2024 13:00

ButterflyHatched · 25/04/2024 12:57

I suppose this mindset is why anyone with lived experience of the services being assessed was excluded from involvement in the assessment process for the Cass review. The people least suited to assess a particular area of healthcare are, after all, the ones who have actually directly experienced it first-hand.

I suppose this mindset is why anyone with lived experience of the services being assessed was excluded from involvement in the assessment process for the Cass review.

Do you deny that Cass met and spoke with 1000 people with a range of experiences?

Cass had an email address to which all were free to write. Did you write and offer your personal lived experience as well as offer an audit of your professional experience?

yoteyak · 25/04/2024 13:41

ButterflyHatched · 25/04/2024 12:57

I suppose this mindset is why anyone with lived experience of the services being assessed was excluded from involvement in the assessment process for the Cass review. The people least suited to assess a particular area of healthcare are, after all, the ones who have actually directly experienced it first-hand.

@ButterflyHatched: "The people least suited to assess a particular area of healthcare are, after all, the ones who have actually directly experienced it first-hand."

I'm not sure that's always true. But in this case it certainly appears so.

We have to ask why? Why in this particular case are the people involved the least suited to assess?

One possibility. The well known 'explosion principle' of logic, otherwise 'ex falso quodlibet' (known since medieval times) points out that if you start with a falsehood as premise, anything and everything - true and false - follows logically from it.

So, for instance, begin with 'trans women are women' ... it follows logically from this that puberty blockers are safe. (Of course it also follows that you and I have two heads, that Boris Johnson is a decent person, that the moon is made of cheese, ... that puberty blockers are unsafe, ... that 2 + 2 = 4, ... )

After a while practising with obvious falsehoods, telling themselves they believe them and so on, do trans people end by habitually making deductions from these falsehoods - logical deductions with false conclusions?

Is this why trans people are the least reliable people to ask about trans healthcare, as @ButterflyHatched asserts? -- Their logical proclivities have been so severely mangled by attempts to believe contradictions?

(We might note this would not debar trans desisters, who would seem to have escaped from the false premises in question.)

Hmm?

OldCrone · 25/04/2024 13:59

ButterflyHatched · 25/04/2024 11:38

There would have been nothing genuine and 'authentic' about living the last quarter of a century pretending to be a man in utter misery. Does your ideology dictate that transition is always the wrong choice regardless of evidence or outcomes?

A male adult doesn't have to pretend to be a man, because that's what he is. In fact he can't pretend to be a man, because you can't pretend to be something that you already are.

A male adult might pretend to be a woman, but he can never be one.

ButterflyHatched · 25/04/2024 14:04

yoteyak · 25/04/2024 13:41

@ButterflyHatched: "The people least suited to assess a particular area of healthcare are, after all, the ones who have actually directly experienced it first-hand."

I'm not sure that's always true. But in this case it certainly appears so.

We have to ask why? Why in this particular case are the people involved the least suited to assess?

One possibility. The well known 'explosion principle' of logic, otherwise 'ex falso quodlibet' (known since medieval times) points out that if you start with a falsehood as premise, anything and everything - true and false - follows logically from it.

So, for instance, begin with 'trans women are women' ... it follows logically from this that puberty blockers are safe. (Of course it also follows that you and I have two heads, that Boris Johnson is a decent person, that the moon is made of cheese, ... that puberty blockers are unsafe, ... that 2 + 2 = 4, ... )

After a while practising with obvious falsehoods, telling themselves they believe them and so on, do trans people end by habitually making deductions from these falsehoods - logical deductions with false conclusions?

Is this why trans people are the least reliable people to ask about trans healthcare, as @ButterflyHatched asserts? -- Their logical proclivities have been so severely mangled by attempts to believe contradictions?

(We might note this would not debar trans desisters, who would seem to have escaped from the false premises in question.)

Hmm?

Aha! This principle must be why everything Michael Biggs writes on the subject of trans people across his tragically growing list of multiple publications is so transparently recognisable as agenda-laced misinformation dedicated to performing the academic equivalent of mechanical meat reclamation. I suppose you can't claim a plausible-seeming anti-trans healthcare reference set without a foundation of those bite-sized easily quotable gender-critical breadcrumb-coated nuggies!

ButterflyHatched · 25/04/2024 14:09

OldCrone · 25/04/2024 13:59

A male adult doesn't have to pretend to be a man, because that's what he is. In fact he can't pretend to be a man, because you can't pretend to be something that you already are.

