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KjK "insane rant" thread 2

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AdamRyan · 03/04/2024 18:10

First thread filled up just as it was getting interesting

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5036512-kjks-insane-rant

So let's keep it going. My characterisation if the two basic positions are:

1)KJK is a stone cold legend, haters gonna hate but many women will give her cash to bathe in champagne

  1. KJK is taking right wing positions for clicks and cash, most recently criticising a doctors conference to stay relevant.

Happy to discuss further. There are some particular posts I want to respond to which I will c&p below

KJK’s insane rant | Mumsnet

Kjk’s decision to attack everyone who is not her lapdog is increasingly destructive. It looks like Can-sg put on a great conference. Those doctors who...

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5036512-kjks-insane-rant

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KellieJaysLapdog · 05/04/2024 20:25

This Feminist Current article lays out the basic facts of that OG WNTT event.

https://www.feministcurrent.com/2017/09/15/historic-speakers-corner-becomes-site-anti-feminist-silencing-violence/

KJK has repeatedly given props to Venice Allen for sparking various ideas that KJK has then taken to fruition. No stealing of anyone’s ideas, just brainstorming* together.

*fuck I hate that word.

Historic Speaker's Corner becomes site of anti-feminist silencing and violence

Efforts to silence feminist speech have taken a violent turn.

https://www.feministcurrent.com/2017/09/15/historic-speakers-corner-becomes-site-anti-feminist-silencing-violence/

DrSpartacular · 05/04/2024 20:41

Here we go:

2016 "Thinking Differently: Feminists Questioning Gender Politics"

2012 "RadFem 2012" which if you Google will bring up a plethora of articles bemoaning its women only stance.

Interestingly, FiLiA didn't address the gendered elephant in the room until 2018.

RebelliousCow · 05/04/2024 20:45

AdamRyan · 05/04/2024 17:01

No, I think its misogynist to attribute what's happening to a woman to her looks.

She's pretty, so men want to shag her and women are jealous.

She's ugly, so I don't have to listen to her opinion because she's just jealous.

How women look are irrelevant. I highly doubt "jealousy" is a factor in most women's negative views about KJK. And it's misogynistic to write off women's genuinely held opinions as "She's just jealous because KJK is prettier than she is"

I also really take exception to you characterising a whole group of people as "preferring a pair of DMs and and a side buzz cut to signal their rebel credentials."

Just ridiculous stereotyping.

Except that is not what I'm suggesting; that is what her detractors suggest....

I think you are maybe lacking a little humour on this issue, and are maybe a little too precious about being politically correct; which is something that KJK is clearly not prone to. She speaks in plain, clear and unvarnished language.

I wouldn't say I'm a fan of KJK; I'm not "a fan" of anyone in particular, certainly not politicians or the like. She's doing her 'thing,' and that thing works for some people, and not others.

I prefer my idols to be untouchable, unreachable, unobtainable, and sometimes absolutely gorgeous. Usually long haired rock gods with amazing or distinctive voices and great stage presence.

Boiledbeetle · 05/04/2024 21:00

Judellie · 05/04/2024 13:28

The Ringtons man is coming this afternoon. I think they do their own version of the tunnocks teacakes.

Really? Do they? Hmmm maybe i was to quick telling the Ringtons man I wasn't interested

And I appreciate I'm late to this, but I've been busy today!

OldCrone · 05/04/2024 21:02

AdamRyan · 05/04/2024 19:39

My recollection is there were lots of feminists doing amazing grassroots things around 2017/2018.

The Julia Long/Venice Allan/Maria Macauley protest sticks in my mind.

An event in Bristol called "we need to talk" where women were terrified by TRAs (https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2018/nov/26/trans-rights-protest-gender-critical)

There was an amazing woman, I can't remember if we found out who she was, that signed up for her local pool as a man and went to male only sessions in her cossie and flowery hat.

Sometime around then KJK got arrested and it came out she was Posie Parker on here. And she did the billboard thing.

Then (I think) this all amalgamated around WPUK and events where women were talking about what happened to them. There was one in the HoC that I remember.

