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Miriam Cates/National Conservatives conference

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AdamRyan · 16/04/2024 16:29

Miriam Cates was due to speak at the NatCon conference in Brussels tomorrow, on the topic of "Save The Children!"
The conference has been shut down because the Mayor will not tolerate the far right.

Here is a tweet to GB news discussing why the conference was shut down:

https://twitter.com/implausibleblog/status/1780239986861744280?s=19&t=hHgjMANzaGdj92-GTys1ig

I'm putting this here because I know a lot of GC feminists support Cates - I don't, and this stuff is why. She is awful.

https://twitter.com/implausibleblog/status/1780239986861744280?s=19&t=hHgjMANzaGdj92-GTys1ig

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justasking111 · 19/04/2024 10:24

AdamRyan · 19/04/2024 10:21

Kilroy?? Seriously? Ex UKIP, sacked from the BBC for being a racist?

I was actually an adult in the 90s and remember Springer and Kilroy well.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/media/2004/jan/09/pressandpublishing.broadcasting

Being cancelled by the BBC is a badge of honour in some circles

AdamRyan · 19/04/2024 10:26

Your point is entirely made up.
Rees Mogg is not cancelled and not going to be cancelled. In fact I think he loses the Tories votes by not being cancelled, because he's so out of touch and says such stupid things.

I don't have to engage with your projections of what you think I mean.

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RebelliousCow · 19/04/2024 10:26

JessS1990 · 19/04/2024 09:39

Depending on where you are stood the centre can look far left.

And it can also look 'far right'.

RebelliousCow · 19/04/2024 10:29

AdamRyan · 19/04/2024 09:56

This board has clearly had an influx of people who aren't feminists when "other places" on the Internet have been shut down or become unworkable for them.

To me it is very obvious that the board now hosts a lot of people who aren't feminists and instead are attracted because of their overlaps with GC issues. People like the Christian right, free speech ideologues, "anti-woke" posters.

You can tell because people just use "womens rights" in the context of "TWAM" rather than progressing any actual rights for women.

The MRAs must be rubbing their hands in glee. They tried for years to stop feminism happening on here.

You seem to have a hard time with alternative definitions and persepctives on what constitutes 'women's rights'. it's like you think there is only one take on that -and its yours.

AdamRyan · 19/04/2024 10:29

RebelliousCow · 19/04/2024 10:24

Well, we're not "most people'". We see ourselves as leading the way in bringing this issue to public consciousnes and to parliamentary debate ( and with some success).

I'm not sure why you are so bothered by us doing this 'irrelevent' thing here on this forum - that you need to post in such an adversarial and, frankly, naive way.

Who is the "we"? Is there some kind of board royalty posters need to be aware of? Or a movement leader?

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AdamRyan · 19/04/2024 10:31

RebelliousCow · 19/04/2024 10:29

You seem to have a hard time with alternative definitions and persepctives on what constitutes 'women's rights'. it's like you think there is only one take on that -and its yours.

Womens rights is a pretty standard phase and I'm not the person who has narrowed the definition to conveniently exclude most feminism

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RebelliousCow · 19/04/2024 10:32

AdamRyan · 19/04/2024 10:16

I'm a GC feminist and have been for years. I'm old school and think there is a social system called "the patriarchy" that exploits women for their reproductive labour whilst upholding the interests of men.

And I don't "continue to support" Labour. I joined recently because I like Starmer, I've followed his career for years since he actually gave a shit when he was DPP and put in place things to support women and children who were victims of sexual violence, and improve prosecution rates. That's what I see as "safeguarding", not pearl clutching about fake news about children identifying as cats in the right wing press.

His position on balancing trans and women's needs is in line with my views. Protect single sex spaces for biological women where it's necessary for dignity and safety. Support trans people to be able to live and present how they want without discrimination, violence and having to disclose their personal info to all and sundry.

I mean I feel like I've said this about eleventy billion times on these threads.

To be honest I think my support for Labour probably indicates they have moved away from their core voter base because I'm very centrist.

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It is you who sounds like the ideologue -with a catalogue of correct and true beliefs.

BIossomtoes · 19/04/2024 10:34

RebelliousCow · 19/04/2024 10:14

Yes, and most of the old Labour membership hate that fact. They hate Starmer, and they continue to hate Tony Blair, and like Owen Jones they are leaving in droves. Strangely, though, the one thing they continue to support that is not of the traditional Left is 'Identity Politics' along with the concept of the 'trans child' - most likely out of ignorance and because they tend to dismiss the issue as of no relevence.

