That's your projection.
I don't wear lipstick to please anyone but myself as I explained.
My DH doesn't give a hoot if I wear it (or any make up) or not. I'm also not looking for attention from other men.
I like my face without makeup and I like it with it.
The same way I like to wear my hair loose or in a bun/pony tail.
I like to wear jeans most of the time but I also enjoy putting on a nice dress sometimes or trouser suit.
I live in trainers/dm's but occasionally choose to put on a pair of designer heels (shoot me - I own quite a few pairs) knowing they are utterly impractical but I like the way they make some clothes I choose to wear look better as an outfit.
Being a feminist doesn't mean we can't enjoy make up and fashion.