I had various other shit going on and lost track of the ins and outs at that point, so the whole WPUK/KJK thing kind of passed me by. I was a bit surprised about that when I re-engaged. And even more surprised by this rewriting of history as if none of those women ever did anything.

This is also partly why I personally am upset because this board has meant so much to me over the years, partly because if the amazing stuff women on here did in solidarity, without a need for a "leader" or complete ideological purity. Hey ho. Nothing lasts forever.

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Sometime around then KJK got arrested and it came out she was Posie Parker on here. And she did the billboard thing.

Then (I think) this all amalgamated around WPUK and events where women were talking about what happened to them. There was one in the HoC that I remember.

Do you mean this meeting in the HoC?

https://lilymaynard.com/transgenderism-and-the-war-on-women-house-of-commons-14-3-18/

KJK spoke at that one.

This is also partly why I personally am upset because this board has meant so much to me over the years, partly because if the amazing stuff women on here did in solidarity, without a need for a "leader" or complete ideological purity.

She's not our leader. And you seem to be the only one arguing for 'complete ideological purity'.

Transgenderism and the War on Women - House of Commons 14/3/18 -

When Venice Allan decided she wanted to book 'The Den' at Millwall football club for the 'Transgenderism and the War on Women' event, Julia Long had reservations.

https://lilymaynard.com/transgenderism-and-the-war-on-women-house-of-commons-14-3-18

Datun · 05/04/2024 21:12

And even more surprised by this rewriting of history as if none of those women ever did anything.

Just because you don't know what they're doing Adam, doesn't mean they're not doing anything.

They are.

DrSpartacular · 05/04/2024 21:41

Thanks Adam for sending me off on a trip down memory lane, I've just re-watched KJK's Jam Jar talk, and I think even you would be hard pressed to find fault here:

We need to talk - My speech

This is the speech I gave in Bristol at the Jam Jar. The event was called We need to talk about sex.

https://youtu.be/CvdJ1VEdC7I?si=bu8ZlcbBh8wtmFJy

AdamRyan · 05/04/2024 21:51

DrSpartacular · 05/04/2024 20:12

You've said you weren't around at that time Adam which is why you are getting things wrong, understandably, but maybe stop presenting second and third hand info as fact.

Sorry, what? I don't think I've said anything incompatible with what you've said. I was definitely on the board in the Maria Mac/Speakers Corner time. Had a period of being less active shortly after.

Just for info you and Datun also disagree on the name of the pool person, which shows noone's memory is infallible. (I think it was Amy not Lily).

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AdamRyan · 05/04/2024 21:56

mrshoho · 05/04/2024 20:13

What point are you trying to make Adam regarding events that happened in 2018 in relation to people's current opinions of KJK? I'm really not sure what it is you are so intrigued with.

I'm going to say my usual answer. I was responding to someone's question. As I usually am. They asked if my recollection was it wasn't KJK who started the whole "women speaking"/woman = adult human female thing.

Maybe just look at the post I quote for a clue as to context

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Ereshkigalangcleg · 05/04/2024 21:59

It wasn't a thing Adam, I was there.

It was a rendezvous point. It could've been been anywhere. Venice picked there, because the meeting was held at the university women's club and Venice needed to wait for both confirmation and to make sure everyone had the postcode on a piece of paper, but TRAs were be kept in the dark.

As Datun knows, so was I, and this is completely right. I still have a photo of the address of the actual talk on my phone that I took on the night just before leaving to go there. The original talk was going to be at Lewisham library but they cancelled the day before due to pressure from TRAs. I was in a message group with the organisers (there were about 5 women) including Venice.

Man Friday was a movement but it was mostly led by Amy Desir and Hannah Clarke.

https://www.letawomanspeak.org/hannah-clarke

mrshoho · 05/04/2024 22:03

AdamRyan · 05/04/2024 21:56

I'm going to say my usual answer. I was responding to someone's question. As I usually am. They asked if my recollection was it wasn't KJK who started the whole "women speaking"/woman = adult human female thing.

Maybe just look at the post I quote for a clue as to context

You make no sense I'm afraid.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 05/04/2024 22:04

Do you mean this meeting in the HoC?

https://lilymaynard.com/transgenderism-and-the-war-on-women-house-of-commons-14-3-18/

KJK spoke at that one.