A male adult might pretend to be a woman, but he can never be one.

So glad we could establish that this is still the overriding principle that informs your attitude toward the very real young people seeking treatment to help them address gender incongruence.

OldCrone · 25/04/2024 14:21

ButterflyHatched · 25/04/2024 14:09

So glad we could establish that this is still the overriding principle that informs your attitude toward the very real young people seeking treatment to help them address gender incongruence.

What do you mean by gender incongruence? Are you referring to stereotypes or people who are repelled by aspects of their own bodies? Or is it the gendered soul theory? Why does gender incongruence need to be 'addressed'? Nobody should be pushing stereotypes onto children.

All I was referring to was what @Snowypeaks said rather more clearly:

If you are conceived male, you are born male - a baby boy. If you survive to adulthood, you are a man. Having a male body and being a human is being a man. No pretence is required. Be as feminine as you like. Being a man doesn't rule out anything except the reproductive functions of a female human being.

The only 'principle' is fact. My 'attitude' is based on the fact that you are born male or female and this cannot be changed. Also that any behaviour exhibited by an adult male human is 'living as a man' and any behaviour exhibited by an adult female human is 'living as a woman'. I can't 'pretend' to be a woman because I am one. A man can't pretend to be a man because he is one. Whatever his behaviour, it is that of a man, even if he thinks he's behaving more like (a stereotype of) a woman.

Helleofabore · 25/04/2024 14:24

Oh. We are now back to the immeasurable 'detransitioners' again.

Readers note: It has been recorded that the average time to detransition is about 7 years from treatment, if I remember correctly. The exponential increase in female children referred to the clinics was really starting around 2015, how many of those started to get seen? I believe it is accepted that it takes 'years' to get seen? Therefore from now is the time to start seeing an increase in detransitioners.

It is not that hard to understand that we have not started to see them yet.

It is dishonest to claim that they are not visible when there is so much abuse towards them when they are speaking publicly, and no records kept by the clinics to provide numbers, yet to then state that the expected 'increase' is a myth. When the fucking myth is the 'around 1%' rate that has been shown to be not even a good estimation with studies inadvertently uncovering rates of 6-9% from BEFORE the exponential increase in female children being referred to clinics across the world.

It is this dishonestly dismissing detransitioners that shows just how ideological some people are about this. And just how harmful that dismissal really is.

MagicKittens · 25/04/2024 14:31

studies inadvertently uncovering rates of 6-9% from BEFORE the exponential increase in female children being referred

And that's a real worry, isn't it, as the criteria for transition treatment have shifted so much? If a clinic previously might have referred 100 girls a year, 95 of whom remained content with their transition, and more recently has referred 500 girls a year -- could all except 95 eventually regret it?

Helleofabore · 25/04/2024 14:38

OldCrone · 25/04/2024 13:59

A male adult doesn't have to pretend to be a man, because that's what he is. In fact he can't pretend to be a man, because you can't pretend to be something that you already are.

A male adult might pretend to be a woman, but he can never be one.

Yep.

The use of emotional manipulation there was outstanding, wasn't it.

The reality is, that a male who was gender non-conforming should have been allowed to continue to live as a gender non-conforming male defying stereotypes and proving that there is an endless way to be a man. Instead, this is positioned as being unacceptable because it would have made the male person 'miserable'. So, instead society has to believe that this male person is a woman and that this person's lived experience is 'female'. When it will only ever be the lived experience of a male who demands that the world treat them as if they were a female, and never an authentic experience of being a female person.

This false authenticity is then falsely presented as truth and the cycle continues.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 25/04/2024 14:40

ButterflyHatched · 25/04/2024 14:04

Aha! This principle must be why everything Michael Biggs writes on the subject of trans people across his tragically growing list of multiple publications is so transparently recognisable as agenda-laced misinformation dedicated to performing the academic equivalent of mechanical meat reclamation. I suppose you can't claim a plausible-seeming anti-trans healthcare reference set without a foundation of those bite-sized easily quotable gender-critical breadcrumb-coated nuggies!

Hmm. These increasingly hyperbolic posts laced with contempt for women, scientists, academics, parents and anyone who challenges what's happening to children stand in stark contrast to the sober yet chilling evidence from Michael Biggs. In the link below he exposes "research" about conversion therapy that attempts to influence government policy despite the research being, as usual, fundamentally flawed. He's spent a lot of time highlighting the lack of evidence and research at the Tavistock and elsewhere - it's no wonder trans activists want to silence him:

https://www.transgendertrend.com/conversion-therapy-gender-identity-survey-analysis/

At the end of this brief article is a link to some of his other research into this issue.

