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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Jon Ronson and Adam Buxton

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WarriorN · 17/03/2024 09:10

I'm astounded at this "bonus episode" of "and things fell apart."

Absolutely everything Glinner has said has been proven.

This is a twitter link, I imagine it's on bbc sounds

x.com/glinner/status/1769152705333699000?s=46&t=A2fpFNgDRyXF2d6ye97wEA

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IAmAlpharius · 18/03/2024 09:39

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Itscatsallthewaydown · 18/03/2024 09:42

Tried that with Richard Herring. I just made a valid point about his promotion of Jordan Gray (no shouting involved). He blocked me. Wanker.

Helleofabore · 18/03/2024 10:11

I read that as ‘red herring’. And maybe that is fitting?

plipplops · 18/03/2024 10:18

I've not RTWT but have just emailed Adam Buxton's agent with a message saying he's a coward for not having Glinner on his show. Unsurprised to see the same agent also represents Eddie Izzard and Nish Kumar (but also Richard Iowade so there is hope...)

FriedGold32 · 18/03/2024 10:18

Brewdug · 17/03/2024 10:08

The clip was awful to listen to. All the 'mutual friend' haw hawing, and the contempt. The sheer lack of intellectual curiosity from two men who make a living out of claiming to be so. And now? When so much is undeniably out there? Just seems odd.

As others have said, Adam Buxton grew up with Louis Theroux (private school) and you can see how it runs through all of them. And it really sounds like a class thing here - they can throw Glinner under the bus easily because he isn't one of them.

Glinner is on X today claiming Ronson has actually put in calls to stop people talking with him. I hadn't heard that before.

I'm so bitterly disappointed with both of them. I really hope this comes back to bite them on the arse.

It was Andrew Gold who Ronson called, he even asked for his blurb on Gold's book to be removed because Gold interviewed Graham (according to GL).

TathingScinsel · 18/03/2024 10:24

That’s interesting, I know Gold has said that his early inspirations to get into broadcasting were Ronson and Theroux.
I wonder Gold is now having that ‘people I looked up to aren’t who I hoped they were’ experience? Because while Gold sometimes seems a little behind the times on his choice of interviewees (all the GC ones have done multiple podcasts previously) he’s definitely gone purposefully into the danger zone, whereas Theroux and Ronson have cautiously skirted around the entrance for years.

Zeugma · 18/03/2024 10:28

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AB isn’t on Twitter. Unfortunately a footballer with the same name has come in for a lot of very indignant comments over the last few days.

IAmAlpharius · 18/03/2024 10:33

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AdamRyan · 18/03/2024 10:34

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Shouting at people on Twitter does nothing. They can just block you.

Talking to people in real life would be a better option.

IAmAlpharius · 18/03/2024 10:35

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PurpleSparkledPixie · 18/03/2024 10:40

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Twitter? Is that the best you can suggest? The place where with one click you are blocked, or maybe their fans report you so you get banned? Nice try 😂

ditalini · 18/03/2024 10:40

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Nish Kumar is particularly shrill when commenting on how TWAW and anyone who says otherwise is beastly.

EasternStandard · 18/03/2024 10:43

I just read the JKR article on another thread, the sheer amount of abuse is incredible including on Twitter

Posters might lob in the odd personal line or gif 🤔 here but I’m aware it’s nothing to what some women stand up to

It’s next level abuse and threat

AdamRyan · 18/03/2024 10:46

People are allowed their own opinions, and its not "shrill" to voice them.

Honestly am regularly surprised at how the tables have turned and GC people are now using exactly the same tactics the TRAs use to shame and shut us up.

You can disagree with Kumar, Ronson etc without using insulting and misogynistic language to do so.

I thought Ronson covered trans issues very sensitively in both his series and particularly liked the last episode of s2 (Mikki Willis and his "heroes journey"). I've also enjoyed listening to his conversation about how he chose what topics to cover and what he was trying to do.

Really surprised GC people are now resorting to "cancelling".

RethinkingLife · 18/03/2024 10:47

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Sarah Pedersen might disagree with you (author of books and papers about Mumsnet, many threads here).

If we're achieving nothing, why is MN occasionally mentioned in media and sometimes styled as the answer?

