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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Miriam Cates/National Conservatives conference

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AdamRyan · 16/04/2024 16:29

Miriam Cates was due to speak at the NatCon conference in Brussels tomorrow, on the topic of "Save The Children!"
The conference has been shut down because the Mayor will not tolerate the far right.

Here is a tweet to GB news discussing why the conference was shut down:

https://twitter.com/implausibleblog/status/1780239986861744280?s=19&t=hHgjMANzaGdj92-GTys1ig

I'm putting this here because I know a lot of GC feminists support Cates - I don't, and this stuff is why. She is awful.

https://twitter.com/implausibleblog/status/1780239986861744280?s=19&t=hHgjMANzaGdj92-GTys1ig

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TinselAngel · 17/04/2024 17:08

I'm going to end up
Voting Tory just to spite Adam at this rate.

1Week · 17/04/2024 17:17

Everyone who doesn't agree with the Guardian is far right these days.

Or am I wrong - What do the far right believe?

Imnobody4 · 17/04/2024 17:18

TinselAngel · 17/04/2024 17:08

I'm going to end up
Voting Tory just to spite Adam at this rate.

Me too!
Oh and 'it takes a village to raise a child'.

AdamRyan · 17/04/2024 17:20

RebelliousCow · 17/04/2024 16:12

I think what that refers to is that we are all responsible for the children in our community - even if they have nothing to do our family. If you see a lone child misbehaving in a public place then you should not necessarily hold back from reprimading them, or suggesting to them better ways to behave, and so on.
If you see a parent abusing a child in public, it is not always good to turn the other cheek because you it has nothing to do with you. Children need to know that some adults can be relied on to be there for them.

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I'd really prefer other parents kept their beak out of "reprimanding" my children. Ditto "interventions". Smug parents with no idea about specific family circumstances rarely add much positive to those situations imo.

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AdamRyan · 17/04/2024 17:21

TinselAngel · 17/04/2024 17:08

I'm going to end up
Voting Tory just to spite Adam at this rate.

Knock yourself out. I'll still think you are great for what you do for women. Without being judgy/preachy/over politicised or taking other women's credit.

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1Week · 17/04/2024 17:22

JessS1990 · 17/04/2024 16:47

Presumably someone who wanted to do that would also look out for desperate people including children fleeing persecution who want to seek sanctuary in the UK?

Possibly.
There will always be war and persecution somewhere and there's no such thing as infinite resources, material or social, so anyone serious about actually helping in a sustainable manner would have to prioritise x number of the most needy.
Easier said than done of course but that's the approach I personally would take were I in power.

AdamRyan · 17/04/2024 17:23

1Week · 17/04/2024 17:17

Everyone who doesn't agree with the Guardian is far right these days.

Or am I wrong - What do the far right believe?

Did you see the screenshot above? Or read the links to Hungary?
Do you disagree that Orban is far right?

If you think he's "just a conservative" would you support his politics here?

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1Week · 17/04/2024 17:29

I was hoping you'd use your own words. Like what do they believe, why they're wrong, that sort of thing.

JessS1990 · 17/04/2024 17:40

1Week · 17/04/2024 17:22

Possibly.
There will always be war and persecution somewhere and there's no such thing as infinite resources, material or social, so anyone serious about actually helping in a sustainable manner would have to prioritise x number of the most needy.
Easier said than done of course but that's the approach I personally would take were I in power.

Only possibly?

So kindness to others is limited, interesting.

AdamRyan · 17/04/2024 17:48

1Week · 17/04/2024 17:29

I was hoping you'd use your own words. Like what do they believe, why they're wrong, that sort of thing.

I've done that on the last KJK thread. Suggest you go and read it, and maybe read Umberto Eco's essay about fascism. B0th will help you see where I'm coming from.

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1Week · 17/04/2024 17:57

JessS1990 · 17/04/2024 17:40

Only possibly?

So kindness to others is limited, interesting.

Without wishing to start an argument. Yes kindness to others is limited. There aren't infinite resources, material, social, and psychological - no matter how you redistribute things you will come to a limit at some point. And at that point you have to make hard choices and limit the kindness you wish you could dish out.

I'm sure you can think of plenty of examples in your own personal life and you can times that 70 million when you're trying to run the country and by 8 billion if you're trying to save the world. Resources are limited and £10 you give to Cancer Relief is £10 you can't give to Alzheimers Research. An hour you spend talking to your depressed best friend is an hour you can't give to your lonely elderly mum. There are trade offs all over the place.

JessS1990 · 17/04/2024 17:59

1Week · 17/04/2024 17:57

Without wishing to start an argument. Yes kindness to others is limited. There aren't infinite resources, material, social, and psychological - no matter how you redistribute things you will come to a limit at some point. And at that point you have to make hard choices and limit the kindness you wish you could dish out.