She did, and I think that was her first speaking engagement at a meeting. She was a last minute addition as I think the arrest had only just happened a week or so before. I met her and spoke to her for the first time there and I was really impressed by her. I remember saying she should go on TV to talk about this if there were any opportunities.

DrSpartacular · 05/04/2024 22:06

It was such a busy and exciting time post Speakers Corner wasn't it?

AdamRyan · 05/04/2024 22:10

pickledandpuzzled · 05/04/2024 20:25

I think Adam feels that other women were working alongside KJK initially, and that they have become invisible as KJK dominates.

I wonder how that came about? I remember it was a group effort initially- she wasn’t alone with the billboard. I assumed women fell away as they had other things to do, or were caught up in other parts of the same work, or perhaps weren’t able to risk being as visible a target as KJK has been.

Exactly this. Plus the repeated point I should be somehow grateful to KJK.

I'm considerably less grateful to her than I am to Julia Long/Amy Desir/Kathleen Stock/Julie Bindel/JKR/TinselAngel. My impression is she came in on the coat tails of other people's work.

And some of those people probably came in on the coat tails of the anonymous FWR posters on here when I started posting around 2012/2013. The absolute sheros like GenderTrender, getting shut down constantly for just posting news stories about sexually incontinent TW. When if you googled feminism you got "Every Day Feminism" as your top result and Riley Dennis lecturing "why your genital preferences are transphobic" with a straight face. When if you even dared to hint that maybe TW are not W you'd get called transphobic, lose friends and risk being sacked.

And before that, when we were still babies there were feminists like Germaine Greer talking about it.

She is not that special. Like I say "cult of personality".

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AdamRyan · 05/04/2024 22:12

mrshoho · 05/04/2024 22:03

You make no sense I'm afraid.

OK let's try shorter words.

A poster asked me a question. I replied. So I was not just posting recollections for no reason. HTH with your confusion.

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Datun · 05/04/2024 22:16

AdamRyan · 05/04/2024 21:51

Sorry, what? I don't think I've said anything incompatible with what you've said. I was definitely on the board in the Maria Mac/Speakers Corner time. Had a period of being less active shortly after.

Just for info you and Datun also disagree on the name of the pool person, which shows noone's memory is infallible. (I think it was Amy not Lily).

No, because it was both. Amy Desir and Lily Maynard.

Amy and Hannah as Man Friday. And Lily as Borat, if I remember.

DrSpartacular · 05/04/2024 22:17

I think every woman who has spoken up is pretty fantastic tbh. It has not been without risk, personal and professional. But this thread, that you made Adam is about KJK.

DrSpartacular · 05/04/2024 22:21

Datun · 05/04/2024 22:16

No, because it was both. Amy Desir and Lily Maynard.

Amy and Hannah as Man Friday. And Lily as Borat, if I remember.

It was Amy who wore the mankini, Lily wore a beard.

Datun · 05/04/2024 22:22

AdamRyan · 05/04/2024 22:10

Exactly this. Plus the repeated point I should be somehow grateful to KJK.

I'm considerably less grateful to her than I am to Julia Long/Amy Desir/Kathleen Stock/Julie Bindel/JKR/TinselAngel. My impression is she came in on the coat tails of other people's work.

And some of those people probably came in on the coat tails of the anonymous FWR posters on here when I started posting around 2012/2013. The absolute sheros like GenderTrender, getting shut down constantly for just posting news stories about sexually incontinent TW. When if you googled feminism you got "Every Day Feminism" as your top result and Riley Dennis lecturing "why your genital preferences are transphobic" with a straight face. When if you even dared to hint that maybe TW are not W you'd get called transphobic, lose friends and risk being sacked.

And before that, when we were still babies there were feminists like Germaine Greer talking about it.

She is not that special. Like I say "cult of personality".

No, you tried to imply that let women speak at speakers corner was riding on the coattails of an event at speakers corner where Maria Mac was assaulted.

One is a planned event, with security, and audio, where women are given a microphone to speak.

