Am watching this on Netflix and SPOILERS...
The main dude is being stalked by a woman and has a secret relationship with a trans woman (who appears to be a RL TW)
Am only 1.5 episodes in but 2 things have stood out to me so far.
When talking about the stalker the TW says 'she's a fantasist who's fabricated an entire identity'
And then (for context the guy has joined the TW dating app under another name as he's ashamed) she says to him 'it's illegal to have sex with someone under a false identity'
Is it my GC outlook or are these statements both highly ironic coming from a TW?
Feminism: Sex and gender discussions
Baby Reindeer.
GodZilah · 13/04/2024 11:38
rabbitwoman · 21/04/2024 19:16
I thought baby reindeer was absolutely amazing, powerful and a lot of food for thought.
The main storyline was harrowing and incredible performances. Being a mumsnet regular, of course, I have a huge amount of extra context for the TW character, but I thought it was done absolutely brilliantly.
Because there did not appear to be any GC or TRA agenda at all - just like there was no agenda regarding the black characters. But it was an important and poignant part of the storyline, an abused man struggling with his sexuality, doesn't know if he is gay or straight or how being abused has impacted that so he heads for a trans website, and finds a genuine, beautiful connection. The scenes between him and Terri were really lovely, beautifully acted.
And I liked the fact they had a trans woman playing the part, not a woman. And the fact that the trans woman passed very well. But she was never hiding her identity. Seems she was very honest about who she was from the start.
Without the breaking down of women's rights and boundaries and the mutilation of children, I would be very supportive of trans rights and would very much enjoy how a representation like Terri adds to the story. It's a shame trans rights never stopped there.....
Instantcustard · 26/04/2024 12:19
Quite amusing to see a few posters in the TV Thread post saying how well Terri passes when actually Terri's jaw is like a neon sign to their sex.
Really? I liked Terri and thought the character was really interesting but no way would anyone confuse their sex.
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