I'm sure you can think of plenty of examples in your own personal life and you can times that 70 million when you're trying to run the country and by 8 billion if you're trying to save the world. Resources are limited and £10 you give to Cancer Relief is £10 you can't give to Alzheimers Research. An hour you spend talking to your depressed best friend is an hour you can't give to your lonely elderly mum. There are trade offs all over the place.

Should we though show those seeking sanctuary here as much kindness as we can, or instead spend a lot of money in order not to be kind to them?

DuncinToffee · 17/04/2024 18:00

@AdamRyan

You have become the new 'but Corbyn' Wink

AdamRyan · 17/04/2024 18:02

DuncinToffee · 17/04/2024 18:00

@AdamRyan

You have become the new 'but Corbyn' Wink

😂thats probably true

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JessS1990 · 17/04/2024 18:02

DuncinToffee · 17/04/2024 18:00

@AdamRyan

You have become the new 'but Corbyn' Wink

I am impressed by the calmness shown when others are clearly just out to have an arguement because their darling should not be challenged.

AdamRyan · 17/04/2024 18:05

1Week · 17/04/2024 17:57

Without wishing to start an argument. Yes kindness to others is limited. There aren't infinite resources, material, social, and psychological - no matter how you redistribute things you will come to a limit at some point. And at that point you have to make hard choices and limit the kindness you wish you could dish out.

I'm sure you can think of plenty of examples in your own personal life and you can times that 70 million when you're trying to run the country and by 8 billion if you're trying to save the world. Resources are limited and £10 you give to Cancer Relief is £10 you can't give to Alzheimers Research. An hour you spend talking to your depressed best friend is an hour you can't give to your lonely elderly mum. There are trade offs all over the place.

It might help if Lord Ashcroft paid his £500m tax bill. Or Sunak paid the same tax rate as a nurse. Or Frank Hester donated his £15m to charity rather than Tories.

There seem to be very few people hoarding an awful lot of the Earth's resources to be honest. And using them to launch penis shaped rockets into space.

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Underthinker · 17/04/2024 18:08

I think the Rwanda policy is a bad idea. It doesn't make Miriam Cates far right though.

1Week · 17/04/2024 18:10

Like I said, Adam, redistribute things any way you like but there will still come a point where you reach a limit. Even where they went full hard Communism, redistributed as hard as they could, they didn't reach infinite resources.

1Week · 17/04/2024 18:15

JessS1990 · 17/04/2024 17:59

Should we though show those seeking sanctuary here as much kindness as we can, or instead spend a lot of money in order not to be kind to them?

You can't have open borders and a welfare state. Therefore, you make a hard choice. To me the most sensible choice, is a little of column A, a little of column B.
That's compatible with accepting many refugees - not all, unfortunately, and accepting many economic migrants- not all, unfortunately, and making life better for them and still good for the people already here.

AlisonDonut · 17/04/2024 18:23

Underthinker · 17/04/2024 18:08

I think the Rwanda policy is a bad idea. It doesn't make Miriam Cates far right though.

The Rwanda policy was never an actual policy. It was a pretend policy to try and scare people off.

JessS1990 · 17/04/2024 18:24

Underthinker · 17/04/2024 18:08

I think the Rwanda policy is a bad idea. It doesn't make Miriam Cates far right though.

She does support the policy though, which does tell us something about how much she cares about desperate people fleeing persecution who are seeking sanctuary.

thatsthewayitis · 17/04/2024 18:25

In regard to refugees, I wouldn't accept healthy young males; they should be working to change their nation like Ukraine and Iran.
Women and children fleeing FGM and Nigerian Christians, religious oppression are fine too. They also want to learn and aquire the values of their new culture, if they don't already share them.

JessS1990 · 17/04/2024 18:26

thatsthewayitis · 17/04/2024 18:25

In regard to refugees, I wouldn't accept healthy young males; they should be working to change their nation like Ukraine and Iran.
Women and children fleeing FGM and Nigerian Christians, religious oppression are fine too. They also want to learn and aquire the values of their new culture, if they don't already share them.

You'd leave young men who worked with the British forces in Afganistan to their fate?

DuncinToffee · 17/04/2024 18:28

JessS1990 · 17/04/2024 18:26

You'd leave young men who worked with the British forces in Afganistan to their fate?

Miriam Cates will, she voted in favour of it today

AdamRyan · 17/04/2024 19:06

AlisonDonut · 17/04/2024 18:23

The Rwanda policy was never an actual policy. It was a pretend policy to try and scare people off.

Shame the Tories have spunked £500 million on it. Still, maybe they can get that back from Lord Ashcroft.

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