Which is why many of us are now here, no longer willing to vote for Labour - and and so have been spoiling our ballots. My Labour MP has refused to meet with her constituents on the issue, and continues to carry the Mermaids logo at the top of her twitter account. You think I'm going to vote for her?

When you sever old loyalties you find that you view things in a different way - and that the old tribal hatreds and compulsions lose their power. I'm relieved by that.

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When you sever old loyalties you find that you view things in a different way

You can’t sever loyalty with something that no longer exists. When Thatcher closed the mines and decimated the manufacturing base an entire class of working people was swept away. It was no accident that they were traditional labour voters. The hatred of the Tories may not be tribal but it appears to be growing every day.

RebelliousCow · 19/04/2024 10:35

AdamRyan · 19/04/2024 10:22

Also I don't want anyone cancelled. I'm doing the online equivalent of laughing in Cates face, is all.

Is "laughing in people's faces" the sort of politics you espouse? Doesn't sound like the sort of society I'd favour myself, quite frankly. Yet you do a lot of of it, with your laughing emojis and general contemptuous tone.

justasking111 · 19/04/2024 10:39

I remember Tory rule going down the tubes in Majors time and the excitement/optimism when Blair got in infected many.

That eventually all went wrong.

RebelliousCow · 19/04/2024 10:41

BIossomtoes · 19/04/2024 10:34

When you sever old loyalties you find that you view things in a different way

You can’t sever loyalty with something that no longer exists. When Thatcher closed the mines and decimated the manufacturing base an entire class of working people was swept away. It was no accident that they were traditional labour voters. The hatred of the Tories may not be tribal but it appears to be growing every day.

As you suggested of yourself earlier, I don't require lectures on what happened in the 1980's. My father was made redundant and we had to move to the other end of the country for work. He was a shop steward in an engineering union, and Labour voter.........but that was over 40years ago....and yet many are still trying to keep that alive with their 'Still Hate Thatcher' t-shirts and their Tony Blair 'Red Devil Eyes' banners. Still going in about the Iraq war, and hating on Israel.

I live in Liverpool and we still have lots of old style Militant bullies and people who practice intimidatory politics and nurture hatred. Hatred is a toxic dead end, and it breeds intolerance. It positions anyone who disagrees as some kind of evil. I long ago grew tired of all of that.

BIossomtoes · 19/04/2024 10:42

justasking111 · 19/04/2024 10:39

I remember Tory rule going down the tubes in Majors time and the excitement/optimism when Blair got in infected many.

That eventually all went wrong.

Did it? Apart from the Iraq war, which Howard admitted afterwards he’d also have gone into and which was voted for by the Tory party, what went wrong?

Imnobody4 · 19/04/2024 10:49

AdamRyan · 19/04/2024 09:56

This board has clearly had an influx of people who aren't feminists when "other places" on the Internet have been shut down or become unworkable for them.

To me it is very obvious that the board now hosts a lot of people who aren't feminists and instead are attracted because of their overlaps with GC issues. People like the Christian right, free speech ideologues, "anti-woke" posters.

You can tell because people just use "womens rights" in the context of "TWAM" rather than progressing any actual rights for women.

The MRAs must be rubbing their hands in glee. They tried for years to stop feminism happening on here.

Well I didn't realise you demanded the splitting of the feminist board.
Not worked out for you, my heart bleeds.

Centrist listen to every point of view before deciding, and they review in the light of facts and changing circumstances. They are not dictatorial, dogmatic, authoritarian. They do not shout down others or twist their words.

And as for free speech which you keep exercising by coming onto this board to criticise,insult and sneer at; free speech is a cornerstone of a democracy. I support absolutely free speech within the law. That means democratically agreed law not your law.

Getting back to this conference. This is the story of what happened and I thank and respect those responsible.

https://www.spectator.co.uk/article/how-natcon-brussels-was-saved-from-censorship/

I also condemn and despise the sniggering of front bench Labour MPs. I will never vote for a party which plays fast and loose with free speech.

https://twitter.com/_MrsBetSlocombe/status/1780288758970994775?t=_edt5zDOSUKqSrCb0JOiPA&s=19

How NatCon Brussels was saved from censorship

When I was first scheduled to speak at this year’s National Conservatism conference (NatCon) in Brussels, I expected it to be a routine speaking engagement. After all, it is a mainstream conservative gathering that has hosted an event in Brussels befor...

https://www.spectator.co.uk/article/how-natcon-brussels-was-saved-from-censorship

Apollo441 · 19/04/2024 10:51

AdamRyan · 19/04/2024 10:26

Your point is entirely made up.
Rees Mogg is not cancelled and not going to be cancelled. In fact I think he loses the Tories votes by not being cancelled, because he's so out of touch and says such stupid things.