And the other was a bunch of women (and Miranda Yardley) meeting up to be given the address of where a talk was to be held.

And many of the women who were at that talk still post here.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 05/04/2024 22:24

Fair Play For Women, Safe Schools Alliance, Transgender Trend, Sex Matters, LGB Alliance, For Women Scotland, Let Women Speak, Women's Rights Network, Keep Prisons Single Sex just off the top of my head. All groups that have emerged from dealing with this shitshow.
Countless women - very few demanding personal praise or recognition - just relentlessly centring safeguarding children and women's rights.
Every single woman should be proud of their contribution - whether active, speaking out, writing letters, donating, challenging, supporting our children to see the truth of what's happening and so much else.
Women speaking out. A magnificent contrast to aspects of this mean spirited thread.

Datun · 05/04/2024 22:25

DrSpartacular · 05/04/2024 22:21

It was Amy who wore the mankini, Lily wore a beard.

That's right 🤣🤣

Frankly, I don't know how they had the nerve.

I honestly wish they'd do it again.

AdamRyan · 05/04/2024 22:26

DrSpartacular · 05/04/2024 22:17

I think every woman who has spoken up is pretty fantastic tbh. It has not been without risk, personal and professional. But this thread, that you made Adam is about KJK.

Yes. As a follow on to a previous thread that I didn't start, where posters seemed unwilling to even vaguely countenance any criticism of KJK.

Unfortunately I don't think refusing to engage with points and shouting at people that they are disingenous/lying/dim is a very effective strategy for changing minds. And in my case it makes me curious about the defensiveness.

I have to say that this thread has done nothing to overturn my previous view (that I've been repeatedly told is wrong) that FWR is now extremely cliquey, right wing and an echo chamber. I was asked a while ago for evidence of that. This thread and the previous one are absolute case in point.

Flexing credentials about real life relationships, and being friends with banned members.

Some truly shocking (now deleted) attitudes that noone even raised an eyebrow at.

An anti-feminist, right wing man being used as an example of a victim.

And a complete unwillingness, even when presented with KJKs own words, to say "oh that's a bit extreme".

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AdamRyan · 05/04/2024 22:30

Datun · 05/04/2024 22:22

No, you tried to imply that let women speak at speakers corner was riding on the coattails of an event at speakers corner where Maria Mac was assaulted.

One is a planned event, with security, and audio, where women are given a microphone to speak.

And the other was a bunch of women (and Miranda Yardley) meeting up to be given the address of where a talk was to be held.

And many of the women who were at that talk still post here.

The magic microphone makes all the difference. Without it, women couldn't speak Confused

It's all a bit evangelical really. Finding god style public sessions. Anyway if people really still feel that they need to be out and about shouting that only men have penises, fair play to them. I mean even the prime minister says it now, showing its not controversial any more.

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Ereshkigalangcleg · 05/04/2024 22:30

a young woman that never actually really made it to the mainstream news, wasn't a big story, was cut up, and I think she was put in sort of meat that was sold for human consumption.

It was the prosecution allegation in the trial for the murder of 14 year old Blackpool girl Charlene Downes in 2003. KJK did not dream it up herself.

Following a police decision to treat Downes's disappearance as murder, there were several arrests in the case, and two men stood trial in May 2007. The prosecution alleged at Preston Crown Courtt^ that Charlene had been murdered by Iyad Albattikhi, a 29-year-old man from Jordan and the owner of Funny Boyz fast-food outlet in Blackpool. Mohammed Reveshi, Albattikhi's business partner, was accused of disposing of her body. According to the prosecution, Albattikhi had sex with Charlene.[21][22] The prosecution alleged that the men had discussed disposing of her body by putting it in kebabss^ sold from the fast food outlet.[6][23]

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/DisappearanceoffCharleneDownes

https://www.theguardian.com/uk/2008/may/30/ukcrime.childprotection (an article on the case and the situation in Blackpool by Julie Bindel)

Datun · 05/04/2024 22:31

Flexing credentials about real life relationships, and being friends with banned members.

Nah. It's Because you keep talking about the golden age of FWR and bemoaning how it's changed.

So people are letting you know that the women you're talking about are still very much involved and known about.

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