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/4512657-The-answer-Is-Mumsnet-I-believe?

MN posters have spun out to form several useful organisations: Let Toys Be Toys; Make Space for Girls etc.

Funding tribunals, publicising on-going actions, sign-posting other posters to resources…Posting advice as to what we should do ahead of being visited by the Rozzers…

I write the above as someone who is deeply pessimistic as to the timescale for unpicking all this. But, without MN, so many of us wouldn't be able to come together, exchanges ideas, and talk.

"The answer Is Mumsnet, I believe" | Mumsnet

This is a good thread with contributions from Suzanne Moore and Hadley Freeman in response to 3 men who are perplexed by the level of "TERF representa...

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/4512657-The-answer-Is-Mumsnet-I-believe

IAmAlpharius · 18/03/2024 10:48

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EasternStandard · 18/03/2024 10:49

RethinkingLife · 18/03/2024 10:47

Sarah Pedersen might disagree with you (author of books and papers about Mumsnet, many threads here).

If we're achieving nothing, why is MN occasionally mentioned in media and sometimes styled as the answer?

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/4512657-The-answer-Is-Mumsnet-I-believe?

MN posters have spun out to form several useful organisations: Let Toys Be Toys; Make Space for Girls etc.

Funding tribunals, publicising on-going actions, sign-posting other posters to resources…Posting advice as to what we should do ahead of being visited by the Rozzers…

I write the above as someone who is deeply pessimistic as to the timescale for unpicking all this. But, without MN, so many of us wouldn't be able to come together, exchanges ideas, and talk.

Yes it does actually matter to have mn

It’s why it gets some going and they threaten and hurl abuse

IAmAlpharius · 18/03/2024 10:49

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illinivich · 18/03/2024 10:51

I think we should leave AB and JR to crack on and tank their reputations.

I cant see how JR can come out of this claiming he's an independent journalist? All it does it make me doubt how well researched any of other work is. And i dont understand how AB being forced to interview glinner helps the cause?

RethinkingLife · 18/03/2024 10:51

Really surprised GC people are now resorting to "cancelling".

I might affect surprise that you're offering an assertion as a viable generalisation.

Because those are literally examples where people did something OTHER THAN COMMENTING

I wonder if you missed that those actions were prefaced by talking on MN, finding like minds, establishing relationships, and agreeing next steps. I don't recall any of those happening by fiat or otherwise.

EasternStandard · 18/03/2024 10:52

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Yes but women learn and some act, actually talking on here builds knowledge and does have an impact

I have always said I learnt from FWR and I’d say I noticed it a while after other women were speaking up

I was struck by the strong reasoning and clarity

Itscatsallthewaydown · 18/03/2024 10:55

AdamRyan · 18/03/2024 10:46

People are allowed their own opinions, and its not "shrill" to voice them.

Honestly am regularly surprised at how the tables have turned and GC people are now using exactly the same tactics the TRAs use to shame and shut us up.

You can disagree with Kumar, Ronson etc without using insulting and misogynistic language to do so.

I thought Ronson covered trans issues very sensitively in both his series and particularly liked the last episode of s2 (Mikki Willis and his "heroes journey"). I've also enjoyed listening to his conversation about how he chose what topics to cover and what he was trying to do.

Really surprised GC people are now resorting to "cancelling".

What ‘misogynistic language’ would that be then?

CantDealwithChristmas · 18/03/2024 10:56

It's a class thing. GL is too loud, too unkempt, too vernacular in speech, too Irish, too working/lower middle class.

The posh 'male feminists' (eurgghh) who speak of him with disgust-tinged pity do so because they want to keep their place in the elites club and are terrified of falling foul of woke warriors.

They lose, because GL is a one in a generation comedic talent who wrote a show that has entered the cultural lexicon in the great British & Irish comic traditions.

He's also honest, brave and intellectually courageous enough to speak out about an era-defining attack on women.

Nish Kumar, by contrast, hasn't, isn't and won't.

CantDealwithChristmas · 18/03/2024 10:58

nothingcomestonothing · 17/03/2024 11:55

Wonder if Buxton and Ronson recognise themselves here at all...

Oh my god I love this and have saved it to my desktop for future use! Thank you!!

IAmAlpharius · 18/03/2024 11:00

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