I'm yet to actually meet any woman who refuses to be in a space with ANY men or trans people because they've been raped or had some other kind of bad experience. And I know a lot of people who have been raped or sexually assaulted. - @potato57
The arrogance here is breathtaking. Do you think that everyone you know will tell you whether they've been sexually assaulted? Or if they do, that they'll tell you every problem this has created for them, esp when they might be called a bigot? Many ppl I know don't even tell their spouse or close friends about their CPTSD reactions, partly bc of the stigma but also bc it can be triggering, hard to explain, can effect every area of your life (and you don't want to make everything about your CPTSD), can be unpredictable, etc.
Why should they have to tell you? The idea that women have to justify their concerns or explain themselves to you is incredibly arrogant.