I don't have to engage with your projections of what you think I mean.

My point was about the audience reaction when confronted by the ludicrous opposition to mixed race marriage. The fact that it was the Kilroy show was entirely irrelevant.
I think the fact that he was allowed to speak led to a better outcome and we could all see society had moved on. That would not be allowed to happen today.

You are tedious hard work.

justasking111 · 19/04/2024 10:54

BIossomtoes · 19/04/2024 10:42

Did it? Apart from the Iraq war, which Howard admitted afterwards he’d also have gone into and which was voted for by the Tory party, what went wrong?

Brown I think, people just didn't warm to him.

I also think people get fed up with same old and think change is good.

Someone said once all political lives end in failure. The American rule of two terms and out is possibly sensible. Obama was running out of steam. It's the nature of folks to complain after a time.

EdithStourton · 19/04/2024 10:58

Haven't RTFT.
But from what I have read, there seems to be an election coming....

NefertitiV · 19/04/2024 11:00

@NoWordForFluffy

Imagine that you're making up that people who are concerned about women's rights are all going to vote Tory when the evidence from this board is that most are politically homeless and have no desire to vote for either of the main 2 parties, or the lesser few common alternatives!

This popular lie from the left is getting ridiculous.

Where did I say in the scenario the person would vote Tory? A reminder: "It seems a dangerous practice, particularly now. Imagine if you vote on the promise of single-sex bathrooms, but the National Living Wage is lowered to well below poverty levels, so you cannot afford reasonable food and housing for your family any more? And you have no recourse for complaint? This is about voting on a single issue. It could be for any party.

BIossomtoes · 19/04/2024 11:02

justasking111 · 19/04/2024 10:54

Brown I think, people just didn't warm to him.

I also think people get fed up with same old and think change is good.

Someone said once all political lives end in failure. The American rule of two terms and out is possibly sensible. Obama was running out of steam. It's the nature of folks to complain after a time.

So it didn’t go wrong then. And not enough people fancied a change for Cameron to form a majority government. There were a few days in 2010 when Clegg could have gone the other way. Shame he didn’t.

justasking111 · 19/04/2024 11:09

BIossomtoes · 19/04/2024 11:02

So it didn’t go wrong then. And not enough people fancied a change for Cameron to form a majority government. There were a few days in 2010 when Clegg could have gone the other way. Shame he didn’t.

Hasn't Clegg done well, he knew when to exit as did David Miliband.

Both have amazing post political careers.

NefertitiV · 19/04/2024 11:12

@RebelliousCow

Well, we're not "most people'". We see ourselves as leading the way in bringing this issue to public consciousnes and to parliamentary debate ( and with some success).

Finally, a clear answer. Thanks for letting us know who you are, although we already knew.

BIossomtoes · 19/04/2024 11:12

I’m not sure I’d describe pulling the pin out of the grenade, blowing the country up and then running away as doing well but I guess we’re all different.

justasking111 · 19/04/2024 11:14

NefertitiV · 19/04/2024 11:12

@RebelliousCow

Well, we're not "most people'". We see ourselves as leading the way in bringing this issue to public consciousnes and to parliamentary debate ( and with some success).

Finally, a clear answer. Thanks for letting us know who you are, although we already knew.

Well I haven't a scooby doo who these we are still

illinivich · 19/04/2024 11:14

Its almost certain that labour will win the next election, so on the face of it, its odd to get worked up about what a few marginalised conservative MPs are doing. Especially on a feminist section of a parenting site.

The problem is Starmer supports trans ideology, and its likely that the new intake of MPs will, too. If labour dont abandon their plan to allow men to have easier access to female passports, the removal of single sex spaces and reduced safeguarding will continue to be disscused here.

I think there are 'GC' people who are GC because its a way to critise the tories, now its looking like being GC means critising a labour government, they arent so keen for the debate to contine here.

So they are trying to make GC discussion difficult by associating it with the far right.

justasking111 · 19/04/2024 11:15

BIossomtoes · 19/04/2024 11:12

I’m not sure I’d describe pulling the pin out of the grenade, blowing the country up and then running away as doing well but I guess we’re all different.

Clegg is on a massive salary had a 10m bonus from META so he's still pulling strings behind the scenes I expect

illinivich · 19/04/2024 11:18

EdithStourton · 19/04/2024 10:58

Haven't RTFT.
But from what I have read, there seems to be an election coming....

Its easy to forget hiw bonkers it gets round here at election time.