'Conversion Therapy' & Gender Identity Survey: an analysis by Michael Biggs

The conversion therapy and gender identity survey report from Stonewall, Mermaids, GIRES et al has little or no scientific value.

https://www.transgendertrend.com/conversion-therapy-gender-identity-survey-analysis

Helleofabore · 25/04/2024 14:41

MagicKittens · 25/04/2024 14:31

studies inadvertently uncovering rates of 6-9% from BEFORE the exponential increase in female children being referred

And that's a real worry, isn't it, as the criteria for transition treatment have shifted so much? If a clinic previously might have referred 100 girls a year, 95 of whom remained content with their transition, and more recently has referred 500 girls a year -- could all except 95 eventually regret it?

Yes, those studies/papers that I have read have been also before this push for affirming only treatment. Supposedly, they would have been patients who had been diagnosed in depth, with no dismissing underlying comorbities as the current model of treatment has been shown to be following.

ButterflyHatched · 25/04/2024 14:44

Helleofabore · 25/04/2024 14:24

Oh. We are now back to the immeasurable 'detransitioners' again.

Readers note: It has been recorded that the average time to detransition is about 7 years from treatment, if I remember correctly. The exponential increase in female children referred to the clinics was really starting around 2015, how many of those started to get seen? I believe it is accepted that it takes 'years' to get seen? Therefore from now is the time to start seeing an increase in detransitioners.

It is not that hard to understand that we have not started to see them yet.

It is dishonest to claim that they are not visible when there is so much abuse towards them when they are speaking publicly, and no records kept by the clinics to provide numbers, yet to then state that the expected 'increase' is a myth. When the fucking myth is the 'around 1%' rate that has been shown to be not even a good estimation with studies inadvertently uncovering rates of 6-9% from BEFORE the exponential increase in female children being referred to clinics across the world.

It is this dishonestly dismissing detransitioners that shows just how ideological some people are about this. And just how harmful that dismissal really is.

This is the gender critical equivalent of fusion power always being 20 years away isn't it? It didn't materialise even after a four year exhaustive independent review, but it's coming. It's just round the corner. Aaaany day now...any day...all those people who validate your worldview will suddenly appear. Any day now.

ButterflyHatched · 25/04/2024 14:47

Helleofabore · 25/04/2024 14:38

Yep.

The use of emotional manipulation there was outstanding, wasn't it.

The reality is, that a male who was gender non-conforming should have been allowed to continue to live as a gender non-conforming male defying stereotypes and proving that there is an endless way to be a man. Instead, this is positioned as being unacceptable because it would have made the male person 'miserable'. So, instead society has to believe that this male person is a woman and that this person's lived experience is 'female'. When it will only ever be the lived experience of a male who demands that the world treat them as if they were a female, and never an authentic experience of being a female person.

This false authenticity is then falsely presented as truth and the cycle continues.

"Allowed to continue" is a very dishonest way of phrasing "Actively prohibited from socially and medically transitioning."

EasternStandard · 25/04/2024 14:48

ButterflyHatched · 25/04/2024 14:44

This is the gender critical equivalent of fusion power always being 20 years away isn't it? It didn't materialise even after a four year exhaustive independent review, but it's coming. It's just round the corner. Aaaany day now...any day...all those people who validate your worldview will suddenly appear. Any day now.

Tbf some of the gender ideology world view is unravelling right now.

Helleofabore · 25/04/2024 14:49

Are we still ignoring all the other organisations in the world, including the World Health Organisation, who have also declared that the evidence for use of puberty blockers is weak?

Seems so.

Now it is just throwing insults at professionals and academics who make the points from their own independent research. And never providing any detailed analysis by clinicians and academics with links to evidence that supports that analysis. Will we see more links from Reed appearing? It seems that some people really think that Reed's investigative skills are top notch. Mind you, the same person tried to tell us that their deep voice's 'power' had nothing to do with the sexist attitudes of the UK legal community and society in general. And that they meant 'power' as in decibels not the sexism male entitlement bias that that voice carries.

OldCrone · 25/04/2024 14:49

ButterflyHatched · 25/04/2024 14:47

"Allowed to continue" is a very dishonest way of phrasing "Actively prohibited from socially and medically transitioning."

Why did you feel the need to try to convince everyone else that you were a woman, rather than just being yourself?